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me and 'boyfriend'. awkwarddd.
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so for starters -- we'll call me jen, and my boyfriend jim. jim asked me out, and for some reason i knew that everything would be really awkward. since we're friends, and turning into more than that is weird. but we dont act like boyfriend - girlfriend people do, or, we havent gotten a chance to since he just asked me out last night ... but whenver we talk online & say goodbye it just ends as 'kk bye' or 'g2g bb' or something with no meaning. and we have nothing to talk about lately, mainly because of pressure, even thought im not sure what from. we were talking about clocks today. yes, clocks. and it all seems so, artificial. and i just want to break up with him, but if i do that, we probably won't be friends. any ideas? not sure what about -- just, ideas. or opinions. thanks xx.
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This is how my relationship with Ross started out. After time, it got better, much. However I wasn't feeling fulfilled, and that ackwardness was still there after 2-3 weeks of going out. So I called it off, I totally regret it, I miss him so much, so just give it time, love takes a while, but trust me, it'll work out. <3
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hun, first off i would like to say im sorry, because this is a really sticky situation. If you like him more than a friend then i think you should stay with him. When me and by boyfriend started going out it was just like that. you shouldnt just start out like "o i love you! bye!" because then it wont last very long and when you say "i love you" then it wouldnt have any meaning. since you guys were friends before i think you should take it sloooow. in my opinion, you should always be friends before you go out with someone. but if you just went out with him because he is your friend and you didnt want to hurt his feelings then i sugest that you end it now. its not fair to him or to you. i hope i helped! ♥ Leah
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i would give it a couple weeks. most relationships are like that in the beginning. it was like that with the boyfriend i have now, but not for long.
on the other hand, i was friends with this kid and we started going out and it was really awkward. i gave it a couple weeks and it just didnt feel right. i broke up with him and since then we've been best friends. kinda weird, huh?
waiting a little while doesn't hurt, and breaking up doesn't ruin everything. wait a little while and do what you think is right.
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hey, well usually the first couple days of going out with anyone is awkward. so jsut wait and see wht happens. when your saying good-bye take the plunge adn say i love you(onyl if you really mean it) or if your not ready for that say xo bye. if its not working out tell him that its not. give him time tho. he might jsut eb shy. cait♥
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well if i were you id wait it out and maybe after a few days youll be more comfortable with him as your bf and stuff, but if it doesnt turn out like that, just be like, i dont think this is working out---maybe being friends is better than girlfirend/boyfriend. hell understand. maybe he feels the same way? but still...wait and see what happens before you do anything you might not want to. it could still work out..just be flirty and stuff around him so its not like a *just friends* kinda thing. hope this helps!
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