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i have these pimples around my nose, like everywhere on the sides of my nose, so it make my nose look really red and all that and the pimples WONT go away! i have tried sooo much stuff and it DOESNT work! its really pissing me off and they have been there for like ever! i cant even remember my nose being pimple free! do you know any good pimple creams or something that will help me! PLEASE!

When I was younger I had problems with acne too. The best thing to do is go to a dermatologist(sp?)... They will look at it and give you a perscription. Usually its a cream and then a pill you take once at night and once in the morning. It starts to work within a couple weeks. If you dont want to go to that extreme, you can buy Clean and Clear Invisible Blemish treatment. You just rub a little on your pimples after washing your face. Stridex pads work good too but get the sensitive kind if you have sensitive skin. Using a lot of acne treatment can dry out your skin and make things worse. So I would use a little moisturizer in the mornings. If you have anymore questions you can IM me on aim, reflektionofme. Hope I could help you. Good luck!

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I know your no doctor, but I got this big green fuzzy mole about the size of a fifty sent peice holdin' up on my left nipple! I mean its really bad, makes fermented milk look like a strawberry daquiri. Should I just use a little foundation with some coverup to cover it up and maybe it will just go away?

Sincerely,

The guy thats really really far away from Katie

Blake, maybe you should get it checked out by the medic over there. Maybe he can recommend some really nice foundation. Or maybe you can get someone to cut it off... but since it is green it should blend in with your camoflauge outfits! haha jk. your too cool for your own good.

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does ne1 kno wut i can use to make my face not like white wen i wake up, i ahve blush but its not workin! idk wut to use.. ill rate!

Bronzer works perfect. Take a big brush and brush it over your cheeks, forhead, chin etc.. but not too much or it will look funny. Also you can put a little bit on your neck and where your shirt ends on your chest. If you have fair skin do it generously! Hope I could help...

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ok i just got my hair layered! looks better, now my hair is highlighted but fomr last jan. and i dont hav the money for more its 70 bucks for more!! to much! lol ne1 hav ne tips for makin my hair look better? cuz its dark brown at the top then light brown with blonde highlights... i need help asap!!

I had the exact same problem! So I went out and bought a temporary hair dye from sally's. I decided i wanted went to go darker than my natural for a little bit of change. If you do that, make sure you ask the person if the base of the dye is ash or natural. You do NOT want ash or natural base, it can turn your hair green.. eek! Sometimes a change is good! Or just buy a cheap highlights kit. I reccommend going somewhere like Sally's Beauty Supply. Hope I helped. Good luck!

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I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$

nephew?

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My brother is in Iraq, and hes only 21! it hurts so bad! hes my best friend and i'm only 13! he had to stay till next may and i cant send a lot of stuff and neither can he! what can i do? all my language arts projects are on him too! i wrote and 10 page story about a memory and he was it! can someone help me find out how to keep in touch and live my life not worrying soo much about him?

Theres no way not to worry. Your always going to worry and have that feeling... i know. Write him letters, it will encourage him a lot. Does he know that you wrote a paper on him? Telling him that or sending him a copy can really make him feel better.

Try to keep yourself busy. It will help not to think about it. Hanging out with your friends, school, clubs and sports are all good ways of keeping busy.

Just remember, he is trained for what he does. They wouldnt send him over there, if he didnt know what he was doing. Just pray for his safety and all of our soldiers, I know I will.

Hope I helped!

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well, my guy friend and i have been doing things that only friends do. I mean hugging yes thats fine. He has slow danced with me, grinded with me, french kissed me, kissed me on the cheek, held hands with me, and cuddled with me. Just to let you know the french kiss, and kiss on the cheek were both dares, but he wanted to do them, and he didnt hesitate at all when he got dared to do them. Does this mean he likes me? Also i see him in less then a week, this sat to be exact, what should i do? i know i should talk to him but anything pyhisical? thanx also, latley my friend(who is a girl) has been very wild. she went on a cruise and lost her virginity, to a guy who she will never see again. I am just afraid that she might be pregnant, and that she will be hurt in the future, knowing that she will never see him again, and also, i have head that guys like virgins, could u tell me if this was true? thanx

Ok for the first part about your guy friend...

Sounds like he might like you or looking for friends with benefits. There is never a way to be sure unless you talk to him about it. I know you probably dont want to ask him and it can be embarrassing or whatever excuses us girls come up with, but you just have to ask/talk to him. And about seeing him this saturday.. Just do what feels right. What happens, is going to happen. Just dont do anything you arent ready for. The way I see it, I dont think you should do anything physical wih him unless you know he likes you. You dont want to get too attached and turns out he doesnt. You know what I mean?

And about your friend...

