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Hi! I'm 13 and do u have any tips or pills that can make your boobs bigger?? I am currently a 36A but I would like to be a 36C. Please help!!
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Girl! You are 13! Why are you worrying about something so superficial like your breast size?! You are at the beginning of puberty and can't expect to go from an a to a c super fast. Growing breasts isn't urgent and you are acting like it is. When I was 13, I was also an a cup and I really couldn't care less. Now at 19 I am a d cup and I couldn't care less either. I am going to answer your question by saying that breast stimulation might be able to work. By that I mean massaging. I also read that massaging at the front part of your underarms works. It is weird but if you look it up, it is one of the main tricks for breast growth. But maybe they are just myths. Still though, it really isn't a big deal. Women don't need to have big boobs to look good-especially not at the age of 13! Your Breast size doesn't make you who you are and if you still are so worried about it then just know that you will change as you get older. Anyway, good luck!-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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I’ve had cystic acne since I was in the 3rd grade. My acne bumps are painful. I’m constantly teased and people screw their noses up at me when I walk in a room. I get really nervous when I'm around people because I'm afraid they'll make fun of me, some do. Even family members make fun of me. People call me "pimple face" and "zit face". Laugh at me in my face. I’ve tried so many things like Proactiv, neutrogena, every acne product in the store, putting lemon on my face. None of it works & my skin gets oily. I hate when people look at my face for fear that they are thinking terrible things about how ugly I am. Even in school people look at me like Im a freak and I'm alone. I can't afford medicine that costs hundreds of dollars. I can't afford a dermatologist either. The past doctors I went to said I have the worst kind of acne.
I really get sad about this because I dont think no one deserves to be teased. it really hurts that people call me names & talk about how gross my face is.
My skin gets bad like this: http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-RTzbYFEAlCY/T4wjsKPfsAI/AAAAAAAAABs/xXq3h-2kD8M/s320/cysticacnetreatment.jpg
my next school is a big school and I am by sure going to get people saying horrible stuff about my skin! Any advise?!
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Hi! I, like you, have tried almost everything out there. I thought that I was just stuck like that forever. I went to the dermatologist and they would prescribe expensive medications with loads of side effects. Nothing would work. I came across this website by accident in a youtube comment: acnenomore.com
I was so desperate that I clicked on the link and watched the full video. In the video, the presenter explained that the treatments that you buy from the store or even from the dermatologist are just washing off the oil from your face, and not eliminating the root cause of the acne-or WHY your skin is producing so much oil. He said that acne is curable no matter what. But changing your lifestyle is involved immensely especially if you have such severe acne. I bought the book advertised because I was so desperate and I had already tried everything else so, what was the risk? Now my skin is clear and I have lost weight and feel better and better that nobody can ever call me pizza face and I never have to feel like hiding my face with a paper bag. Please please watch the video presentation in its entirety, discovering this website and purchasing the book was the best decision I have ever made and whenever I see someone with acne I just want to give them the link to this website. Please give it a try and watch the video. It cured my acne for good- it didn't just wash the oil off my face like everything else I have tried in the past. Please see the presentation her at: acnenomore.com
good luck, I hope you are able to cure your acne in one way or another! ^-^
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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I have these marks on my thighs. They're right where my private part is (Tmi, I know haha sorry). There's about 4 on my left thigh and 3 on my right. At first I thought they were stretch marks, but they're red/pink. They're not bruises or cuts, because they don't hurt. When I touch them, I just feel the mark where it's at. What is this? I'm starting to freak out a little bit. That's the only place where these marks are. Also, I'm a female if it matters. (link)
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Oh those are either stretch marks that you get when you lose or gain weight and they are suuuuper normal and don't have to do with whether you are under or overweight. But they most likely are just chafe marks. Your inner thighs can chafe from rubbing your legs together while walking- especially when you get sweaty. I would recommend rash cream and baby powder to prevent these marks. Also try wearing pants instead of shorts to prevent chafing. Don't worry though I have stretch and chafe marks too almost everyone does.
-good luck!
Talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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14, F, 5'3, 115 pounds.
The parts I mostly want to improve on is my stomach and face. I was overweight when I was about 10 or 11, but lost a lot of weight somehow (Maybe becuae I was growing). Well, I still have fat from back then. I'm short, so that's probably why I'm not "skinny". I'm really insecure with myself and I want to lose weight.
