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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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of course there's the whole bird flu situation going on, but i was wondering, how do you actually get it? i mean, right now you can basically only get it from birds, unless it morphs, but what would you have to do to actually get it from a bird??

thanks!!

hey, you get the birdflu from being in contact with birds who are infected. also from eating infected birds. cait♥

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I want to get my nose pierced during the summer (nothing too big, just a small piercing on the side) but I want to make sure I'll be able to take it out at school.

How long do you have to wait after getting something pierced before you can take it out?

hey, its 6-8 weeks for most piercings. also if your getitng it done clean it daily. cait♥

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i was shaving "down there" and i got an ingrown hair..does anyone know what i should do to it? should i just leave it? and is there anything i can do to prevent it further? (i do use shaving cream)
thanks.

hey, leave it. but use skinmate baby soft shaving cream. its in a blue bottle. also use a venus razor. not the vibrating razor tho. cait♥

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ya ok my hair is about shoulder length and i have no clue on what other way to do it i tried a pony tail doesnt work for me and i always wear my ponytail kinda up on the side and im sick of doing it like that i need a new hairstyle... and having it down looks like crap

any suggestions??

hey, scrunch it, curl it, straighten it, crimp it, put it in a messy bun, or get a flat or round brush and blow dry it while brushing. also for leaving it down try a strecthy headband or leaving pieces of hair down. cait♥

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Is it possible to get your own mailbox at a post office or something that's separate from the one that's at your house? How much does it cost? How old do you have to be to get one?

Thanks.

hey, yep you can. its called a p.o box aka post office box. im not sure of the age or cost. go to your local post office and find out. cait♥

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Who sings that song, that the lyrics are like .. "Oh no darlin, you didn't crush me you completly destroyed me .."

Or is it just a quote?

hey, its just a quote. cait♥

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When I saw both jessica simpson and kelly clarkson had proactive testimonals I was thinking about gettin proactive:S. I know it's expensive but that's not a problem.


My face doesn't break out badly...only my forehead gets 4-6 pimples and my cheek might get one or two. It's not a big problem and I never broke out really bad...

I was wondering if I shuld buy proactive? or should I get a next 3 step program (can u give me a name of it 2).

PS- I've tried loreal pure zone and yeah it works but I don't like the cleanser (wid micr beads) because the beads are tiny! So i switched it with neutrogena invigorating scrub...so please help me! I was thinking 4 2mrw evening?

hey, yes proactiv works! i use it on the daily. get the proactiv kit(not suer what its called). it has 3 step cleansers and a refing mask and pimple zappers. theres 5 items in it. you can order it on tv or find it in SOME stands at the mall. cait♥

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13.f
so for starters -- we'll call me jen, and my boyfriend jim. jim asked me out, and for some reason i knew that everything would be really awkward. since we're friends, and turning into more than that is weird. but we dont act like boyfriend - girlfriend people do, or, we havent gotten a chance to since he just asked me out last night ... but whenver we talk online & say goodbye it just ends as 'kk bye' or 'g2g bb' or something with no meaning. and we have nothing to talk about lately, mainly because of pressure, even thought im not sure what from. we were talking about clocks today. yes, clocks. and it all seems so, artificial. and i just want to break up with him, but if i do that, we probably won't be friends. any ideas? not sure what about -- just, ideas. or opinions. thanks xx.

& of course ill rate.

hey, well usually the first couple days of going out with anyone is awkward. so jsut wait and see wht happens. when your saying good-bye take the plunge adn say i love you(onyl if you really mean it) or if your not ready for that say xo bye. if its not working out tell him that its not. give him time tho. he might jsut eb shy. cait♥

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wow, i definitely made a mistake, and i was at a house where people were drinking. i only sipped a few thing but i didn't even like it so i didn't drink and i didn't get drunk. i should have called my parents and had them pick me up, and i didn't so now they don't trust me at all. this is gonna spread around school quickly and i don't know if i can deal w/ what kind of stuff people could say. i really want to earn my parents trust back but i know that is gonna take a LONG TIME! i wish i could take everything back. what should i do?

