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birthday sex ? yes or no
so on the 20th its gonna be my birthday and one of my guy friend whats to have birthday sex and really i dont care cause were more like friends with benifits but we never had sex but he wants to on my birthday and i dont mind its just he has a girlfriend but he really dont like her and it sounds mean but i hate that b***h and me i dont believe that anybody should cheat on anybody but because i hate her so much i really actually for once dont care so should i sleep with him cause i do like him hes so nice and mad cute but im kinda torn between if i should or shouldnt
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Do something smart for your birthday that you won't regret. Think about the other girl and no matter how much you despise her put yourself in her shoes and imagine she were you. Because guess what? With the type of person he is one day it will be you that is that girl. It's a serial thing with guys like him.
As much as you like him he's bad news and just out for sex and this is a bad situation to get yourself into. Also, you hate cheaters and their excuses to begin with so you're only adding to the problem you hate and hurting other people and yourself.
He's not the right person nor the right situation where sex should happen. You'll regret the circumstances later if you do it. If I were you I would tell the other girl privately no matter how much you hate her that he propositioned you and you felt she should know the truth. That's a gift you can give someone else that will benefit you in the long run because you exercised restraint and character. Character matters.
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Just remember- what goes around comes around. You may hate this girl but who says if you two have sex wahts gonna happen after that? If he's not telling his girlfriend that he's not interested in her, then who says he's keeping something from you also?
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No.
1. It's YOUR birthday. If you don't really care then what's the point of even doing that when you could do something that YOU find enjoyable on YOUR birthday?
2. Friend with benefits never works out pretty. Never.
3. He has a girlfriend. How would you feel if your boyfriend was planning to sleep with another girl behind your back, even if you weren't so nice to him all of the time? I'd be pretty bitchy too if my man couldn't keep it in his pants. You REALLY do not want to get involved in breaking up a relationship, even if it seems like a bad relationship to you.
4. You're not even sure. If you're not even firm on your decision then you'll likely make the wrong one if you proceed. Nothing screams, "NO!" than being unsure.
Find better things to do and enjoy your birthday.
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i wouldn't. since he currently has a girlfriend its only going to lead to drama. if he really doesn't like his girlfriend then why is he still with her? i wouldn't sleep with anyone who has a girlfriend let alone a cheater..
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If I were you, then i wouldn't.
Your virginity is something precious, you can only lose it once, then it's gone forever. Which is why you should wait until you find the right person.
People who lose their virginitys to boyfriends/girlfriends ect when they are in love dont tend to regret it.
People who lose theirs to someone who they arent in love with, a friend, someone casual usually end up regretting it when they eventually do find that special someone.
It depends on how much you value your virginity and sex, if you think it's not really a big deal and you arent looking for a relationship then maybe...
but have a good think about it and dont do anything you think you may regret.
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