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Hey guys its Taylor... aka T Fro! hah well i love giving people advice and im sure i know a thing or two about it so ask me anything and i will give you my best answer!!

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Does anyone know how to make your own backround color for your column...? lol it may sound stupid but i dont know how too.. i rate high ;)

Thx!

Im sorry but im not sure how to! I just got my backgrounds from advicenators... if you go to column settings then right above Page Background color you see a link and thats where i got my back grounds from. If you need more details you can Im at.... renfro sayS . Im so sorry if i didnt answer right! hoped i helped! good luck:)
xoxo BLONDE911

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People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up?

Just act cool about it and say boyfriends?? who cares!! like in a joke kind of way and then change the topic. If they keep rambling on then just tell them you dont want to asnwer that question OR you can say ive had a few... a few is like 4 3 2 or 1 boyfriend(s). I remembered when i got stuck in this type of stuff and this is how i would react. hoped i helped! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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Okay I know its not for a while but me and my friend are going to dress up totally crazy for school. I need some cool ideas for my hair, makeup, and clothes! I dont really want to dye my hair green so idk what to do with it. Any ideas will be great!

You could make your own t-shirts with matching flip flops and you can use green make up like green mascara ... if there is such thing which im thinking there is. Maybe you can use green eyeshadow?? i dont know if that would look weird or not. but experiment when you have free time to see if it looks stupid or cool! I hope you have fun! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend 4 almost 6 months and i think he is the one. but sometimes i am like no he cant be the one and i just think and think about it and other times i am like i know he is the one. i love him 2 death and i know that will never change. but do think this relationship will last ?????? and is it right 2 think that your boyfriend is the one at a young age????? he is 14 turning 15 and i am 13 turnin 14
-confused

You never know! Something might happen tommorow, but my teacher had a boyfriend from 8 grade till her junior year of COLLEGE!! So he might be the one! Who knows!! Dont decide your future now something will happen to let you know! I hoped i helped! xoxo BLONDE911

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Just saw someone ask about their school talent show and thought I'd ask too...but my questions are a little different.

I'm going to do a solo dance to a song from the movie chicago.

(1) Which song do you guys prefer, "And All That Jazz" (first song), or "Hot Honey Rag" (the song at the end where Roxie and Velma dance together)?

(2) If I do Hot Honey Rag: at the beginning of the song, there's a slowed down chorus of Nowadays, where in the movie Roxie and Velma are wearing long robes. Then when the tempo increases, they take off their robes to reveal short flippy dresses. Would that be appropriate for school? (My dress won't be that short of see through, mid thigh length).

(3) Any dos or donts/tips for practicing and performing?

Thanks!

As long as your in the dress code your fine!! it seems like a cute idea! I have never heard of the hot honey rag but i love the song all that jazz!!
Maybe you can Switch ideas for the dance moves for each song! I hoped i helped! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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Okay, my friend...Let's call her Jill, is really in love with this guy...Let's call him Jack. She's liked him since 6th grade. Well, Jill is one of my best friends and Jack, he's in my 2nd period and hes been flirting with me alot the past few months, and i'm sorry to say I've flirted back.
Well, this morning, he gave me a note and explained to me that he liked me. And then I heard him talking to his friend about me.

I really like this guy and I want to go out with him but I still want to be friends with Jill.

-I know that I should talk to her about it, and everyones telling me that if she's a good friend she'll support Jack and I's relationship, but i know deep down that there will be some sort of awkwardness around Jill.

So the question here is: How can I have a relationship with Jack, without ruining my friendship with Jill?

