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its super weird... and i don't know what to do
its kind of a long story, for those of u willing to read......this guy... we'll call him james. james and i have been together for a year. everything was perfect. my family liked him, his family liked me, or so that is what i thought. everything was falling perfectly into place. One day, my mom was with me while i was opening an email. this was about two months ago. i opened my email and there was this song that he dedicated to me. The words of the song were really nice, but he didn't just send the words. He sent the music video, which had gays and lesbians kissing all over it. i asked him why he would send that to me, because usually guys who like girls are grosed out by two guys kissing each other. He said that he was sorry, he only meant to send the words to me, but my mom had a fit an a half because she did not think that it was normal for a young man to be sending his girlfriend those kinds of things. then, she did not want me to talk to him any more, which i remember was right before the hurricane. so, after that, i had no communication with him because there was no power due to the hurricane.my mom made me tell him i didnt want to talk to him anymore infront of her and wouldn't leave until i did. as soon as i had power, i sent him an email telling him i was sorry and everything... but we didn't have power for almost two weeks, so i was super worried... and i didn't talk to him until a week after because i was really nervous. he said that it was fine and stuff and that he really wanted to be with me and all that. so, then there was this party that i didn't know he was going to, and i saw him there cuz he showed up. he came up to me and the whole night he was hugging me and kissing me and holding my hand i was really happy and had all of these butterflies in my stomach, but like two days after, he told my best friend to tell me that he wasn't really that interested in me. and i was very hurt because he always told me that he loved me and that he wanted to marry me and stuff. this happened like two months ago. so, i get a myspace friend request last night right when this other guy was asking me out. but, i was still hurting from the other guy... but then i saw him and when i looked at his myspace it said that he loves this girl and all he can do is think about her. and now i don't noe whether or not to approve him because what he did really hurt but i still want to be with him, and his dad might have something to do with what happened because i don't know if his dad is at me. please help me... should i approve him even after all he did????? because i might want him back..
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Hey first mom went a liitle to far but Im 17 and my mom is the same way you should approve him. because maybe yall need to be friends and talk to get things straight before you take him back because hell come back they always do. be patient it will all work itself out
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I know that you still really love this guy. When you are in a relationship for a year, it's really hard to adjust to life after breaking up with them.
Truthfully, I believe that your mom went a little overboard with what your ex-boyfriend sent you with those lyrics. But that part doesn't matter. This guy honestly was heartless for saying he wasn't interested in you anymore and talking about a new girl.
I guess when you've known someone for so long, you start thinking that you fully understand what this person is about and who they are, but then this next moment they are turning on you. And I think this is what might have happened with this guy.
I think you are better off not looking for anymore guys to date until you've recovered from your ex-boyfriend. You shouldn't be in a hurry to find someone else just like this guy because you will later on.
I wasn't quite understanding the MySpace thing, but I think that you shouldn't have anymore contact with this ex-boyfriend who hurt you so that you can get over him faster. The truth is that I really wanted to give you some encouragment for everything thats happening.
-TheTeenGirl
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dont add him, hes not worth it.
<3 allie
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Well, if this guy was really important to you then it's perfectly fine for you not to be over him and personally, I think that your mom was ridiculous for acting the way she did. This guy doesn't seem right for you though in the long run because if he didn't even have the balls to tell you himself that he didn't like you that way, then that is just way to low. Especailly after being all over you that night. I wouldn't approve him if I were you because this way he will know that what he did was stupid and he'll know what a great person he lost out on.
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