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Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.

Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.

Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.

SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
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there are these two gurls that like me but i am going out with one of them but i like like them both and i don't now wat to do signed,confused guy (link)
In your case since you like them both and they like you your on the up and up, but in this situation the best thing for you to do is see which one you are more connected with. Which ever makes you feel more comefortable is the best choice,

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What are the best foods to eat everyday when your at an amusement park. Can I eat burgers and fries (link)
Yea at an amusement park eat anything and everything. Plus all the food is cooked at amusement parks so you don't have to worry about that. They cook it wrong and they lose business so they won't take that chance.

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my friend Breanna is pregnant. But she smokes and drinks every month. What do I do to stop her from killing the baby?
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Well remind her that she is going to kill her baby remind her of that. And then remember if the baby survives her baby has a 90% of being born premature and with major complications that can not only affect the babys growth but the babys mental state. And remind her that there is law being passed about the abuse of a not born child that could land her in jail when the baby is born, because a law was just passed that the baby that is not born is now considered a human being by Federal Law/ JAIL TIME.

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What is the best car wax to use on a 2004 Toyota Prius. (link)
Get Turtle, or if you have some bills the best thing to do is order German or Japanese wax products. I'm serious when it comes to waxing your cars or bikes get foreign products because they use new invented chemicals that allow your car to look like it is in mint condition. Im not sure if they make it anymore but if you can get "Duski" I used that on my "16" and it looks like its in mint condition when I finish.

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My friend Amber is so annoying sometimes. This kid Michael, her boyfriend, thinks the same thing. What should we do.

Best Wishes
Jacob (link)
If its sometimes there is little you can do. But in any case it might be good for you and her boyfriend to let her know when she is being annoying because you will be saving yourself from being annoyed and it will help her realize what makes her iritable. So for both parties involved in this situation just let her she is getting annoying when she is getting annoying. Because trust me when it comes to close friends they don't take direct criticism very well so sometimes its best to be around the bush (if you know what I mean).

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There is this girl at my school whom I really like but she thinks I am a loser of some kind. I really want to ask her out. What should I do? (link)
Dude, if she thinks your a loser she isn't worth your time. Trust me its never worth trying to go after someone if they cannot return the favor in any way. Trust me in the future this will save you from heart ache. So look for a girl that likes you not that thinks your a loser. Just think how are you going to feel when you ask her out and she says no or makes fun of you for trying?

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There is a place in California that has a red bridge but i forget the name of it. Do you know what it is called?
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San Franciso "Golden Gate Bridge"

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I've been married for almost 7 years and have one child who is almost 5. I'm 35, female, and I hate my body. I had a round belly when I got married, but now, in addition to that, I have this roll around my middle, and no waist. I have a hard time following strict diets that involve a lot of restrictions and strenuous exercise. I also have cellulite on my thighs, but I mostly want to get rid of the excess flab around my waist and tummy. Also, I think I might be pregnant because I've been feeling dizzy and nauseous for weeks. I've taken two tests, but they came back negative because I think I took them too early. I forgot how many weeks it's been since I stopped my birth control. I'm going to take another test in another week. Is there a diet that is safe to do during pregnancy? I know this is a lot of info, but if anybody can help me, I would really appreciate it. If I am pregnant, I'm afraid of gaining even more weight during my pregnancy. Help! (link)
Sure, well wait till next friday to take the pregnancy test lets start there. Now your looking to lose weight without diet, there are many plans for you to follow such as e-carb or slim fast. They do work with exercise and they aren't strict but there are regulations you must follow for them to work fast and properly. Now something that is not strenous would be swimming and walking. Plus if your pregnaut the swimming or water aerobic will help you stay in shape and could make the pregnancy/labor a bit easier. So Try a simple diet and swimming. From my experience I used to swim 2 miles a day=132 laps, and within 2 months I lost 35 pounds. But I was on a small diet, like light lunch and breakfast (fruits) no coke. Thats all it took. so I hope this helped and it works for you what ever you try,

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See, I am in the seventh grade and I have alot of enemies . Like some people say and talk behind my back . See, I'm not popular and I don't want to be because, there are a bunch of girls and boys talking behind each others backs . See those people joke on me . I know I shouldn't respond, but I do . What are they intimidated by me or is it something wrong with me ? They say that I'm smart but I always want more for myself and I expect others to want whats best for them . I really don't care what the others want , I care about what I want . I am nice to those I don't even like . Why are they this way towards me ? What have I done to the girls and guys at my school? I speak my mind and they try to persecute you for this . Don't you just hate it ? Peace .






































































































































