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Hi, I am JenniferI am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥
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15/f
last year i was "talking" to this one guy named adam,[kind of a player] off and on. and we kissed and stuff but that was it. but the whole "talking" thing started in february and was off and on until june. in october he texted me and was like so, are you talking to brett[his bestfriend that had a crush on me but i didn't know it at the time, we had just been texting] and i said no. and then he asked if i wanted to talk to him, and i said i'd think about it because he has been known to be a player and i just didn't know how i felt about him anymore. a week later, brett asked me out. and i said yes because i had had a crush on a him since september. well anyways, its been five months since i started dating brett and i have two classes with him and two classes with adam. and adam sits with me and some other people at lunch. he always tries to sit infront of me, or walk with me to the lunch line, and always asks me for gum and talk about how we had a lot of fun last year and wants to give me high fives. and to be honest i didn't think he liked me or anything until brett said he thought adam was into me. and now that i've noticed that, i've been wanting him to come on to me. its like, i like when he talks to me, and on days when he misses first block, in my head i'm thinking "well i still hope he gets here for lunch" i don't know if i still like him or if i just like the attention. because don't get me wrong, i truly care about brett, i've never liked anyone the way i like him, and i think i'm in love with him, its just we've been fighting alot lately, and adam seems to cheer me up.
i just don't know what to do, or how i feel. can you please help me figure out what i can do? sorry its so long, and thanks for reading all of it, i'm just so confused.
Keep thinking that it's the attention you want, and it's not Adam you want. That's safer, because Brett is the guy you're going out with. But in case you and Brett ever break up, be sweet to Adam as a second choice. Almost every girl gets fought over by guys at least once, so it's nothing new. You might like Adam, but players are extremely competitive for girls, so Adam might just be feeling like he sort of lost you to his best friend and feels like he was inferior so he's trying to win you back. He might have some feelings for you, but he's a player so maybe it won't really last.
Be faithful to Brett, remember that. No one likes a cheater. So I think it's safe to keep Adam as a friend "with benefits," like as a backup boyfriend. And you like Brett, so stick to him, okay?
Maybe you don't even like Adam at all, and it's for the attention. So what?? Everyone likes attention, even when some people pretend they don't want any. It's OK to like Adam for attention as long as you don't totally go back on Brett.
-JenniC
so when i was in 6th grade going into 7th i did something really stupid.
it resulted in me loosing all my friends.
EVERYONE and i mean EVERYONE found out about it...
i am now 16 and it still hounts me.
like people sitll bring it up
what i did was not murder or naything against the law. just really emabrresing. when anyone says it to me like "u the girl who..." i cry ont he spot.
what can i do? its been like 4 years already and no one forgets it!!! like i cant go anywehre without someone knowing about me.
im scraed to go for a guy bc they wont want me bc of that..
OMG, I know 100% what you're talking about! I think if you want everyone else to let go of the past, you should first. I think the way you cry every time you're reminded of the situation fuels people's memories. Like no one's letting go of it because you cry everytime. If you just say, "Yeah, I know I was so stupid," and just act like you don't even care anymore, I don't think anyone would really have much to say about it.
You're 16. Get over it yourself, and everyone else will too. People think it's funny when someone is upset over their embarrassing moments, so they constantly remind you for the hell of it. I know it sounds wrong but I know.
And if people still remind you even after you like "whatever" continue acting like you just could care less. Don't try to talk back going, "Yeah, well you have no life remembering that about me," or go, "Oh, my God, can you guys just forget it already?" Because if you do, no one would stop.
Maybe, even though it sounds stupid, you should remind them. Like everytime the topic comes up, you go, "Hey, remember that thing in 6th grade? So funny!" So people would think you're proud of it and eventually get tired of it. Whenever someone says an embarrassing moment, you should say, "Yeah, but nothing beats MY moment in 6th grade. Don't even!" If you mention it over and over as much as you can, people might even start going, "Okay, shut up! We all know you did that, stop saying it all the time!" Seriously, it works if you do it right!
