about

Hey. Its Ashleigh. Hm, I finally decided to change this thing.


I have an amazing fiance, and I love him with all my heart.


We have a 7 year age gap, but that doesn't bother us. He is 22 if you are wondering.


We have been together for 3 years! Which amazes us both. We got engaged on February 2, 2007. & we found out we were pregnant in around May. I'm due in January 2008.


This is my second column on here, my first one being "mayonnaise".


I have a wonderful twin sister, Alexandra. She has a column, but hardly ever uses it.


I love piercings, and I currently have a little over 20. I also have two tattoos. Before you ask my brothers own a tattoo shop which is how I got my tattoos.



I'm Bipolar, and ADHD. I also am OCD. I have Tourettes. I've also had problems with Anorexia and Bulimia. I've been in rehab twice for my eating disorders. And I also had a PEG feeding tube in my stomach for a while.


I live in Lizard Lick, North Carolina.


If you are wondering where that is, its about 15 minutes away from Raleigh.


My fiance and I are attempting to buy a house in Raleigh. Getting out of this town is a huge priority.


I do have my permit, so I can drive. :]


My fiance recently bought me a car that isn't a piece like my 280z was.


I now have a 2007 Honda Civic! :]


I'm home schooled, and I'm in the 11th grade.


And that's about all you need to know about me.


I don't give amazing advice, and I admit it sucks sometimes. I try to give advice based on my opinion, because I don't give a fuck what you think about my answer. Feedback is a must. :]

advice

So, I might be getting my belly button pierced.
Does it hurt at all?

I heard they take a really long needle, I can't handle needles very well.
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Does it feel like getting your ears pierced at all?

I'm nervous.
So, any feedback would be greatly appreciated.

Hey.

I have a super low pain tolerence, and to me it didn't hurt at all. I seriously asked my piercer when he was going to do it, when it was already over! & this comes from someone who passes out while getting almost all her piercings done.

I have over 20 piercings, and this was my least painful one.

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what is the normal duration during sex,including foreplay and oral sex? i have a friend that said six hours,is that even possible?

and besides the average sex duration,what would be a good time length during sex so it's not too long or too short?asuming the sex is good

Hey.

I actually choked on Dr. Pepper while reading this. I'm sorry.

Honey, you can't put a time on sex. I've had it last 5 hours, and I've had it lasts 3 minutes.

It all depends on the amount of alcohol you've drank..cause that usually makes it longer. How aroused you are. I mean, there is just a lot of factors about it. Everybody is different.

I'm not so sure about 6 hours, I mean I can't get past 5. And that was mainly cause he was so fucking drunk.

This is just one of those questions where everyone gives a different answer, for some people it could be 20 minutes. While, for others it could be 1 hour. It all just depends on the person.

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I need to get a house key made with a picture on it. Where can I get this done? Home Depot? Anywhere? Thank you!

Hey.

Just about any place that makes keys can do it with a picture. I've seen it done at Wal-Mart, Lowe's, & Home Depot. All you do is say you need a copy of your house key, pick out the key with the picture on it you want, they stick it in a machine with the original key and BAM, instant key. Ha.

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does anyone know where i can get a cute bedspread online?? websites would be great! thanks

Hey.

I love www.wakeupfrankie.com

I have 4 different comforters of hers, and love them to death. :]

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who voices mulan in the movie mulan?

Hey.

Typically the answer to this question would be on the back of the DVD, which it is by the way.

Anyways, Lea Salonga would be who you're looking for.

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I've decided that I would like to get my tragus pierced, but it is pretty small, and I'm not sure whether(did I spell that right?!) it is big enough to get pierced.
Here is a pic(of my left ear):

http://i167.photobucket.com/albums/u140/bumarse/myear.jpg

If not, I'd appreciate any other suggestions for piercings.

NB!
I'd like to get the tragus piercing on my right ear, which does not have a helix piercing, so any piercing(s)(on the ear) would be ok.

Thanks.

Hi.

I have my tragus done, and its insanely small.
Personally I think your would work perfect with an 18 gauge piercing.

When you go to the piercing shop to get it pierced, the piercer will tell you the best size to go with as well as suggest any other piercings if the tragus will not work for you.

