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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
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I am a virgin and I am ready to have sex i think about it all the time but i'm afraid that it might hurt. My question it what does the first time haveing sex feel like? Is is digusting and painful or is it wild and crazy in good way?

its painful. but if its with a guy you love that is gentle it isn't as bad. but yeeah it aint that great.

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Ok i have a problem here..
I live with my grandma and grandpa and sister and my grandparents dont want me to have a boy friend because they think i am gonna be like my mom.. but i do any ways ..im 13.. and well how do i get them to let me have a boyfriend that they know about? oh they dont even want me to have ANY guy friends and 90% of my friends are guys! what do i do??? Thanks..
i rate 5's

you need to sit down and talk to them. tell them that you want them to trust you and that you wont sleep with him. say you learnt a lesson from your mum and you dont wanna be like her. let them know how it is nowadays. things have changed since they were little.

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Ok, I give advice but for once...i don't have an answer. There is this boy at my school and I like him alot, we flirt with eachother alot and talk to eachother all the time. Everybody thinks we would make an awesome couple but It only works if he likes me back. I am a kinda preppy emo gurl and he is a punk. I hang out with alot of punks and emo and skaters... how can I let him know I like him without being pushy or love dovey (haha) please help me! How can I dress or act give me everything you have!!!!! Thanks very much!
Age:13 ( a little young, but love is for everyone)
Gender:female

come straight out and tell him. its the only way to do it. guys dont get signals.. they're pretty docile! i liked a guy and flirted all the time and i knew he liked me but he didn't do anything. the only thing that got his attention was me going up to him and kissing him... boy was he shocked! n e who, yeah you gotta tell him. good luck!

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I juss ordered the Hair Chi straightening stuff today by a money order and where i ordered it is in California and i live in florida and i sent it today how long do you think it would take to get here? and does it work because i have really curly hair and i want it straight!
Thanks
I rate high
Signed,
Clueless

it'll prolly take 7 to 10 days... depending on how busy it is and if they're being slack.

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Ok, so last week i was in 3rd hour and my closet friend said to me Pass me a note and i will give it to the boy u like! (he sits right next to him) So i said i will give it to u after class. He said No give it now! So i gave it to him. He ran to the teacher with the note and said SHE PASSED A NOTE TO ME! Holy Sh*t! I was humilated! My closet friend did that! Now he is all like hye whats up? What should i do!

tell him how much he upset you. he prolly thought it was funny.... males. and do you mean closet friend as in gay but hasnt come out yet or did u do a typo and it's meant to be closest. if he's your closest friend he should listen to you and apologize.

~ANGE

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I know this guy since we were 7 years old. I think he is gay. He always talks about gay people. He always points out who is gay. He has no male friends of his own and he goes to gay clubs and claims he is just watching to see who lives a secretly gay life. He also has a lot of woman friends and gossips very much.
He dates women have no flaws. Very pretty women that look like models.He is very picky. He calls every body ugly. when i date a guy he tells me he's not that cute. I've seen cuter. Is it just me or is that something a girl would say? What do you think about this situation.?

i think that he's confused. you need to talk to him. let him know he can confide in you. and if he admits to being gay, dont make a big deal out of it. just be casual and say you dont care.

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I have been having a hard time lately and I feel a bit depressed. I have a person that I admire and we are real close friends but I just am not sure whether or not to talk to her. She is the same age as my mother (54) and has a son that is my age also,(14) I just feel silly going to her and talking. But really, is it silly? She is the only person I trust with my feelings and the things I am having problems with, Advicenators could not help with.
She has told me I can call anytime I have problems but I guess I don't want her son to know that I call his mother. (He use to be my crush....Long time ago....idiot now.) I also feel that she has enough things on her mind, such as, her work (she and her husband own a whole bunch of gas stations in and around WA state. Her 4 other sons also are in the buisiness.) and her family.

Should I just call her and talk? would I be a annoyance?

she'll probably be happy to help out. she offered her help and she'll want you to talk to her if you need to. she might actually need the distraction. so call her, she's got no daughters so she will prolly be happy to help out a young girl like yourself. :)

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Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.

I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.

I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it?

d/w! hair is fine! i've heard from guys that they dont like it bald down there coz the chic looks like a little kid and it is a turn off. some guys like it though. oh but dont make it all bushy!!! trim it and neaten it up a bit. do your bikini line. :)

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is this normal...

im ok with death, and i know heaven is more peaceful then earth..and i know heaven nothing can go wrong..

i sometimes want to die..but sometimes i fear that i dont want to dye...like i dont want my life to end i always want it to continue...and never end

im 14 and i know my death isnt till another 80 years or so...

its normal to worry about your future. but try not to. live in the 'now' not the later. if you wanna worry about something worry about what your doing tomorrow. try not to dwell in the future!

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theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them

flirt like crazy with her and when you get close to her, just lean in and give her a peck onn the lips. if she responds you can start making out but if she backs off then just say your sorry and that you just got caught uup in the moment.