It really depends on the situation but I'm sure you wouldn't want to share it. Can I know what was so bad? Maybe it's better adding additional information to this?
xxxx
-Jenni Choi ♥
Ok so I have a problem, well I love to write and my stories get published in a web site. I have peopl who tell me they love them and that I should continue but this one reviewer continually tells me my stories are horrible and that I am a loser and should stop writing and I will go no where in the future. What should I do? I tried to make her stop/fight back but this only result in her getting another friend of hers to tell me to stop writing and that I suck. Please help!
Oh, really? That's not right. But it's just a website, remember that. It's not like this person is going to haunt you in your dreams. It's not like you're going to meet her some day and she's going to make fun of you face-to-face.
I don't think you should take it seriously. Maybe your stories suck and maybe they don't. I don't know, but it's freedom of speech and everyone is allowed to tell their opinions and not get put down by it.
The right thing to do is to ignore it. And if your stories do suck, no big deal, you can improve, okay?
You know a lot of people don't mean everything in the Internet. People think it's funny when other's get mad or sad. For example, me and my friends go on dating sites and flirt, and when the guy asks for our pictures, we send pictures of old men wearing pigtails and tutus and say: Oh, this is me, I hope you don't mind that I'm a guy! I'm also a pedophile, is that a problem? Love ya.
And of course, we think that's funny, but I'm sure the guy gets mad that we're making fun of him, but he gets over it. Because Internet. Is. Not. Life.
You can't expect to get good reviews all the time, can you? Nobody is perfect.
-Jenni C ♥
And, hey, Caitlyn, sweetie.
basically, four months ago my best friend kissed my boyfriend. all i know is i have been with him for a year and a half.
i've been with my boyfriend longer the i known my bestfriend. (now ex friend)
its hard after these 4 months because shes friends with all of my friends, you know? we were close.. so i thought. basically when i go to sit in class shes always near me because we have the same friends.
how do i deal with her?, i refuse to talk to her.(already did and no that didnt work well)
what should i do? =/
hmm, i have a question?
why are you mad at your ex friend yet everything seems fine with your boyfriend here?
i find that totally unfair. you're all pissed at your friend, yet you don't care that your boyfriend was part of it too.
seriously? that is so clingy && desperate, it doesn't matter if you knew your boyfriend longer
but... here is advice:
get over it.
i'm not saying it in a bitchy way.
but i think that you need to talk with this exfriend && boyfriend of yours.
i suspect that your boyfriend is cheating on you.
cold hard truth, i don't want to be mean, but i'm all about honesty
you don't have to talk to them both at the same time but i don't think ignoring is the best way to help make things sweeter, you know?
-Jenni C ♥
ok soo my bf is turning 16 soon and i d k what to do for his bday!! i want to like go out to this one restaurant but its expensive and im not sure if my parents would pay or not. cause if i have to then his gift cant be that much. i dont have any income besides occasional babysitting or like dog watching etc. im moving this summer and his bday is right before i leave (end of may is his bday) so i really want to make it special. i was gonna give him 16 gifts but i dont think i can come up with that many or pay for it. can anyone give me any other cute and orginal ideas that they did or had done for their 16th bday?? this is really big cause he will be 16 and i am leaving reeeally soon after so it has to be special!
also any gift ideas would be SO appreciated. im already doing like a card and a shirt (tho hes not really into clothing) chocolate strawberries cause those are his fav ;] and a CD of love songs (hehe) but what else as like a gift. or something we could do instead of a gift. it will be almost summer so the weather will be really nice thanks soo much! :)
Boxers would be such an adorable thing to buy for your guy
Can any of your give me some recommendations of some good books to read? I really like Sarah Dessen but I've read all of hers. I love books like The Lovely Bones, Girl, Bloom, etc. Any that you guys recommend? Preferably not Peaches or any Clique/Private series. Thanks!
