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my friends && this new girl
14/f ok so there's this new girl, theresa, right? shes really cool & everything & we hang out a lot. but like she doesnt like one of my friends, sarah. but sarah is like all over theresa it almost looks like she wants to like marry her or something (not really, but you know what i mean) but i dont tell sarah that theresa hates her. theresa told me to but i won't, it's too mean. & theresa & sarah & me sits on the same lunch table since we're friends & then theresa goes to sarah, "ok, stop trying to impress me you are WAYY too annoying i really don't like you. you think you're cool but you're a loser." then she goes, "cmon hailey, let's go, " (im hailey- not giving out real names some people from school go here so) & i follow her to another lunch table. sarah & theresa wants me to choose sides. please if you're going say, "Don't choose a side, be neutral" that's sort of obvious & it's also obvious it's NOT GOING TO WORK! Just tell whose side it is better to be on. theresa is a little harsh & bitchy but its true that sarah thinks she's all that, so i don't know??
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theresa all the way!
I have like the same problem in school. Actually I was the Theresa. Let me guess: Sarah is conceited, thinks she could get any guy, show offy, yet desperate for friends && guys? I bet she ignored you to get to Theresa at one point. I did the same exact thing Theresa did. Seriously she kept inviting me EVERYWHERE. "Sarah" was choking me. I also bet she went around telling everyone how she && Theresa are BFFs? Right? If I'm right, ditch this Sarah because she's not right for you. If this Theresa is like me (which by the looks of it sounds like she is) then she would be a good friend <33
believe me!
-Jenni C ♥
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It's not fair for them to put you in this situation. In all honesty, neither of them seem like very good friends. You need to tell them either make up and stop being immature or you won't have anything to do with either one of them. It doesn't sound like Sarah ever did anything harmful to Theresa, so I don't know what the heck Theresa's problem is. Try and help the two of them work their problems out. If they still act immature, go hang out with different friends.
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Really, the fact that they want you to choose sides is bullcrap. Just back off of the situation and tell them both, "I don't want to be involved with your argument. I refuse to take sides because I don't have a preference, you are both my friends. Until you both settle down, I do not want to hear you talking about each other." This way, you are not taking sides. But you're not really neutral. Let them cool off, don't be someone they can vent to. This just worsens your position. Why would you want to take sides when you could lose a valuable friendship?
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