I need some things I could talk to my boyfriend about on the phone. He's really shy on the phone and I wanna bring him more into the convo so its not just me talking.
Ive tried talking about ..
-school
-music
-his family
-things that happened that day
-things he likes ( skateboarding etc.)
but he's still not talking much. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? daddysgirl9262 answered Thursday March 30 2006, 9:30 pm: My friends always have trouble with that. guys say that they have nothing to talk about, so give them something. Luckily they had me and I can easily start a conversation, try to have a friend call him with you [3 way maybe?] and you will have a better conversatioin. after a few of those phone calls try talking to him by yourself. it worked all the thousands of times i had to do it.
Kayendall06 answered Thursday March 30 2006, 9:09 pm: I had the same problem with my ex boyfriend. He never said anything. It's good that you're trying to help the conversation and if he doesn't start saying anything then just be like, well maybe we can hang out this weekend. And then start planning, and soon enough you and him will be chatting like crazy =) [ Kayendall06's advice column | Ask Kayendall06 A Question ]
xxfilmingfrenzyxx answered Thursday March 30 2006, 8:59 pm: I had the same problem.
When it gets quiet and neither of
you are talking
ask him what he wants to talk about
if he says "I don't know."
Just be like, "Come on. Please?!
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