Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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well the thing is i am really good friends with him and he does send me mixed signals so i have no idea what to do. part of me wants to get over him but the problem is i already was over him. i liked him a month ago. then i stopped. he knew i didnt like him anymore. and i dont know when it happened exactly but i started liking him again. so its hard to get over him. if you have any tips i would appreciate them.
thanx a bunch
SAM (link)
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hey Sam!
Okay, well this one is tough. Like its harder when the guy is like that. It's so much easier to get over someone whose a jerk and doesnt speak to you and stuff. Well the first tip I always give is to get involved. Basically what you have to do is find something new. Like you may be super involved, but you have to find something thats new and you can kind of relate your achievement there to your achievement in the moving on process.
Next is to spend sometime with your friends and family and try to work on the good relationships in your life in order to strengthen the good ones and limit the ones you are having problems in(ie the one we're talking about now).
Then theres "me time" no one ever takes this step, but I think it's the best one. You have to try some new things, alone. Like going to a restaurant alone, or just staying home an taking a bubble bath. The key is to find something relaxing that helps you to stop thinking about the things in your life that upset you.
Um then theres expressing yourself. You hvae to find something that works. Like some people use writing, some painting. You just have to express your feelings in a different way. This is more for if oyu're at the part when you're like breaking out into tears and stuff. But it can be helpful too.
Then theres probably the best one, finding a new guy. This isn't suggestiong you date yet, which is what alot of people think. You just need a new crush. You need to find someone to think about in replacement of this guy. It doesnt have to be anyone that you would for sure go out with, but just kind of to develop a crush.
That should do for now, but I have more, so if you try all of those, and you still need help, or if anything changes we can work on it. I hope I helped, good luck, love ya,
Angie91
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Sorry is this is kind of weird but lately a lot of people have been saying " Who wears the pants in a relationship? "
I don't really understand what that means. =/ Thanks lol (link)
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Hey!
Who wears the pants is kind of like going back to when women use to stay home and wear skirts and cooka nd clean, and men would go out and work. So who wears the pants refers to when women take on the money making role and when the men get whipped or whatever you want to say. It's not actually a very acurate term for now because women do go out and work regularly. But alot of people use it more when the men have to do cleaning and stuff. I hope that answers your question, love ya,
angie91
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I like two guys right now. I want to go with only one of them to the movies on Friday. I am scared though that I might hook up with the one and the other will find out and stop liking me. I know this is crazy but I don't know what to do. Pleas ehelp me. (link)
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Hey!
Well theres no way of knowing whether or not they are going to find out unless you tell them. Though that doesnt sound like a brilliant idea, its better to let the other one know that there is someone else, and you had to make a difficult decision, but it doesnt seem right to lead him on.
Like you are worried about the other one stopping liking you, but its really not a good idea to date more than one guy at once, so it probably is better if they start getting over you. You just need to pick one and explain to the other one whats up. Theres no point leading them on when you have no intention of going out with him.
Good luck, and I hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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So He Is Single and well. he kinda likes a few girls . and he flurts with me a lot and i told him i liked him about a week ago and he ddint say anything back to me( like he likes me) . at first it was awkward when we talked but no it isnt and i wanted him to kinda tell me if he likes me. What should i do . still like the boy that likes a lot of girls , or move on to some1 else and sttay bestfriends? (link)
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Hey!
Wow there are a couple of questions like this right now. I just answered one just like this. But thats okay, so you have identified the two different roads you can take but you are unsure of which you should take. Well there are pros and cons of both. Like if you keep likeing him, you arent going to find a new guy, and you are going to keep crushing on the same guy for however long. There is the chance that he will finally decide to liek you, but if you are already half way through getting over him, who cares you can just go back to him. The problem with moving on is that you have to take steps in makeing a difference in your life in order to change this.
SO basically we cant decide for you. You have to weigh the pros and cons of both and decide. If you need help, I can give it to you, I also have a billion moving on tips just so you know.