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Well naturally everyone has an enemy. And if you want some advice don't be popular, I'm ashamed to admit this but I will. In middle school and High school I was one of the most popular people. But I Never gave into the whole I'm better than everyone. And its true they suck they talk about everyone and about each other, they are rude and do nothing but make fun of each other. And by getting angry and letting it to you it shows you care about what they thing. Because honestly your feelings can't get hurt if you don't care. So practice letting it role off your back, or just fight fire with fire (something I don't suggest) or just confront them.

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I would like to know a detailed idea about file server for storing images,files under the LAN. what type computer to be used for this ?
what type of softwares to be used ?
reliability of accessing the stores files/images
by multiple people same time ?

pls advise.

thanks
wilson
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Try Avix or Linux those are best programs, But before we can give you the best information we need to know what you are currently running, how many people are connected or will be connect to the Lan and what are the major purposes.

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Greetings, it's me, the advicenator_admin. Lately I've been receiving more requests to have people monitor the site for unsuitable content. Some people would rather give bad advice. I haven't cared much before, I mean, annoying questions are a problem because everyone reads those, but not everyone reads every advice column so who cares how bad it is? I look at advice columns like your own websites... unless it's really hateful, I see no need to try to ban people. Plus, so far when a columnist joins and decides it's funny to slam everyone and be mean, they've gotten sick of it after ten questions or so. No need to pick a fight when they're dropping out anyway.

What do you all think? Should we ban people with really awful columns? Not display columnists with really low ratings? Ignore everything, and just let the site run free? I want to know what everybody thinks. (link)
Actually I agree with getting rid of the bad advice columns. Like don't get me wrong sometimes you just have to tell the truth or the way of it. But if you are just blasting someone then I suggest they be removed. Only ones that are just completely rude. People come here for help and suggestions/truth, not to have someone tell them off because of an "annoying question" that they may really want to know the answer too.

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hi ive had 8 one night stands most potected and i have decided to change my life around i thought i would get some test done for aids or sexual dieses im only 16 and very scared i just want to no what happens its it taken by blood tests or wot help!!!!! (link)
Of course it will help , come on that 8 one night stands. Just because you had protected sex doesn't mean something didn't slip through the condom or that you didn't catch an STD. SO get a blood test, and get yourself tested for for most STDs,

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See, I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me . I don't want to ask him because, he's really proud and he can sometimes be a jerk . He's never been a jerk to me though, but one of my friends asked him if he liked me , and he supposedly called me ugly which lead to no . I have tried to get over him and at times I think I'm over him . So when I pay him no attention it's like he's paying me attention, and I totally get pulled back into liking maybe loving him because this has been going on for a year . Do you think maybe I have a chance with this guy . Do you think that I or maybe he is playing a game ? What should I do? PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE IF I THINK ABOUT THIS ANY LONGER , I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING REALLY, REALLY STUPID . (link)
Put it this way, he called you UGLY. That is just messed up, girl what you need to do is don't spend time trying to get him to notice you and focus your attention on a guy that maight like you. Remember liking/relationships have to go both ways. And just because he looks at you now doesn't mean he is interested, I'm not saying he isn't interested but from the information you have given he doesn't seem interested.

Cspinoza

GET OVER HIM!


I'm not sure whether this beinglongs in activsm or not but I think that when the airplanes hit the twin towers on 9/11, the terroists actually thought what they were doing what the right thing to do. I know that they shouldn't have done it in such a destructive manner but isn't that what we're doing now? We're completely destroying Iraq and are we immature enough to say when we all realize that this was an idiotic thing to do, "Well, they started it!" Does anybody else agree with me?

-Insecure- (link)
In away we are doing the same thing, and worst to our countrym over 600 more americans died because of Bush's rage as well as other active Americans that believe we belong there. But let me put it this way.

Someone you don't like beats up your little brother/sister. What do you do? if you know you are fully capable of getting back at them? You fight them.

We are doing the same thing, they hurt us majorly now its our turn to make thngs right.

