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I've been dancing for over 5 years. and i love it. but recently i've been getting way too much work and i've been skipping dance (to get it all done) my mom told me its time for me to quit dance...and maybe start something new..idk what i want to doo.
please helpp mee. (link)
If you love doing something. Keep it up. Don't ever let it go.
Not everyone has chance to do what they love. You are lucky to find something you enjoy doing it. Don't let go.
I know it's hard to keep up with school, work, friends, social life and everything else, but arn't the greatest goal of life is to find somethihng you love to do?

Don't ever regret anything you do in your life.

Enjoy it!!


I have this friend whom i really like. I got rejected by her twice and fucked up our friendship. Throughout the summer, we've been getting really close. We are actually super close w/ each other now. Now i don't know if i should tell her how i feel. Like this time i know for sure i can take what she has to say. I really just want to see her happy! But if im not the guy, thats fine. We also have so much chemistry together. I don't even know how to bring it up to her. I'm just scared of fucking up our friendship again. Like i know she'll probably feel a little different towards me. I just wanna see her happy and not fuck up our friendship. I really need advice because this has been on my chest for the longest time. (link)
The same thing just happened to me, but the difference is I was the girl.

I told my (used-to-be) good friend that I dont' feel the way he feels about me after he told me he wants me to be his gf. And because we were friends, and I did have time to know him very well, I knew there's no way we are going to work out as a couple. HOwever, we are great as friends. We enjoy each other's company a lot.

Long story to be short. He wants me to choose to be his gf or not friends at all. I told him there's no way we are going to work out as couple, but I love to be his frined!! He didn't take that answer too well, so he broke up our friendship. WE are NOT friend anymore.

I'm very sad that being a honest frined to him(tell him we wounldn't work out as couple)that costs me lost a friend.

So, my advice, and just my advice. if you really like her and just want her to be happy. Be there for her as a friend no matter what, even she still doesn't feel the same way of you as you do. Don't do what my "used-to-be" friend (he said he's not my friend anymore)do, don't break up the friendship. BE THERE FOR HER.


what is in style right now?
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skinny jeans.

But it's more important what looks good on you, so create your own style what bring out your beauty the most.


i got my period today for the first time. im flat. and 5'2. will i grow (height and boooooooobs!? im 13 and an a. thanks. (link)
Yes, You will.
Just keep health eating habits and exercise often. (maybe at least twice a week) You will have right size of BOOOOOOOB and height. ^0^

Hope I help.


what burns the most calories??? (link)
exercise.
and if you want to really lose weight. Start changing the daily habit.

Park in the further spot in parking lot instead closer one.
Walk on stair instead of elevator.
Drink water instead of Coke.
Eat more fresh vegtable instead of french fries.
etc.....


how do you get over summer love :S? its been a month nd a half and i have a boyfriend but tday i found oujt that my summer love fucked with someone and i cant stop felling this and hating it ! (link)
Get over it.
If he/she fucked w/ someone else already, he/she obviously doesn't think about you right now. So, don't need to waste your time on this "summer love".


if i had sex with my boyfriend without a condom and he cam inside me, but i got my period the next day ( a day late) could i still be pregnant? (link)
most likely no.


i have 2 days left of school. and i need to tell this person, that i miss are friendship. we were on some bad terms, because of me. i feel weird going up to them and saying, hey i miss talking to you. what can i do? i need help. badly. (link)
Send a email to ask the person to meet you after school at somewhere you always hang out before. And then tell him/her that you missed talking/hanging out with him/her in person. It's alwasy good to know the old friendship is still there. Good luck. ^____^


how long will it take a girl to figure out if she wants to go out with me because she likes me and i like her but she said she needs to think about it so what should i do to up my chances of me and her going out or actually convince her to go out with me ?

(does this question make sense to anybody out there?)

sorry if its not worded good
thanks in advance (link)
Did she say she likes you?
because ususally when a girl likes you, I don't think she will NEED to think about going out with you or not. The answer will be yes. Unless, you are her bf's friend or her friend's bf or you used to date her best friend...........etc.
Then, you just have to be paition and wait for her to say yes. When waiting for her to say yes, you still need to show her how much you like her and won't give up until she goes out with you.

Keep trying is the key.
Good Luck.


Whenever I am with my boyfriend, I run out of things/compliments to say. Like when he holds my hand. I seriously have nothing to talk about with him. So i end up repeating myself, asking the same question. HELP!? (link)
Girl.........if you don't know what to talk about with your bf, even just chatting.......that almost means you guys don't "click".

How long have you been together?

Maybe try to ask him question about the subject he likes. ex. type of music, band, sports, Tv....etc.


