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Hey im an high school graduate and live in New Jersey where i give advice to all my friends and other people. I give great advice and i wiling to hlp all of you in your time of need. so if you need help remeber: Jazzy Got Da Answer

Jazzy**

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ok welll i really need some help. ok well i did something really bad and its not like me to do it.. ok i stole my friends cell.. at school.. and i lied and told them i didnt steal it.. and then i got caught bc my bff called her mom on it and i didnt think theyd track the number.. but yeah i got caught and now im suspended.. and the girl told everybody about what i did.. and now the whole school knows aboout it, and like everybody is mad at me..and i have like not many friends.. blahhh i just need some tips on what to do.. please help me =( thanks..

just apologize to the friend and want she start to be your friend again then everyone will follow. (hope it works) it should

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alright. my boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. & I still like him / havn't gotten over him yet. we only went out for 3 months. I really want him back and give it another try. He says he likes me but he also likes another girl. This girl that he likes calls him alot and shows him she cares about him, while I don't do anything bc I feel like I have no chance whatsoever. He told me that I should try ( call him and stuff) but I don't know if I should just move on or try to win him over. What would you do?

hey dont let nobody take your man but seriously if you want something you have to go get it it's not just going to come to you if dont take him back then he will go with the other girl

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Life sucks! Serioulsy sucks! There is not one good thing in my life right now! I have lost two of my best friends these past two weeks and it's all because they are extreme liars and and loosing another best friend right now..it's in motion! :'(
Then all of my friends are fighting with eachother and I am torn in the middle! I don't know what to do!!
Then my family are like omg!! I hate to be at home! My sister just moved in with her boyfriend and so them and my parents are always talking about "couple-stuff" and Couple trips and couple couple couple!! AHH! I can't take it anymore! I'm the fith wheel!!They are always like, "Oh yeah, you are coming to..But can't you stay home with the dog. This is more of a couple/grown up thing. (IT WAS THE CINEMA FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!)
I'm teeling you, I don't like being at home, I'm like fighting with all of my friends! And those I'm not fighting with are like having so many problems right now they don't have time to hang out =/
I'm the fith wheel, I don't like being at home, I'm loosing my best friends, my other friends don't have time for me, I'm failing in school! I don't know where to go or do!! I am totaly lost!!

Is there No hope in the world?!?!?

:'(
thanks for taking your time to read this...

first calm down everyone goes through a lilttle agavation in their life thats only to make things better dont stress sit back and everthing will work itself out

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I know its LONG! but im serious..im panicing..

i did something bad..really bad :[ i do regret it but i tried to stop it! you see my friend and i went out to eat..at this restauraunt where all the kids go! im 16 and my friend is 15! my mom dropped us off there since i cant drive YET. soo we ate and everything and my friend is like ..lets walk out without paying! and im like nooo nooo noo! im not gonna do that i just cant im not like that. and shes like come on i have a plan we go to the bathroom and then just walk out! and you see like EVERYONE from our school was there that night. so we go into the bathroom and im like we cant do it ..its not right! we are gonna be caught lets just pay whats the big deal? and my friend is like if we see our waitress then we will go back to our table and pay but if we dont lets just leave. soo we didnt see her but i tried goin back but my friend grabbed my hand and like dragged me outta there. we started running away..and then the waitress and the manager came out and was like you ladies walked out without paying and then we made up some story..but we eneded up paying in the end anyways! i didnt tell my mom or anything but then today (4 days later) this girl is like what did you do this weekend and im like hungout with people and she is like what did you do on friday? and im like went out to eat and shes like oh yeah i heard you tried to eat and run but you got caught and im like WHO DID YOU HEAR THAT FROM? and she is like matt..the kid right next to her some really popular kid! and then im like well how does he know so now i guess its getting around the school and im not like that at all! i feel so stupid and embarassed i know it was totally wrong but it wasnt my idea! im so ashamed..what should i do? is there anything i can do?! im scared my mom or brother or dad is gonna find out since my bro goes there all the time! and now we cant go back there and it was our favorite place because we are scared they will recognize us! i just dont know! i know its wrong so please dont say anything i just dont know what to do. and the people that worked there are only a grade older then me and my friend-11th grade and they were working! they were the ones who probably told! just any advice?