Good luck, and I hope I helped love ya,
Angie91
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im 16.f and i had a dance yesterday
the girls were supposed to bring a rose for their date and the guys brought a flowers for their date. and yeah i didn't know that
and the went i was liek Oh Shit,im sorry. i felt really bad cause he brought me flowers and i forgot his rose. Well i didnt forget, i didn't really know
Do you think he cares a lot about it? i told him sorry but I might send a email saying that too. i dont know but i felt bad :[
Thanks (link)
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Hey!
I can't say whether or not hecares because I'm not him, but if he was like the only guy at the dance with out the rose thing then it might have been a big deal. SO what I would do, is I would go out and buy a rose and then run over to his house and drop it off with a note saying, sorry I'm late I wish I could have gotten it to you sooner.
It's justa suggestion, but thats what I would do anyway. You can just send an email if you think its not that big of a deal, but remember that boys hide stuff in so if he feels upset he probably isnt going to tell you.
Hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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This guy i just met this year is right next to my locker and we started getting really close and sharing feeling and everything. We almost went out but then something went wrong. My bestfriend and I are usally always together. I don't know if i should tell him cause what if it is awkward? (link)
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Hey!
Well this is tough. You should probably tell him because if you dont then you are being untreu to yourself, just tell him exactly how you feel but that you'll undertsand if he doesnt want to change anything and that you werent going to tell him because you were afraid that things would be awkward, but you had to say something because otherwise you would have to move on with out knowing the truth.
There are two ways this could turn, you can endup having a relationship other than friendship with him or you could have him turn you down.
Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst okay, and if you need some moving on tips, hopefully you don't, let me know and I'll set you up, good luck, and don't worry about it too much, you should be fine. Love ya lots hope I helpped,
Angie91
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i really love my friend. hes awesome. and i mean love as in friends. hes my best guy friend. he always says he loves me soo much and stuff like that. but last month he found out i had a thing for him and eventually told me he didnt like me. so i "got over him" or so i told him. but really im not over him at all. haha. one of my other friends likes him too and he knows but its like he doesnt really care about her. but no one knows i still like him. he treats me different than all his other friends. he is extra nice to me. he plays around w/ me all the time and hugs me and comes up behind me and all these nice things. the problem is he will never ask me out, even if he does like me. but i wish he would. ugh its annoying cuz one of his good friends always tries to point out that this guy likes me. but he said he didnt like me. of course he has no idea i still like him. i bet he likes me though. i really think he does, any suggestions?
SAM-14/f (link)
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Hey Sam!
Well this is tough for me to answer because I don't know what you want to hear and so I don't know how to say this the right way so that you get the right question answered. But I'l try and cover al the bases.
Well there are basically two different ways this can go. You can continue likeing him, not getting over him wondering if he likes you when he (as you said) will never ask you out. OR you can get over him and find someone who really will go ot with you. The biggest problem with this is that he shows you loving attention in a way that isnt his true feelings, and that sends you mixed signals.
So what you have to decide right now, is whether or not you are going to choose the first path or the second. Which wouldI suggest? Well you don't have to take this portion of my adivce, because it really is up to you, but I would try and get over him. You don't have to though, and it would be very hypocritical of me to to say that you should because you're only 14 and you have lots of time o find a bf but if you are one of those people who wants to find a boyfriend while they're super young, then maybe you should try and get over him.
I think you know how to go on likeing him, but if you have any further questions about that let me know.
So if you want to move on, and actually get over him, there are a few steps. I would suggest them to you, but you don't seem too upset about this yet, and until you are like cryiong because you'll never get this guy, you probably don't need my tips. I think you will probably find a new guy soon enough, but feel free to ask if you need some moving on tips, I have a bilion of them.
I think you mostly asked this question because you don't know whether or not to actually move on or if you should just hope for the best. Well that decision is up to you, if you need help though, I'm here. Good luck, hope I helped love ya,
Angie91
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A lot of people ask for me for help i always willing to listen to what they have to say and help then whenever but the only thing is in not good at advices and comfort/cheering up my friends i deeply care about they're problems but i dont know wat to say to them even though i try my best and comfort/cheering up/giving advice and it feels like im making them sadder and i even blame myself at times for i coundt help my friends also i feel useless friend all the time and sad so how to be a great advice giver?
and can someone make a quote about this? thank tou so much (link)
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Hey,
Um I don't know what you mean about a quote but, I'll try and answer the question anyway.
