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alright so im crazy about this guy. hes 21 and im turning 18 on sunday. im stayin the night at his house saturday night. we have been having sex, i lost my virginity to him. we talked about having a relationship and he says he has a busy schedule and it wouldnt be fair to me and that i am going to college in 7 months and he doesnt want me to miss out on the whole experience. ive known him for a really long time. what are some things i can do to make him want an actual relationship with me?
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I'm sorry to tell you this, but I think he just wants to have sex with you without any responsibility or relationship.
He is typical selfish guy.
Drop him; forget about him. You are deserved much better than this.
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you cant really make him want relationship.. but you can lure him into one. be super nice to him.. show him what a terrific girlfriend youd make.. make him dinner.. surprise him with a nice treat.. little things.. boys appreciate things like that.. and iif you do that and doesnt seem to work.. talk to him.. tell him how much you care for him and youd be willing to make a sacrifice for him.
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It sounds like hes brushing you off dont let him take advantage of you but if you really want to know confront him. if you were having sex with out the relationship then it kind of sounds like he was using you so i think you should get that straightened out with him because if a guy truly loved you he would want to be with you through anything and make it work. I would tell him that and ask him exactly whats going on. if that is the case then hes a jerk and you need to move on and will no better next time. but youll never know until you do some questioning. so talkto him for better or for worse.
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