i'll rate 5! thanks

hey im not going to tell you it was wrong b/c you know that im just going to say everyone once in a while friends do something that they know is dumb but you do it anyway right now it's embarrsing but you look back on this laugh these are the things that make being s a teenager fun so dont sweat it and your ma dad and bro wont find out


Jazzy**

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my best friend in the whole wide world hates me now just because i'm too moody i really dont notice when i'm moody but now she wont talk to me she changed her answering machine and this is what she says "if this is (my name) dont call here ever again" that really hurt my feelings and i'm still crying right now! what do i do to get her to be my best friend again?

Im going to tell you how to get her to be your freind again but first what kind of friend would put that on their answer machine anywayleav her a nice message letting her know that you dont mean to be moody it just happen and you dont want to lose her over it so you can yall talk

Jazzy**

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You know where the pee comes outta? Well, I have a little gray ball that hangs down from it. It's not normal. And I've gotten this little ball, twice. The last time it went away. It hurts, especially when I'm walking. The doctor said it was nothing. Has anyone ever had this or know what I should do. Ahh, last time it took a month for it to go away. Would it have something to do with the underwear I'm using?

I know this is totally gross, but I really need some advice!! =(

I really think that you should go see another doctor because thats not normal and you dont need or want any surprise illness so go to another doctor and see what they say

Jazzy**

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my bestfriends parents are mean to her..they dont hit her but they call her names and stuff..she called me crying hard and i know she cant take it! and i need to know how to help her..any ideas??


5S FOR ANYTHING SINCE THIS IS URGENT!!

their mentally abusing her. you be their to talk to her but trying asking her do she want to go talk to some kind if counselor or something.


Jazzy**

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kk well 13/f. i have my 8th grade dance on june 8th. i have to get surgery on my knee june 6th - i tore my acl. and my birthday is june 5th. my guy friend [ hopefully something more soon ] wants to go to the dance with me - i dont know if i wanna go though, let alone with him because i wont be doing much (or all) dancing and i dont wanna bring him down. or let me feel left out. what do you guys think i should do? should i go and dance in a chair? should i go with him? helppp

aww that is so cute im remeber my 8th grade dance im in my last year of high school now. explain to him how you feel and see what he think about it if he still want to go with than go and have fun if he dont than respect his answer.

(hope it work out for the best)

Jazzy**

Let me know what happen
Allaboutjazzy06@yahoo.com

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well I had A best friend she wsa like a sistre to me, we did everything together we told each other everything. We were friends since I was in 2nd grade and she was in 3rd. well now we are in high school and we got suspended from school because we both got in trouble for something, well I confessed to what I did but she tryed to blame her part on me. WE havent talked since (its been a couple of months) because she betrayed me. should I give in and talk to her and try to be her friend again, after all she was the best friend i ever had or so I thought so should I try to talk to her or just forget about her??? srry its so long but please help me.

Hey i had a best friend since second grade also and were on our last year of high school and we have been through hell an back but you have to work it out you cant just give up all those years yall are not just bestfriends yall are sister
try to talk to her(I bet she miss talkin to you)

Jazzy**

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ok... my friends ALWAYS do things during the weekends but NEVER invite meh, and i`m sitting here crying rite now because my friends are out right now and i`m home BOREd! this is the 4th weekend in a row that they`ve done this to meh...... WHAT DO I DO??

you talk to them about it if there your friends than they should understand where your coming why are they leave you out anyway if your all friends


Jazzy**

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You seem to understand. I don't have anybody but him he took me from a bed situation. And I don't have any friends and you gave good advice like a friend. So thank you very much.Friend.