I don't know how you become a good advice giver, I think I just listen to what people have to say and then comment on my own life as you can see from this question lmao. Um as far as cheering people up I just take my own experiences and tell them that I got over it, and it turned out to be better than I ever thought it would, and sometimes god does things for a reason. Tell them that tomorrow is a new day and that one day they'l look back at this and laugh. Point out the good things in their life the sun is shining and you dont need a bf because you are so strong and you could handle it anyway. Compliment them like crazy. That usually helps.
You came to the right site for this, you can read other peoples advice and see how they respond to people questions. And you can practice giving advice to people and that way you can get even better.
You arent useless, and you wanna know how i can tell? Because people keep coming to you for advice, if they came to you once and then never came back then you'd know something is wrong, but even if that is the case, you care enough abou tthem to wish you could do better so even if you arent the best at advice, you are still a really sweet person who cares about their friend.
I think that you are a great advice person, you just have made a mistake or two and if you keep trying you'll get better. I've grown since I came to this site, and I'm sure you will too. Good luck, and who knows maybe one day you'll end up answering my question. hope I helped,
Love ya,
Angie91
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Last night my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. I have had other boyfriends before and the breaking up wasnt so bad. But I wasnt ready for this one. I cried for like 3 hours straight on the phone with my best friend. I finally got to sleep around 2 oclock. I am having such a hard time...I dont know what to do . I really loved him and obviously its too late to get him back now.. so please dont suggest that. What can I do to feel better. It's so horrible.. nothing this bad has ever happened to me. I'm a happy-go-lucky kind of person what will people think when I'm moping around school on monday ???
I cant eat, i cant sleep and later today I have to sit through a broadway play with my mother. I'm going to die...HE was so wonderfull..
OMG HELP! (link)
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Hey,
aww, thats okay. It's going to be alright okay? I can help you out here.
Well first of all, I wouldn't suggest getting him back. Thats really not the smartest thing for someone to suggest, so if anyone ever suggests that to you like in the future tell them they're an idiot.
Okay, so first thing you have to do is start working on the getting over him part. You have to think forward to the good things that this will bring okay? I understand what you mean about people wondering whats going on monday when you're still alittle upset, because that would probably be one of my worries too, but you just have to try to put him out of your mind, I'll try and halp you with that.
Okay so there are lots of steps to moving on. The first one i alsway suggest is getting involved, and seeing as you're a happy go lucky person, you probably are pretty involved in school seeing as they kind of go hand in hand, But you need to find something completely new. Like start volunteering some where or find a new sport or something, because it signifies achievment and the moving on process, so you need to pick something totally new.
Then theres spending time doing things that make you that happy go lucky person you are. Plan big things with your friends and look forward to those when you are upset about this kay?
Then theres me time. You have to set aside time each week to just hang out and have a bubble bath and totally relax not thinking about him.
The last step is finding someone new. It's the very last step, and there are more in between, but you might not neeed to hit all of them, so I'll just mention this one, basically you need to pick a random guy to think about to get your mind off of him. HE doesnt have to be someone you'll ever date, just someone to think about. That hot guy in math class that has a girlfriends already or that kid in math whose cute, but you just could never see yourself with him. Just think about what would ever happen if you two got together and just basically pretend that you would be chaeting on them to think about your ex.
