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My best friend who i have been ignoring for 3 days because of her telling me to fuck off for no pasific reason and generally being a moody cow towards me blaming it on her stomache condition which is apparently due to her hormones, even though she is fine with everyone else, its her birthday tomorrow and i dont no wether to talk to her or not just because its her birthday, i bought her a ticket to see my sister at uni which was quite expensive but she just dosnt seem to appreciate anything i do for her,i was considering asking someone else to go with me but now iv told her i have to let her come with me parents said so aswell. If i talk to her tomorow and tell her what her pressie is then shes basically just won and got her own way again, and i dont really want that, she will just do it again thinking i will forgive her again and again! Usually she twists everything around putting the balem on me so im the one always saying sorry, because she can never see that shes in the wrong which is incredibly annoying! She is acting really fake latly aswell putting on a inocent little girl voice and being all girlie and sweet towards guys...very annoying!!! I want to be able to just get on with her normally again but i dont want her to win this like she normally does.
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Honestly, no friend should treat you like that, and I have this feeling that your parents would agree too. Did you talk to at least your mom about it? You might have, but I'm sorry, I could not really understand the part: "i was considering asking someone else to go with me but now iv told her i have to let her come with me parents said so aswell."
but if you didn't talk to your mom yet, you should. I think that you did a really nice job of explaining how you feel, as well as letting us all know what was going on in your question, and thats what you should tell her.
You should talk to your friend about it, tell her that you really want to be her friend, but you just aren't sure if it could work out, because you do not feel like she is treating you right either. And you don't have to bow down to her because it's her birthday either, or take her to the show. If those tickets were expensive, and you know that somebody else would appreciate going with you more, then I would just take them instead. Maybe having your space and her having her own space will end up being good. Don't get too stressed out about it, try to just have a good time! :-]
Tell me how it all works out! Just do what you feel you need to, but don't stoup to her level.
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That's what you call a total female dog. You know what I'd do? Even if my parents made me, I would lie to my parents telling them she couldn't come because for her B-day she's doing a family dinner thing and I'd take someone cooler. Seriously! You aren't wrong in this. Tell her: "Okay, I'm not even going to ask why you told me to Fuck off. But I'm just going to say this: Right back at you! You honestly think I need someone like you messing up my life? NO! Because I'm better than you. And DON'T blame it on your fat stomach that has a condition, okay? That's something YOU would be stupid enough to believe. No stomach condition makes someone give a total bitchy ass attitude to their BFFs, okay? Even if you're fat like you. If you're going to make something up to blame it on me, forget it, okay, I don't think this is my fault. I've done so much for you but you, being an airhead, you forget it! Hey , remember what I got for your b-day? Well I'm using it for someone else who's worth my time. Why should I give tickets to someone who I don't even like? but don't worry. So I got you something else for your birthday. My ass. So KISS IT!" Say something around. If you think it's too mean, take it make it sweeter, and if you think it's not mean enough, make it nastier. But I think you should say something like that. Don't just never say anything to her. You are better than her, and you should know it! And make sure she knows it too!
-Jenni C ♥
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Honestly if i was in that problem i would think she didnt really care about your friendship and isnt someone you should be friends with. Maybe tell her how this is affecting you and how you really want your friendship to wrok and be normal again if she does it again you should even waste your time. I had a bestfriend of almost 11 years and she would do almost the same things and i kept fixing it and she ruin it so i gave up now she nothing. But i would try hard to make right. :] Hope this helps.
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