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mk, this girl who is my best friend and has been since 3rd grade is the biggest hypocrite who has even been born on this earth.
for example, she said she hated when people go, "umm okayy?" or, "okay..." and then she does it. she said she hated the word drama and she uses it. she said she hated this girl, amanda, (who is supposedly her best friend) and then she suddenly loves her when she feels like it. she said she hated this girl, nicole, & then she acts like they are really good friends. she said she hated ae, a&f, & hco .. then she goes out and buys 30473982423 things from those places.
GOD! i can't stand it. what should i do to make her stop!? (link)
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I HAD A FRIEND JUST LIKE THIS. if it bugs you that much you need to stand up to her and tell her what she's doing is annoying you and she needs to fix it. if she's really your best friend she'll understand
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i like this guy.. BUT HE IS SUCH A MAN WHORE..he always has girls around him. im a cheerleader and im pretty good looking i guess.. and when im around HIM he makes me feel special.. kind of like he likes me a little.. but when i see him.. he is doing the same thing to other girls!! so i have compitition with alot of other girls... HOW DO I WIN HIM!! 15/f (link)
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i once dated a guy like this. if he is making other girls feel special too, that means he isnt JUST interested in YOU and YOU ONLY. You need to do your best to forget about him. If you dont want to do this than just play it off like you're uninterested to an extent, boys usually want what they cant have
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ok one of my best friends (lest's call her B) broke up with this guy (let's call him A) 2 weeks ago. we all got invited to this party, but B didn't go. when i got to the party, A was flirting with me and tried to get me to dance with him. then he just kind of held me when i told him no. i guess i looked kind of sad because he asked me what was wrong. i told him nothing, but i guess i still looked sad because he tried to make me smile. then he just started kissing me on my neck, on my cheeks, and then he just leaned in and kissed me on the lips. i didn't kiss him back, but he did it again and i just stood there. i didn't push him off because for some reason, i just felt kinda weak...but at the same time it felt so wrong. then he started blowing in my ear and whispering things to me. now i feel really bad because it feels like i'm stabbing B in the back. now i can't get A off of my mind. i'm just really confused...what should i do? (link)
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it has been two week since they broke up.
he obviously has feelings for you. i think you should talk to your friend about it and make sure taht she is okay with you talking to this guy. i think that you may have wanted him to be doing these things or you would have pushed him off. talk to B and tell her what you feel, if she says it okay then go for it. Friendship is more important than romance.
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Do you think vitamin could work in white scars? (link)
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Um. I'm not sure.
Never had that problem before...
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How do you get a guys (that you like) email? without being to obvious that you like him. Oh and i work with this guy. Thanx in advance (link)
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well, i think the best way is to start showing him that you want to get to know him better with out being to obvious.
I mean if you think he likes you back than it's more of the reason to just show him how you feel.
I'd ask him if he wants to hang out sometime after you two have somewhat of a conversation.
For example: If you are talking about something and than have to go say in a flirty voice, so maybe I'll see you later. If he says yes, suggest going to a coffee shop or somewhere that's quiet yet buisy where you know you'll have his attention.
hope i helped.
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15/f how can you tell if a guy is interested, or is flirting? i am really bad with guys, and desperatly need to know the difference between being friendly and flirting!!! help please from girls and guys!!! (link)
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I think that if the guy you're talking about is getting close to you, both physically and emotionally that it can mean two different things depending on the body language.
1.If he's touchy. Ya know...gives you hugs, always says hi. Flirts physically yet you talk to him alot. Then I say he's interested. Mucho.
2. If he hugs you every so often gives a few nudges and say hi to you in the halls i think it's him trying to say, I'm here and getting to know you.
hope i helped.
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I need some things I could talk to my boyfriend about on the phone. He's really shy on the phone and I wanna bring him more into the convo so its not just me talking.
Ive tried talking about ..
-school
-music
-his family
-things that happened that day
-things he likes ( skateboarding etc.)
but he's still not talking much. What should I do? (link)
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I had the same problem.
When it gets quiet and neither of
you are talking
ask him what he wants to talk about
if he says "I don't know."
Just be like, "Come on. Please?!
It works.
And once you get the started
you can't shut them up.
It'll work.
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hi i am julie and i am 13. well there is this guy ashtyn and he is kinda hott! well today at school he sad that i always dress like a hoe but i was just wearing a mini skirt and a short shirt and he is constantly staring at my ass so today he was all like hey julie damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn (in a good way) and said i can almost see your ass. and he is always staring at my legs and every once in awhile he spanks my ass lightly but i like it.
what do you think i should do???
do i show him that i like him
luv
julie
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Sounds like he's just interested in you looks.
But he might not be.
I'm not sure.
I say go for.
If it doesn't work then he's not the
guy for you.
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When you make out with some one, is it normal to get cankersores like on the inside of your lip?
And also if you have them is it ok to make out with someone? Has any one done it?
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Yes it's normal to get them
It won't be there forever so don't worry.
Neosporin helps them leave quicker.
Also, if you have one, you CAN make-out
with someone, but I wouldn't.
If you do you risk giving one to someone else
and that's not good.
But you can if you want.
Hope i helped.
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anybody know how to get permanent marker out of clothes?! please please! x x x (link)
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...you can't. I've tried... sorry. :(
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I have all these little red bumps on the sides of my face, back and chest..has anybody had this, and if so..what is it? (link)
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...Well, i haven't hade them personally but I've read a lot of books on this kinda thing and trust me, they're natural. It's a phase. Either that or there is to much sugar in your diet. Lighten up on the caffine, sugar and maybe even carbs andthe bumps will go away. Wash yourself daily and eat a little healthier.