Things will look up okay? You're going through something rough now, but it will get easier, and if you need any more help I've got your back so don't worry about it this will get better. Good luck, and I hope I helped. Love ya,
Angie91
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15/f.(freshman)
i'm unhappy with the way i am and how im basically wasting my life sitting around doing nothing. i'm shy, so i don't have many friends that i actually hang out with. my 2 best friends are basically the only people i hang out with. one of them plays sports all year round, so every day after school she's busy until 5:30-6. sometimes i hang out with them on fridays, but sometimes i dont. and saturday & sunday...forget about it. maybe like 3 times a year do we hang out on the actual weekend. i feel like such a loser. i dont have anything else to do so ill be on the computer all day. im so lazy, yesterday i stayed in my pajamas all day. i hate it. so i need new friends, and i talk to some people in school. but im soo shy and its hard. and im not at the point where i hang out with them. my one best friend, the one who does sports all year round, has made a lot of friends from it (i havent played any sports but im doing volleyball in the fall) she has all these new friends right, but she doesnt even introduce them to myself and my other best friend. maybe if she made plans with them plus me and my other friend, we could start talking to them. but she hasnt done that. my other friend who doesnt play the sports feels the same way. and my younger brother is mr.social lately, so i feel so stupid. like i dont do anything. i hate itttt. and before my brother was telling me i have no life. like that really got me sad. cuz its partly true. =[ ugh help!! pleaseee (link)
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Hey!
Well this is a tough situation, this was my first year of highschool this yar and I had trouble meeting new people because alot of my friends go to the same school as I do, so I didn't feel the need to branch off and find new friends. But There are so many new people at my school who I don't hang out with and seem so great that I'd love to make friends with them. So about half way through the year I was thinking about what friends I have made this year and I realized that I really hadnt made any so that got me into gear. I made friends by joining clubs I wouldnt usually think to join, because I talked to people who were experienced and they sorta helped me out. I said hi and waved to people in my classes as I walked down the hall, it doesnt make you best friends with the person, but it helps you to meet new people because if they're walking with someone and the person asks: "who was that?" they can tell them your name. It also builds the friendship between the two of you. At the beginning of a new class, turn to the person on either side of you and give them your email address and say that you either are super good in this class, or suck at it, and then tell them that you should talk and help each other out.
If you don't feel comfortable doing that, just turn to them and say hi tell them your name and kinda make a small conversation.
Sit with different people at lunch. That a hard one, but don't pick some cheerleaders who look all stuck up, pick people who look inviting and seem to smile when you say hi!
Try joining some of the things that your sporty friend does because you can still hang out with her and make some new friends. OR/and talk to her and see if she will introduce you to some o her new friends. BE honest and say that you want to make some more friends but you're having trouble and you'd love it if she could help. try and buil on your existing relationships to an extent where you can invie them over to hang out, and even if you dontthink you're at that point, you probably are, and just dont know it.
As far as your little brother, he's a little brother, they're like that, and he probably is like in the middle of his school right like grade six or something where he's been with his friends forever, well thats okay, because you're in a totally different situation and he wont understand until he's in highschool.
I think that should give you a few other ideas, but if you need any more let me know! Lots of love, and don't sweat it, you'll make more friends dont worry. LOve ya,
Angie91
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i went to the movies with my boyfriend and i knew he wanted to hold my hand but the problem was is that my hands sweat a lot sometimes so i was kind of nervous for him to hold my hand. but we never did he just put his arm around me. but my question is what can i do or put on my hands to make them not sweat?
thankss (link)
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Hey,
Well those answers were pretty crappy eh? Well I have the same problem, I think most people do.
I have a quick story, k when I wa sin musical theatre I had this dance partner that I didnt really know, adn I was nervous so I started having the sweaty hands and so we would go offstage and then I wipe my hands on the back of my pants quickly and then run out to dance with him. So you can do that. But see the problem then becomes that you dont have time to wipe your hands, or you have to continue holding hands for a long time. well heres the rest of the story, one day we were sitting in acircle and we all had to get up and do our dance in pairs infront of the whole group well I didnt have time to wipe my hands because we were first group up, so I stood up and danced and then as we were dancing I realized that his hands were pretty sweaty too.I wasn't repulsed by his warm hands. So why would he be of mine? SO from then on I didnt worry about it anymore.
But its tougher for you beacuse you want to impress him, so basically try to not let it bother you and try wiping them on the back of your pants. :p
Another thing you can do, is keep them cold. Every time you go to the batroom run them under freezing cold water for as long as possible and then go out and they should be fine for a little while. and if its super cold, you can put your hands on your drink for a little while. and that will maintain coldness.
