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So there is this guy i've been likeing for awhile now, and i know he knows i like him. But hes a ladies man and he flirts with all the girls we hang out with (oh by the way we hang out at the same place at school) anyways yesturday my friend was telling me that whenever he walks by me he looks at me like he want to start a coversation but doesnt know what to say so i text him on my phone (yesturday) and there is still no reply. I really like him and i really dont know what to do. I want to do something about it nut i dint want to sound desperate. Can someone give me ideas of what to do or explain to me if he is ever going to call or text me. Thanks (link)
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Ok Well ask him nicely and calm "hey did you get my text" and find out if hes getting them. If he says no, then just be like "oh well i was texting you yesterday , or (how ever many days it was) and i didnt know if you had gotten em and stuff" if he says yes "then be like oh ok cause you didnt answer back so i wasnt sure". If he doesnt text you back and he doesnt talk to you at school, hes either to chicken to get the guts to talk to you, or your friend might have led to the wrong idea and told you the wrong info. but its ok shit happens and ya you like him but you know what theres A TON of boys in this world and i promise theres gunna be more for you. So if he gets your messages and doesnt answer then just forget him, and he if he does ever work up the guts to talk to just make sure you dont forget he did that. hope i helped alittle? good luck with your crush
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hey,
ok my boyfriend, Ben told me to call him in a half hour like, 45 minutes ago. His ex *who is my friend* Grace told me that she knows Ben and that i should play hard to get. Funny thing is, they broke up so i dunno if i should listen to her. She said just wait for him to call me, but i dont want him to think i'm dissing him. should i listen to Grace? PLEASE HELP! I'LL RATE HIGH!!!
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ok listen here.. never listen to a guys ex girlfriend. i dont care how good of a friend they are to you they still may have feelings for there ex and will do whatever it takes to get him back. its ALWAYS a possibility. If he says call him then call him. there honestly isnt anything wrong with you picking up the phone n calling every now and then. Trust me if hes your boyfriend then you dont really gotta play "hard to get" thats when your trying to get the like to like you. lol. good luck dear. just call
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ok well me and my boyfriend have been goin out now for awhile but he still eyes other girls like we were on the phone and he was like oo shes soo hot I was like wtf?! and i told him i didnt like it but he cared for like two minutes I know he loves me and he tells me so. that just gets me I really dont see him were in seperate grades hes one grader younger hes my age but he started late.but he knows I box and fight and if theres som1 else i'd kill them same with me if I was with som1 else he'd beat the shit out of them and we love each other we play games on the phone and we see each other like on a daily basis like i go over to his house and we hav lots of fun weve known each other for almost three years and idk if we should go further in our realationship I dont want him to just think i'm here for a kissing partner or A booty call help me i'm totally confused
I'm 13 and i'm female(obviously) lol (link)
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ok hunny remember your 13! there are sooo many guys out there! dont get caught up in just one so young. BUttttt. him checking out other girls is wrong i know but think of it this way. your HIS girlfriend. you HAve him THEy dont. So why stress over some other chick who he looks at, when your the one there kissing him n having fun with him? When he says stuff like that just try and find something wrong with her, and if you make it in an angry tone he will eventually learn that you hate it. If he doesnt and your still bothered by it then tell him its gotta stop cause its getting to weird and your bothered by it or else its gunna have to be over. Just remember no boy is worth your tears cause theres a whole world full of them! And p.s. NEVER LET ANY GUY THINK YOUR JUST A KISSING PARTNER OR A BOOTY CALL. then others will think your "easy to get" and that will make your reputation. gooo downn. Ok dear hopefully things work out with you and your boy
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hey..ummm..well i like this guy...but he has a girlfriend and his girlfriend is one of my good friends. But she is gone for 2 years..so..how should I get him while she's gone..or is that wrong? please help! :)
Dee (link)
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dee-
sorry dear but if shes your good friend then you cant even think about taking her man. That is so messed up. And whos to say hes a pig like that and is gunna mess around with you and still be with her. You might end up losing a friend and guy may hate you all for trying. Your better off not trying to get with him. Good luck
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how do you let someone know that you like them without actually saying i think you`re hot ... when you know you won`t see them for ... years/lots of months. I know it`s almost obvious but I can be shy and I can get embarrassed easy. (link)
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ok first off, never say your hot. lol its so over rated and kinda lame in a way? i dunno. but your not gunna be able to let him know without saying it, cause hes gunna think you do so hes gunna ask. But just tell him, and say you know im starting to like you and i wont see you for awhile but i just wanted to get it off my chest. Dont be all "omggoshhh i like you soo much" you'll freak him out lol. He will respect that you wanted to tell him. good luck hunn
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I'm not sure what to think. This guy that I'm kinda friends with imed me a little while ago and said that he was taking a survey, so I was like..ok.. then he goes, it's just one question. so, I was like, ok, go ahead. he said what would you do if i asked you out? (and he said he already got 2 other girls to take it)and so I go maybe..maybe not.. lol. I don't know if he was really doing a survey or not though, cause he wentaway after I said that. What do ya'll think? Should I im him back and say something else?
