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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!
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I want to kill myself. My ex spouse has been out to get me ever sinced we divorced and she got everything. She was court ordered to get our house refinanced in her name and didnt. No the mortgage company is looking for me to pay. I dont have money, I am one step from being homeless. I havent seen my daughter in years. I dont have money for a lawyer so what is the point of continuing in life. I am at my wits end. I dont know what else to do. I dont have anything left.
Please dont do this you are going to get better, this does not have to be all there is to your life.. You can and will get better. Dont kill yourself. She is not worth your life... Think of your daughter. Some day she will realize that daddy killed himself and think why didnt daddy love me enough to stay around... If you are alive she can come to you on her own someday dont make her visit your grave! If you need to talk im here stephiesadvice@aol.com
I'm getting my tounge pierced on Saturday . Are there any health related issues I should worry about?
Yes there are always risk when getting something pierced... But you do have some pretty big ones with your tongue..
I have my tongue pierced... I am not going to lie it hurts, but the healing period hurts more than the actual piercing.
Of all the body peircings you can get your tongue has some of the biggest risk. Your mouth is warm and wet, this is a great place for bacteria to form and bacteria and piercings do not get along. If you get an infection for not properly taking care of your piercing the infection can get into your blood stream and make you very ill, the infection in your blood can kill you if you cant or dont treat it.
You can also have nerve damage that can cause numbness (a small part on the very tip of my tongue has been numb since the moment I got the piercing and I will never feel that part of my tongue again it doesnt bother me much though because it is just a tiny part on the tip of my tongue) loss of taste, impaired speach, and restricted movement.
Now when you first get it done your tongue is going to swell, and it will be hard to move your tongue (because you are afraid to hurt it) and it will be hard to talk thats normal. To help with swelling take an anti-inflammatory and suck on ice chips. Trys me it helps.
You also have the risk of chipping or breaking your teeth on the metal. My advice when its time to change the ring get metal barbells but plastic or acryllic balls (the plastic barbells dont last long for me)
Before you go in to have the piercing dont make sure your teeth are clean, and also for help on pain (God I wish I knew this little trick before I went in haha) put a little oragel on your tongue to help numb it.
After you get your peircing you need to keep it clean. Evey time you eat, drink, smoke, use the bathroom, or pretty much do anything, wash your mouth. Use salt water to clean your mouth. here is what I did
I got bottled water and Non-Iodized Sea Salt. The more salt the better. I poured a lot of sea salt in my bottled water and then I shook the bottle to mix it. Then I would carry my bottle around with me along with an empty bottle (I know it sounds gross and unattractive but hey you are keeping your tongue clean, the empty bottle is to spit the salt water into after you rinse your mouth) Use the salt water mix like you would a mouth wash, swissh it in your mouth for about a minute and then spit (do not swallow salt water it can dehydrate you)
Then every time you eat anything brush your teeth as well. I would brush my teeth like normal and then I was super easy and careful brushing my tongue. And when you are finished instead of mouth wash use saltwater.
Helpful tip on eating. This is going to sound weird but trust me you are going to have to learn how to eat with the pain or go hungry haha.. When you eat slowly open your mouth and (make sure your hands are clean) take a small bit of food with your fingers (yes we are toddlers again ) and push it to the back of your mouth on one of the sides and slowly very slowly chew. Swallowing will be hard at first too because you are not use to having the tongue ring there and it feels like its food as well. But remember slow slow slow... Also jello and pudding are ging to be your best friend for the first couple of days. They are easy to eat you dont have to chew (jello just desolves) and you dont have to worry about hurting your tongue.. also be careful not to bite your ring that hurts bad when you first get it done (I do it now every once in a while but it just feels weird it doesnt hurt)
My tongue healed faster than normal (took 2 weeks unstead of 4 to 6) because I was constantly cleaning and brushing and I was careful with it...
Also remember not to talk too much (you can talk but not constant conversations all the time) your tongue is a muscle and you are exercising it when you talk and too much of that will make it hurt more (I am super talkative and I regreted talking too much the next day after my piercing)
Stay away from spicy foods. My piercer said it would heal it faster but it would hurt so bad.
good luck with the new piercing and remember clean it obsessivly you dont want an infection
Hi guys! I'm having a little bit of trouble with my family right now, and I don't know what to do. This will be a bit long...sorry.