Thats my only tip sorry, I just wanted to respond because those other answers sucked and you didnt get any help. Good luck with the guy. and hopefully one of us will find a real cure for clammy hands one day! :D
loveya,
angie91
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does anyone know the name of his song that is new.. and it goes something like "and youv given my the most beautiful set of wings" i think thats how it goes.. and at the end he has little girls singing it (link)
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Hey! I'm a super big tim mcgraw fan, it's last dollare (fly away) and it's the top song right now, so it should be on the top of most of the charts if you cant find it. Good luck! Love ya
Angie91
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15/f (16 this year)
I recently got caught up on my appearance. As a young girl I used to look in the mirror and promise myself I was beautiful and not let anyone tell me otherwise. I grew older and began to give in to the pressure to look good. I made my best attempt to keep the matter in perspective, and I now have a look that I think is great.However, it did make me spend many nights worrying and obsessing.
Unfortunately, when I look around a room of people I still compare myself to other girls. (Immature) guys just care about looks right now, and when a guy is paying attention to some other girl I'm tempted to think I'm ugly and undeserving of their attention.
This insecurity rarely shows through and I try my best to be confident. I just wish people would see everything I've worked for (appearance, grades, personality) but no one really seems to appreciate it. I'm afraid to fall into worry over such unimportant things again.
Is there any way to encourage people to see my strengths and potential? Or does it just take the right person?
I realize there's no right answer to my question, so if you would like to add any general insight on the situation I would like that also. Thanks, help is greatly appreciated!
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Hey!
You're a lot like me. I have basically the same problem, so what I do is when I see myself wishing I had more friends or could wear size 0 jeans I just try and think of the things that I have. Like good grades, little acne or great friends.
I'm sure that people do see your great side and you don't have to worry about what they think anyway, easier said than done though eh? well I dont think there is any way to show people that you are good at math or that your a great person, but if you try to be kind and smart and funny and show all of those great qalities people will be naturally drawn to you.
Next time you look in the mirror go back to your younger days and say something like: "I'm beautiful in my own way and I don't care if people see it, because it's who I am and I'm amazing." Constantly give yourself compliments like when you get a good grade on a test say wow I'm awesome and science. In your head though lol.
I think I gave some insight into the situation and I hope I helped you out. Good luck, and lots of love,
Angie91
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Ok. So, i'm 14/f. and this is kinda a long story, i'll try to make it as short as i can. so when my mom was 18 (she is 37 now) she had a baby. She didn't mean to or anything, but its just one of those kinda things that happend. She knew that she couldn't take care of her, so she gave her to a family that couldn't have a baby. So yeah, my mom told me about all of this when i was about 10 i think, and now i'm 14, obviously. lol. anyways, the agentcy (sp) that my mom went through to give her baby to another family had some rules. and one of them was that my mom and her baby, Becky, couldn't meet until Becky was 18, and until she was ready. Well just the other day they got to talk for the first time over the fone cause Becky is 20 or somethin now. well, she told my mom that she wanted to talk to me sometime, and that she really wanted to be like a sister to me. but i'm not really sure if i'm ready to just let my "sister" come into my life. i mean, one day she talkes to my mom and she just comes into the family? they haven't even met yet! and now my mom is talking about how she could come on vacation in the summer, and how Becky and i could go shopping together and stuff like that. and i'm just like wth? and Becky told my mom that she wanted to talk to me over the fone sometime, but what the heck do i talk to her about? am i blowing this way out of proportion, or not? idk what to do or think. help!! thanx!! (link)
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Hey!
Kay, I have a half sister too. Shes 15 years older than me and we dont really have that great of a relationship. we share a dad, and he tries to get us to spend time together but we just dont. I resent her for not taking that part in my life that I wish she did and I also resent her for waiting so long to realize that I'm her little sister and I deserve the same attention she gives her other half sister and half brother. I drive by her house ever couple of days and see her outside with her kdis and it drives me crazy. So first of all, be thankful your sister wants to meet you, but I'm not being one of those people whose liek you have family you should love them, because I know that I should be making an effort to see my sister when I drive by al the time, and I dont, so I know where you stand.