If you like books like Sarah Dessen's, I recommend you read Sisterhood of Traveling Pants by Ann Brashares. You could also read Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson, and Twilight by Stephenie Meyer. A Corner of the Universe by Ann Martin might be cool for you, I think. That's all I could come up wit ;)
-Jenni C ♥
here's the deal i've falling head over heals for this guy sam. Well he liked me before so we uuse to talk alot. and he found out i liked someone else so he kind of backed off. and now i relize i like him and he doesn't like me he told me he likes this girl alex, she's very pretty and perfect. but me and him don't talk anymore and well i try and he does too.. i think he likes me but what do you think?
well first he always starts the conversation in school, on the phone, and on msn. he always so shy when he says hi to me in person he smiles and blushes soo cute :)
anyway he avoids well not avoids me but we hardly talk and he's saying its because i am around alot of guys but seriously when i'm not he doesn't take the chaance. he stares at me alot and sometimes i stare back and he smiles at me. he loves teasing me.. and he compliments me alot too ..
he tries real hard for us to hang after school.
and even when he does things tha don't get me mad at all he always apologizes. does he like me? should i tell him i like him ?
what should i do?
I think the best for you to do is just flirt for now, get me? Like, it depends on what you think. Do you want to tell him? Because, really, there's no point in telling him if you don't want to . That choice is 100% up to you. But if you want to tell, and you're too un-comfy to tell him to his face use the cliche "you to BFF to him" trick, which is telling your friend to tell him. I also think he totally has the hots for you, no doubt!! Totally cute!
-Jenni C ♥
i have so much to do this week and everything in my life is messed up and im so stressed and tired and i know i need to relax and destress but i dont know how so can anyone hel me?
also how do you learn a lot of information fast? and make the very best use of your time.
also any tips for sleeping because im so stressed that yesterday i dreamt about all the hw and studying and stuff i have to do and what good is sleep when your thinking about that? i tried thinking of good things and happy things and just ended up with WEIRD dreams.
thanks so, so, so much!! i will rate! :]
First of all, here are some really good websites to go to for information:
Goggle.com (that's obvious, I know, but in case you didn't know...)
Wikipedia.org
Sparknotes.com (this is for book reports & analyis)
Ask.com
answers.yahoo.com (this isn't that good)
encyclopedia.com
reference.com
Okay. I'm not sure if I can be that much help with the sleep thing but here's what I did when I had that problem:
take a long, warm bubble/scented bath before you sleep
listen to your radio/CD player/IPod while you're sleeping (I'm not sure if this would be more of a distraction while you sleep)
read a book
do your homework on the bed (that way, I get sleepier and sleepier because I'm doin boring stuff on a bed, and by the time I'm done, I'm ready to sleep)
if your bed is nearby the window, open the curtains and stare at the stars/moon/streetlight/sky while you're on bed.
Try not to think of trying to go to sleep because it get's harder to sleep that way!
Nightynight!
-Jenni C ♥
my bf used to call me just because. he used to text me or message me online just cause.
noww he never does.
and also it seems he never wants to chill with me.
what do i do??? i have a bad feeling in my heart (literally......it feels weird when i think about him) :(
i think he still likes me and i still like him...but idk.
help
16/f
Sorry, but I don't really go with triquetra on this one. If you ask like, straight off: Why aren't you calling/texting me anymore?? It'll make you seem clingy and that'll sort of annoy him. I don't know what kind of guy he is, but to be on the safe side, don't ask him.
Maybe you should try calling or whatever first? Just like casually, like "what's up? want to chill?" And if he has a long conversation or he says yes to hanging out with you, you can see that nothing's going wrong. but if he cuts the convo short or something like that, maybe something is wrong?
Has he cheated before? If he did, it could be an option that he's thinking of other girls.
I think the best you can do to find out 100% is get your friend to go up to him and go, "Hey, are you still going out with her?"
He'd say, "yea." (if he says no, it should explain itself.)
and then your friend would go, "Oh? Really? I thought you weren't because whenever I try to call or want to hang out with her, she's busy with you. Now she's like always free, so is there something wrong?"
Or something like that.
But if you think it's okay to talk to him about it face to face, that's cool. Just don't go, "Why haven't you been calling me?!" or something like that. Go, "I've noticed my cell never rings with your number anymore. Anything you want to say?" or whatever.