Thanks for your help! I rate 5's for nice answers!
*confused* (link)
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Ok your kinda friends? so if your not SUPER close odds are he was just asking to probably just ask as a "survey" but i could be wrong. Ask him Why he asked you? just dont make it seem like you WANt him to ask you out and you would say yes cause then if he was just asking to ask then he will start being all stupid. i dunno good luck though.
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I have a guy friend and I think we mutually like each other. The thing is, I won`t see him next year. What's an easy way to give him my # [don`t say email address/instant messanger] and what`s a way to do it without looking awkward. (link)
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just say hey i wont be seeing you next year, so give me a call sometime, try n stay n touch. lol i dunnoo its not super hard but i get your nervous. good luck dear
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Ok et me see how I can make this short. I have this bestfriend and he is so sweet! I mean I liked him since the first day I saw him. But He didnt know. come to find out on the last week of school he likes me to! So we dated for two days. Then I broke up with him. IT was hard to date him bc if fellt like my brother. And I mean I didnt like his reputation. So I broke up with him. Therewas 3 days left of school and everyone and him told me he was gonig to move to his grannies house to go to the same Highschool as me and live closer to me bc I moved. And i Just feltso bad. So on the last day I planned to tell hiM I was sorry and I wanted him back. Ididnt go the last day bc I moved. It sucked! well yesterday I talked to him on the phone and I found out hes going out with one of his ex gfs and he got her pregnant again. So I still wanna tell him but now I dont ant him to leave her. What should I do? plz I rate so high if yo even just give me a short answer Ill give you a 3-5 plz!
help!!!!!!
signed
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ok hunny hes not good for you. his Ex is PREGNANT? AGAIN?? uhhhmmm i wouldnt even wanna be with a dog like that. and you dated him for 2 days? My question is, how did your feelings change so quick in the last 3 days of school to sit there and want him back? If he felt like your brother then odds are he still will, i honestly just think you dont need him. Find someone who doesnt get back with his ex girlfriends. Its weird how your story works out.. kinda doesnt make sense when you think about it. but i dunno. He comes with to many problems for you, and im sure if your parents found out and they care about you they wouldnt even want you to see him either because they wouldnt want you pregnant? it ruins your life. goodness. well good luck
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what can I do to make my bf feel like I really love him when he moves away. We agreed to have a long distance thing but I dont know how to show affection from this distance... (link)
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Just talk to him all the time, every night. Ask how his day was and everything. Be true to him and be yourself. Dont cheat or hang out with other guys.. The realtionship is going to be tough let me tell you. i did that last year, and i honestly love him. We barely talk now, but it got super tough. Its gunna be an emotional ride for you. But just be tough and if you love him stick with him and make sure he knows that you'll always be there even if you dont live by him. good luck hope things work out for the best
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I am 14 and a female, ok, see I used to be friends with this girl Cydney in 8th grade. In the winter I invited here to a retreat for our youth group trip and she seemed fine about it, then when we get in the car she starts hanging out with this snotty girl lisa who told everybody i like girls which is NOT TRUE. And then we were on the subject about what things we liked to about each other and I asked her what she like about me and she goes well there alot of things i dont like about you. I cant help it if Im shy. My mom was shy when she was my age and still had decent friends. Thats not all we started giving her rides to school and she talks to me around my mom, but she doesnt talk to me at school. I havent done anything to her. She turned gothic too. I dont know what to do. Can any one relate. (link)
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I can. When i was in jr high my best friend used to always act like that. And now were not even friends because i cant stand her for the choices she makes. Anyway..
i think that you should honestly not be her friend. Shes bringing you down and making you look bad. That other girl is telling people you like girls?? thats messed up and i wouldnt tolerate it. You should tell your gothic friend that you dont wanna be friends and that she can bum a ride of that lisa chick. And if she gets all pissy then just tell her how you feel about it. Your better off without her because true friends dont blow you off just like that. At least they arent suposed to. Now a days girls are SOOO mean to eachother its sad. Good luck hunny
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umm i like this dude nd hes not like hott but reli sweet nd every1 hates him but im goin out with him neway....should i stay with him nd be laughed at, or just break up? (link)
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if you like him then you shouldnt even be worried about what others think. You know hes sweet, yeah he may not be the cutiest thing but come on looks arent everything. Dont worry about the others. I say stay with him, but if its gunna bother you that much and you continue to let it bother you then break up with him, cause theres no reason to stay with someone who your embarrassed of.