hey, just let your parents know that you should have left. but also let them know that you made the right choice by not drinking so much. explain to them your point of view. as for the people at school finding out just tell them the truth. thats all you can do. dont waste your time lieing about it. cait♥

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hey you answered this question about making your boobs bigger by excersizes. im a c, but theres always room for more haha. anyways, i dont know where the question went, so could you tell me what the excersizes are, and how they actually make your tits bigger, like how.

thanks soooo much :)

hey, well i dont know if your a cheerleader or not but put your arms into tabletop motion. that means put your hands into fists and then bend your arms so that your elbosws are alligned with your shoulders. then move your arms so that your fists are facing each other. then slowly move your arms so that your fists are facing front then slowly move them back. keep doing this. what it does is it stretches your muscles bewtween your shoulders and your boobs so that the more they stetch the bigger your boobs get. cait♥

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I have some iron on letters and I want to use them on textured paper. Will it work?

hey, nope thats not going to work. i tried it before and they stayed on for like an hour and then feel off. if you want some iron on things for style try putting them on the butt pockets of your jeans or a handbag. cait♥

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I've recently asked this wuestion before, and I just wanted some new answers.I hope you guys don't mind.

Alright so me and my best guy friend, we are close. Close as in he tells me mostly everything. He's such a cool guy and I love him to death. [I'm not sure if I have feelings for him, I'm sure I don't] Well, people at school always tell me that he likes me, but I usually don't believe it. But lately he has been acting strange around me. Yesterday night we had a party thing, and I asked him if he wanted to dance[It wasn't even a slow song, and I wasn't trying to make a move or anything.] And he goes, and I quote, "No. I mean do you know how akward that would be later? I mean we are in the same math class." Yes we are in the same math class, and that seems to be the number one problem. If I ever ask him something in a friendly way [Like do you wanna dance?] he always uses the excuse that we are in the same math class as a way not to do it. But he always dances with my other friends and has a good time. But refuses me. I don't understand what's going on with him. Does he have feeligns for me and is trying to hide them? Or does he just not like me at all?

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He are sone things he does to me [and some only to me,] if this helps. In the hallways he will come up behind me and hug me or put his arm around me and hug me for a second. If I ask for his sweatshirt he will give it to me. He always teases me, but never puts me down. He sits behind me in math, so he will always try and talk to me or he'll poke me or something. Today he was making fun of the tan lines on my back [I'm a swimmer] And he always looks for me. Say like before practice we go to Randalls, he will come in there looking for me for no apparent reason. But he will still discuss things with me about other girls and tell me what he thinks, whether they are "hot" or "ugly", or pretty or nice and whatever. And he always tells me things that I should do, like dye my hair or soemthing.[It's mostly about my hair. He doesn't do it to offend me though]. Hope this helps with my/your analysis.

hey, lol thats exactly what me and my guy friend are like. well sometimes me guy friend actually DOES like me but then at other times he want to see other people and DOESNT like me. but no matter what were always friends and if he does see other people for a little while hell always come back to me. i guess that its just weve known each other since we were 5 that were just very good friends. cait♥

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I'm going on holiday in three weeks. It's a four hour flight each way. So I want a book to read, but don't know what. I don't want something that'll make me sad because I'm going on holiday and don't want to be put in that kind of mood. I want something happy and girly that'll be fun to read and not too serious. I'm in England, so it'll need to be released here too and hopefully able to get on ebay cheap because I'm skint. Does anyone have any ideas or knmow of any books like that for me?

hey, i know og two series that are very girlie. the clique(which is more for like 13-16 year olds) and gossip girl(which is for like the older crowd about 16 and up). if you want to look into them i have the websites here. www.lisiharrison.com thats for the clique and www.gossipgirl.net thats for gossip girl. also if you want to search them go to www.waldenbooks.com cait♥

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Where can I find pictures of Molly Steele?

hey, whenever i need pictures i always go to google(www.google.com). another place is ask jeeves(www.askjeeves.com). cait♥

