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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥

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"I can love you like no one can, I can be your Superman." It's sort of a new song. I think it is r&b or slow rap. I need to know the name of the song and by who. Thanks =]

brown boy sings it its called superman. really good song :)

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ok well you know for the abercrombie kids some of the shirts say Est. 1892 ? well does that mean that they had abercrombie in 1892? lol please help, i'm really confused!

yeah est. means established and abercrombie was made in 1892. back then they sold hunter stuff canoes and thats why they have the moose symbol.

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I found out that quite a few classmates of mine have tried marijuana or weed. This really shocked me because I didn't think highschoolers did that sort of thing, or that drugs were even available. They told me that the drugs really aren't that bad, that they're actually safer than cigarettes, and that they aren't addictive. Are they right? How many highschoolers do drugs usually? Am I naive to have believed that?

i've heard that weed and ciggarates are BOTH addictive. but lets face it, no drug is good for you. if it wasnt so bad for you dont you think it would be legal? one blut of weed is about a whole pack of cigs! think about that. you should stay out of smoking weed because it makes people stupid and i know people that have died from it. my best friend tried weed and the next minute she was dead so some people have BAD reactions to it. it can still cause lung cancer and you could die. it screws up your mind and changes your personality and alot of people i know that do weed are really lazy now and would you really want to be labeled as a pothead?? i would say atleast half of high schoolers at my school have atleast tried weed or are still doing it. of course i havent and i dont plan on it. if you tried it once its not really going to hurt you but if you keep doing it then it gets worse. everyone says weed isnt as bad as cigs but thats pretty f*cked up because weed might not have the same effects as ciggarettes but it has many problems of its own. when people first smoke weed they think nothings going to happen and they will just try it to see what its like thinking nothing bad can happen to them and then the next second their life is screwed up forever and in the longrun they turn out to be lazy crackheaded bums who dont have a job. i say just stay out of drugs because they affect your mind and your life is ruined so its just not worth it. if you want to feel high/pleasure do something fun thats not harmful instead of smoking. ♥

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what aree some foods or vitamins that i can take to enlarge my breasts?

no pills or food work. why dont you use the money to buy a padded bra or a push up bra?? or just wait for you to grow.

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Im 13/f

SO.. this girl in my school likes my boyfriend. Shes constantly hitting on him and flirting. So the other day i went up to her and told her to back off. Now she is hitting on him MORE just to get back at me. She is REALLy ugly and thinks he likes her, but he doesnt. How can i get her to stop hitting on my bf? Any advice it greatly appreciated!!

if i were you i would say "hey i really think you should step off my man because he likes me NOT you and you could never break us up because we love eachother so go find someone who isn't taken because i dont want to have to start any crap with you." thats a good way to put it because its not being really threatning and mean but its definitely getting the point across. and if she doesnt stop after you say something to her face then get your boyfriend to let her know that he does NOT like her. hope i helped ♥

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What are some signs of cheating? Besides the obvious ones.. Also any expieriences that happened to you or someone you know would be great.

thanks

to be honest theres no way to tell. some people are really good at lying. infact my friends boyfriend cheated on my friend and when he was in a different country having sex with 3 other girls,he told my friend he was at WORK 10 minutes from their house and he lied so well that my friend believed it!!! i would deffinitely sit him down and tell him how you feel.if he looks guilty or something then you might be on to a case.. im really sorry but maybe in the middle of his day at work just call and make sure hes still at work.hope i helped..♥

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how do you let a boy know you like him?

well you could just straight out tell him or you could tell his friends or your friends could tell him but i think guys like it more if your the one that tells them. pretty simple right?

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hey everyone

i need a new screename

i have no idea what i want it to be

it could include song lyrics that would be cool

my current screename is

essentialromance



if that helps...

um thanks in advance i will rate

how about murderouslovex3
sounds like a keeper to me =)

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i need to know who sings this song- im havin a brain freeze and cant think i know a guy sings it its hiphop and the line that i can remember is cath em ridin dirty, muy musics so loud theyre hatin help please+

ridin' dirty for chamillionaire that was my old ringtone i swear haha !

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so i have been with my boyfriend for over a year on and off and we are really in love and im 15 and he is 17 and he is not a virgin but am. lik i feel like i want to but im scared and unsure if i want to. i want to have sex with him if he is the one im gonna be with for ever and i dont want things to change if i do. how do i know if im ready and if its true love???

you know your ready when you don't have to ask random people on a forum if you are.

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i live in new york city new york i am 15 female i really want to make some money. does anyone have any ideas of where i can apply for a job..unfortunatly i cant work in stoes like old navy, gap or any other clothing store until im 16 which is next year.. and i want one now.. i know i know i should go to my school to see if they have jobs and see my counsler or ask my friends or call SYEP but thas really no help they dont lead me anywhere..plz someone help me with this i really want to help my mother and father out with the bills thanx soo much in advance

theres tons of stuff you can do..you could bag groceries at a super market.i dont know if you have a dairy queen near where you live but if you do i know they hire at 14.if you have any relatives or close neighbors that own a restaurant you could see if you could get a job there.im 14 and i got a job as a bus boy and i make $150 a week.you could always do things like babysitting on the side because 15 is a good age to babysit or you could get all your friends to have a car wash and wear your bikinis and it will attract all the boys like in the movie dodgeball. (good movie haha) if you want to just stay home then have a garage sale i made $1,000 or sell stuff on ebay.but if you want to work at a actual store then just go in and ask what age they hire.oh yeah im pretty sure you can deliver newspapers too. hope i helped ♥

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does any1 know a program where u can store personal pictures, where u need a password or something to get into it?

photobucket.com just sign up and make an account its very easy and sign in. it takes like 5 mins to make an account.. ♥

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I've heard that sax players are bad kissers (and trumpet players are good kissers). I can understand the trumpet player thing, but what does playing a saxophone have to do with anything? Can anybody prove me wrong (with experience or examples or something)?

