I'm Suki. I love to see the first bloom of a wild rose, to smell the salt spray of an ocean breeze, to hear the laughter of little children at play. Oh no, wait - That's somebody else.
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Location: United States
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Last Update: August 29, 2006
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hey if anyone knows the clothing store papaya do they have a website?? also if they don't would someone be kind enough to tell me there locations in cali?? it would be so helpful that i would rate??
1- website
2- locations
thanx (link)
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I don't think they have an official website, but here are some locations in California.
Temecula
Bloomington
Anaheim
Orange County
Highgrove
San Diego
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Okay. Me an this gurl have been friends since the 6th grade, and now were freshman. We told each other everything we were like each others other half. Everytime you seen me you seen her. Well last November we went to the mall and to eat an bowling. Well while were there I met this guy that I have been with now for a year next month. An every since about January Mine an the gurls friendship has just broke. We would always get into it. And everytime something happened we blamed each other for it. Well everytime me an her got into it i told drew (my boyfriend) we he started disliking her because she always hurt me. As me an her drifted apart me an Drew got closer an closer. We became *bestfriends* I tell him everything an he tells me everything. Now he doesn't even like when I talk to her because he says shes a bad influence on me. Shes always trying to bring up our old friendship an how she misses it. And of course, I miss it just as much. But Shes not my bestfriend anymore .. Drew is. He knows stuff about me that no one knows. An I kno stuff about him that no one knows. We just so close. And she always brings up how he took me away from her an stuff. And I dunno what to do I wanna be friends with her but I don't think we'll ever be as close as we were. (like vacations together an stuff) And Drew doesn't want me hanging out with her, like going to her house an places. An sometimes when I do he gets like extreamly mad. So I dunno what to do? Ahhhh. Help! (link)
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It depends. If you want to be her friend again, forget about what Drew says. You control your life, not him. It is okay to have more than one best friend. If you don't like how she hurt you and shit, don't be friends with her again. It is entirely up to you. Not Drew.
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i know this is asked a LOT but..
i like this guy. by these few things, does he like me do you think?
-he whispers "(my name) is such a slut!" so i can hear it then im like yur cool nd he smiles
-he was lying down nd i layed on him nd he was like just talking to me nd smelling my hair nd putting his finger near my face..lol it was cute thou
-he wanted to c if i could bite him so hes like walking his hands down my face nd feeling my lips
-he was on the computer nd my other friend was on a computer rite next to him, i was in the middle reading both ;). well he IMs "(my name) is a whore" nd stuff like like nd im laughing or wutever
-he was playing football with everyone nd he goes "come on (my name) tackle me!" (so i did hahaha, i was the only one that could, was he being easy on me..?)
-i sat next to him on the couch nd he goes "eww i dont want to sit next to (my name)" nd i just ignore it while he puts a pillow between us. then he goes "im just kidding u kno that right?"
-my friend who he was IMing next to me, she said "i think he likes you!"
do u think..?
ps-ill rate 5's for EVERYTHING thats not smart a**! cause this was long! (link)
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Yes, I think he does. Unless he is one of those really womanizing guys that flirt with all of their friends.
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what does it mean to "feel someone up"? (link)
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To touch/caress a woman's chest.
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okay so i have this project for health class. we have been watching a movie about a girl who lost about 30 pounds in a month. it was not real but we have to do a report on how it could be real. how could a person lose 30 pounds in a month?
RATEE 5`s (link)
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Anorexia.
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ok, so there are these 3 girls in my class,lets call them Briana, Frances and Diana. Now, briana and frances hate me and my friend rania A LOT. They pressured Diana into making a s/n, pretending to be rania to try to get the pw for my xanga so thyey could hack it. Now, diana broke down and told me and my friend it was her. Now, me and rania want to get Briana and Frances in a lot of trouble, we have all the evidence and proof that we need, but we can also get in trouble because of a s/n we created impersonating our friend. But we didnt try to hack anyone, it was just a harmless prank. So basically, my question is, is it worth it to get them in trouble and put ourselves at risk?
p.s. I rate (link)
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Well, it all depends on the person, but I think it is worth it. Even if you guys get in trouble for creating the screen name, they are most likely to get in more trouble than you. However, I was in a similar situation when I was younger and it never did work out well.