-Jenni C ♥
Well me and my girl have been togather for 4 years, theres been good times and bad... but last year cheated on me.. hardcore cheated and ever since i havnt been able to trust her. I conpletely understand that trust is a big factor in a relationship but its just not there. we've been togather since then broken up... got back... and no we are kinda normal. where the problem lies is i sumtime ( not always) cant look at her with out going back to BS memories...i sumtimes feel that i have PTSD but i cant be sure but i guess my question is how can be with soneone how Fucked me over so bad (like cold heartless i dont care anymore bad). i love her but if she does it again i know i cant be with her anymore. And if she has conciously has done it more than 5 time wat r the chance's she will do it again WHAT CAN I DO I'M JUST TIRED...
If you think she's right for you, stay with her. If you don't, drop her. It's as simple as that. If the relationship is going smoothly, don't dump her. Just talk to her about it. Tell her you don't want to be clingy but you want to trust her and you find it really hard to. She should be on your side with this.. and if she cheats again, her loss, dump her! A sweet guy like you, no one should cheat on! She won't know what she's going to miss until you're gone, so say bye to her! There are so much girls who are more serious about relationships than the girl you have now!
-Jeni C ♥
My best friend who i have been ignoring for 3 days because of her telling me to fuck off for no pasific reason and generally being a moody cow towards me blaming it on her stomache condition which is apparently due to her hormones, even though she is fine with everyone else, its her birthday tomorrow and i dont no wether to talk to her or not just because its her birthday, i bought her a ticket to see my sister at uni which was quite expensive but she just dosnt seem to appreciate anything i do for her,i was considering asking someone else to go with me but now iv told her i have to let her come with me parents said so aswell. If i talk to her tomorow and tell her what her pressie is then shes basically just won and got her own way again, and i dont really want that, she will just do it again thinking i will forgive her again and again! Usually she twists everything around putting the balem on me so im the one always saying sorry, because she can never see that shes in the wrong which is incredibly annoying! She is acting really fake latly aswell putting on a inocent little girl voice and being all girlie and sweet towards guys...very annoying!!! I want to be able to just get on with her normally again but i dont want her to win this like she normally does.
That's what you call a total female dog. You know what I'd do? Even if my parents made me, I would lie to my parents telling them she couldn't come because for her B-day she's doing a family dinner thing and I'd take someone cooler. Seriously! You aren't wrong in this. Tell her: "Okay, I'm not even going to ask why you told me to Fuck off. But I'm just going to say this: Right back at you! You honestly think I need someone like you messing up my life? NO! Because I'm better than you. And DON'T blame it on your fat stomach that has a condition, okay? That's something YOU would be stupid enough to believe. No stomach condition makes someone give a total bitchy ass attitude to their BFFs, okay? Even if you're fat like you. If you're going to make something up to blame it on me, forget it, okay, I don't think this is my fault. I've done so much for you but you, being an airhead, you forget it! Hey , remember what I got for your b-day? Well I'm using it for someone else who's worth my time. Why should I give tickets to someone who I don't even like? but don't worry. So I got you something else for your birthday. My ass. So KISS IT!" Say something around. If you think it's too mean, take it make it sweeter, and if you think it's not mean enough, make it nastier. But I think you should say something like that. Don't just never say anything to her. You are better than her, and you should know it! And make sure she knows it too!
-Jenni C ♥
okay. long story. okay. so yesterday "thursday" some kids dared me and this girl to kiss. so we did. and so someone convinced me to tell my b/f. and so did. and he got really pissed. but he "said" he got over it and he wasn't pissed anymore [[yesterday]] so today, i went to this thing after school. and so i got these 3 guys to call him and say "dude, your girlfriend is a really good kisser" and hang up. but i NEVER made out with any of them. and he got really mad. and he left a comment on my profile. it says. "I will never trust you again.You broke my heart.I trusted you with everything now that is shattered.you meant everything to me now you mean nothing i will remember you but hope i will forget.you were my life,but thats now over. I HATE YOU" i don't know if he means it. and i don't feel bad for getting them to call him. but i do feel a little guilty because i hurt him. but i don't really care about him. or i don't want to. because everyone i've ever dared to love has gone. and. i just need to know if i should care. i mean. we've been through alot. and i do think i love him. but i don't want to. i mean. i care. but. what should i do. i don't wanna loose him. i really don't. i can't afford to. i mean. he's been there for me through all my bullshit. and i think i hurt him really badly. and. i really just need to know what to do.