Tell your mom that you arent ready for a major family change and that you want to take it slow. Then when you talk to Becky was it? tell her that you'd like to get to know her, but you arent comfortable with doing it really fast. Tell her that you want to get to know her, but maybe only once or twice a month for the first little while. Tell yuor mom you cant do a vacation yet and that you just want a nice slow start and that when youre ready for this kind of thing you'll tell her when you are.
As far as talking to becky, start by telling her about your life and your friends and school small talk stuff that you'd tell a boyfriend or someone new in your life. Tell her your favourite colour your eye colour your hair colour funny storie about your friends things youd tell a sister, becaus ethis way you can give her that little sister she's always wanted and also get o know her a bit. Ask her questions like when she found out she was adopted and what its like finding ehr mom. Take an intrest in her life.
After two or three phone conversations go out shopping or to lunch and talk somemore.
Remember thatyou can take this as slowly as you want and that you can treat her like a new friend or a new guy or some random person whose going out to lunch with you. It will be along time before she is like that sister that you've spent your entire life with, but it's a start.
You arent blowing this out of proportion and don't worry about how you're feeling its completely natural, and you can set the pace dont worry. Let me know if you want to talk or you want some help with ideas on what to talk about, good luck,
Angie91
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Should i send this to the girl i really like. she has been sending me the most confusing signals possible!
" , I hope what I can write here will clear things up a bit. I apologize for causing distress. I am to much of a character to not rip apart the people I wish to do only good for. But there are things I do I regret, and actions I take which I don’t know why. All I want is you. for all your amazing personality traits and amazing attributes. There is nothing I think I can do to win your love. Nothing would feel right around you. ther is always this qua-zay odd feeling. One of those people who I don’t hug when we depart, yet the one who I would love to embrace for an eternity. Why is there such distance. I kno I say things I barely mean, and even make you wonder about how much you really are attracted to me. Because I get confused between love of the person and desire. I want all that you provide, and I have no good means of obtaining it. I think that if the feeling of attraction was equal you may be willing to help me get through the rough patches. If this is true, how do I bring them about. How can I get it so there is no uneasiness between us. No need to hide my emotions. And no need to draw them out. I can provide almost everything you ask of me. Just ask. I already inquired about your actions but I don’t understand your answers. Why hold back when it comes to me. What have I done to receive such treatment? What do I strike you as. Do you really think this way? Why not openly talk about this. And just accept the truth of the answer. " (link)
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Hey,
well first thing I notices was if you do send it capatalize the f in for all your... ther has two e's in ther is always this qua-zay also capatalize that. And qua-zay? I dont know if you want to put that, but by all means. I kno= I know in I kno I say things. You cant say I know I say things I BARELY mean that doesnt make sense. How do I bring them out is a question. How can I get it? That also needs to be rephrased. "There is" no need to hide emotions. Why hold back is also a question. what do I strike you as- also a question. why not openly talk about this -also a question.
Well I am quite confused. But I dont know the history behind it, so I cant judge. But read through it and see if it makes sense to you, you'll probably catch more of those errors.
If I were you, I wouldnt send that email. I think that you should make paragraphs and explain it better. Like when you are writing, even if you know your audience, you should pretend that they are complete idiots who have absoulutlyy no idea what youre talking about. Paraphrase and give examples. Drop alittle bit of the desire parts and add alittle bit of the cute sensible guy I can see is there. If you write and tell her you're deeply in love with her and you cant see why shes not speaking to you or something then you'll scare her away buddy.
I'm glad you're putting everything out in the open, but I think that you need to read through it a bit and make sure thats the letter you want to send, because once its sent its sent. And you cant get it back. If you want that to be said make sure thats how you wnat it put. there are a million ways to write the same letter if thats the perfect one in a million thats good but if its not then find one of the other ways.
I wouldnt come on so strong but thats okay, because I'm not you.
I have one more question. Are you asking her out, or asking her to marry you? Are you sure that you want to tell her: "... I don’t hug when we depart, yet the one who I would love to embrace for an eternity." eternity?
You're a great writer, but I dont know if you wnat to come on so strong.
But this is up to you. You have to press send so is that what you want. If it is and youre happy with it, nothing I say will help.