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what POSITIVE effects come from birthcontrol? i heard it lightens your period and helps you lose weight. can you take it even if your not/dont think you are pregnant? (link)
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Yes, you can take birth control when you are not pregnant. It helps lower your testosterone and produce estrogen, therefore making your periods shorter and lighter (although, I'd have to say that doesn't always work). It can either make you lose weight or gain weight. It helps control insolin problems and et cetera.
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What good *recent* scary movies have come out on DVD? (link)
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Saw. The Amityville Horror.
Those are the most recent. If you want to get some that are good but slightly older I would recommend Joy Ride, Frailty, Se7en, The Butterfly Effect (not scary, but suspenseful), Final Destination, et cetera.
If you need anything else, feel free to ask.
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okay well i found the site where you make layouts but i have nooo clue how to get started!
any help PLEASE!!! with ANY info you know on layout sites
kthnxbi
i willllll rate 5s (link)
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Search for layouts in the blogrings section.
Some of my friends and I have a layout site:
http://www.xanga.com/hybrid_simulations
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this may seem weird. but i thik that i am semi depressed. i went on a website to learn more about depression and saw the symtoms and i had alot of them. lately i have been feeling really lonely and left out with friends also ive been experiancing guy issues so that may be it. but i dont nkow what to do (link)
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Yes, you may be depressed. However, everyone feels depressed once in a while. If it lasts for a long time, then you may possibly be clinically depressed. You might want to see a doctor or something if you are really worried about it.
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ok today I came home from school because my back hurt SO bad. I can't bend it and if I use ice, it doesn't do anything. If I use heat, it makes it worse. I don't have my period right now so it's not cramps, and I didn't do anything active to cause an injury. I took 2 Ibeprofin (sp) and it wore off within 3/4 hours. Can anyone tell me what this may be and how to make it feel better? Iwanna smash my head against the wall it hurts so bad! (link)
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You might have dislocated it or something. My friend dislocated her back on Monday and the same thing happened to her. However, the only way to know for sure is to go to the doctor, which I recommend.
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heyy guys.. well my best friend is taking this reallly cute guy to homecoming, but i don't think he likes her anymore. but he i think he flirts with me aloot. i mean calling everydayy, texting at 430 in the morning, texting to wake me up in the morning.. aw. yea i know he's sweet but like when i see him at school it doesn't seem like he likes me? cause i think he is such a cutie! do yall think he likes me or what? pleaaasseee help!! thxx (rate) (link)
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Yeah, he probably likes you. Or he is a womanizer. Remember that he is going to homecoming with your friend, though. Going out with him (without talking to her about it first) is considered backstabbing. Maybe he is just after the chase? This is quite possible, from what you've stated.
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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what? (link)
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Although I don't know either of you, I would guess you are just saying it. You like each other, but it is more of infatuation as of now.
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Alright.
I'm usually a pretty good 'advice giver' but I'm stuck on this one.
I've been friends with this guy for about 4 years. There was a time in those four years that we.. well.. we liked eachother.
He asked me out.. but he dated my best friend, that's how we met, and I didn't want to hurt her in any way.
So, I said no.. and now.. he avoids me completely. Whenever I sign on to talk to him, he always makes up a bogus excuse.. like "I've got homework to do." (which he tells me EVERYDAY) and "I'm really tired.. I'll ttyl."
What am I supposed to do?! I mean.. I actually.. FEEL something for this guy.. HELP? (link)
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Talk to him and explain your side of the story. If he still continues to ignore you, take the hint that he doesn't want to be bothered and leave him alone. Maybe it will just take him a while to get over the rejection.
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Ok, so theres this boy in my class, michael. We were going out, and you kno, all that bf/gf stuff. We were really close and great together, we never fought, but of course there was a lil argument here and there. Well, one day he just broke up with me. He didnt tell me why, he just said we cant go out anymore and left. The next day, my best friend was wearing a shirt that said I love my bf. I asked her who her bf was and she said michael. She ddint even try to hide it or anything. I got really mad at her, and stopped talking to her. Now there are rumors going around that they had sex. I am really mad at my friend and i dont know what to do. I mean, i like her, but im really mad at her for stealing michael from him. What should i do??? (link)
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You should talk to her about it. Or come to terms with reality. Is a friend who does this shit really the kind of person you'd want to be close with? The answer is most likely know. Losing a friend may be hard at first, but it definitely saves you from getting backstabbed multiple times in the future.