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I was just wondering if anyone had any good pages for icons. Thanks a bunch! xo (link)
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http://www.buddyputty.com/main.html
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I really like this guy but i dont know how to tell him that i like him. He kinda likes me too.. but i dont know how to tell him...I rate high!!!
love,
how to deal (link)
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If he likes you kinda then whats there to worry about? Dont like say i like you soooooo much cause if he doesnt like you a WHOLE LOT yet then he might get kinda freaked. Just tell him that you sorta have feelings for him and everything. Do it while you have the chance, because if you dont you may lose it. Some other girl could come along ya know? Good luck dear
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well i've liked this guy for a very long time and we've gone out and recently hes been flirting with me alot, well today a friend of mine was having a bonfire and me and my friend we'll call her "person x" were the only girls there. Well my ex has been known to flirt so he was casually doing it with both of us. then him and i break off from the rest of pack and we both get the wild idea to go swimming in the river. so we both strip ( not totally )and the whole time im scared hes holding me really close to him and he even carried me back to the house because someone lost my shoes. anyways at the end of the night he takes "person x" away and i already knew what was happeing and you guessed it he asked her out and she said yes after knowing how much i like him. Its not just that but in the morning she'd been telling me about how the love of her life "was being a dick" but she couldnt help but still like him and then when i asked her if she really liked my guy she said yea and i asked her more than the other guy and she said "as of right now yea, cuz hes being an ass". I dont know what to do! she's known for being fickle about the guys she likes. she like a guy alot and then after they go out for a couple weeks decide she really dosent. Also at the party she kept saying how much of a retard my guy was and she always makes fun of him, like what he wears and what music he listens too and they hav almost nothing in commen they're so different. I'm just so lost on what to do! HELP! (link)
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Hunny lose the friend. Shes a guy taker and honestly she just seems to ALWAYS have to have a boyfriend. She switches from guy to guy as soon as one likes her. Thats horrible. With the guy, you could tell him what she was saying, and tell him how you feel, but dont sound like your hurt about it, make him feel like its his loss. That was SOO messed up of him, but i would say he liked you both and he probably couldnt decide so he spent time with you alone, and then he went and decided to ask your friend out. Its messed up but im pretty sure thats what his intentions were. Sorry to hear that. But good luck and i hope things work out for the best.
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does anyone know where i can get xanga music codes for rap songs and some really cute backgrounds? thanks i rate high! (link)
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MUSIC-
www.xanga.com/music_galore
and for backgrounds-
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=backgroundz_4_yooh
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=designsbysyane
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Backgrounds_Layouts_4_Dummies
hope i helped
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ok so..i broke up w/ my bf cuz his friends threaten me and fight w/ me and stuff and i just couldnt take it anymore..and now i think it was a bad idea to break up w/ him..wat should i do? (link)
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Ok if your boyfriend was doing that its diffrent. But his friends? Dont let them think you let that stuff get to you, who cares. Hes your boyfriend and if he likes you and you like him then stay together. Good luck
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Ok I can't decide if I should go to the movies with strangers tonight. My friend knows this girl from another school and they are going to the movies, and their supposedly bringing a bunch of hot guys. My friend wants me to come, but I don't know if I should. I'm just shy. These people are all the same age as me. I don't have a boyfriend, and I do kind of want to meet guys, but I'm nervous. I don't know, should I just go out with my normal group of friends tonight? (link)
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Go for the people you dont know. If your friend is there then i'd go. You know your other friends, but its always good to meet new people. If you dont have a boyfriend and you wanna meet guys then go and do it. If things dont work out then you know that they aren't your kind, or type of people to be around and go with your other friends. Give things a chance. Good luck
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my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help! (link)
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Well if you know hes that type why would you wanna be with him? If hes telling other girls that then hes not exactly "cheating" or "liking" other girls. If they dont even live in the same town then you should just say "i went on your account, i know i shouldn't of but i did, and i saw what you were saying to some girls, and i just wanna know what your intending when you say that to them?" and tell him if its something he thinks is ok, then make it clear that it isnt and you wont tolerate it. But YOU hAVE TO TELL HIM. dont put it off or ignore it. Its gunna bug you like crazy. Good luck
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i was hanging out..dating this guy for about 2 months & we had so much fun together hangin out & he was so sweet to me.. we talked about not getting serious and everything since he was going pretty far away for college.. then he went on vacation with his friends for a week and came back & i went to a party at his house and he barely talked to me.. and now he never calls me and we havent hung out for like a month..was he using me or what ?.. i dunno what to do i really miss him!! ..it freaking sucks! (link)
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He might not have been using you, its more like he just realizes he doesnt wanna be in a relationship with anyone, cause hes going away for college and everything. The vacation gave him some time for him to think, and that really made him realize alot of things. As much as it hurts you and everything you'll have to let go. But first talk to him and ask him whats up with you guys.Its better to ask now when you still see him and can talk to him, then waiting and never getting the chance. Good luck
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all right, i'm going to this wedding today and i'm bringing my best guy friend and now i'm feeling nervous. see i have this huge family and i'm worried they will bug him or make him feel uncomfortable. i can't cancel because he seems to really want to go an i'm just worried my family will scare him away or something. what would you guys do in this situation? i already warned him but he just laughed and said he was sure it would be fine... but still i'm nervous. help? (link)
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Trust me i've been there. If i were you, just tell him everything about your family, give him a heads up. Make it so its funny and he'll laugh but he will know what to expect. Everyone has weird families. lol good luck
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