I'm 20 years old and in college, and my parents are control freaks over me. They already picked my MAJOR (I can't change it even though I hate it, or they won't pay for college) and every time I come home, I have a curfew of midnight. This is understandable since it's their house, but it's just annoying because I have an apartment an hour away where I have FREEDOM. But, they are used to their strict style of being raised and think that I've become a monster with too much freedom. This is how all my cousins are treated as well.
For the past couple of days, they have been giving me and my sister the silent treatment. I kind of have an idea why they're mad at my sister (that's another story) but I have NO clue why they would be mad at me, except for maybe the fact that I've been hanging out with friends too much? They were kind of talking to me on Friday (when I came home from my apartment), then asked me if I wanted to go to dinner, I was on the phone and said No, I wasn't hungry, and they came back totally different and ignoring us. This has gone on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday (today). In that time, I realized my parents were pissed off (with no idea why) and the only places I've been were the gym (I go daily) and a grad party for 2 hours.
Today, I woke up late and missed church. I woke up when they were leaving, and I heard my mom say that she was going to have a talk with us. Later in the day, when my parents weren't home a neighbor stopped by who has been at my house all the time, whether my parents were there or not. He was at my house DAILY last summer and my parents like him a lot, so there should have been NO problem there. Except, when my dad walked in an hour later, he was SHAKING in anger, purple in the face...even my friend was shocked. My dad pointed at me, and then pointed at the door and I followed him. He couldn't even make full sentences. He was saying, "I can't believe you're entertaining guests" or something like that. I didn't even know what was going on. My mom came in from the garage (she had tears in her eyes like she had been crying) and she PUSHED him in the garage when she saw how angry he was. She literally had to PUSH him and hold him back and shut the door...from what? HITTING ME? She said, "you upset your dad" and I just responded "I don't know why you guys are so mad at me." and told my neighbor to come downstairs with me.
I've been hiding out here all night although I'm sure there in bed. I called my brother and he told me my mom said we're not going with them on vacation (to visit my brother).
I honestly have NO clue what could have gotten them this angry, but they are furious with me for what I think is no reason at all. I'm afraid to approach them even. My questions are:
- How should I handle this? Is there a way to handle it without them blowing up at me?
- Were my parents justified in their anger?
This is legitimately my account of what happened. I'm not hiding or changing anything at all.
This seems very odd. By what you are saying I dont see anything wrong with what you are doing. You are 20 years old yet you are still obeying their rules and living your life how they want you too even if it means you are not happy... I think that what you need to do is sit them down and have a talk with them. I dont know them personally so I can tell you if they will blow up or not but this may be the only way you are going to find out what is going on... Tell them how you feel about every thing going on. Also if it were me I would let them know that I was not happy with the major they chose and you want to do something else with your life... What you and they need to realize is this is your life, you need to do what makes you happy and you need to live it... stop letting them live your life for you... If they are not going to pay for college and you cant afford it go get a loan and go to the school you want to go to... If they wont pay for your apartment then cut out some volenteering and get a job to pay for things while you are in college... I know its nice to have the help of your parents but they are taking this too far... If anyone has the right to be angry its you. You are an adult and they are still telling you what to do... you cant even stay at your own apartment without permission... Talk to them figure out what is going on with them and let them know how you feel about them running your life and then try to work tings out, good luck best wished
Im about to enter middle school and im stressed out! any advice?
You are about to enter an amazing.fun part of your life... It is going to be okay... Dont be afraid... You are going to do great... Just go in there be confident and give it your all.. You will make friends and have a great time, and before you know it you wont even think about how afraid you were about going to middle school! good luck best wishes
12 Female.
Theres this boy i know i've been hanging out with him since the beginning of summer. We have hugged & all that. But today when i was laying down my sister was at the corner of the bed and he was next to her & then i was next to him. He kept holding my hand, & making me feel all loved by him. Then at times he would put his face right near mine. Then finally he kissed me... He hugged me & held my hand, he kept moving his head shaking yes & no. I told him what was wrong? & He asked me out. I didnt know what to say. A Few Minutes After he leaned again and i kissed him but he wanted to make out but i didnt so he stopped and gave me a kiss on the cheek & forehead.Not sure what i wanna do/:
This is a very big step take it slow tell him you are not ready for anything big... its ok not to be ready for something.. Dont rush yourself.. One day when you are ready it will be perfect but todayis not that day good luck and best wishes
hello stephanie, this is brock
who asked about what to do
for that women on
facebook...what should i do
becoz i and that women we
both leave in different countries..i told her what she
means to me and i asked for
forgivenes.but she is not ready
to forgive..she is saying that
she doesnt even wants me to
contact her plz help..i too need a mom who would love me..