People are going to make mistakes. Talk to her and tell her that you care for her and dont want to see her hurt. Talking to her about it will show her that you care. It can make your friendship stronger too. Maybe after you talk to her she will wise up a bit. She wont know if she is pregnant until she at least misses her period.

about guys liking virgins.. Yeah they do. Well at least most do. Its just the way guys are. Plus if they are virgins or inexperienced, the girl cant compare the guy to anything. Which will boost a guys ego majorly!

Remember, talking is the key to everything!
Good luck!

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hi my name is amanda and i was wonderin if anybody has some good weight loss tips .. i wanna loose weight so i can wear just tee shirts to school not sweaters to cover my fat .. please help me !xOxO MAndah

Theres no way to do it quick. You just have to eat right and exercise... blah blah blah. Everyone hears it. But if its your stomache your looking to tone up etc focus on that area. Cardio works great, like the bike, ski machine, etc... If you dont drink soda pop, even if its diet, you will lose up to 5 lbs. Seriously!

Good luck!

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Hey Guys! Well I just moved into a new house and I have painted my room pink! I love the color! Just to give you an idea its the color of peptobismol! (lol.) I love all colors (especailly pink and black) and I was wondering if anybody had any ideas on decorating (please dont leave me any messages saying do what u wanna do. i want real ideas) Tell me anything from shelves to posters! Whatever helps! Thanks in advance! -Sonnie

You should check out seventeen magazine. They have decorating tips and stuff in there. You can do sooo much with your room. Be creative and let your true self show through your room. If you go on google.com and type in decorating ideas or something along those lines... they will give you a bunch of links to help get ideas!

have fun and good luck!

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i am a freshman going into higschool, and i have a problem w/ this girl going into 11th grade whos 2 years older than me. well back in middle school we were on the same bus, and she was really mean to me. she would SCREAM mean things to me in front of EVERYONE, like saying im ugly and stuff, and she would take my schoolbag and dump it all over the place, and she would pour soda on me.. it was humiliating.. she used to threaten to beat me up when i got off the bus, and she would have people come up to me and say shit to me. LAST YEAR I TOLD MY MOM AND SHE WENT TO THE SCHOOL AND TOLD OUR PRINCIPLE AND MADE IT WORSE CAUSE THE GIRL ONLY HARASSED ME MORE AND MORE AND PEOPLE MADE FUN OF ME... well now were gonna be on the same bus again, and i wanna know how to handle the situation. if shes yelling at me on the bus, should i say something back? ignore her? ask her if we can talk it out? or ask her why she's doing this since i didnt do anything to her?... i dont want to make her even more mad, because then she'll be worse to me. tell me how to handle it, but dont tell me to call the cops or anything, i wanna know what to do... im REALLY SCARED.. thanks

When I was in middle school this girl was sooo rude to me. She did things like that but not to an extreme. Then going into HS I was so scared. Then it turned out we got on the same basketball team. But she was so nice and didnt treat me like crap anymore. You will be surprised she might have grown up and matured. But if not, its a serious thing. I know going to the principal can make it a lot worst. Maybe you can try talking it out, even though it doesnt always work. She most likely is all talk and I wouldnt worry about her. Just let things ride out and if it gets too bad, tell the principal she is harrassing you. The principal should be able to do something about it. Even then, if the principal didnt do anything or if it starts to get more serious, your mom will know what to do. Just dont do things that will fuel her fire. Dont let it look like it bothers you. If she does something just laugh, even though it will be hard. Or say something like- Wow that was a little middle school, dont you think? and then laugh and walk off.

Hope I could help.. Good luck in HS, have fun! Dont let something like this bother you that much.

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Okay i have my bf of 4 years you all know this if you answerd one of my questions before and all but anyway...
I love him to death but there are times where he really frustrates me like today he wanted to see me and i had things to do and same with yesterday hes like you made plans with me and i never did hes really bad at forgetting things too...but he gets really selfish on things all the time like wanting too see me..well me i have dance and soccer practice and house stuff that i do all the time and i still try and make time for him but when i have littel things that come up he gets pissed when i think that he should really just understand that these things can come up...What advice would you give me to give him beside the things i already say to him like love goes fonder when not together i mean yeah you miss the person but for me i love him more nd more every second and everything and there are times when i like to just be by myself in my room and not have him here...what do you think i should tell him besides the things that i already tell him?
-Cassi-

Sounds like he is really selfish. Tell him that you do need sometime for everything in your life.. sports, chores etc. If he really loves you, he should respect that and hopefully he will understand. Everyone needs alone time every once in a while. Maybe some of the time between those things, take a breather. After that you will feel better and stress will be somewhat releived. If he gets angry with you more and more, or if things get worst, tell him how you feel! Dont be afraid to say exactly whats going on your mind. 4 years is a long time, I am sure both of you are willing to do anything to work it out.