I'm starting to drink LOTS of water (4 bottles a day, actually), eating much healthier, and counting my calories to make sure I don't go over the amount. I unfortunately can't exercise because I have a lot of stuff going on, but I've heard many people have lost weight without exercising.
So I would just like to know, what else should I do to hopefully lose weight in my face and stomach areas? And what should I do to keep me motivated? (link)
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Hi,
First off, you might not care, but your body mass index is at "normal weight". You are not even close to being overweight.
And It shouldn't be about being "skinny". It should be about being healthy and you are.
But if you don't believe you can feel fully confident without losing a few, then here goes:
I was overweight, and I mean OVERWEIGHT. I wasn't at normal weight like you are, I was your height and 158 pounds. (I am 18 btw.)Now I weigh 102lbs. and because of changes that I made in my diet AND exercise routine I feel a lot better when I wake up and feel so much more energized throughout the day. Here are some tips that have helped me gain my confidence and health back.
-what makes your face look "fat" is probably bloating due to sodium intake. Reduce the amount of salt you consume to help you face look less bloated. Lots of canned/prepared foods contain seriously high amounts of sodium so watch out for that.
-when i was in transition to change my lifestyle, anytime i would look at a slice of pizza or a burger, I would always think of my end goal of being healthy and I was thinking of all of the work I had put into planning my diet and I was not going to throw it away on fast food. To keep you motivated, think of how great you will look and feel if you just avoid that food that you are craving.
-also, it is great that you are drinking lots of water. Anytime when you are craving a certain food that you could really go without, drink water. Sometimes our minds trick us into thinking we are hungry when we are really just thirsty.
-buying junk food at the market might be what makes you want it. Try to get it out of your house and avoid buying it.
-Hot green tea (brewed from a tea bag not canned or bottled or cold) is amazing for belly fat and super cheap.
-Drink only water and hot tea. Soda could also be what's making your face look bloated. The artificial sugar in concentrated juice could add to fat around your belly. Liquid calories in my opinion are not worth it...
-i understand that you cannot exercise outside or at a gym because of your situation- but please do fast simple abdominal crunches at home or some sit ups- anything and you will see a difference. You may know your caloric intake limit, but if you stay at that limit without exercising even a little bit- all you are doing is maintaining your weight, not losing it. So please just do some simple squats, walk around town or even just take the stairs.
-when i was losing 10 pounds i wasn't going to not be confident. You are young and can't expect to stay sad with your body until you lose weight. Be happy and stress free. Wear what you want to wear. (little known fact: stress can make you gain weight.) confidence is even more attractive than a tiny waist...
-avoid eating at restaurants as those foods do contain a lot of sodium and fat and sugar which is ,again, what is causing the bloating and fat.
-get your sugar from organic fruit instead of corn (high fructose corn syrup) or refined processed sugar.
There were times when i wouldn't take my lifestyle change seriously and i binge ate and went out to restaurants and ate loads of unhealthy foods. But when i remembered how amazing i would feel once i had lost some pounds, i was always motivated to eat less and eat healthy foods.
This is not a temporary diet, this is a lifestyle change to help you lose weight and THEN help you maintain it.
If you are serious about losing weight and feeling confident, then you need to take it seriously and you will see results.
Good luck, I hope that you end up looking and feeling both physically and mentally good about yourself and you are able to maintain the weight once you lose it because I know you will lose it! Believe in yourself and believe that you can and will be motivated to go on with this. I am sorry that this was so long I just really wanted to share these tips with you.
Anyway, good luck again and have fun. Please tell me how you are doing and if you tried the tips that i wrote. Thanks for reading hope this helped :).