It may help If I knew a little more about you and your situation so I am going to ask you some questions and it is okay if you do not want to answe them, but I might be able to help you better if I knew some details...
so first where is your biological family? (your real parents)
how did you meet this woman and what brought on the conversation of her adopting you?
what exactly did you say to this womans friend?
why did you go to her friend in the first place?
what country are you in and what country is she in?
What is it exactly that makes you care so deeply for this woman?
how long have you known her?
I know you are hurting and you are upset and I am going to try my best to make you feel better and maybe even give you some advice on this situation.. please message me again with some details or even email me at stephiesadvice@aol.com
somedays ago i found a woman aged 43 on facebook who was ready to adopt me..since no one loves me..she was ready to love me..she was single and divorced..she wanted a son and i wanted a mom..everything was going ok..but then i contacted her friend..and asked some question about her,.her friend told her about it..and she got mad at me and now she wants me to stop contacting her..she means my family and my world..i cant live without her..i can do any thing to get her..i love her a lot..plz help me ..i need a mom to love me iam 17 now and my name is brock
Brock first I would like to say that I am sorry that you were left alone in the world.. It must be so hard... I want you to know that you can always come to me for advice and you can email me at stephiesadvice@aol.com if you want to talk or just need a friend... As for this woman try to contact her and let her know how you feel... Tell her you did not mean to offend her in anyway and if you did you are sorry and you would like her back in your life... if she is not willing to accept that then you need to know that you are going to be okay... I know it is hard but it will get better... If you need a friend I am here to talk... I am so sorry that this is happening to you.. I wish I could help more good luck and remember you can email me or message me on here anytime
i was wondering if you know or reccomend an acne back wash at that store and some hair stuff that makes your hair really nice, soft, not flieaways, no split ends and stuff?
thanks!(:
melissa(:
I dont really use store products to keep my face clear.. I find a few home remedies and home made face mask to be really helpful these are some things I use
Baking Soda mask-
All you need is baking soda and water :)
After you wash your face, mix a little baking soda and water in a bowl. (it should look creamy) rub it on your face and leave it sit for about ten minutes. Then rinse. Do it several times a week to help clear acne.
Oatmeal mask-
You will need water and oatmeal
add water to the oatmeal until you have a nice creamy blend that will stick to your face. Apply the oatmeal to your face and leave on until it is dried. (10-15 mins) Your face will seem to smile and it may be difficult to smile. Rinse the mask when it has dried. Result, in the morning you should notice that your pimples have reduced size by a lot. You can do this a few times a week as well to prevent breakouts and help clear acne.
Egg whites Mask-
All you need is egg whites. Fluff them with a fork. Then rub on your face. Leave it on for 20 minutes and then rinse. Your skin will tighten and your red bumps should reduce in size and redness. Pretty cool huh?!
Strawberry mask-
Good enough to eat! Mash 1/4 cup of strawberries into 1/4 cup of plain non-flavored yogurt. Rub it on. Rinse after 15 minutes. Stawberries are a natural source of salicylic acid which is in most over-the-counter acne medicines
home remedies
Lemon Juice-
You can buy a bottle of this at your grocery store... All you need to do is take a cotton ball with lemon juice on it and rub it on your problem areas. Then go to bed, when you wake up rinse the lemon off and youre done. You should notice you acne fading away in a few days :)
The toothpaste trick-
Got a pimple forming? Dab some toothpase on and leave it there over night. In the morning it should be smaller and less irritating.
Aloe vera-
Aloe vera helps soothe and heal pimples.... put some on your face leave it there for 15 minutes and then rinse.