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my right ear lobe has always been kind of bad with earrings this past year - real itchy, well i didnt wear earrings so my earlobe could get better and stop itching but the problem was while i left my earrings out my holes started to close. so i put my earrings back in about two-three days ago and the back hole of my earlobe was just about almost closed [the right one] so i had to find where the hole was and then reopen it [sometimes very painful]

now my earlobe is KILLING me, maybe i repierced my ear and thats why - or maybe the infection got worse? my earlobe feels swollen and when i looked at the hole lastnight i saw some crusty feeling things in my ears (yes i took everything i could see out) maybe it was like a scab or something i have no clue.

whats wrong with my ear? i went to walmart and bought antibiotic ointment for my ear because the lady said itll help incase i have infection. but wont it close my piercing? i dont have any 'small' earrings theyre all silver and big like hoops or really long ones.
help.

Hey.

Having over 20 piercings myself, and always having trouble with my ears. I can tell you what to do. Those crusty things are basically just from the infection, when you see those DO NOT PULL THEM OFF, you need to use hot water mixed with epson salt to clean it off.

No, the ointment will not close your piercing if you leave the earrings in. You should probably just get some sterling silver studs and put in for a few weeks, and you will see a huge improvement.

To help your infection, just clean your piercing 3-4 times a day with hot water and a q-tip then use the ointment on it.

Good Luck. :]

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Okay, i know there's a possibility for like everything. I'm really curious. If you have protected sex a lot [condoms + the pill used correctly] and you get pregnant.. [without knowing].. what effects does the pill have on the embryo?

Would that result in a miscarriage? Also, what could happen for you to get a miscarriage besides serious falls, drugs, alcohol? I've tried to search it up but they always tell you the symptoms of a miscarriage.

Hey.

I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant, and I was on the pill. I ended up taking the pill for the first 6 weeks I was pregnant. I've had all the tests done, and my baby is fine. So from my experience, it will not harm the baby. :]

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hey i have a school skirt thats way too long and my mom won't hem it anymore, so i have to roll it to make it shorter. but the problem is it's also too big, and i cant get a new one (i have really good reasons for that so dont suggest getting a new one=p)

so anyway, when i roll it theres a dent in my shirt so you can see that i roll it so how do i make it less noticeable or make it look shorter? and also how do i get my skirt to stay up? it keeps sliding down cause its so big!

any tips or advice? please answer soon i have school tomorrow!! all answers appreciated

Hey.

First, you need to buy a belt. You can get some really cute ones at Rue21 & Target. Places like that. That should prevent the skirt from falling.

For the skirt being too long, I'd just take some scissors and cut it the length I want it and wear it. I mean you can spend around $30 or more on a skirt that has been cut off.

Thats what I'd do anyways.

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Ok so I have a Pink Juicy Couture Sidekick from T-Mobile... it's about a year old still in great condition... I want to cancel my t-mobile account but it would cost 200 dollars. I want a new sprint phone that cost 300 dollars... and so I heard you can hand over your tmobile account to a friend who wants it? and then they cant switch all the account information to your friend's so that they pay for it now and it's theirs.. My friend is interested in buying my sidekick from me..so I was thinking about doing that with her, does anyone know any information about that? if it works.. or it's possible... or if I should sell the sidekick on ebay.. and for how much? thanks

Hey.

Since T-Mobile use SIM cards, check ebay for an unlocked phone like you want with Sprint. When it comes, put your SIM card in it, and then the Sprint phone will work on your T-Mobile account.

Then you can sell the SideKick to your friend, and she could probably do the same thing.

Thats probably the easiest way to go.

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so i have a tmobile phone. i cracked it somehow & i still have another yr and a half until i could get a new one with rebates... so i wanted to buy an unlocked cingular phone off ebay. i know you can do it, but i have my faves on my phone, so if i were to get the new phone would my faves still work? theyre both samsung phones if it makes a difference.

Hey.

I know for a fact you can do that.

I have SunCom and dropped my phone in water and bought an unlocked Cingular phone, popped my SIM card in, and BAM! new phone! :]

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I want to do a photo collage in my room. I don't want to damage my walls because I just got my room painted red and such. I would use frames but I just liked this idea better since I have 87987 pictures..Literally..What should I buy or use besides tape or something [if that's a must I will] and where can I buy it? Anything can help..Thanks!

Hey.

Try something called Modge Podge.
Its a type of glue that you can just run over the pictures. Its made for collages. You can't even tell its on there if you use it!

You can buy it at Wal-Mart.
As well as most craft stores.