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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Hey. I know this is gonna sound really negative, but I'm really not happy with myself. My BMI is 30.1, which is considered obese. I feel really alone in this, even though I know others are going through the same thing. But it really makes me feel horrible (yes, horrible) when my friends post beach pictures of themselves and they have washboard abs and I have to wear a shirt at the beach. I have a farmer's tan. Ew. I'm 15 now, and I used to be really thin. lIke I was a tiny kid before 3rd grade. But then, I had surgery every six months until last June for scoliosis and I really regret not using those six months in between surgeries to lose weight. I couldn't and still can't play many sports, but I could've lost weight anyway. Also, I really don't have my own thing that I"m know for. Some of my friends are known for their love of surfing. A lot of my friends know me by my obsession with Beyonce. that's not even a real thing like an activity. Any help would be appreciated (except if you're cocky and say that weight loss is easy, because it's not). I've really tried to lose weight. I do intense cardio for like 25 minutes at the gym 4 days a week. Why am I fat? I'm 5'10 and I weight like 218. Don't say I'm not fat. (link)
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Hi. I understand that you have tried to lose weight by exercising. But you haven't mentioned anything about your diet. How many calories are you consuming a day? How many should you be consuming? And some individuals find it a bit easier to lose weight because it seems like yesterday that they were obese or overweight, but honestly- it isn't easy. There are a lot of lifestyle changes involved in losing weight but if you want/need to lose it so desperately, I'm sorry, but you will have to deal with the difficulties. Not trying to sound harsh at all. I have a friend that had scoliosis surgery and he has been having issues maintaining his weight. Maybe that is why you are "fat".
Also, Stop looking at pictures that make you feel worse about yourself as that is pointless and not constructive at all... focus on how great you'll look once you lose the weight that you want to lose because you WILL LOSE IT! Losing or gaining weight is all a matter of breaking and making habits, which is hard to do, but not impossible. You will be getting your confidence back at some point, I guarantee you.
Here are some tips that have helped me lose weight as I was overweight myself:
-you mentioned that you exercise for 25 minutes a day. 1 hour of exercise a day is what I have always heard is the ideal amount of time to exercise.
-Try to make exercise easy. Walk around the block throughout the day , run a couple of laps or swim a couple of laps.
-Anytime you feel tempted to eat a burger or pizza or a large snack- think of how great you'll look with the body you have dreamt of having. Always keep your goal in mind and remember it in any times when you are caving in to stop exercising or eat junk food.
-a lot of times our minds trick us into thinking we are hungry when we are really just thirsty. Drink a glass of water when you are craving a snack.
-try to only drink water or hot green tea (helps lose weight) and cut all soft drinks from your diet.
-living without sweets honestly feels a lot better.
-eat at restaurants as little as possible.
-whenever you feel like you have less energy because you eat less- remember that all your energy is in the fat stored in your belly haha.
-sugar is addictive. But Try going a week without it and you will feel so much better.
All of these tips are hard to adapt to, not gonna lie. But they are not impossible. And if you are serious about losing this weight, you need to promise that you will try them. Eventually you WILL get used to these if you try them for a week and make them habits.
And trust me, you may feel like you are alone, but seriously, you aren't. Do you know how many people are obese? A whole lot of them...
And try to find yourself a new hobby. Please. Maybe not having activities to do makes you turn to food.
This will all take time.
BUT IT WILL BE SOOOO WORTH IT IN THE END!!!
I apologize that this is so long but these tips have worked for me and I wanted to share them with you. I wish you the best and I know you'll feel and look a hundred times better with the confidence that you will find eventually.
Lastly, you are young and these are the best years of your life. It is important to feel good about yourself and have no regrets on what you did or did not do. Time is running out, so use it wisely.
Good luck and please let me know how you are doing.
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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i love my bestfriends crush what will i do
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Well, you weren't very specific- but here goes...
First off, do you really "love" your best friends' crush? That word is a strong one and shouldn't be over used. I think you meant to say that you are infatuated with him.
Second, you don't like your best friends' boyfriend- you like her crush. That means that he is free and you can date him if you wanted to. Your best friends' crush is not off the market so you can crush on him as much as you like and your friend shouldn't get mad about that- she has no reason to. You can't control how you feel about the guy so it wouldn't be understandable for her to be angry with you.
So your best friends' crush is your crush too. That is totally normal and has happened to almost everyone at some point.
Oh and please remember to not say that you love the guy yet. You ARE over exaggerating and you probably don't even know much about him.
Always remember though- friendship is always more important that boys. So don't pursue the guy if you know that your best friend is already with him.
good luck- talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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i liked this girl i started dating who i thought was an innocent girl. in fact i didn't even try to kiss her until the third date because of how innocent i thought she was. well the thing is after i kissed her and don't ask me why we started talking about sexual experiences ( i thought she had practically none so what did i have to fear). well i found out she is what is known as a virgin slut or virgin whore, a girl who is still a virgin but has kissed around 40 guys and had blown off 4 guys just because she was horny and returning the favor after they had sucked her off.
i feel a little disgusted with the horny attitude with random guys in the past and don't know what i should think.
anyway, she is leaving the country for a year so we broke up but still talk as friends. we only kissed so i didn't even get blown off myself but she is going to do some religion studies outside the country, meaning no more sex life for at least that year (no kissing, no nothing). the thing is she went to Aruba as her last opportunity to party and i hate the feeling i get when i think about the certainty of she kissing at least a couple of guys a night (which really doesn't bother me that much)and the possibility of she sucking a guy off just because she is horny (that one does bother me).
i know this inst exactly a question but i need counsel from someone.