Honey- Make a paste with honey and cinnamon powder... Rub it on and go to bed. Rinse in the morning... clears your skin
My hair use to be horrible... It was tight curls aweful friz and then when I brushed it I had a bad afro going on I hated it but then I found some awesome products and a few home treatments that worked and now it is soft shiny and well honestly it looks like the hair of a super model ... I use Herbal essences totally twisted shampoo conditioner mousse and gel... makes your hair so soft and shiny...
http://www.herbalessences.com/en-US/hair-products/curly-hair-products?utm_source=msn&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=herbal+essences+totally+twisted&utm_content=%21acq%21321604574-652988250&utm_campaign=X+-+Herbal+Essences+Totally+Twisted_1011
I also use wet2straight hair straightener it makes my hair perfect, straight, no frizz, the wind doesnt mess it up.. and if I want to have a little curl I just use a curling iron and my hair is still looking awesome from the stragitener but with a curl :)
http://www.bing.com/shopping/s-7900t-wet-2-straight-toumaline-hair-iron-1/p/EE15C75EB3E22184B5DA?q=wet2straight+hair+straightener&lpq=wet2straight%20hair%20straightener&FORM=HURE
I also like to do these home treatments on my hair for split ends, and dry/damaged hair
Mayonnaise
Put about a half a cup of mayo in your hair. Spread from root to tip like you would conditioner. Wrap your hair in a towel and leave it sit for 15-20 minutes. Then rinse it out
Aloe vera
After you shampoo, use pure aloe vera juice as if it were conditioner. Leave it sit for five minutes and then rinse. This will add moisture to your hair and promote hair growth!
Olive oil
Spread olive oil trough your hair and leave it in for a few hours then rinse
Honey
Spread honey through your hair, cover with a shower cap, leave sit for 30 minutes and then rinse
all of these give me awesome results, I cant even explain how bad my hair was I still to this day have never seen anyone with hair as bad as mine was and now it looks wonderful hope it helps good luck
17/f
I just got my eyebrows threaded for the first time in 3 months. I needed it, lol. But when I got home, I realized that the lady made them wayyyy thinner and it's making me upset. I'm probably just psyching myself out, but I hate having thin-ish eyebrows, because I wanted to keep them thick. I just wanted her to clean it up. Oh well. Anyways, I have this eyebrow gel from Sephora that I used to use. I started applying it. Does anyone have any other tips for growing eyebrows back thicker? Also, how can I maintain my eyebrows without going and getting them done? Should I just keep tweezing to keep it clean? Anything will help!
Right now you can use an eyebrow pencil and color in a fuller look until the grow in... after you can stick to tweezing or you can use a trimmer (I use micro touch on my eyebrows because I dont like the pain of tweezing good luck
I'm M/16. For the past few years my mom and other family members are always asking why I don't hug & kiss them that much. When ever a family member hugs me or something, I feel uncomfortable. When certain things happen, I don't cry and they get mad. Its like they think I don't feel anything. But when they say stuff about me being like this I feel bad. They also get mad at how I don't call them often. It also feels uncomfortable when a friend puts their hand on my shoulder. But when it comes to girls that I like, I do hug them a lot & randomly. I remember feeling stuff too. But I haven't really had a gal in a while. My family always treated me well. Is this normal? They also say that I don't talk to them that much. Is there something wrong with me?
it is normal.. I think every one goes through something like this especially boys... but your mom is only mentioning it because she love you and no matter how old you are you are her little boy and she wants your love in return... let her know that you do love her and care about he you just feel a little uncomfortable hugging or kissing... or maybe once in a while give her a little hug or kiss on the forehead just to let her know you care even if it is uncomfortable... she just loves you so much and wants to know that no matter what you still love her too
what should i do... my cousin keeps slapping me in the forhead and it's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO annoying... i know he's kidding but i keep telling him to stop and he WONT! my gosh! i wanna kill him, i swear to God.!
Let him know that you dont like it and it annoys you and if he doesnt stop then you are not going to hang out with him anymore...
I'm a 13 year old girl and a lot of times this happens. I'll be thinking of something then someone else will say that or for example I'll be watching t.v. Then I'll think of a movie like twilight then it will be on in like 20 minutes or I'll be thinking of something someone usually says to me but hasn't in a while then they'll text me and be like "oh I haven't said that in a while." if you no what I mean, I kind of think of something and then it happens, if that makes sense. Is there a name or something for this?