I hope I helpped you, and I hope the editing didnt offend you or anything :). Good luck with this girl she sounds amazing! And I hope it really works out, you sound liek a great guy and her perfect match hopefully.
Let me know how it goes. love ya,
angie91
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I used to have quite a few freckles on my face but now I have like none. If you never go outside do they go away? If I go outside in the sun more will they come back? I like freckles. :) (link)
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Hey!
Are you a blonde or red head? Chances are that you are and that your freckles go away and come back because of the sun. I know when I've been getting too much sun when I have a whole batch of freckles. I'm a dark blonde so they dont effect me as much, but I know when I have a lot that I need to be careful and get the sun block. SO what I'm saying is that freckles are cute and I like them too, but be careful not to get too much sun, because you could get skin cancer, and be watchful if you have an moles or other birth marks that they dont grow or change. But other than that have fun and look cute in your freckles. love ya,
Angie91
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Sometimes I want to tell my boyfriend that he looks good.... but how do I say it?
The thing is, I don't want to say GOOD or beautiful. :/
I only know of cute. I joke around with pretty.
I comment about his eyes a lot.. But the 'cute' thing gets old.
Or does it not?
*Your opinion?* (link)
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Hey!
Haha yeah cute gets old, and guys dont really like it too much after a while. You can hot or sexy if you think its late enough it the conversation. Great, awesome, perfect, fine (as if fine not okay), nice, handsom, marvelous, neato pleasing rad wonderful righteous, competent first-rate suitable talented desirable respectable dependable loyal stable solid trustworthy giving gracious kind-harted attractive adorable captivating charming comely enthrawling enticing fascinating glamourous good looking, hansom hunk lovely magnetic gorgeous tantalizing stunning cool dreamy excellent groovy smashing spiffy (lmfao) super duper darling suave delightful amazing far out magnificent striking impressive stunning.
I thesaurused it. lmao, alot of that will not be applicable but I put it in anyway because I thought you might get a laugh out of it. There might be something in there. Good luck, hope I helped. LOve ya
Angie91
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Last month my boy mate asked me to go to his family's house party he said
"I was wondering if you'd like to with me"
"if you say no dont tell people"
did he mean this as mates or dates because I dont know.I said no though.
But I've only known him for a few months and a couple of weeks ago everyone said he liked this other girl.I just want to know...was he asking me out????????? (link)
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Hey this is a tough question, because he could have been saying either, but I am assuming that he did mean it as a date. I think you shoul ask him though and see what he ment it as. Tell him how you feel and just so you know, rumours are rumours are rumours. They can be true, but usually they arent so if you really want to know you'll have to ask him, but if he's your friend then he should understand right?
This may be a little difficult, but I think you can do it. If you act coll about it and let him know that you're totally fine, then it shouldnt be too awkward. What the worst that can happen?
Good luck, and I hope I helpped. Lots of love,
Angie91
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okay..so this has been my problem for 2 months now. me and my ex broke up 2 months ago. i wanna forget about him but it seems like i cant. like i mean i try liking another guy to keep him off my mind but..he just shows up again. i know he's going to stay in my heart because he was my first kiss and love. after me he already has 2 exs and now a gf. but.. in my head it feels like he's rubbing his gf and his last 2 exs on my face to make me jelous but..they didnt last as long as we did..which was 2 months. my ex and i almost have the same friends and we hang out at the same place and we have 5 out 6 classes together. so its hard to get him out of my face. we try to be friends[i guess] but it doesnt work because all we do is argue or make eachother feel bad. i tired of going back to him. help me. (link)
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Hey!
Don't worry, I am the best at this. I will be able to help you out, you just have to stick with me okay?
Alright so there are a lot of steps to getting over someone, and you have to do all of them before you can say it hasntbeen sucessful.
Okay, well lets start with what you already tried. You said you tried finding other guys, which is usally my third or fourth step. See what happened is you tried this step alittle too early and by trying it out of succesion it hurt you more.
So lets forget about finding another guy, just becaus he's moving on, you dont have to.
Okay, well first you have to get involved. This is a common one, but it works, that why I always suggest it. Get a job, volunteer, or join a club. Do something for someone else. Or do something that shows achievement, because then you can relate how awesome you are doing (how many hours you've volunteered or how many people you've donated cans for etc) to this situation and it turns the frown upside down.
