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I feel like it is all my fault
Hey I am sorry if my story is kind of long but here goes I have wrote on here how close I am to my cousins husband and hoe he is like my dad but this is a different story . Last night we got into our first father daughter fight and it was bad I was crying because of some things that said. Like I never do anything around the house and that I probably didn't move out of moms house with them on my own it was probably because I was lazy and my mom kicked me out which is not true it was on my own. He was drinking and he is always mean when he drinks but it was really bad last night and he picked up the coffee table and threw it and broke it and my cousin said he has 30 days to move out or she will have him served. What does served mean? I don't want their marriage to end because she is taking up for me. Thats the last thing I want she's already had 9 divorces and I don't want her to have to go through another one. She made me go to her moms house next door and he texte me apologizing saying itwwasn't my fault it was his because he drank to much and took it on me. My cousin came over to my Aunt s house and gave me a hug and told me not to worry it want my fault and that she lovrd me but I still feel like it was my fault. What should I do?
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Hi.
Please stop feeling like this situation is your fault. Sure you could be a little bit harder working, but no responsible "father" has a drunken argument with their kid to the point where they are crying. Your cousins' husband-or ex-husband is a crazy, mean drunk and deserves to go through a divorce.
To "serve" is to be served with divorce papers, a court summons or another legal document.
Maybe this wasn't even the first time that he lashed out at someone like that. Maybe your cousin was so sure that she wanted him out of the house because he has done something like this before. Please stop feeling sorry for someone who threw a coffee table at you or the woman who married him and 9 others that also ended badly. (I'm sorry that I was insensitive, but maybe your cousin should date guys for a little bit longer and THEN marry them, or forgive them, or something. Its marriage, not a bunch of guys that she dates.)
It seriously wasn't your fault and if I were you, I would be glad that my cousin was divorcing that nut job.
Anyway, I want to wish you good luck and I hope that you stop feeling like this was your fault or that this was a bad thing. I believe that it was for the best that tour cousin broke up with this man- who knows what else he could have done?
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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