Its kind of like you are predicting what is going to happen or some would call it having a premonition of the future if you believe in that stuff
just wandering do guys like girls that scream alot when they touch them anywhere? or even during intercourse? Or do guys not like so much screaming and shit? female and male sex lol...so yehhh lol thankss
Screaming i dont think that is a turn on it can be a little attractive but I think you may be using the wrong word... guys like it when you moan when it feels good.. kind of lets them know you like what they are doing... but you can moan quietly or loudly but I dont think you want to scream
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and were nearly 16, and he wants to do sexual stuff, but i feel that im not ready. i do want him to poke me and eat me out and stuff, but i feel embarrassed. what should i do?
Dont feel embarrassed let him know that you are not ready and if he respects you he will be okay with that... if he doesnt then he needs to go... Your virginity is one thing that you can never get back once it is gone... dont waste it... save it for that right moment when you are ready... who cares if he is ready you both hae to be and if youre not thats okay... good luck and when it is time remember use protection :)
I am a guy who really is trying his hardest to be a servant of God. Can you give me any tips or advice to resisting the urges of pornography and sexual feelings towards girls(Please don't answer with masterbation)?
Well I am not a guy and I have never had a problem like this so I asked a friend of mine and he said that when he gets dirty thoughts in his head like this he trys to think of something very unattractive or gross (like his grandma haha.. not naked or anything) but her thinks of stuff like that and it gets his mind off the dirty thoughts :) hope it helps good luck
I just feel like giving up. Every since me ex wife and I divorced she has made it her purpose in life to ruin me. I gave her the house in divorce and asked for nothing in return. She was ordered to get the house refinanced and has not. She wont even let me see my daughter by making excuses everytime I try to see my daughter. I really feel like killing myself. I have no money and am always stressed out. I cant take it anymore. I cant afford a lawyer, maybe I wasnt suppose to be here. I just bought a gun and st first I was scared to use it but I am losing that fear.
DONT KILL YOURSELF! I am so sorry you have to go through this... But please dont kill yourself... honestly your ex wife is a b**** she isnt worth your life... you can get through this please please think of your daughter dont do it... you just need some one to talk to about all of this... if you ever need advice or just someone to talk to, mesasage me on here or email me at stephiesadvice@aol.com and please get rid of the gun it will only lead to temptation... you are not meant to just give up and die you are going to make it through and end up living a wonderful life... dont let her get the best of you... message or email me I will be here to talk to you
18/f
I left my laptop at home for a whole day because I was at my boyfriend's house. Me & my sister sometimes changes each other's desktop backgrounds to something funny as a joke. But this time, I had a problem with her changing my desktop background. 1) Because my desktop background was a slideshow of multiple pictures I literally put together by myself for hours. 2) she got on my computer without my permission and she had her own. When I saw it, I was a bit angry, but I still stayed calm thinking that my photos were still on my computer.
Later I was looking for the folder where I had my photos, and all of my albums were gone... Besides some particular photos. So I started freaking out, because I worked really hard on them. So I asked her if she deleted them and she gave me the attitude saying that she didn't delete them and continued to talk to her boyfriend. I got so frustrated because I went through my past folders, current folders, and even went through all the hard drives. The only photos that was available were the photos that she saved as my desktop. So I asked her boyfriend since he's tech-savy if computers could delete photos by themselves. Because everything was there.. Besides my past wallpaper/slideshow photos. My sister once again, gave me the attitude and answered the question for him "no. the only way pictures can be deleted is if you delete them yourself." And her boyfriend was like, "maybe you placed saved them in another place." And I said, "no... I didn't. I click on these folders everyday and it's not in here." they completely ignored me and continued to talk to each other and started watching, "Friends."
She didn't even bother to apologize to me, or even try to help or explain it to me. And she randomly walks in an hour later while I had to remake all the photos all over again and said, "wake up mom made food." And shut the door on me WHILE I was talking. And I walked by the living room to get some orange juice that my boyfriend bought me.. And I saw her in the corner of my eye she was staring at me and she didn't bother to say anything either. I opened the fridge and the orange juice was gone too... I had a full gallon of orange juice and it was gone.