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I have a Diath ear peircings but I'm planning on getting a Tragus some time this month. I'm really good with pain but I was wondering which you would consider more painful, the Tragus or the Diath. Please only respond if you have BOTH or if you have a Tragus and Rook, Tragus and Ear Lobe, Tragus and Cartilage, or Tragus and Bellybutton with the comparison on those if you don't have a Diath.

Hey. I have a little over 20 piercings. & a super low pain tolerance. Well, I wouldn't compare my belly button to anything because it was absolutely painless. But I do have my tragus, rook, and daith. As well as an industrial.

In my opinion the pain of the tragus was a lot like my diath. On a scale of 1 - 10, I'd rate it a 7.

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hey. i know you've been through a lot in your life, and i'm so happy for you that you have gotten engaged & are pregnant! i wish the best for you & your family. you may live to be a great-great grandmother! how wonderful would it be to see how your family generation continues, and how you affected it?

by the way, i don't see a picture of you & your fiance on your xanga... ? just wondering.

thanks. :]
i had a picture of us on xanga, but then all the b.s you see now started, so i took it off. sorry.

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sorry that this isnt a question.
i just wanted to say congrats on the baby and engagement!!
i was reading your xanga,and i just wanted to tell you to please not listen to them,they're just jealous because you are blessed enough to have a baby and a fiance who loves you.
your really lucky,god bless & good luck with everything.
:)

aww, thank you so much! :]

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Hey

This isn't the same person as who just asked you an inbox question. I saw it- and it reminded me that I wanted to ask you a question to. I'm not here to judge- but I was just wondering how your parents feel about you being engaged.

Again- no judging.. I'm just interested. Thanks!

Well, I've known the guy for 5 years, and I have dated him for three. So, my parents love him to death.

Tommy asked my mom if it was okay, and she didn't mind. My dad was really hesitant, and still is. They don't really mind that much though. He is like another son to them.

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Are you really pregnant? Because I checked your the xanga link on your column, and it said you were.. Just wondering.

So, if so, how far along? What was your first sign?
If not.. whys your xanga say so?

Just curious, no judgement. :]

Yes, I'm pregnant.

I am 13 weeks along.
My first "sign" was probably my missed period.

No worries, its all good. :]

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Ok im sending mail to my friend who lives in florida, america but i live in australia. Snail mail by the way. I know his house number, street, post code, suburb, and of course name, but is there anything else i need to put on it? Could someone like type it out how you would put it and what i would need to write? Also from australia to america how much on the stamps do i have to put? Also, is it ok if i put them in the mail box you know the one you put letters you might be sending to family in another state? Or do i have to go to the post office? Someone who knows what their talkin about please answer. Thankyou!

Hey.

At one time I was writing to a guy in Australia. I'm actually staring at an envelope from him write now. Since you are in his situation, I'm gonna tell you what he always put.

He always used 4 stamps, just regular stamps.
It is okay to put it in the mailbox. It will get here, I promise.

When you address it to the person in Florida. This is how it needs to be.

First Name Last Name
Street number, Street.
Town, State, Zip Code (post code)

& thats all. :]

If you have anymore questions, just leave it in my inbox.

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ok well im looking for a way to earn money. and my dad recommended selling them little flipping things on the soda cans. well i was wondering where you could sell them like in north carolina, (and how much do you get for each one) thanks alot.

Hey.

I actually make stuff out of those things. :]
Ha. You can go on craftster.org, and get a bunch of tutorials on how to make purses and such out of them. They might sell easier and for more than just the tabs themselves.

Go to like recycling places, the give you 10 cent per tab. I live in North Carolina, and we have tons of recycling places.

Good Luck. :]

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ok so i've always really wanted a sweet 16 the less i want it. i like hip hop music at parties but my parents hate it and they would obviously be at my sweet 16. i also hate dancing in front of my parents. i normally dont even talk to my friends in front of my parents. my parents always eaves drop and my dad would be watching me like a hawk the hole party if i had one. im an only child so im a daddy's girl but i dont want to be.anyway basically my perfect sweet 16 would be anywhere without my parents. if i did have a sweet 16 i wouldn't know what my theme could be. im an average girl. i love life and the beach and paris. i like purple and green and yellow and blue. i like to paint. and my birthday is in november.

Hey.

I was thinking maybe talk to a real close friend of yours and her parents, and see if you could have your party there. A lot of people around here, have their parties at other peoples houses for the same reason as you.

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