i don't know what to do without him. and i guess i do care. but i dont want to [[sorry for the repitition]] please help. everytime me and him have gotten in a huge fight i started cutting again or i've attempted suicide. i really need him in my life. i can't lose him.
Poor you. I'm 100% NOT being sarcastic. But I'm not going to lie to you. It was totally all your fault. And he has every right to be mad. I don't think he means everything he said, but I do think that he doesn't really have an interest in going back out with you anything. Like seriously? See it in his POV (point of view). Like you had a boyfriend and he goes and kisses someone on a dare and tells you about it. If some guy did that to me, I'd dump him right there. Dares are so 3rd grade! Do you really know how to think? I don't mean to be harsh but I'd do 100 times worse revenge to you. Your boyfriend is actually being nice about this. I think you should apologize. I can't say he'd forgive you but you have to try. Tell him everything that you said to us about how much he means to you. Hopefully you actually mean it, because it really doesn't look like it. I'm crossing my fingers for you!
-Jenni C ♥
16/f...my best friend lately has been the cause of many arguments and fights between her, myself, and our other best friend (i'll refer to her as A). however, she doesn't realize this. instead she explains to me that, i don't ever stand up for myself and say anything to A.
for example, we have been off from school this whole past week, and it was suggested that we go to the mall on thursday, which i didn't know about (i had thought they suggested friday). so yesterday evening i go online, and my best friend is online (not A) and seems in a really bad mood when i start talking to her. she explains to me that A didn't call or text her all day about hanging out and never follows through with her plans and is mad. at first when A IMs her, my other friend does not respond to her. when she does, she mentions something about how she thought we were going to go to the mall. (A had actually gone to the mall with her sister)
so A is just like oh, whatever. which my other friend interprets as bitchy and starts going off on a rant (meanwhile, A is telling everything she is saying to me) and my other best friend is telling what A is saying to me also. so i'm stuck in the middle. which usually always happens.
apparently A must've exaggerated when telling the stuff my other friend said to me (and my other friend tells me later) so i said to my other best friend something like. omg this is so stupid, i don't want to get in a fight. (because i knew how my best friend gets, she's really like stubborn and defensive kinda, and won't give up until she gets her point across)
well then she like got all weird with me, and signed off, and i didn't speak to her until earlier today. i IMed her first, hoping she'd forgot what happened or got over it since it wasn't a big deal in the first place (that is what i thought anyway) and she was like, what are you just going to pretend like nothing happened? and since she always says i don't stand up for myself, i had to defend myself, and we got into this whole like debate. basically she is mad at me because i talked behind both her and A's back. which i didn't. all of us were exchanging to each other what they were telling each other. and she says it was alright because she actually tells A what she says behind her back. which may be true like 50% of the time, but still.
i have talked about her behind her back, but i'm sure they do the same about me. i'd rather not say anything, then do say something and risk my friendship with both of them. the 3 of us have been best friends since like elementary school. they're like sisters to me practically, and i can be my complete self with them. i don't know where i would be without them. but i don't understand why the one has to be so... aggressive or something. there's a difference between speaking your mind to get a point across and speaking your mind but in a process hurting other's feelings/starting fights. and then she said she was mad at me for accusing her of starting a fight. yet she accused ME of talking behind her back?
i'm just confused. was it wrong for me to "talk behind her back"? that is a very hypocritical statement for her to say. if i continue to talk to her about this, i know i won't win, and the only way to end the fight is to probably just say i'm sorry, or just not speak to her until i see her in school. but i don't even know what i'd be apologizing for. what should i do? i have the IM conversation, if this was hard to understand, give me your email or something and i will send it to you. it would probably make more sense. thank you for reading all of this if you did. sorry it was so long. thank you in advance!
