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Q: what are some good sites that you can get music codes off of??

i already know:
musicfeet.com
musicvideocodes.com

but i need some with the videos... but just the song works too... thanks!
www.hotcodez.com

Q: Alright,I'm sorry if this is too long for you guys, but every week I go to St. Mary's at 5:00 mass. Every week there's this cute guy who serves mass. I've been eyeing him ever since I saw him, and he's been doing the same. Especially yesterday, when my family sat in the front. Im only like 12, and he looks about 14 or 15. What should I do? I really want to go up and ask him his age and everything, and if hes 14, it may not be so bad, but if hes 15, hes too old for me, right? Should I give it a shot? and then I need to ask him if he has a g/f. And what should I say? If any guys (especially) could answer this question it would be great. I will rate high
I suggest you delete this question before you get banned from this site for being under 13.

Q: I know that to stop drinking soda is good if you want to lose weight. But is it okay to drink diet coke?
Soda expand your stomach. Therefore, it doesn't cause you to gain weight, but it makes you hungrier.

xO'ali

Q: this will be very long..sorry! well me and my boyfriend have been going through a lot lately..and hes been wanting to me to prove to him how much i love him cause sometimes he wonders! so i went out of my way and paid my friends sister to take me to the mall so i could get him a bracelet he wanted carved with our names on it! so i spent like $74 on that and then i found the cutest card ever! well then since last night he has been acting kinda distant..like we couldnt really talk or anything! well then today he had to go help his grandpa so i thought no big deal ill talk to him when he gets home! well i looked at his buddypic thing and he took my name off and just put he had a girlfriend and added some other girl on there too which scared me! so i texted him and said something..no response! so then i called his house and he talked to me and said hed get online in a minute! well then he tells me hes going on vacation, he just got a job, and hes doing modeling so we wont really talk anymore so he thinks its best for now if we go on a break and i prove to him how much i love him! and he said after i send him his stuff he will read it all and think about it! and he said he cant talk on his cell cause his aunt wont let him and now he cant get on the computer either for like a week! it kills me so much cause ive never felt this way in my life..hes supposably bought me a promise ring and everything else! well i IMed that girl that was on his buddypic and seen what was up and i guess shes in love with him or something! and he was talking to her with me and i found out another girl says she loves him too and im so scared that he will move on although he keeps telling me he wont and those girls are too good of friends! i wanna believe him but its so hard! well i have his password for everything n he has mine too..well then he decides hes gonna change his AIM password and now i dont know what to think..im so scared something might be going on! i just dont know what to do! i have done nothing but cry since i found out! he told me after i send his stuff he will write me a letter back and i guess thats how we have to talk for now! i really dont know what to do cause im use to talking to him all day..it kills me so much! and i dunno what to do! do you have any cute ideas i could do with his card and bracelet that i can send through the mail? thanks so much!
Well, to me, it kinda sounds like he's using you to give him the gifts, he can show them off to his friends and say "hey look another girl's in love with me", and then forget about it all. But what you can do to prevent that, is the next time he calls, be straight up with him. Tell him that you cherish what you guys have so much enough to be honest with him. Tell him that you're getting suspicious of all these other girls that he hangs around with. What I would do, is hold off on the gifts for right now and wait untill EVERYTHING clears up.

if you need more advice..feel free to leave another in my inbox!

please rate! xO' ali

Q: 0KAY iM 13-F G0iNG iNT0 8TH GRADE iM AB0UT 5'4 0R 5'5 AND i WiEGH 119 iS 119 A L0T ?
You are at a perfectly normal weight.

Hope I helped! Good Luck! Please Rate!
xO'ali

Q: does the 6 second ab work, HURRY TELL ME !
If you use it enough and the correct way, yes.

xO'ali

Q: Alright well I have been sick for about HALF the summer.. and so ive had to be inside all the time and im as white as a feather WHITE not light.. well I was wondering if you had any tips on how to get tanner faster (without using the fake stuff)
Spend about 15-20 minutes once or twice a day outside in the sun. If im not mistaken, if your by water, you tan faster because something about the water reflecting the sun on you, idk lol thats just what my mom said.

xO'ali

Q: i hav a problem with making myself workout...anyone know of any movtivations (14, girl)

thanks!
Just think: "Either I could sit here and keep gaining weight, or I could spend a few minutes a day excersizing to lose it."

-works for me every time lol

please rate! hope i helped!
xO'ali

Q: idk how to scrunch hair! i really lik how it looks i need to kno what product(s) work best and whats the best way to do it...
gracias
Pretty much anykind of gel, musse, and hairsrpray. This is how my friend does it..
1.) take a shower
2.) towel dry your hair
3.) bend over so your hair falls in front of your face
4.) take the gel and put it throought your hair
5.) take the musse and do the same.
(4&5 is when you should be scrunching it)
6.)flip your hair back over and spray it with hairspray

Don't know how to scrunch?
All you do is flip your hair over and take your hair in your hands and push it towards your head.