Let me tell you a story about my friend and the ending.. okay well there is my friend beth and the guy is tommy. Beth really liked tommy and told her friend morgan. Morgan began to like him and flirt with him. Morgan has been telling lies to Beth. Beth is beggining to be really hurt because morgan is "stealing" tommy. Soon Tommy asks Morgan out and she says yes. Now beth has lost her crush and her friend. Beth has been crying alot but i tried to help her. I hope this story gave you an idea! I would talk to jill about it and see how she responds... please consider if you like jill or jack better!
i hope this works out! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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My friend has gone crazy! We used to be really close. Then, we got in a fight because she thought I was "copying" her (whatever that means" but about a month later, she called to apologize to me and said that "she was stupid" and blah blah blah. Whatever. Well, a month after that, (a couple weeks ago) we were talking on te internet (MSN messanger) and I said, "I have to go because my mom is taking me to KOHL's because they have a sale and I need another pair of pants." She got mad because SHE shops there and now, she thinks I'm copying her. I want to be her friend but what's a friend if you can't trust her? There's no point for friendship if it is going to work out that way! I need to know if I should just apologize for something that is totally stupid and pointless, or wait for her to calm down and call me so she can realize how dumb she's been? I have no earthly idea what has gotten into her. Like, we used to go shopping together for matching clothes and shoes but I never thought it bothered her. It never bothered me when she did something exactly like me! And yes, she has done many things like me just to be like me. We called each other all these REALLY mean names but I don't want to be her friend if I can't even go to the same store as her! By the way, she informed me about that store and it was on T.V but their clothes are really expensive but they are so adorable. By the way, I'm 13 years old and I rate 5's to whoever on this earth can help me! What should I do???

I had this same problem, but i didnt know i was copying, i accidently bought some shirts like her and she blew up. What you need to do is appoligize about calling her names, but tell her that everyone can shop at KOHLS

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whenever i do crunches on the floor, i always get bad headachs. does anyone know whyy? well anyways, so since i get headaches while doing then on the floor, i do the crunches on my bed. do you think theres a difference between doing crunches on the floor and the bed? its my only way of doing crunches because my head hruts whenever i do crunches on the floor pleasehelp!

there is a difference its more affective on the floor because... when you do crunches on the bed, you sink into the bed so it is easier.. maybe try with a pillow under your head or do sets at a time, like 50 and then rest a minute. HOPED I HELPED!!! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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Is it possible to find a tanning bed at a yard/garage sale, or would it be stupid for someone to sell one? I'm just wondering if I should be on the look out for one...but would someone sell a tanning bed? I'm just trying to see what are some other ways for getting one besides ordering one full price. Can you help me?

I dont think you would find one in a garage sale. Try ebay!

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how do you get a guyy to ask you out??

Theres only one answer... FLIRT!! Go have a conversation w/ him and flirt! Make it obvious you like him but dont be annoying! Every guy hates it when a girl is annoying. Say hi to him in the halls and talk more than you do now. Maybe ask a friend to see if he likes you. I hope this works out for you!! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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I need to know some of your opinions on popular computer brands. I'm in the market for a new computer. The one I'm on right now is a Peice-of-Crap. So, if you have any experience with certain computers or prefer any certain computer please let me know.

My dad gave me my computer i love it ... its a DELL. I reccomend you going to best buy or somewhere like that and ask whats best for your needs and maybe they can help. i hoped I helped! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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I wasn't sure what to put this under.. My bestest guy friend told me the other day that he liked me since the day he saw me... I don't know if I could see him that way cuz he is like my best friend and i dont want to hurt our friendship.. All I see him as is a friend... but I dont want to hurt his feelings or make him mad... could someone give me some advice on what i should do?? Thanks in advance!

If you dont want to ruin your friendship he should understand.... but if u decide to go further then tell him from the beggining that IF you break up that you will remain as close as friends as you are now. But if you choose the other path then tell him you want to remain as friends and this is how you like it, tel him you feel bad but you think its better this way... show some sypathetic because know one likes to be rejected! hope this helps!! GOOD LUCK:) XOXO BLONDE911

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ok well i broke up with my girlfriend and i really miss her. and i dont know why. she's really pretty, the sweetest girl i ever met, and the only reason we broke up was because i thought she liked me best friend nicky. i dont know how to tell her, and really she's been a mess, but i really want her back because i care about her more than anything in the world.