First of all: You need to stop talking behind your friend's back. It doesn't matter if they do the same or worse, it's really complicates thing. Believe me, I almost lost all my friends just by talking behind their backs about things that are 1000x worse than talking about people.
Second of all: I'm totally on your side with this. You want to defend yourself, but at the same time you don't want to, right? Tell your friend (the one that's not A, can we call her B?): "Okay, B, I don't want to fight. I really don't. But it's just that I don't see how what A did to you is such a big deal. You're acting like she stole money from you or something! And I know I talk behind people's back, I'm sorry for that, but I'm not sorry for telling you that you start fights. Because that's true. I'm not going to stop talking behind all your backs if you guys don't learn how to get along. Seriously, all A did was break plans? What's the problem? And I'm really tired of you guys trying to make me choose a side okay. If I want to pretend nothing is happening, it's because I don't want to take a side. Why is that so much to ask for? It's not like taking a side will help. It'll make it worse. I'm trying to keep you guys as friends but you two are making it really hard. Especially you, B! Okay, I'm really sick and tired of standing and just taking everything, and not standing up for myself. I've done that way too much and it's not working. We;ve been BFFs so long and you're starting this shit to risk losing that friendship over plans to go to the mall? How overdramatic is that? Much! Okay, I'm really trying not to lose my temper but you're pushing it. It's not a big deal. I was never part of the fight anyway, so why do I have to choose which sides? Truthfully I think both of you are wrong and need to get over yourselves! You're pushing me into fighting when I don't want to like your drafting me in to World War 3 or something! That's unfair, you know that?"
PLEASE stand up for yourself! You seem like a good friend and it really sounds like these two friends don't deserve you at all!
I want to make alot of money so that I can buy I nice car. I wont be able to start driving for about a year, but I want to start saving up now. I would love advice and suggestions to easy but good making money ideas.
p.s I already babysit.
thanks!
=]
Maybe you could sell chocolates or do a bake sale somewhere. You can do car washes and rake leaves or shovel snow for people. You can not only baby sit but put up flyers offering to watch over people's pets. Maybe you can even do a small garage sale? If you're desperate enough, sell bootleg! :) Lol, I'm kidding about that.
Does anyone know of any other chique songs like the mating game by bittersweet? I mean like a song you would here in a high fashion french store or something? idk if i really explaining it correctly but if anyone understnads what i'm talking about could you help me please lol! Thankkkkk youu =)
I LOVE French songs, you have to listen to it, and these are really popular in France, so...
Parle A Ma Main- Fatal Bazooka
Lola- Superbus
La Tortue- Christophe Willem
Girlfriend (french version)- Avril Lavigne
i think im confidant n have quite high self estem bt im not sur so i want 2 know wat u guys think is confident+high self estem.
thnks xxx
I think confidence is like you can do an oral report without being nervous or ask someone out without feeling doubt. Like you are totally sure you'll never be made fun of, or you don't care if you're made fun of. Like high self-esteem is like looking in the mirror and knowing you can do whatever you want to, I guess.. =)
-Jenni C ♥
14/f ok so there's this new girl, theresa, right? shes really cool & everything & we hang out a lot. but like she doesnt like one of my friends, sarah. but sarah is like all over theresa it almost looks like she wants to like marry her or something (not really, but you know what i mean) but i dont tell sarah that theresa hates her. theresa told me to but i won't, it's too mean. & theresa & sarah & me sits on the same lunch table since we're friends & then theresa goes to sarah, "ok, stop trying to impress me you are WAYY too annoying i really don't like you. you think you're cool but you're a loser." then she goes, "cmon hailey, let's go, " (im hailey- not giving out real names some people from school go here so) & i follow her to another lunch table. sarah & theresa wants me to choose sides. please if you're going say, "Don't choose a side, be neutral" that's sort of obvious & it's also obvious it's NOT GOING TO WORK! Just tell whose side it is better to be on. theresa is a little harsh & bitchy but its true that sarah thinks she's all that, so i don't know??
theresa all the way!