Ok so my mom told me last night that this weekend we are painting my room. Ugh I really want to i think it will look nice but i dont have any idea what color i want it to be. I kinda want a nice Home kind of a room. like i want someone to walk in and adimaticly feel confortable. I don't know. a counrty nice look.
Uh i have no idea

Can you help? (link)
IF you like the "home warm" feeling for your room. go for warm side of colors. For example, light yellow (with lots white in it) and light green. (again, lots white in it) This combination is typical giving warm feeling of room. Also, you have have some warm brown or chocolate brown for the funitures or bed sheet to bring out the brightness of yellow and green.


so..i dont think i like my boyfriend anymore but he always says that he loves me and he would die if we werent together..ect...so should i break up with him? i've been hanging out with his friend a lot and we have kind of a conection but i cant like him because then my boyfriend would get really mad..what should i do? (link)
I guess ask yourself the question, "do you see yourself to spend another 5 years of life together?" IF not. Just tell him you somehow don't have the feeling for him anymore. Maybe both of you can work out to see the reason, or just simply "grown apart".
The worse relationship is that you don't have the butterfly feeling inside your stomach when seeing him, and don't even want to find out why.


me and my boyfriend had sex and the condom broke and he already blew in it but the day after i started my period is ther still a chance that im pregnant? (link)
If you had period after that.
most likely NO.


I did somehting....weird... 3 years ago. i was the most popular girl in my grade i was mean and then i did somehting really bad. (not like break the law bad but stupid) i lost all my friends. they dumped me! they were all so mean to be after i did an accadentl thing to them! i feel so abanded and till this day i feel so annoyed! (link)
So.........Do you actually have a question ???
Or just need a shoulder to cry on since you lost all the friends(3 years ago), because the mean thing you did to them?

Two choices_
1.GET OVER IT!! Find new friends.
2.GO TO APOLOGIZE to your friends SINCERELY, and do your best to make it up to them.


he doesnt want me to go out with him cuz he sleeps over every weekend day... and like they are best friends & all that! its not like icould be like... bailey im going out with your best friend.. he wouldnt allow that! im so scared.. any other help? by the way! i rate you 5... your wonderful. (link)
Don't be scared. How old is your bro? Are you close to him?
I dont' know how close you are to your brother...but just sit him down and tell him you have something to talk to him about. Explain to him you have feeling for his best friend and you love him and his best friend. You dont' want any conflict betweeen you and him and the best friend. But you want to know how does him(your brother) feels about it. If he gets mad, ask him why, and tell him you don't know how to get over him(your bro's best friend) because you love him.

But before all this drama (it's going to be.....) you HAVE TO make sure he's wroth to let you do this to your borther and you REALLY LOVE him.

LEt me know if i help.
the best to you.


okay so yeah my brother has a best friend and we are MADLY inlove and we do stuff secretly. if he were to find out what we did, my brother would kill us both! i dont want to leave him but i think i should move on cuz i cant go out with him until next year. we always talk about being together forever and getting married. what should i do? im 14 and he is 16. should i move on or should i stay with him because i can honestly say i LOVE him.. but i think i might want to move on. HELP PLEASE!!!1 (link)
wHAT do you mean you can say you LOVE him, but you think you might want to move on????

IF you really LOVE someone, there's no way you are going to move on. You are going to keep thinking about the time you were together, and just suffering.(trust me, I would know that.)

If you really LOVE him. Why don't you talk to your brother? He is your brother that should want you to be happy. And you are obviously HAPPY when you are loving him.

Is there's some other reason your brother doesn't want you to be with his best friend???


spring break is in a month and i need to loose like 10 pounds or MORE . what all should i do ? like i know running , but how long ? and how much exercise ? and how much water do i need to drink ? (link)
LOSING 10 LBS IN A MONTH IS POSSIBLE, BUT YOU MIGHT NOT KEEP IT OFF.

Cut off all the soft drinks(including juice) you are having now. Have normal breakfast (must) with egg, meat, and crab. Don't have crabs after 3pm. and eat fresh fruit and veg for dinner.

Exercise is good. Drink 8 bottle of waters a day.

good luck


So there is this guy that likes me, and I like him too. We arent going out though. But lately i've been thinking about him like 25/7! Is this normal? I feel stupid because, what if he isnt thinking about me that much? Or at all!!?? Do alot of girls think 24 hours a day about a guy that they like? (link)
YES.

and it's good that he likes you, too.
let him know you are thinking about him.


22/f

Ok I I love to do karaoke and I met this really cute guy *Kurt there a couple weeks ago. He is really nice and is good to have conversation with. when i met him I thought he was like 21-23 yrs old. He looks really young. Turns out he is 31.That didn’t really bother me like I think it should have. We have kissed a couple times but nothing more then that. Is this wrong of me? Am i too young to be doing this? I could really use some advice on this!!!! Please help!!!!!!!!! (link)
You aren't too young to be with him; Just have fun!!

If he is this nice, funny, sweet guy, what the problem is to date him?!

Unless, he's looking for a series relationship as marriage, but you aren't. Then, talk about it with him to let him know you only want to have fun for now. To see if he wants to hang around to see if works out between you.


alright so im crazy about this guy. hes 21 and im turning 18 on sunday. im stayin the night at his house saturday night. we have been having sex, i lost my virginity to him. we talked about having a relationship and he says he has a busy schedule and it wouldnt be fair to me and that i am going to college in 7 months and he doesnt want me to miss out on the whole experience. ive known him for a really long time. what are some things i can do to make him want an actual relationship with me? (link)
I'm sorry to tell you this, but I think he just wants to have sex with you without any responsibility or relationship.

He is typical selfish guy.

Drop him; forget about him. You are deserved much better than this.




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