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I'm 15 and I think I have social anxiety disorder. My parents keep urging me to get help from a counsellor.. but I can't. It's really pathetic but for me the idea of having to sit in a room with a total stranger and answer questions or something is pure torture. I want to get help but how can anyone help me when I can't speak to people? (link)
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Instead of talking to a complete stranger, try talking to someone you know and trust already.
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I've just recently been breaking out real bad on my face(this usually doesn't happen)and I also notice some red zit like bumps on my legs.. which is really weird. Does anyone know what this is?! ( i'm supose to be getting my period soon if that has to do with anything?) (link)
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Some people break out very badly right before their periods. This is probably it.
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alrighty, one of my good friends is...i guess what people would call a 'music elitist'? she's very unique and listens to old rock bands like the who and the beatles and stuff. she acts like she doesnt care what anyone thinks of her, but obviously she does or she would try so hard to be different, right? anyway, I on the other hand, am to her, the stereotypical prep. yeah, i get up and take an hour to get ready every morning, i shop at stores like AE and GAP, and i listen to pop music. whenever i give her a ride home or anything, she's always criticizing and making fun of the music that's playing, and if i go to the bathroom to fix my hair or makeup, she HAS to make a comment. i really do try so hard not to say anything to her about it. i tolerate her BLASTING the who and coldplay in my ears when i'm around her without saying anything, and i completely respect her political and religious opinions (WHICH ARE COMPLETELY OPPOSITE THAN MINE) and she doesnt. what do i do??? today i got mad and i blasted the music in the car and i kept making fun of her music, but now i feel bad. what do i do to tell her how i feel without coming off as a total b****??? (link)
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Talk to her about it. This sounds a lot like how my friends and I are - all from different stereotypical labels. Some of my good friends are into all that pop music shit, and I tolerate it. If you can tolerate her beliefs and lifestyle, she should be able to tolerate yours. Could she possibly be just joking with you? She probably doesn't realize you feel this way and be very straightforward. If she still doesn't listen, is she -really- worth having as a friend? It's something to think about.
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Is it true if you ignore a guy, chances are he'll want you more?
It sounds strange, LOL.
Guys, they never seize amazing me. (link)
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Whether it is true or not depends on the guy.
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Well i have this friend lets call him albert.. well okay (SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE 5s FOR SERIOUS ANSWERS) so i have known albert since 2nd grade.. and well i need opinions on this.. okay so
1.) Albert is always flirty, touchy, smiley, etc. around me
2.) I asked his friend how he was around people he liked and he said that list above (but thats how he always is around me so im not sure)
3.) Me albert and melinda (other friend not really important) were playing in the snow.. and he always kept tackling me and throwing me in the snow and jumping one me and not letting me get up.
4.) Once i was saying about how no one liked me and stuff and he said thaat i was wrong and i told him he couldnt argue and he said he could etc.
5.) One day albert was preforming in some kind of club and he came over and was talking to me for most of the time and poking me etc. and then hugged me later on.
6.) One morning before school he came up to me and he put his arm around me (lower back not shoulder) and just stood there.
7.) Once when i was mad at him he asked all of my friends why and my one friend told me that he "flipped" out and was asking why he was mad and stuff like that
8.) He complimented me on my earings at my friends party
9.) He kind of kept moving towards me at my friends party and kept poking me and when he was sitting down he kept telling me to sit next to him.
10.) He told me that i should go to my friends party (more than once)
11.) I told him that some kid said to me i hate you you suck and he was like his life and face suck and that he hated him..
12.) He once told me if anything was seriously wrong i would be one of the first to know
13.) Once i asked him who he liked and he told me he couldnt tell me and he said his friend would tell me the next morning and his friend was like can i tell her can i tell her and he was like no.. and then he said something to him and he was like okay.. and he said some girl and then i found out he liked someone else too.. but he wouldnt tell me who that was.
WHAT IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME AS MORE THAN FRIENDS OR JUST AS FRIENDS?
thnx 4 your help (link)
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Perhaps he does. Unless he is the type of person to flirt with all of his friends. Guys tend to do that.
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