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Lift the worries off your shoulders and don't pursue her. You obviously don't trust her and i don't blame you because honestly, she does not sound trustworthy. Then again her "slutty" actions were in the past..... but when you think about it- if she is going to "do religion studies" outside of the country but her basic premise for the trip is to party- i really wouldn't spend my time worrying about her because there is a high chance that she might do things with guys.
Plus, she doesn't seem like a stable person and she is not even your girlfriend so that adds to the fact that she might do things with other guys.
You seem like a nice dude but i really don't understand why you don't care if she kisses other guys but you do care if she "sucks guys off". Are you really emotionally attracted to her or sexually attracted to her? And is waiting and worrying worth the risk that she might not be in a relationship with you?
If i were you-i wouldn't waste my time wondering if she is at some party "sucking off" a random guy.
My advice would be to go after girls that are a bit more stable. If you do end up as her boyfriend some day, be careful she doesn't do anything with other guys.
Whatever you decide, i truly wish you good luck and i am sorry if this wasn't helpful, just giving you my opinion. I always believe that there are other people in the world who you might be better off with...
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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I have always been told masturbation was bad but I always here adults say yeah I used to masturbate to and I turned out fine I don't know what to belive (link)
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Well, make up your own mind... find out what you believe in.
First of all the, the people who say that masturbation is a sin are wrong, It personally would make me feel dirty if I did it, (because that is my personal opinion for what ever reason) But it is NOT A SIN. If you do it, you have broken no contortions with God. It is not in the bible.
But for men, masturbating too much can lower sperm count. Don't abuse of masturbation. I like to think of it as junk food. Too much of might make you feel guilty. And for most people it is not as good as actually having sex.
Whatever you have been told by anyone, is their own opinion. If you have no reason to feel that there is something wrong with anything you might have heard of- then do what your mind tells you.
Don't live your life by what other people tell you because what they believe is what makes them who they are. Find out who you are.
Anyway, anyone can write an essay on the pros and cons of masturbation, because it is such a debated topic, but it is time that you stop asking for permission on personal things.
Decide yourself if something is "ok or not".
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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hahahaha how old are you?
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I'm Male, 19 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 16 months. We're both virgins. Lately, since I started working, I've had the temptation to just go out and cheat. I'm always super horny and fantasizing about doing stuff with other girls. I love my girlfriend and I feel super guilty for wanting to cheat. We never really do anything besides kiss. I don't want to pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want, and I don't pressure her. But she'll do stuff that hints that she wants to do something, then doesn't do it. Like sometimes we'll be sitting and she'll grab me and/or stroke me for a few seconds then stop. Sometimes she'll put my hand on her crotch so I could rub, but we never go any further. I work at a busy place in nyc, so I'm always seeing and meeting nice attractive girls. I always fantasize on my train commute too. Like everyday. Sometimes I even wonder about calling an escort, but I don't want to mess up. (link)
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Tell your girlfriend that you would really appreciate it if she would stop teasing you.
And please remember that having sex with your girlfriend for the first time is a lot more self-satisfying than losing your virginity to an escort or having a cheap affair which will just leave you feeling guilty or bite you back later.
Even though this might be easier said than done, tell her that you aren't satisfied with your sex life.
oh and do not cheat. my stupid brother cheated on his wife and he got thrown off the balcony. haha, I know, a little extreme. the point is... things will (obviously) not end well for you if you cheat.
Make up your mind: do you want love? sex? or sex and love? with another girl.
Good relationships have good sex lives. If you are not satisfied with your relationship- I don't have to tell you what to do.
This answer is a little bit different from the advice I would usually give. I would normally say that you have already been with her for 16 months and should not break up with her or cheat and ruin a good relationship. But you shouldn't feel tied down and restricted to one girl. You're too young for that... Maybe this isn't what you want to hear, because I know you love her- but there are plenty of fish in the sea.