Haha none of that stuff is true.It all depends on the person your kissing,not the instrument you play.

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alright, i'll straighten my hair in the morning, and it's fine and straight and everything, but then whenever i get to school, after a few periods it starts to flip out and stuff and it gets really annoying. how can i get it to stay? [ and if you know any ways without hair spray, i'd really prefer it ]

hairspray ! and thats really it.

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ok i want to know how i can get taller because i think that im kinda short for my age

you cant make yourself any taller.theres no pills or anything that will make you grow fast, sorry but its the truth.your going to have to wait it out. you should grow about 3 inches a year so dont worry you will catch up because everyone starts growing at different ages. until you grow just wear high shoes, and thats all you can do. ♥

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ok tommorows my first day of school and i have a curling iron thing and a hair striaghtener.. if that helps.. its a new school..any ideas of what i should do to make a good impression

well if you have straight hair then curl it and if you have curly hair then straighten it. do the opposite of what your hair normally looks like and it will look really different in a good way. pick a good outfit so people will be impressed.. if its raining wear a 3 quarter length shirt and if its warm and sunny wear short sleeves.. bright colors always look good and make sure the outfit matches.. a cute jean mini skirt with leggings is always a good 1st day outfit but if you want to be more casual jeans look good to. dont over do it because people can tell when you went way out of the way to look nice and its a turn off. you should wear a little bit of make up. just a little you dont need to cake it on.. maybe a little eyeliner if you wear it and mascara and eyeshadow to match your outfit.. you really dont have to worry about what you look like the first day because i had my first day today and everyone was too busy make sure they looked good and didnt have time to check out other people to see if they looked perfect.just be yourself and to make friends just smile a lot dont be shy but not to outgoing and go up to people and say hi im ___ who are you. find out who has the same classes as you so you can go to them with you. im sure your first day will be a day to remember just make as many friends as you can and you will be fine!! ♥ feel free to ask more questions :)

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i love singing. but the problem is i dont know if i sing good or not. so is there a way to see if you sing good or not?

sorry if this questin is weird..

you should definitely get voice lessons and ask the teacher if you're good.or you could always go on american idol if your old enough and if they let you through you know you have talent haha! um, if you have ps2 gamecube or xbox get karaoke revolution.you pick a song and sing it and it judges how well you stayed in pitch and if you hit the right notes.its pretty accurate.theres not many ways to tell if you sing good.. people have different styles of what they like.some people like deep voices and some high so if you asked a friend whos into singers with high voices and you had a deeper voice she might think you sound horrible but to someone else you might have a beautiful voice.so that proves that people have different opinions so dont go by what 1 person says.if 1 person says you suck dont quit just because of them because unless you have a bad voice where its neccecary for people to cover their ears, then someone out there might think your very talented.but i think you should really take voice lessons if you havent already because they help A LOT.my friend did them and after 2 weeks i could already tell that she was getting better.so if you're that into singing i suggest voice lessons.hope i helped feel free to ask more questions!!! ♥

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16/f...

my friend's two year anniversary with her bf is coming up and its like next week. and she has no clue what to get him. does anyone have any ideas on things that would be good for a 2 yr. anniversary gift for a guy?

the guy doesnt wear chains or anything so that isnt an option..

hes 18.. and so is she.

and she doesnt want to get him clothes either..

any ideas on what she should get him?

thanks in advancee

giftcard money cds dvds ipod wallet video games if he plays them clothes cologne.. the list goes on. its not that big of a deal im sure whatever she gets him will be fine. =)

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i know this is really weird, but nobody i've ever dated was really into the neck kissing thing, but my current boyfriend is. and i have no clue what to do while he's doing it. sorry if i sound like a completely douchebag. haha.

just touch him and hold him to know you like it and tell him that hes doing a good job because guys like to hear that what they are doing is good.you really dont have to do much when he does it.you could do it back to him too! =)

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hi, well she'z into stuff i guess. she luvz ronaldo (soccor player, well we liv in england so..footbal here) um, music. i rele dnt know much about her. i asked what she wanted. she said a hug, she kinda one of those nice girls, that r kinda stupis seeing how they dont want a present...

oh okay cool :)

you could try getting her like a ronaldo jersey (who ever the hell he is) if they sell them. (as you can see im from the usa so i dont know much about england) ask her what bands she likes and ask if she has the cd of them and if she says no you know exactly what to buy. if your afraid of what she will think of your gift then money or a giftcard are always the way to go.any peticular stores she likes to shop at? or just a mall giftcard to be on the safe side.if she goes to the movies regularly a movie pass thing will be good to get her hah. i dont know how much you want to spend on her so yeah..

okay thats the best i can do.hopefully this somewhat helped.... =/

you might want to try using better typing skills (especially spelling) because i'm having a hard time figuring out what you're saying.

and when she says she just wants a hug and no present, shes just saying that to be nice. i know how girls are,infact i am one haha =) girls want presents but they dont want to seem pushy and say what they want because alot of girls think its rude. so know shes not "stupid" as you said shes just polite. yeah sorry i had to let that out.

:)

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