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need to make the first move
My boyfriend & I have been together for a few months. Our relationship is starting to get physical and serious. He has always made the first move to kiss me, grab me, etc. I've never been that open to do that to any guy, even though I have strong feelings for my boyfriend. How do I go about being sexy and actually making a move on him? How do I get to be the 'dominator' this time around and be really sexy about it? (17/f)
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i'm just like you and we are both the same age...my boyfriend always make the first move...but you gonna get the hang of it.trust me...you finna get comfortable with him...just stop acting shy and let yourself go....HOLLA..
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Isay as ksome of your friends that are girls and maybe look on tv either on HBO, STARZ, or SHOWTIME and they have late night sex movies that give you a great example. hope i helped!!!!
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mmm, okay.
i'm fourteen years old. and your seventeen.
i'm pretty good at giving advice to people about these kinds of things, because i'm been the through everything.
so if you don't like my advice then, it's all good.
don't take this seriously, because you can over come this.
but you seem like the kind of person that worries about what a person is gunna think you make the first move. if i was you. i would just let go of all of that feeling and just do it.
do think about "what it?" just do.
you kno what i mean? THINK BEFORE YOU DO. but don't always think of the negitives, yah?
be more sexier by just taking chances. and don't be like "oh i HAVE to do this" when your sexy you don't TRY to be sexy you just DO.
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you have to be confident and he will think your sexy. he's going to want ypu no matter what so just do whatever happens it never works if it's planned
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It's really embarrassing to try to be sexy, I know but rather than try to work out what to do to turn him on and make a move on him, why don't you ask what he would like. Then, as long as you are comfortable, do what he suggests. The only flaw in this theory is that you have got to be comfortable saying no to him. You want to please him but there are boundaries.
The main thing that men think is sexy is confidence. A woman could look like a truck ran over her face but if she oozes self confidence from every pore, he'd still be turned on! So before you start doing anything, make yourself feel confident. Then kiss him first. Most guys love it when girls make the first move so just take a deep breath and do it. See where things go from there. If you want to do something to him, do it. If you want to touch, caress or (dare I say it?) kiss something, do it. This shows him that you are in control and you're confident and happy to do it.
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tease him acked like your gonna kiss him and kiss his neck and rise up more and more untill you get to his lips
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