Then friends. Well this is tough because you are friends with the same types of people, so try and find ways to hang out with your friends at places he WONT be. And if anyone brings him up say that you really just liek how it is can he come another time.
Next is "me time". Every friday night take alittle time to do what you like and relax. Dont think about him take a bubble bath and watch a sad movie. That wil bring up your self esteem, as well as let you release your feelings.
Make some goals, such as spend time with your sister, or earn enough money for an ipod. And try to find ways to make those achievable. Everyday, for each goal you achieve throw a quarter in a jar and save that money to put towards something you'll enjoy later in life. And if you go backwards in your goal, for instance getting in a fight with your sister or spend twenty bucks on a cd instead of getting close to ipod, take out a quarter.
Write about your feelings instead of saying them out loud. Tell your diary about how he almsot made you cry. This will not only help you to sort out your feelings, but it will also be a memoir of what you went through.
Last thing is getting a new guy. You dont have to date one, just pick one, and try and think about him instead of your ex. This has proven to be difficult, but this is a long ways off, so by then it may be easier.
Lastly, being friends really doenst work, so tall him this, tell him that you like him as a person, but its too hard getting over him when he's there all the time, so if he knows you'll be somewhere, can he make the effort to try and avoid you. It sounds bad, but it has to be done in order to get over him, the least about of time you have to spend with him the better, and you already have all day at school, so if you can try and avoid him outside of school thats be awesome. If you are together and he says something that bothers you bput on a fake smile and pretend he didnt say anything. If he says more stuff just calmly try and leave. Dont let what he says hurt you. And don't reply to it. Just be calm and forget he said it. He doesnt mean it and if you respond he'll just say more.
Try that and if you still need more help let me know. I have a million more tips. And I dont mind. I hope this helps a bit, and I wish you good luck, this is one of the toughest things people have to go through, and I hope that you can get through it okay. Good luck, love ya,
Angie91
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Theres this boy, Jake, who is one of my best friends, ever. I love him, but he doesn't like me. I'm almost positive that he likes my best friend Jenna, who likes him. It hurts, but I love him and I just want him to be happy, even if its without me. But i'm afraid that she's going to hurt him. his ex girlfriend hurt him really badly last year, and im afraid that it Will happen again. I really, really want him to be happy, but i'm afraid that jennas feelings for him arent really that deep, or that its just a little thing that she'll get over. I really dont want to see him get hurt. (link)
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Hey!
I know you dont want him to get hurt, so it sucks that you have to deal with this, but it is his life you you have to let him live it. Yeah that may mean that it will hurt him and your friend may hurt him and all that stuff that you dont want to happen, but dating is about learning, and he has to learn that sometimes girls hurt guys and he has already made the mistake, so he has to make it again. If she hurts him swoop in and try and be his confident. But you never know, if you think positively then you never know, they may fall in love. You see going into a relation being skeptical of what will come out of it is a stupid thing to do, and whether or not you are the actual one going into the relationship or not you have to think positively, other wise you will just be a downer. You see probably 99% of relationships end right? Unless you get married and die together, your relationship will end, whether or not it will end badly or not is up to the way they end it. And thats what he has to learn. So you can be happy for them (which you want to do I can tell) or you can try and stop it, and prevent them from that little bit of happyness they may get from each other.
If you're over protective of the bird it will never learn how to fly eh?
WEll thats that part of it. The other is moving on. You could chose to swopp in quickly and try and get him before her, but that would hurt her wouldnt it? So you have to decide whether you're going to take it or leave it. Who deserves him more? Once you choose, you can follow that path. But as far as moving on, well you can do about a zillion different things, and I know about all of them, so if you want some help let me know you didnt really ask for any, so I wont give them to you, but if you wnt some just let me know, I'm the moving on tips queen. :P.
Jakes your friend and you love him, as a friend and more, be that buddy that he needs and when he needs more, be that too. Okay? I really hope I helpped, if you need anything, I'm here. Love ya lots,
Angie91
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