I have like the same problem in school. Actually I was the Theresa. Let me guess: Sarah is conceited, thinks she could get any guy, show offy, yet desperate for friends && guys? I bet she ignored you to get to Theresa at one point. I did the same exact thing Theresa did. Seriously she kept inviting me EVERYWHERE. "Sarah" was choking me. I also bet she went around telling everyone how she && Theresa are BFFs? Right? If I'm right, ditch this Sarah because she's not right for you. If this Theresa is like me (which by the looks of it sounds like she is) then she would be a good friend
I went to the doctor a few days ago & they found this lump on the side of my knee. They doctor said he thought it was some type of cyst that they could either remove or give me some type of shot, but I'm having an MRI wednesday just to make sure.
I don't get it, though. How can a shot get rid of it? & I run track starting in a week or so. If they do surgery, does that mean I can't run track?
why dont you ask them instead? I think you'll be able to run track though, but I think the doctors know better than them just ask which is better for you to run track. =)
f/14 m/17
okay, so i like this one kid.. i met him a few months ago face to face and i talk to him almost everyday. we go to different schools like 10 minutes apart so its not bad..the thing is though, he's my best friend's brother. he is a senior this year so he's young for his grade. i like him a lot but i don't know if i should tell him or not. i'm not real open about these things and keep to myself a lot... i just don't know what to do..he's really nice to me and makes me laugh, but then when i talk to him face to face i don't know what to say! i just get real red and avoid eye contact even though i don't mean too...any ideas? sorry i couldn't be more specific =/
Aww, that's sweet!
I don't think you really have to confess your feelings.. do you really want to? Only if you're really sure and confident about it, you should do it... because, seriously? there's no reason for you to admit your feelings to him if there's no point.
All you can do is flirt and SHOW him you like him, instead of TELLING him. You know what I mean? I don't think it's a bad thing you can't make eye contact and you get red, it's another way of showing you like him, it's cute! Maybe you should tell his brother instead of him, so his brother can pass the message?
=) I think that could work!
-Jenni C ♥
I have a few best friends who i know are kind of my "true blue." ya know ? well anyways - theres this other girl and she thinks she's our bff but shes not. she's always buying us presents and trying to impress us, but we're not those kind of people. we love each other for who we are, and shes just trying way too hard and being fake. she's really annoying and won't stop talking to you until you give her the answer she wants. shes a princess at home, but not well liked at school because of her annoying antics. sometimes she'll come out shopping or something, and honsetly, i want to rip my hair out because she just never shuts up.
she means well, but shes just INCREDIBLY annoying and tries way too hard. how do i let her know that enough is enough? i want to be able to tell her to "shut up" but obviously not in those exact words. she just needs to back off a little .
thanks so much loves. ill rate :]
I totally know those kind of people. You run into those at least a million times in your school life, seriously. There's this new girl in our school, and when I got into a fight, she's all, "I'll back you up, girl, I'm from Brooklyn, I'll break the bitch that messes with you!" I'm just like, ""Uh, yea, right!" and she can't fight for her life, or flirt... seriously!
Anyway, sorry, I don't mean to babble about myself. If she like buys you something, this is what you do: you and her friend pretend you don't know she's looking, but you give the something to your friend and go, "I don't want this that loser gave it to me, so you want it?" and have your friend say, "ew, no!" and then you both giggle and throw it out, right in front of this girl's face, but pretend you don't notice her.
then when she talks on and on and on about something you don't care, just interrupt her, "ANYWAY, about more important things-," and talk, or just turn away and talk to someone else while she's talking.
If she sits with you at lunch, get people to fill in the lunch table so she won't be able to sit. If she pulls up another chair, take up space, so she'll feel left out.
Trust me, I've done this before, it works! But if you think it's too mean, that's alright, I get it, then just ignore her and not listen to her. Or tell her the truth. That's the best I can tell you!
Hope it works out!
-Jenni C ♥