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Hey! I am a sophmore who recently moved from Arkansas to Texas and I have no idea if the styles are diffrent or not!!! I would really like to know what to wear on the first day since I don't know anybody. Oh and could u maybe tell me what your wearing! *I RATE HIGH!*

The best thing to do is go to a mall. You can see what everyone is wearing. Just remember it might be a little different from what they will actually wear at school. or on the first day wear something casual. Jeans and a baby tee always work. Then you can see what everyone else is wearing and see what not to wear. I hope I helped.

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hey.im going to florida for a whole month without my boyfriend.im gonna miss him sooo much..but i really wanna bring him back something good and special..its so hard to shop for guys what should i get him..anything please i need some suggetions..thanx soo much..

If you like to make things you can...
collect shells off the beach. Then buy one of those carboard picture frames and decorate with the shells or anything you found on the beach. Then for a picture, have one of you and him or just you.
Or just buy him something that goes with his personality.

hope I helped.

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I have this crush on a guy. He's really sweet and were really good friends. Only problem he lives in a different town. It's the same state but different towns. Neither of us can drive so we can't see each other and the only way we can talk is on my cell phone. I want to go out with him but I don't know about the long-distance deal. What should I do?

Long distanst relationships usually dont work out well. It would be even harder to go out with him when both of you cant drive. I wouldnt worry about going out with him right yet. But have fun and hang out. Have your parents drive you to go see him or maybe meet halfway? It will get a lot easier once you guys can drive.

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I usually give advice, but now I need advice...I'm gonna be a freshy in about 3 weeks and I want some tips (besides "be yourself") on making friends, my problem is that I'm REALLY shy and I always think I'm going to say something stupid. The h.s isn't that big (1,100 students) and all of my friends are going to this h.s, but if I don't have any of them in one of my classes I want to be able to meet new people..

Any tips would be greatly appricated, btw I rate

I really know how you feel. When I was a freshman, I was shy, I watched what I said, but I grew out of it. Do you like sports? You can take up a sport. I did volleyball my freshman year, even though it was my first year and I sucked... I still made friends and had fun. Its easier to make friends when your in a sport, club, or something along those lines. For in class, if you see someone who is sitting there just maybe give them a smile and say hi. Most likely that person will start talking to you back. You will be fine, just go in thinking positive and have a great attitude. Good luck in HS and make it the best 4 years ever.

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Okay well im usually really outgoing and happy and funny... im always the life of the party... but lately im not... im just not... idk why... im just not myself i dont know whats wrong with me... and i have been constantly thinking about how i want a b/f a good one... and i have found out that the reason i want a b/f is because i feel so much better about myself when i do have one... and with school approaching im thinking about the school year and school shopping and looking good this year and ahh its driving me crazy...
please help me!

First thing you need to do is take a deep breath. Maybe right now before school starts, is the best time to find who you are. Make a list of things you like to do and like about you and focus on them. You dont need a boyfriend to feel better about yourself! Seriously! Have fun this year, and if there is a guy you really like, go for it! Just dont forget... You dont have to have a boyfriend to feel better about yourself. Take a day to pamper yourself. Go shopping, do your nails or get them done, take a long hot bubble bath. It will help clear your mind.

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i'm 13/f and i have a really big butt & a d cup bra. i guess i'm not ugly but i dont see myself as beautiful. older guys [14 & 15 year olds] & guys my age only like me for my body & face, and when they talk to me all they look at is my boobs. idk what to do about this..

thats when you say- hey guess what? my face is up here.
Im sure they will look up at your face after that.

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hey..
What kinds of clothes and accessories do you suggest getting for back to school things? I am entering high school this year and I want to know what you all think! Also..it would be nice if you had any tips for fashion in high school or any tips on high school in general!? Thanks so much!

Fashion tips.. not much. Just if you like something wear it. Dont follow a trend, be who you are. High school tips in general, dont procrastinate. I know we all love doing that, but if you have multiple papers do, It sucks! But most of all have the time of your life. It goes by so quick! Do everything you want and dont let anyone stop you.

Have fun in high school!

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I need to know who sings that song

" I don't wanna be anything other than
what I been tryin to be lately . All
I can do is think of me as a peace of
------- . I'm tired of lookin 'round
thinkin about what I gotta do or who I'm
supposed to be . I don't wanna be anything
other than me".

It's the song off of 'One Tree Hill'

gavin degraw- i dont want to be

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my friend...... is so depressed.. i was, but now im happier than ever. It feels so good being happy. I want her to feel that too, but its so hard. I just want her to live. and not let life pass her by. i donno wat to do.

Tell her what you just said. That you care for her and you dont want her life to pass her by. Take her places you know she will enjoy and have fun. The more fun she starts to have the less depressed she will be.

Good luck

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