Tell her what you said in your question if she rejects you , give her time to think then ask her again , include that you are sorry and you made a mistake. I hope this helps!! good luck:)
xoxo BLONDE911

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i wanna smoke some weed because it look like it can be something to try . my brother said he tryed at my age hes 19 im 13 so do I and will i be able to stop

dont smoke.. youll ruin your life, my parents freind went suicide from drugs and 3 or 4 guys from a near highschool died from drugs. You never know but most people cant stop. I would never try drugs because so far my life is where i want it to be and i dont want drugs to change that. PLEASE dont try it !!! Youll thank me in the long run!! I HOPE THIS ANSWER CHANGED YOUR MIND!! xoxo BLONDE911

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Okay I really love to swim and cheelead but next year I will be a freshman and I will need to chose.. I love both.. but which one would be better for me?? I am 14 and I have a pretty busy life.. my sister is also a cheerleader and she quit swimming.. plz help me out.. but now i got to go to 7th hour in school.. thank you..

Kaydee

You need to do your research. If you want to get a scholar ship on sports then choose wich one your better at. See whos doing cheerleading and see your compition see whos doing swimming as well. It depends how good you are. tryout for the one your most likely to make. If you dont make it, then go for the next one. I hope this all works out!! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..

Chris or Steven??

Dont worry about your friends go with the guy you now you like.. besides you told us steven hasnt worked out and you already tried 6 times!! Pick Chris and go with the new one!! hope this helps!! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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Here it goes>> My bestfriend Alex (girl)and I have gotten really close over the time we have know each other. Well something happened and know she wont talk to me and acts as if she hates me. We have gone to each other for everything. What could i do or say or to her without losing her. She means the world to me

well if she means the world to you, you should have enough trust to ask her why she is acting like this. Tell her she is your best friend and she means the world to you!! Tell her how comfterble you feel around her, maybe she wil consider how she has been acting. I hope this helps. good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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How do u get a girl to kiss you? Or find out if she wants you to kiss her? or let her know that u want her to kiss you or be kissed by u?

Thnx 4 da help!

ask one of her friends or tell her that u want to kiss her... it always comes back to you some how. hoped i helped. good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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my boyfriend is having surgery next week on his knee. he says its no big deal and that hes glad hes having it. im really sad but happy for him at the same time... what if something goes wrong? im scared though is this normal i just dont want anything to happen to him and i hope it doesnt he wont be at school for a week because he will be on cruthes and i dont kno if i will be able to talk to him on the phone much. how do i deal with this. thanks for any advice!

Its totally normal to be scared. Dont make him scared just say yeah in a week youll be good as new.. make him feel good that he is having surgery. Once he is out of surgery send him a present.... I think the best present is the cookie boque or however you spell it. Or you can send him a card wishing him well maybe chocolate ( you cant go wrong with chocolate!). Show your support that you care about him! hope this helps! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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ok i like this guy at school. he is in my gym class and i always look at him like he is the man of my dreams. he's nice funny cute sweet.anyway i can't seem to get his attention. i see him look at me when i'm looking at himbut i immeditley turn away. i'm shy around him but loud around his best freind. i don't even have the guts to call him. his name is matt and if you know who he is please help me out.when i was in 2nd grade i liked him and i still do now. he invited me over to his house three times in 2nd grade and i even saw a picture of him when he was a baby and when he was naked!
i guess my question is can u please help me to ask him to a dance at the end of the year which is on june 7th. if you know me please don't tell matt that i like him ok
signed please help me!!!!!!!!!

The only way you can get him to the dance is to get to know him. Maybe share you memories about when yall were in 2 grade. Make it obvious you like him but dont be annoying. Maybe if you have a class with him call him and ask for help with your homewrk. Say hi to him in the halls when you see him. Try to make a connection with him. Once you get to know him...make you move and ask if he is taken. hope this helps! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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