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Do I have the right to be angry?
18/f
I left my laptop at home for a whole day because I was at my boyfriend's house. Me & my sister sometimes changes each other's desktop backgrounds to something funny as a joke. But this time, I had a problem with her changing my desktop background. 1) Because my desktop background was a slideshow of multiple pictures I literally put together by myself for hours. 2) she got on my computer without my permission and she had her own. When I saw it, I was a bit angry, but I still stayed calm thinking that my photos were still on my computer.
Later I was looking for the folder where I had my photos, and all of my albums were gone... Besides some particular photos. So I started freaking out, because I worked really hard on them. So I asked her if she deleted them and she gave me the attitude saying that she didn't delete them and continued to talk to her boyfriend. I got so frustrated because I went through my past folders, current folders, and even went through all the hard drives. The only photos that was available were the photos that she saved as my desktop. So I asked her boyfriend since he's tech-savy if computers could delete photos by themselves. Because everything was there.. Besides my past wallpaper/slideshow photos. My sister once again, gave me the attitude and answered the question for him "no. the only way pictures can be deleted is if you delete them yourself." And her boyfriend was like, "maybe you placed saved them in another place." And I said, "no... I didn't. I click on these folders everyday and it's not in here." they completely ignored me and continued to talk to each other and started watching, "Friends."
She didn't even bother to apologize to me, or even try to help or explain it to me. And she randomly walks in an hour later while I had to remake all the photos all over again and said, "wake up mom made food." And shut the door on me WHILE I was talking. And I walked by the living room to get some orange juice that my boyfriend bought me.. And I saw her in the corner of my eye she was staring at me and she didn't bother to say anything either. I opened the fridge and the orange juice was gone too... I had a full gallon of orange juice and it was gone.
It might sound really stupid, or maybe I'm just having a long day. Or they're just little things that's irritating me. They knew my boyfriend got me the orange juice, they didn't even bother to leave me ANY at all, she gave me the attitude for no reason, shut the door on me when I'm talking, and she knew that I made my wallpaper/slideshow putting photos together and everything, didn't apologize, or explain, ignored me, and she doesn't even live here. -___-"
Do I even have the right to be angry? Or is it something that I should try to ignore??
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You have every right to be angry!! Things just don't get deleted from your computer. Especially since you looked through all the folders and they weren't there either. To me it sounds like your sister is lying to you about that. I would change the password on your computer so she can't get on anymore. Yea, you both may have played jokes like that but it goes too far when everything goes missing. And believe me, I know how frustrating it can be to have things, such as juice, go missing too. I have a younger brother who would always take my things, even if I kept them in my room they would still go missing. People just don't have any respect for you, yet if you did it to them or they assumed it was you it would be hell. I'm sorry you had to go through that but karma will get back at her.
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Well with the background changing thing I think that you may be a little hard on her about because you both do it to eachother as a joke and she was just doing it to make you laugh... but as for the other things you do have a right to be upset about it ... instead of bottling your feelings and ignoring it why dont you go sit down with her and say hey I am sorry that I got upset with you for changing my background I know that it was just a joke and I shouldnt have gotten angry but I did because I had worked hard on it, but you were just trying to make me laugh and I took it the wrong way.... then explain how the other things had bothered you and how you are feeling about it and maybe she will see that she has done wrong and apologize good luck
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