ok well me and my boyfriend have been goin out now for awhile but he still eyes other girls like we were on the phone and he was like oo shes soo hot I was like wtf?! and i told him i didnt like it but he cared for like two minutes I know he loves me and he tells me so. that just gets me I really dont see him were in seperate grades hes one grader younger hes my age but he started late.but he knows I box and fight and if theres som1 else i'd kill them same with me if I was with som1 else he'd beat the shit out of them and we love each other we play games on the phone and we see each other like on a daily basis like i go over to his house and we hav lots of fun weve known each other for almost three years and idk if we should go further in our realationship I dont want him to just think i'm here for a kissing partner or A booty call help me i'm totally confused
I'm 13 and i'm female(obviously) lol
willa113 answered Sunday June 19 2005, 11:20 am: get searios with him tell him that he needs to stop b/c its making you feel insicure and if he doesn't he might need to find a new girl [ willa113's advice column | Ask willa113 A Question ]
aicila answered Sunday June 19 2005, 5:30 am: if you really love this kid tell him its normal for him to look at girls if hes only 13 but tell him to keep it to himself. and as for going further is you mean sex of some sort you should wait thirteen is realllly young and sex realllly mess' with stuff if you getting mad about him looking at girls and if hes doing it you two are not mature enough no offense but although it doesnt seem it it is alot easier to wait [ aicila's advice column | Ask aicila A Question ]
HyperactiveMiss answered Sunday June 19 2005, 3:05 am: Tell him if he's going to continue dating you, he had better keep his eyes off of other girls. If he likes other girls so much, he isn't giving you enough attention and you shouldn't bother dating the guy. Not only is he looking at other girls, he's being really rude about it. Tell him you don't appreciate him saying things like that about other girls. Don't feel bad about being mad at him, who wouldn't be? So just talk to him and get some sense into his head. If it doesn't work, break up with him. That's what dating is all about. You date to gain new experiences, bond with someone, and find out what you need and want. If it doesn't work out you move on and live life. Good luck! [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
MaNdASzHElP247 answered Sunday June 19 2005, 1:29 am: ok hunny remember your 13! there are sooo many guys out there! dont get caught up in just one so young. BUttttt. him checking out other girls is wrong i know but think of it this way. your HIS girlfriend. you HAve him THEy dont. So why stress over some other chick who he looks at, when your the one there kissing him n having fun with him? When he says stuff like that just try and find something wrong with her, and if you make it in an angry tone he will eventually learn that you hate it. If he doesnt and your still bothered by it then tell him its gotta stop cause its getting to weird and your bothered by it or else its gunna have to be over. Just remember no boy is worth your tears cause theres a whole world full of them! And p.s. NEVER LET ANY GUY THINK YOUR JUST A KISSING PARTNER OR A BOOTY CALL. then others will think your "easy to get" and that will make your reputation. gooo downn. Ok dear hopefully things work out with you and your boy<3 [ MaNdASzHElP247's advice column | Ask MaNdASzHElP247 A Question ]
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