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I'm worried since I gave my boyfriend head now he's just using me. 16/F. We've been going out for 3 months but I was always unsure if he really liked me or not. He always says he does so I guess I have no reason to think that but so many girls flirt with him, I don't mind that, but I don't know if he's enjoying it to much. So now that I gave him head i'm worried that's the only reason he is staying with me.

If you werent sure he liked you you shouldn't have given him head. yuck.why would you wanna give a guy head??? nm. but yeah. you should dump him and move on. you dont wanna be used. but if you wanna make sure it's for real... tell him you dont wanna give him head anymore. if he gets pissed, dump him, if he's cool with it then you know he likes you for you not for what you do.

~ANGE

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Aright well im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together for almost a year...and he hasn't tried anything, I mean im not waiting for him to do something with me...but is it weird that he hasn't tried anything after almost a year or does it just mean that he really loves me? Like he's always all over me and touching me, but whenever im around me friends they just keep on askin me "have you guys done it yet?" and ill just be like "no" cause we havn't. And sometimes they just end up saying that he's stupid to not try doing it with me (i don't think that) and that they expect us to do it now that we've been together for almost a year! So I need to know does he really love me or is it just weird?

Thanx

you get a guy that respects you like that then you dont wanna lose him. your a lucky girl. ignore your mates. your 14, you dont need sex. you should feel good about yourself. you can have a great relationship and not worry about him using you for sex. congrats!

~ange

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ok i like this guy and i asked him out but he was like i like u alot but i rather jus be friends. but then like a week l8er he asked 1 of my friends where i was cause he needed to talk to me and it was a good thing, but i had left school, so he coundnt talk to me. what was he gonna say, it killing me and i cant wait till tuesday.
*comfused*

I cant tell you what he's gonna say but i can tell you that he might just like you! tuesday isnt far off so do something to take your mind off it.

tell me what he says!!!
~ANGE

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me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please!

dont EVER let a guy treat you like that again. you cant go back and change things but you can learn from your mistakes. if you had sex with him you can press charges. your underage and he took advantage of you. but yeah, be careful next time and dont get with older guys. at around 17 most guys are assholes so stay away untill you can stand up for yourself.

~ANGE

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I am having a sleepover next weekend and i was going to invite one of my best friends but she has been really mean to me.She has been telling me to shut up and to leave her alone.Should i invite her to my party or not be friends with her?

dont invite her. but tell her why. say that she told you to leave her alone and to shut up so you didnn't want her there. shen she sees it's her fault then she will either say sorry and make up or she'll never talk to you again. at least you'll know where you stand!

~ANGE

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Ok well my sister tells me everthing. And this weekend she went snowboarding in frisco w/ her friends and boyfriend. And all her friends and her drink under age (she's only 17)and my mom always tells her not to drink or do sex. And our family friend who was only 17 died 2 years ago from achohol poisining. And I know there's going to be sex and drinks up in the mountains. Im just scared and I really want her 2 stop. Help. Wut shood i do?

you HAVE to talk to her. seriously. if you get desperate you can always threaten to tell your mum. but that might break her trust in you. just tell her how you feel and that your scared and hopefully she will listen.

~ANGE

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I was reading seventeen or teen people or cosmogirl...i forget which one. anyway, they talk about not doucheing and i was wondering what that is! Thanks in advance and I'll totally rate ya high if you help me!

douching is when you clean your vagina. not really necessary though. :)

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Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!!

make really cool paintinngs on canvass... just a few plain bright coloured ones and hang em on the walls. thats gonna cover up the wall paper. and get rid of the fugurines and put like, tye dyed sheets over any bad furnature.

~ANGE

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ok well when i was younger i had an agent and i did small tv things, and i remember it taking up a lot of my time. ITs been awhile since i have done n e thing involving tv and broadway, and now my dad thinks its a good time to start up again. I have been re hired and everything but when i talked to my agent she says i would probably have to quit a lot of my activites. I am involved with a lot of things right now and i dont no if its the best for me to do this. I really want to act right now and do this again but i dont want to regret it in the long run.

Plex Help

listen to your gut and heart. if you really want to act then act. i must say i wish i was in your shoes!!! i'd loooooooove to act!!!

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My teachers are really mad cause I miss a lot of school because Im always sick. My mom is a smoker and i always get strep and other respitory illnesses. I always make up the frickin homewrok I miss and I always pass the tests and stuff. Im a pretty good student for a 15 yr old that wud rather make out with Bin Laden then go to school. Today i went to school and went through all of my classes. When I got home my dad told me they wanted me to go to saturday school, a place they send bad kids to make up work like if they dont do their homework. I made up all the work from the last time I was absent, and none of the teachers told me about it today. Im really mad and dont know wut to do. Its for three hours tomorrow and starts at 8 30 am. I recently started a petition to end a class that a lot of people dont need called CAI, I was wondering if that might be a reason why all of a sudden I have to go to that stupid thing. SOrry if it doesnt make any sense lol... i like answering questions much more than asking them.

THANX!... I guess I rate high *shrugs* and i'll ignore bitchy ppl. l8r

hey its 3 hrs. whats 3 hrs???

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