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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Last night i was on my bf fb and i seen a message he sent to a girl saying "happy birthday cute girl" then she replies with "thank you" then he told her "you welcome" & he put a whinky face. & he searches for her on fb everytime & likes her pics! Am so sad. What should i do? (link)
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Wow. You're a jealous wreck. Haha, I sorry if that sounded mean- just trying to lighten the mood.
But honestly, there is no reason for you to feel "so sad"... My friends boyfriends' sound exactly like your boyfriend and my friends don't get so jealous.
Please communicate with him and say that you'd really feel more comfortable if he wasn't so attentive of other girls and you'd really appreciate it if he wasn't super flirty with them, calling them cute and basically stalking and liking all of their pictures.
Anyway, good luck and please do not do something really stupid and overprotective that you will regret. Just talk to him. If he doesn't change, and by any chance he does cheat on you WHICH HE WON'T- then you know what to do.
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
P.S. Why were you on you're boyfriends' facebook? If he didn't let you log on to facebook and you were on it because you were jealous then you have some serious trust issues girl...
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Once I have anal sex and it didn't slipper to my vagina, am I still a virgin? (Stressed) (link)
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Scientifically speaking, if your hymen has not been purposely broken, you are a virgin. But what does a "virgin" really mean? It's not about if it slipped into your vagina. In my opinion, anal sex or oral sex, mentally and spiritually, makes you not a virgin anymore. Do not be stressed. If you regret and have doubts about something now, learn a lesson from it and remember to not do it again unless you're sure about it and sure about yourself. ^-^ Good luck and do not stress and panic! Virginity is as serious as you decide to make it. It is up to you whether you are a "virgin" anymore and remember that what happened is in the past. :)
Good luck!!!!-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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"Not having a crush is boring and having a crush is more exciting (whether it causes something good or bad)" (link)
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I guess that having a crush is a little fun because of the chase but don't let what you have heard influence you. You don't need a crush to feel excited and I wouldn't say that it is boring to not have one... that quote was made up by someone and you have to find out on your own whether you have these feelings or not...
good luck!
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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I've been in a relationship with a girl from overseas for almost two years. I'm a 26 y/o guy, and she's 24. She came with me here about a year and a half ago. I treat her well, romance her, buy her roses, bake her cakes, take her out when I have time, tell her that she's beautiful, help her look for work, and a lot with English.
Last year she started acting funny and talking about a guy, and I found out she cheated on me by looking at her phone, and reading her emails (Not saying this was right, just that I did it). I confronted her, but I never really felt she thought what she did was wrong. I promised not to look at her stuff again.
For the half year since then she's been using her phone a ton, and hiding it from me. Lately she has been getting calls and messages from the guy she cheated with on me again, so often that even though she doesn't want me to know, it's inevitable that I would see at some point. She gets pissed off over trivial things, she's stuck to her phone 24/7, we hardly ever have sex anymore, and sometimes I don't feel like she even wants to be here.
So I gave her time, and everything just felt kind of wrong. I broke my promise and checked up on her. She's still cheating on me, and things never really stopped. She tells me she's faithful, nothing has happened, and she loves me, but I know she's lying.
Recently she got offered her dream job in my country, and the contract process is happening fairly quickly. She's staying here on a Partner visa with me, and we live together. If I break up with her, she either has to leave within a month, or become illegal. Apart from that, it will obviously make my life more hellish for that month than it already is living with a person who you know is lying to you with a straight face, while making out with another guy. I know that she is planning to stay with me for the two years it will take for her to gain permanent residence, and then leave me for the guy she is cheating on me with.
In my country, you can only ever sponsor two people to be partners, and if your first partner is granted PR, the length your second one has to wait grows to 5 years, rather than just 2.
I don't know how to handle breaking up with her, and what to say to who, when. I don't want to be taken advantage of, or have my name smeared by this. Breaking up with her before she gets PR will pretty much destroy her whole life as she knows it. She quit her job to come here with me, which is kind of a black spot on her employment history in her home country. I feel angry and upset about what she has done to our relationship, but I'm still battling feelings of love for her, and I don't want to see her broken. I wish everything I know about what's happened could be a lie, but I know it's not, so I have to deal with it.