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16f sophmore.
Ive had this HUGE crush on this senior at school, even though i have only talked to him about 3 times..


the thing is he recently got a gf and now i want to just get over him, but i can't.


i always thought he might have had a tiiny thing for me maybe becus in class hes always staring at me and stuff but i guess i was wrong :[


so please just tell me how to get over this broken heart.

hey, theres no way of getting ovber a guy. because that theres just that little something about him that drives you wild. so just remember this -- "its about time to get over this guy, because there might be someone out there thats trying to get over you". basically what that means is dont waste your time on that one guy when tehre are guys out there probably dying to go out wht you. cait♥

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My boyfriend and I go to different schools. Before we started going out, we started talking about 2 months ago. Before either of us had feeling for each other, he told me he was going to prom with a girl from his school but they are 'just friends'. So last night, was his prom with that girl. I was wondering, was it wrong for him to take her when i'm his girlfriend? I know they are just friends but people have told me that he was being a jerk by taking her instead of me. So what do ya'll think?

hey, its perfectly okay for him to have taken her. because he had told her that they were going a while ago. remember, back then he wasnt in a relationship and if he just told the girl that he has a girlfriend now adn that hes taking his girl instead of her she would be crushed. think about that if it happened to you. cait♥

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Me and my friend need something to do.. I"m not sure how much money she has, and I'm low today, so I need something cheap. Any ideas? Please respond quick, I gotta call her soon.

5's for good advice!

hey, go to like CVS or soemthing and take tons of funny pictures with her. to spice it up a bit invite other people so that theres more people to take pictures with. another fun thing to do is to dress up retarded and go into a store and have people stare at you lol. cait♥

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im going out w/ this guy and i think im rede to have sex but i dont no how to reali do it any advice or suggestions i rate all 5s

hey, you are way to young to be havign sex if you have to come here for advice. first off there are many after effects that come with sex. stds(which some of them you could have FOR LIFE). also wiht stds comes warts and sores depending on the std. if you really want to have sex use a condom. tehre are also many other things to decide aboutlike if you do get pregnant are you going to keep teh baby, have an abortion, or have the baby then put it up for adoption? cait♥

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(17, Female) I already work at a candy store & am supposed to be working there over the summer, too. They are very nice to me & I enjoy working there. However, I am also very into theatre & I found out about an audition for a theatre for grades 9-12 that does performances on issues important to teenagers & then has discussions with the audience after. If you make it once you audition, it is a paid job (I do not know how much though). I really wanted to audition, but I found out that the training will be for one month over the summer mon-thur 1-6 pm. I did not realize it was that big a commitment& it becomes a problem because that would probably interfere with the job I already have. The candy store is open form like 10am-5pm, & they said we could be working longer days over the summer (which was good for me, b/c I need to work). Howevere I really want to do this theatre thing, but I can not & do not want to quit the job I already have. The theatre program sounds like a really good experience but it's just so time consuming. I don't know what to do & I just don't want to quit the job I have (I already told them I'd be working over the summer). What would you do in this situation?

hey, first find out the facts about the theatre job. find out what it pays and other stuff about it. after that compare and contrast both jobs. think about whcih one would suit you best. think about finanical things adn which job would work better with your life. if it happens to be the theatre, politely explain to the candy store that you thought about it alot but the candy store job just isnt working for you and your life. hope it all works out. cait♥

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A little background information. My mother is on the pill(not for birthcontrol tho, other reasons), antidrpessent, leukemia medcine & alot of others.
Lately she yells literally EVERY day. Usually before i'm out of bed, shes yelling. I serioulsy can't take it. She FLIPS out over the smallest things. Like right now shes cleaning & she misplaced the MR. Clean & she was flipping out. IT only adds stress & tension to the house. I seriously can't take it. I've had a headache for over 3 months now. I beleive she is one of the main problems. I'm asking, what should i do to make her calmer & less stressful to others. & i CAN'T confront her.


ps another big problem is $12,000 in debt.

hey, qietly suggest to someone other than her(maybe your dad?) that she needs some type of help. you and that person should work to find her help. cait♥

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