If none of this effects them at all then just think that they'll pass soon. If they're eating then see your doctor and if not then they'll go away once you do this.
Hope I helped.
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hey~
i likethis guy but i havent gotten a chance to talk to him sence school let out, and hes really sweet and i know he likes me because he asked me out but i was with someone at the time. well now i tryed calling him but i didnt get throught. and i really dont know what to do :-( HELP!!!! (link)
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Keep calling, IMing, talking, Seeing everyting. If he likes you and you like him then there is no question. Give it a shot.
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i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do? (link)
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Well, in every relationship you are going to think that other people are good looking. So, maybe you should just try to ignore it and keep thinking that no matter how much he thinks another person it 'hott' he's with you isn't he?
For the other things. Just try to realx a little. Cut him some slack and think about what if he was doing this to you.
Hope that helps.
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My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now? (link)
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With something like this I say be as careful as you can be. Wait a while and if it's a few days late don't worry about it. Periods come at different times. If it comes a week late. Go. And soon. You don't want to wait too long with this kind of thing. And if he is really stressing you out. MAKE him understand. Or take a break. Still go out but tell him you need time to realx becuase if it doesn't come he won't be the one with another human coming out of him.
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is there anyway i can gain a little more wieght?? i dont wanna be over weight i'm just kinda sick of people commenting my on how skinny i am. i just wanna to be "average" (link)
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Hm...maybe just eat a few more carbs a day. Just a few. That should help. You see Carbs turn into sugar and sugar turns into fat. You'll gain maybe a pund or two within a week. If you eat like, pizza, and soda a lot. for like 4 days.
You'll gain some around the belly. So it won't make you look like a twig.
Hope i helped.
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I recently broke up with my bf of 2 months because we hadn't been seeing each other as much and I felt a distance grow between us... and started to dislike things about him! At the time when we finished it it seemed right to go back to friendship because we get on well in that way, but now I'm really feeling like I shouldn't have split with him and I regret it! What should I do, will this pass or should I tell him how I feel? Even though I broke up with him? Would it be considered messing with his head? :( im not physically attracted to him either this is purely emotional relation...
im 16! (link)
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Physical attraction is not the most important thing in a relationship. If you are emotionally attached to him then it is different. Mostly what you are feeling are the consiquences of you going out for 2 months. You may hae loved him and can't release that feeling. I'd say that if you get to together with him at some point then see if you wish you were together now. If you feel this way that means you still have feelings for him and so you should tell him.
So, in otherwords...give it time
Hope i helped.
♥ Maddy
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thers this guy hes a year older than i am but he is veryHOT! He suposdly likes me, but whenever i'm around him he is either totally sweet, or making innapropriate comments twodards me. I sometimes like it, but lately its gotten a little more personal. ive asked him to stop, and he does...for a little while, then its right back to the way it was. Like i said, he is soooooo hot, and i like him, and want to have a "GOOd" time with him, but i don;t know what to do. HELP ME PLEASE
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The way he is acting might be reflecting on the people that you are around at the time. If it's being going on for a long time and he hasn't completley stopped it shows that he doesn't respect you enough to not do what you don't like. You should want the kinda guy who respects you. So, i'd say talk to him and give him a little time. If he doesn't change then move on. Looks aren't everything.
Hope I helped. Send me something if you have any other questions. I'm here to help.
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Okay people think that i stuff my bra when i really dont and then people are like oh i saw it but i really dont what should i do?
Signed,
Screw this
.P.S. I rate high (link)
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Don't pay attention to what they think. It's just because they are jealous that they pick on you. If you really don't stuff then don't listen to them, i mean it's like them telling you that you are a guy...do you believe it, no because you know it's not true. Sure it might get annoying after a while but not paying attention might help.
~Maddy~
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i think i am way fat. everyone tells me i am skinny, but seirously, i am 5'3" and 112 pounds. my friends think that just cause i m going on a diet, i will be anorexic. help!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I have the same problem. I have some fat wround my stomach and so sometimes when i look at it i think i'm fat. I don't eat a lot because a lot of the time i'm not hungry and all my friends say "are you turning anerexic?" well, i tried to convince myself that i was not fat so i looked up onn google average weight chart.
I found out that for my age i am way under weight, i looked up your height and weight and you are perfectly normal. You are 8 lbs under weight. Don't worry about it.
If this is about a few flabby spots around your body, start to exersize more. find the perfect exersize for you. otherwise your not fat, and diets are good for everyone. but don't go on a starvation diet. just try to cut down on the sugar because sugar turns into carbs and carbs turn into fat.
hope i helped. don't hesitate to ask me anything!
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ok. im a freshman , or i was last yr. and i just got my report card in the mail. i didnt do to good but i dosn't say anywhere if i passed or not? i only got a 1.4 GPA and 5 credits and my mom isnt to happy .but it dont say if i got promoted to my sophmore year?? can anyone possibly help me out. thanx
-Francesca (link)
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It depends on how many credits you need to pass. I mean at my high school you need 7 to pass. And i know a lot of people on other states that need 8 or 9. Now, in every single high school you need a 2.5 GPA to pass. So, most likely you are gonna be a freshman next year or have to go to summer school. But if they didn't tell you anything when you got your report card then you passed. I would findout the info that i gave you and then get back to us.
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