hope i helped! please rate!
xO'ali

Q: Well yesterday was my brothers birthday but he died about half a year ago.I'm really sad cause he would of been 22 years old. I noticed that my dad is sad about it and I'm also feeling the same but a bit confused I'm not sure wut to think or feel. I want to do something special to give him the message he's still alive in my heart though I'm not sure what to do.I can't goto where he was buried cause he was buried in Florida and I live in Texas. it's a long story but yea... any idea's would be highly appreciated thanks in advance.
-my prayers goto all who need them-
Same situation happened 2 months ago except it was my sister and it would have been her Sweet Sixteen. What my family does, and dont laugh, We buy 3 balloons (because thats how many people are in our family) and we write messages on them and let them go. And I write letters to my sister a lot and I just keep them in a box. I vent in the letters. I truely hope i helped
.. please rate

xO' ali

Q: ok i need some good advice here. every day i put on deorderant(soft&dri) and i still sweat perfusely and get large sweat rings. also i might add that i am allergic to the powder/white deorderant cause it gives me large rashes. Any advice on what i could do so that i dont sweat as much? -thanks
Been there! You MIGHT have what I have. It is called hyperhydrosis. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and he might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a heavier thing. Its a pill that dries out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning lol. But if it's not that, Ban and Certain Dry work good for most. Good luck. Anymore questions? IM me at gre3neyedxgirlx3 xO ali

Q: i sweat alot in my armpits. im not doing any hard activity just relaxed. i would go to school or even talk on the fone and i would start sweating. this is reallllllllyyyyyyyy embarassing me. i use deordant and stuff. i cant wear normal clothes woithout them getting all sweaty. i need to know if theres anything out there that i can get from the drugstore.
~A.E~
Been there! You MIGHT have what I have. It is called hyperhydrosis. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and he might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a heavier thing. Its a pill that dries out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning lol. But if it's not that, Ban and Certain Dry work good for most. Good luck. Anymore questions? IM me at gre3neyedxgirlx3 xO ali

Q: I'm 13 and i'm looking for a way to earn some cash, and babysitting seems the best way, trouble is i dont really know anyone i could babysit! does anyone have any ideas on how i could find some customers??
One of the best ways is to put up flyers in a daycare center because there are a ton of kids there and their parents usually want to go out after a long day of work. Or you could ask your friends if they have any siblings.

hope i helped! good luck! please rate!
xO'ali

Q: 13/f

ok my friend and I are going to babysit together. What would be a good price to have parents pay for our babysitting? there is 2 of us and we both need money. but also we cant charge too too much cuz then we wont get any bizness. also, is there anything else about babysitting i should know?

I personally think $6 an hour would be a good rate for you guys because you could split that evenly. Also, its around the regular rate!

hope i helped! good luck! please rate!
xO'ali

Q: ok im 13 years old and a girl and my sister just got me this baby-sitting job. Its for a 8 or 9 year old i dont know if its a boy or girl though she hasnt told me. But i was wondering what i could do to keep them entertained and busy for a the few hours that i'm with them. I mena i really need the money and i dont want to screw this up and end up gettin the job takin anyway. so please help me thanx everyone.
I babysit too. I usually bring a book or two because at that age, they have all the toys, movies, and books, they need. Ask the parents what the kid is allowed to play with and whatnot. At 8 or 9, a child usually just entertains itself.

hope i helped! good luck! please rate!
xO'ali

Q: ok me and a really close friend of mine that are about to hook up are going to the mall together on wednesday and i noe we going to do stuff like hold hands, kiss, make out and yea. i have never had my first kiss but i am not worried because i like this guy and i am just goin to fallow his lead. but anyways he lives across the street from the mall and his parents want to meet me.. i dont know what to do.. i am scared they may not like me or if they ask me something and i answer in a way that i shouldnt?? i am only goin to talk them for 5 minutes because i am not supposed to leave the mall anyway but yea what should i do??? o yea i am 14 and he is 15.. thanks
Just a few things to remember:

-Go with the flow with the kissing.
-The parents will like you if your polite and not all over him in front of them.

hope i helped! good luck!
xO'ali

Q: Okay so there`s this boy and i really like him. a lot. okay so i hang out with him a lot then one day i told him i like him and he blushed and changed the subject right away. so we were hanging out 2 days ago and he was being really sweet. not that he`s never sweet or anything but he was different. it was me and him. he was being really nice. he insisted on buying me food. when it started pouring on us.. he took of his sweater and gave it to me. everytime i look at jeff i catch him looking at me and he blushes and then he smiles at me. what do you think? do you think he likes me or is he just being nice because he knows i like him? you don`t have to be positive but i just want a few opinions. PLEASE help! i rateee =D
I think he sounds really sweet towards you. Since you know he's shy and you think that he likes you, you should ask him out! Because it might be a loong time before he gets up the courage to.

hope i helped! good luck! please rate!
xO'ali

Q: anyone know a good recipe for a low-fat fruit smoothie. not something you just got off google though. something yummmmy :D
1 cup of your favorite fruit
1/2 cup of any kind of Crystal Light.

Blend it.

easy lol

xO' ali

Q: hey umm lol me and my best friend has been friends since 5th grade..and now were going into 8th..we live very close where we can walk to each others houses..well my parents are very stritct when it comes to drinking and stuff..well i usally went to her house atleast5 times a week..well when i stayed a night one night we drank and got drunk..well any ways...her dad found out and called and told my dad..and no i cant go over there at all! and were BEST friends..i mean i stayed a night with her once this summer..just bc it was my b-day..and i cant go over there at all..ive tried telling them EVERYTHING that i wount do it again..what can i do to make them realize i wont drink again????


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Im not going to candy coat it - you need to prove to them that you truely are sorry. Tht is the only way.

good luck! please rate!

xO'ali

Q: Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?
Its not weird, its respectful, but thats a really tricky subject. Only kiss her without asking if you know she really really likes you.

xO'ali

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