You are so welcolme anytime you need a friend im here for you. because I have been through alot in my life and I know a friend by your side makes everything easier.So anytime you need a friend im here. Im about to be 18 in june

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Okay, so last Friday, this guy I liked, who is also one of my good friends, totally scarred my heart by asking my other really good friend out when he knew I liked him. Most of my friends told me to not jump into any relationships just to get over him and I know they are right. I've seen the effects of a reboudn relationship.

Anywayz, today this guy who I used to like and even went out with for like a few months (not a super long relationship, but not too short for middle school) was totally flirting with me and making it wicked noticeable. I had like so many people come up to me and tell me. Well, the truth is, I thik my feelings for him might be coming back.

Am I just rushing into things? Should I act on my feelings? Talk to him about it?

he may like you again and it's normal for your feelings to come back but i dont think you should jump into a relationship just keep him as a friend bc you dont want him to get hurt bc your only doing to get over the other boy

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i like this guy....(duuhh) ok uhh and we were pretty good friends but we had this fight(he told me he loved me and i acted kinda weird /mean) and he never talked to me since than! then i called him and appologized but he only was like:uhu yeah blablabla ok and i do like him and everytime i see him he lookes at me today he even smiled once but i thought that was just because he was laughing at a joke...and at the bus today he looked at me in a sad kinda way....and i wanna be friends again but im just scared that when i talk to him again he'll be like all weird again
so what should i say? and how should i act when he's weird?? does he still like me cause he also never talkes to me?? and well he usually ignores me and uhh everytime (not everytime but pretty often) i look at him i looks away and this is really sad cause i love him more than anything!! oh and u cant say i'm getting on his nervs cause i never talk to him or something but everytime i'm in this room or hallway he's going somewhere else and i dont know ...but i think its because of me and i didnt do anything??? yeah so please help!!!
please help
AAHH
i'll rate!!!

he still like you thats why hes not talking you because he's a little hurt but you need to make him understand how you feel if he wont talk write him a letter (that always work)

try and tell me what happend

allaboutjazzy06@yahoo.com

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ok when it comes to guys... Im like horrible. Well for starters im 16/f just to let you know.
Anyways Im so confused... ok theres two guys... the first one is my ex. Now with him he cheated on me and then broke up with me... but he told me that he still likes me. But when it comes to people if you break my trust theres a part of me that cant let it go and I know thats bad but he really did hurt me. Well anyways Im pretty sure I dont like him anymore. I think its mainly because he doesnt know how to keep a promise like he'll tell me hes gonna call me and he NEVER does, so Im so confused cause now I'm just like w.e I dont really like you but I never told him that. And Im trying to make it seem like i dont like him like that anymore but I dont know how... ok well thats my first problem, now heres the second theres this other guy and what i like about him is hes the other way around if he says hes gonna call hell call me and when he doesnt hell text me and will be like im sorry ill call u even if its late just so i can say i called you. BUt the problem with him is that I think the only reason hes calling me is so he can forget about his ex, who like completely broke his heart and he told me all about it so i feel as if he wont get over her, and that i know too much about him to like him.

hey ive been here before first leave your ex alone he's no good for yo. second since both you guys been hurt it's going to work better right now it may seems as he's using you to get over his ex but he has to like you a liitle be patient and give you guys a chance dont think negative or the outcome will be negative

Jazzy**

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Well me and this guy have liked each other for about six months now but we arent really going out ... (he wants to keep his options open) and he recently met this really nice girl who is my new friend and is like exactly like him. sooo im gettin kind of jelous cause i feel he likes her more than me. I kno i shouldnt think like this cause we arent going out and he isnt attached to me, but he is the first guy who has ever liked me back (im pretty heavy and not tooo atractive) and she is beautiful and smart and [=they have soo much in common like what profession they want to go into, their sense of humor.... so yeah idk what to do. idk if she likes her much i kno i am not up to her standards, so should i just back out of his way and just be alone for ever or what please help. i will rate high!

first of all stop puttin your self down everybody is beatiful in theri own way. and theris someone out their for everybody so look at this as a bleesin because your dream man can walk through the door any minute let your friend have him
(it's not going to work out anyway)

