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hey..ummm..well i like this guy...but he has a girlfriend and his girlfriend is one of my good friends. But she is gone for 2 years..so..how should I get him while she's gone..or is that wrong? please help! :)
Dee
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If his girlfriend is one of your good friends, you would NEVER EVER even CONSIDER tring to make a move on her man. It is definitely wrong and I am sure you know it. If they ever break up, it would be okay for you to make moves on him. But while they are still officially a couple, dont' even think about it. They are boyfriend and girlfriend for a reason and they probably love each other very much. Don't mess that up. Especially when there are so many other guys you could go for, not just that one. Think of it this way. If you had a boyfriend, and you were not able to see him for a long time, would YOU want some girl stealing him from you? I don't think so. Do the right thing.
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Shes gone for 2 years?! - Where the hell is she going... haha.. ok besides the point. There is no way you can steal her guy! Shes on of your good friends Dee! What are you thinking?! lol.. Ask him if hes going to stay with her or just end it.. afterall hes not going to see her for 2 years.. he probably will eventually end it with her.. all of his other friends will probably have girlfriends and he will probably get tired of waiting for her to come back.. thats when you can jump in and be flirtacious.. her guy will soon be yours ;)
<3 Maddie.. hope that helped!
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i dont think its right to do that..i know how tempting it is..but think about how hurt your friend would be if she ever found out..think about your conscience..you would feel horrible. i would however talk to the guy and saay something like "wow..i cant believe your gf is gone for 2 years..are you going to end it with her or stay together?.." see his response..
you can get a friend of yours to tell him "you know..i really think (your name) likes you...what do you think? and if he says yes..wait until he breaks up with her.
it would be a lot easier if someone else camee into your life but i know how feelings are trust me..
good luck!
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dee-
sorry dear but if shes your good friend then you cant even think about taking her man. That is so messed up. And whos to say hes a pig like that and is gunna mess around with you and still be with her. You might end up losing a friend and guy may hate you all for trying. Your better off not trying to get with him. Good luck<3
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