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To write or not to write that is the question


Question Posted Friday March 21 2008, 11:46 pm

Ok so I have a problem, well I love to write and my stories get published in a web site. I have peopl who tell me they love them and that I should continue but this one reviewer continually tells me my stories are horrible and that I am a loser and should stop writing and I will go no where in the future. What should I do? I tried to make her stop/fight back but this only result in her getting another friend of hers to tell me to stop writing and that I suck. Please help!

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the_sweeter_heart answered Saturday March 22 2008, 10:08 am:
Oh, really? That's not right. But it's just a website, remember that. It's not like this person is going to haunt you in your dreams. It's not like you're going to meet her some day and she's going to make fun of you face-to-face.

I don't think you should take it seriously. Maybe your stories suck and maybe they don't. I don't know, but it's freedom of speech and everyone is allowed to tell their opinions and not get put down by it.

The right thing to do is to ignore it. And if your stories do suck, no big deal, you can improve, okay?

You know a lot of people don't mean everything in the Internet. People think it's funny when other's get mad or sad. For example, me and my friends go on dating sites and flirt, and when the guy asks for our pictures, we send pictures of old men wearing pigtails and tutus and say: Oh, this is me, I hope you don't mind that I'm a guy! I'm also a pedophile, is that a problem? Love ya.

And of course, we think that's funny, but I'm sure the guy gets mad that we're making fun of him, but he gets over it. Because Internet. Is. Not. Life.

You can't expect to get good reviews all the time, can you? Nobody is perfect.

-Jenni C ♥


And, hey, Caitlyn, sweetie.

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