Jazzy**

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i was rapped--twice.and i was telling my cousin about it (online) and her sn is sord of like this perverted (but we were cool) kids sn..and i ACCIDENTALY IMed him insted of my cousin..so he knows all about my rape. he now hates me..and i tried talkin to him but hes being rude and wont talk to me and if he does its an insult. then he IMed me and was like,"im ganna tell everyone" and went on his away message and it said " (my name) GOT RAPED!"im soo upset..my friend offered for her bf to beat him up..but hes not answering his phone or anything.. (2 people know about the rape)..WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!
anything will help at this point

love always and forever
sam

hey i know you probably want ur friend bf to beat the hell out of him but that only makes things worst. go to somebody with more authority because thats just rude and what kind of peson would do something like that. hope it works out for you .

sorry about your rape
Jazzy**

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its kind of a long story, for those of u willing to read......this guy... we'll call him james. james and i have been together for a year. everything was perfect. my family liked him, his family liked me, or so that is what i thought. everything was falling perfectly into place. One day, my mom was with me while i was opening an email. this was about two months ago. i opened my email and there was this song that he dedicated to me. The words of the song were really nice, but he didn't just send the words. He sent the music video, which had gays and lesbians kissing all over it. i asked him why he would send that to me, because usually guys who like girls are grosed out by two guys kissing each other. He said that he was sorry, he only meant to send the words to me, but my mom had a fit an a half because she did not think that it was normal for a young man to be sending his girlfriend those kinds of things. then, she did not want me to talk to him any more, which i remember was right before the hurricane. so, after that, i had no communication with him because there was no power due to the hurricane.my mom made me tell him i didnt want to talk to him anymore infront of her and wouldn't leave until i did. as soon as i had power, i sent him an email telling him i was sorry and everything... but we didn't have power for almost two weeks, so i was super worried... and i didn't talk to him until a week after because i was really nervous. he said that it was fine and stuff and that he really wanted to be with me and all that. so, then there was this party that i didn't know he was going to, and i saw him there cuz he showed up. he came up to me and the whole night he was hugging me and kissing me and holding my hand i was really happy and had all of these butterflies in my stomach, but like two days after, he told my best friend to tell me that he wasn't really that interested in me. and i was very hurt because he always told me that he loved me and that he wanted to marry me and stuff. this happened like two months ago. so, i get a myspace friend request last night right when this other guy was asking me out. but, i was still hurting from the other guy... but then i saw him and when i looked at his myspace it said that he loves this girl and all he can do is think about her. and now i don't noe whether or not to approve him because what he did really hurt but i still want to be with him, and his dad might have something to do with what happened because i don't know if his dad is at me. please help me... should i approve him even after all he did????? because i might want him back..

Hey first mom went a liitle to far but Im 17 and my mom is the same way you should approve him. because maybe yall need to be friends and talk to get things straight before you take him back because hell come back they always do. be patient it will all work itself out

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My boyfriend & I have been together for a few months. Our relationship is starting to get physical and serious. He has always made the first move to kiss me, grab me, etc. I've never been that open to do that to any guy, even though I have strong feelings for my boyfriend. How do I go about being sexy and actually making a move on him? How do I get to be the 'dominator' this time around and be really sexy about it? (17/f)

you have to be confident and he will think your sexy. he's going to want ypu no matter what so just do whatever happens it never works if it's planned

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well i am 13 and having my second child. that pretty much says it all. help?

baby gurl get a condom or birthcontrol. your two young for those kids but you got so make the best out of it

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14/male.

I have crush on this beautiful, smart, funny and great girl. I've (sort of) asked her on dates before - we went to the movies. It was kind of a bad time, because she brought about 5 friends, and it was if I wasn't even there. I just kind of hung around the entire time and didn't even talk to her.

There's a school dance tomorrow. I asked her if she was going to go and she said yes. So we're both going. I want to ask her to basically be my girlfriend...but I have no idea what to say, and I'm really afraid of rejection. What do I do?

hey scary you have to just be yourself thats what girl love the most tell her how you feel be sensitive and make her feel good if it dont works than she's not normal

Jazzy**

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