Im not saying I agree with Bush's decision to try and take over their country but Im not saying we should be passive and let this go unnoticed.

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At first, this problem seems simple. In my Journalism class, we have a Journalism website. A girl in the class had 5 weeks to write her column. At the very last minute, she asks someone to write it for her. Simple solution for me, right? Just rat her out! Wrong. The girl who wrote the column for the slacker happens to be one of my friends--I sit next to her every day at lunch. What do I do? Do I rat her out, or just keep my peace? (link)
Actually you can rat the person for taking credit but make sure your name will not be given. And the person that actually wrote the article cannot get into much trouble just they can ask her why she did it. Honestly I would just tell and your not being a rat because your doing whats right. She had 5 weeks to weite the article thatsa plenty of time. But at the same time its a small deal to you. SO just think of all the possible senarios. If its something thats not to big to you or your friend let it go. But if it bothers your friend and you enought, just tell that the girl didn't write the article.

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In 1975, had carpal tunnel surgery (L) in March and (R) in July.
Last year, a M R I showed My C-2 slipped (surgery 6/4/03)and deteriating disks of C-3, C-4, C-5, and C-6 (surgery 6/10/03 removing and replacing disks). All were "pinching" nerves to both hands, causing pain, numbness, and tingling. Neither 2003 surgery has removed the symtoms, which I have 24/7, which seems to be getting worse of late. Age = 66 yr.
Did carpal tunnel come back, as suggested by family doctor and neurosurgin? My whole hands seem to be numb and the pain seems to come from inside of wrist, going up my arms.
Any info will be greatly appreciated. Thank you. (link)
Actually it might have come back. Studies have shown that even after a surgery there is never a 100% gurantee that it would be gone for good. In some cases it does come back. So I would go pay a visit to my doctor again and get a preferred recommendation to a doctor that can fully help me understand steps that need to be taken or medications so that I can not have another surgery if possible. Also it could be age or are you doing something out of the ordinary that might have just caused a little reaction.

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NB: don't read this if you are young/innocent/easily offended.

My boyfriend is 17, I'm 16. We spend large amounts of time indulging in 'heavy petting'. But when I give him a hand job (such a horrible way of putting it) he doesn't come unless he gives a hand as well. And when we were trying to sleep together he couldn't maintain an erection. My fault, his fault,nobodies fault?

What should I/we do? (link)
The problam isn't you for the handjob it might just take a little more time for him to cum, or he is used to s certain way of doing it. Now in bed most guys do tend to lose their erections and is in now way your fault. When you get older and may have sex with different men you might run across a guy with the same problem. So its not your fault. As for your additions info- No its not that he is nervous it tends to happen with intense sex, because we can maintain an erection with the pase is moderate but above that we tend to get tired after vigerous sex which can force use to lose our erection during sex. But it is before the intense sex he might have a problem.

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i am not too fat but i want to slim down alittle bit.please how can i do dat (link)
Without exercise, the only thing to do is take a diet and literally stick with it. Such as e-carb, or the slim fast. These programs do work but they require you to stick with the program and settings at all times. And if you don't work out doing this time its going to take longer to lose the weight a really long time. But some adivce is swim if you like to swim, swim like 1/2 a mile every other day on the diet and it will help. 1/2 mile=33 laps.

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My friend is looking for a way to strengthen his legs, arms, and his abdominals. why he asked me, i don't know. because i don't know ANYTHING about these kind of things! So what types of excersizes and such should he do to tune up his somewhat... frail body? (link)
Tell him to go to a gym or get a lot of home weights, For his calfs get a calf pusher, for his legs a leg press. For his arms there are just to many to list but get dumbells and do 4 sets of 15 everyday at least 25 pounds and up for sooner results, or get a bench press and start working with that to sculpt the chest. And for his abs at gyms there are machines to help with that, but its best to just to sit up and crunchies. For an over all effect tell him to swim as well and he can lose a lot of weight as well.

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my boyfriend thinks my freinds are silly people but they are not (link)
Well what does he mean by silly? Like they are funny as in hahah? or crazy? Naturally many of your relationship partners will say that about your friends, and whats the question you want answered? How to get him to stop?

In that case just ask him why they are funny, and if you don't want to do that just tell him flat out that annoys you and you was for him to stop.

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