To complicate things, accepting the job involves costly medical and security checks for her, and may mean we consider moving. I'm at university, and I only just found this out, right before the exam period. I really don't want to think about this before exams, and I definitely don't want to break up with her just before my first exam, so I am putting it off, but I feel so guilty for "supporting" her through the process of getting checks and references for this job that I know will be difficult if not impossible for her to keep.
What would you do?
What should I tell her? The truth? Or that I've fallen out of love, but don't know why? Or that one of her friends told me the truth?
How do I deal with the stress of living together with this oblivious lying girl who tells me she loves me?
What should I do to handle the resistance that I'm likely to have to breaking up with her? She won't want to break up with me, because she wants PR.
Can you tell me some steps and the order in which I might do them?
Any other general advice about the situation that I haven't asked a specific question about is more than welcome.
Thanks in advance.
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Dear "troubled",
let me just say that you are so sweet for still wanting to support someone that is unfaithful to you. But honestly, it sounds like she just wants you to be her sugar daddy and nothing more. Don't question any longer whether you are truly in love with her, because you really should not be. She definitely does not sound like she is in love with you. When you love someone you are honest with them and don't just get into a relationship because you want a public relations or citizenship or anything. You're in that relationship because you simply want to spend time with them. And don't feel bad if the worse comes to worse and you end up breaking up with her. Because judging from what you said, she might just break up with you as soon as she gets the p.r.-and that's despicable. I am really sorry to say this, but she sounds kind of like a whore.
Here's what I think that you should do...
Please NEVER give your money to someone or something that may or may not put it to waste- that is a huge gamble and you should not be supporting her if it means putting YOUR money on the line. Tell her everything. Be a man and tell her that you don't want to keep supporting her and keep putting your money at risk (because she might not even hold the job) and you just want to get out of this.
Really, you can't keep supporting her for three more years- you're 26, in college and have to live your own life. Don't spend your time with girls who are dating you for the money. Many of my friends have been in similar situations as you but they just ended up breaking up, or divorcing the people that really didn't even like them.
I am sorry if this was harsh, or it really wasn't the answer you're looking for, but you need to think about yourself. I understand that you are selfless and kind, but you have to think: What is any of this doing to benefit you? Grow a pair and tell her the truth please. You can choose to keep wasting your time, but you're young and shouldn't be worrying about things like this.
Whatever you decide, good luck, and I hope you get out of this how you wanted to.
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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I just started a blog website and I know it takes time to actually get readers and what not but what are some ideas that I can get that can help my blog kind of get started? I have already written two entries and am off to a good start (I feel good about it) but I'm still wondering how to ensure that I can be somewhat successful within a year...
P.S. I know I have to promote myself but the thing is I am under a secret identity. It is embarrassing for me to find out that people I know are reading what I am actually like. Help? (link)
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Why not just send us the name of your blog? I'll tell all of my friends about it.
Or you can send all of your friends or random people anonymous emails.
You can comment in videos or any place about your blog and maybe a couple of people will check it out.
To get people to read it, you have to tell them, or else they have no idea what the name of your blog is.
Anyway, I think it is cool that you are starting a blog! I hope that it becomes successful just like you hope!
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I'm going to summer camp (first time) for two weeks, not allowed electronics. It's a camp where I will be sharing a cabin with eight girls my age (14-15) and doing activities like canoeing, kayaking, arching, music etc. what do you suggest I pack? and what do you suggest I bring to stay entertained during free time? (link)
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Hi! (:
Well, obviously you'd bring a swimsuit. And I really recommend those water shoes. I guess for entertainment you can bring loads of things:
-board games or card games
-books or magazines(like tv you won't get in trouble for.)
-journal or sketchbook (it would be cool if you wrote or drew about everything you did at camp so you can look back at it later- and since I guess cameras aren't really allowed, I would bring this just for memories.
-candy and stuff lolz
-binoculars/ telescope if you have them
-sunglasses
-sunblock and toiletries (obviously)
-stamps for letters home (if you want to. That's what I would always bring.)
And well, yeah! That was all that I could really come up with but I hope that it helped! Have fun at camp!!!!!!!!!!!
-talldivofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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I may have Insomnia. These past few days, I have been unable to sleep. When my eyes are closed, my anxiety kicks in. My heart starts racing and I try to focus on my breathing but can't. I've tried sleeping medicines twice, and all they do is allow me to sleep for 5 hours. Please help. (link)
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Hi.