It might sound really stupid, or maybe I'm just having a long day. Or they're just little things that's irritating me. They knew my boyfriend got me the orange juice, they didn't even bother to leave me ANY at all, she gave me the attitude for no reason, shut the door on me when I'm talking, and she knew that I made my wallpaper/slideshow putting photos together and everything, didn't apologize, or explain, ignored me, and she doesn't even live here. -___-"
Do I even have the right to be angry? Or is it something that I should try to ignore??
Well with the background changing thing I think that you may be a little hard on her about because you both do it to eachother as a joke and she was just doing it to make you laugh... but as for the other things you do have a right to be upset about it ... instead of bottling your feelings and ignoring it why dont you go sit down with her and say hey I am sorry that I got upset with you for changing my background I know that it was just a joke and I shouldnt have gotten angry but I did because I had worked hard on it, but you were just trying to make me laugh and I took it the wrong way.... then explain how the other things had bothered you and how you are feeling about it and maybe she will see that she has done wrong and apologize good luck
My boyfriend and I have been together three years and we are both in college.
Please hear me out, but keep in mind that this is my probably-heavily-biased side of the story.
We have a lot in common, but our differences drive me insane at times. For example, he's a night owl and I'm a day person, up at the crack of dawn. I like having plans and a set schedule (maybe to an extreme; I am always planning out my future class schedules and what classes I will take which term to make sure I have a good plan). He, on the other hand, is a last-minute-plans kind of guy.
He is also a last-minute-cancellation kind of guy. Which, when tied into his sleeping habits, really ticks me off. Because he'll say things like "Let's do so-and-so tomorrow", and we'll make plans. I will then make no other plans and the next day, will have to wait for him to wake up (which can be anytime from 3 to 6pm), at which point he is prone to cancel on me, IF HE EVEN REMEMBERS WE HAD PLANS TO BEGIN WITH.
To be fair, he doesn't flake out on me ALL THE TIME, but it's just often enough for it to stress me. And while at times it's not even his fault, the fact that I have to waste an entire day waiting for him to let me know nothing is happening is irritating.
It bothers me that, the day before we are supposed to hang out, he doesn't compromise. He knows that I'm up early, but rather than sleeping a little earlier that day and say, waking up at noon (which would be pretty much a halfway point between our normal wake-up times), he stays up all night and sleeps in. The only thing that gets him to agree to this is a long and tedious negotiation / argument. And usually, when I ask him to sleep earlier, he says he can't help it, as if he is being forced to sleep late. Now, I understand that it is difficult to break from some sleep schedules. But then can someone please explain to me why, when we're together and it's around midnight and he lies down and is undisturbed for a few minutes, he falls asleep? He tells me that it's hard to fall asleep when he's awake, but he seems to have absolutely no trouble doing so when I'm around.
The reason I'm posting isn't just about our plans, though that is a big part of it. He is exceptionally bad at coming through with any sort of promise or anything. Once, I asked him for help with something for a job I was applying for. I needed it ASAP, but even with my constant nagging, it still took him a week (by which point it was already too late). And this happens all the time. If I ask him for something and he agrees, he will forget all about it unless I nag him until the end of time.
And every time he fails to keep his word or cancels on me, I just get VERY UPSET. I can't help it. It makes me feel like I'm not worth waking up a little early for, or like he can't set aside some time from his ridiculous gaming habits to write a reminder post-it note to help me out.
What do I do about this? Am I simply expecting too much of a video-game-obsessed, impulsive guy with a shit memory, or is the problem with him? or with both of us?
I totally agree with zane... talk to him and tell him how you feel about the whole situation and let him know it is time to shape up... If he cant do this then you are going to have to move on its not just you that will think this way if I was in your shoes I would feel the same way... talk to him and try to get him to understand... give him the choice its you or his habits not both good luck
I'm only 13 so I don't have to worry about it yet, I hope. And I'm a girl but should girls shave there vaginas when having sex? What do guys like?
Well you are just a young girl and should not have to worry about something like this yet... but it really all depends on the guy.... some like shaved some dont... but really it all depends on what you are comfortable with
19/f
ok so when my boyfriend and i have sex a few times the condom has got like stuck inside me. not like stuck but it slips off and its still in me..is that normal? is that a bad thing? im just curious if that is not suppose to happen or what is causing this to happen..thanks!
Your boyfriend Is wearing condoms that are too big for him. He needs to get a smaller size... It should not just slide off