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about those tips...
well the thing is i am really good friends with him and he does send me mixed signals so i have no idea what to do. part of me wants to get over him but the problem is i already was over him. i liked him a month ago. then i stopped. he knew i didnt like him anymore. and i dont know when it happened exactly but i started liking him again. so its hard to get over him. if you have any tips i would appreciate them.
thanx a bunch
SAM
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hey Sam!
Okay, well this one is tough. Like its harder when the guy is like that. It's so much easier to get over someone whose a jerk and doesnt speak to you and stuff. Well the first tip I always give is to get involved. Basically what you have to do is find something new. Like you may be super involved, but you have to find something thats new and you can kind of relate your achievement there to your achievement in the moving on process.
Next is to spend sometime with your friends and family and try to work on the good relationships in your life in order to strengthen the good ones and limit the ones you are having problems in(ie the one we're talking about now).
Then theres "me time" no one ever takes this step, but I think it's the best one. You have to try some new things, alone. Like going to a restaurant alone, or just staying home an taking a bubble bath. The key is to find something relaxing that helps you to stop thinking about the things in your life that upset you.
Um then theres expressing yourself. You hvae to find something that works. Like some people use writing, some painting. You just have to express your feelings in a different way. This is more for if oyu're at the part when you're like breaking out into tears and stuff. But it can be helpful too.
Then theres probably the best one, finding a new guy. This isn't suggestiong you date yet, which is what alot of people think. You just need a new crush. You need to find someone to think about in replacement of this guy. It doesnt have to be anyone that you would for sure go out with, but just kind of to develop a crush.
That should do for now, but I have more, so if you try all of those, and you still need help, or if anything changes we can work on it. I hope I helped, good luck, love ya,
Angie91
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