I think what you might be needing are prescribed anxiety pills- not otc sleeping pills. Please go see a doctor or try ways of coping with your stress like yoga and meditation.
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Hey I am sorry if my story is kind of long but here goes I have wrote on here how close I am to my cousins husband and hoe he is like my dad but this is a different story . Last night we got into our first father daughter fight and it was bad I was crying because of some things that said. Like I never do anything around the house and that I probably didn't move out of moms house with them on my own it was probably because I was lazy and my mom kicked me out which is not true it was on my own. He was drinking and he is always mean when he drinks but it was really bad last night and he picked up the coffee table and threw it and broke it and my cousin said he has 30 days to move out or she will have him served. What does served mean? I don't want their marriage to end because she is taking up for me. Thats the last thing I want she's already had 9 divorces and I don't want her to have to go through another one. She made me go to her moms house next door and he texte me apologizing saying itwwasn't my fault it was his because he drank to much and took it on me. My cousin came over to my Aunt s house and gave me a hug and told me not to worry it want my fault and that she lovrd me but I still feel like it was my fault. What should I do? (link)
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Hi.
Please stop feeling like this situation is your fault. Sure you could be a little bit harder working, but no responsible "father" has a drunken argument with their kid to the point where they are crying. Your cousins' husband-or ex-husband is a crazy, mean drunk and deserves to go through a divorce.
To "serve" is to be served with divorce papers, a court summons or another legal document.
Maybe this wasn't even the first time that he lashed out at someone like that. Maybe your cousin was so sure that she wanted him out of the house because he has done something like this before. Please stop feeling sorry for someone who threw a coffee table at you or the woman who married him and 9 others that also ended badly. (I'm sorry that I was insensitive, but maybe your cousin should date guys for a little bit longer and THEN marry them, or forgive them, or something. Its marriage, not a bunch of guys that she dates.)
It seriously wasn't your fault and if I were you, I would be glad that my cousin was divorcing that nut job.
Anyway, I want to wish you good luck and I hope that you stop feeling like this was your fault or that this was a bad thing. I believe that it was for the best that tour cousin broke up with this man- who knows what else he could have done?
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. We had been fighting a lot in the past month and he hasn't been the same since. Then yesterday he said he loves me,but he doesn't know what he wants and he can't be with me right now. We were together for 3 years. I am studying medicine and I am extremely busy,yet I still made a lot of time for him. I gave all my love,support,I always listened to him and offered my help,I was 100% loyal and devoted. He is younger than me and will get to college this year. I know the amount of pressure he's under. I had it a lot worse in my senior year in high school but I never let him suffer because of that. So I end up giving it all and I get this. And it's always been like this for me. I am no doll when it comes to appearances,but I am a good,loyal girlfriend. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. What was my mistake? I realized that no matter what I do I will just get hurt. The sooner I accept nobody wants me,the better I guess. (link)
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Hi.
Ok, please don't talk like that. I hate it when people say that "I just have to accept that nobody wants me." You broke up with your boyfriend, you didn't break up with the world.
I know you broke up with your boyfriend of three years which must be extremely sad, but it's really is not the end of the world. It will take you a while to get over a bad breakup but it really will not take you forever.
On the other hand, you can repair your 3 year relationship.
Your ex-boyfriend was under a lot of pressure. He just had a different way of dealing with it than you did and now he just wants to throw away a 3 year relationship. Talk to him. Tell him that you thought it was unfair that when you were under loads of pressure you never let him suffer but when he was, he started fighting with you. Tell him that you always gave him your love and support and that you really don't believe that you deserve this.
YOU MADE NO MISTAKE. It was him that made the mistake and it is HIM that should come crawling back to you. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU and you should stop believing that there is. Sometimes when we are under loads of stress we just freak out and do things that we will regret later. Other, more reasonable people like you keep calm under stressful situations.
Please don't think negatively of yourself in this situation because you did nothing wrong and made no mistake. It is him that should come back to you and if he doesn't, then maybe this breakup was for the best.
Anyway, whatever happens, I wish you good luck and I want you to remember that when somebody else does something stupid, don't waste time blaming or pitying yourself- but forgive them if your heart is telling you to.
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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What does it mean when they ask on a job application in grammer school subjects studied? (link)
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It basically means the general education that you took in high school and understudies. When filling out that application, just write "general" or "general studies", it's what I have always written.
good luck with your job!
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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