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im going out w/ this guy and i think im rede to have sex but i dont no how to reali do it any advice or suggestions i rate all 5s
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hey, you are way to young to be havign sex if you have to come here for advice. first off there are many after effects that come with sex. stds(which some of them you could have FOR LIFE). also wiht stds comes warts and sores depending on the std. if you really want to have sex use a condom. tehre are also many other things to decide aboutlike if you do get pregnant are you going to keep teh baby, have an abortion, or have the baby then put it up for adoption? cait♥
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Hey, okay, so you are obviously unsure about what to do because you came here to ask for advice. This insecurity is important because it shows that you're probably not ready to have sex. However, if you do decide to have sex, then that is your personal decision to do so. Just be sure to know the risks, and make sure you truly have feelings for this guy. Don't let him influence you; you need to decide what to do for yourself.
good luck- :)
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Well first of all, sex is a BIG deal. You may not think so, but it is. And while you think you may be ready.. I don't think that at 14 you are fully able to comprehend everything that goes a long with sex. For example, are you aware of STDs, have you and your partner been tested?, pregnancy, your parents finding out, schoolmates finding out, the pains and sores..etc. There are so many things. Sex drastically changes a relationship, but physically and emotionally. It can tear a relationship a part. Ultimately, the decision to have sex is soley you and your partners but you both need to realize the after effects. I think that you and your boyfriend should really sit down and discuss if you really want to alter your relationship in this way. Upon doing so, you should discuss protection. Your last worry should be how to do it exactly, because when you love someone and care about them it's not just having sex, it's making love and it is suppose to be beautiful. Please think about that. Whatever you decided, please be safe. You only get one first time. And 14-year olds relationships generally don't last a life time. :)
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