im a very fun person.. im nice.. and i get along with most peopl.. but i am also mean to people i dont like.. so whatever.. oh and im 16
Gender: Female
Location: massachusetts
Occupation: pimp
Age: 16
Member Since: January 23, 2007
Answers: 29
Last Update: May 14, 2007
Visitors: 1876
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Can people with REAL relationship experience please answer? People that have been in serious relationships that lasted more than a few months? Thanks.
I'm 17/f and he's 21/m. We've been together since July 5th of 2005. It's the first serious relationship each of us has had.
Everthing was going wonderfully between us until the beginning of this year. We fought over stupid things. I kept getting really angry with him because he wouldn't go get a job and all he cared about was playing his computer and video games. He IS in college though and is going for internet security, so that was a good thing. Most of the time we worked through whatever problems we might have had, though. I really got better at respecting his hobbies and such. Plus he finally has a job now. Okay.
Lately though, I just feel like I don't want to be around him because I know it will be boring or he'll just make me angry in some shape or form. I don't want to hang out with just him because I know we'll just sit around and be bored because there's nothing to do.
Whenever he calls to say goodnight or something, sometimes I don't even pick up the phone because there's nothing to talk about or I don't even want to talk to him.
The point I'm getting to is that I think I might be falling out of love with him. I don't know if maybe it's because I see him too much or what, but I see our relationship more as really best friends instead of loving boyfriend and girlfriend. I know I care about him because I would never want him out of my life.
So my question is, how do I fall back in love with him? How do I make our relationship more fun and loving? We've been together for nearly two years and I can't figure out a way to keep things as lively as they were the first few months we went out.
At this point, I'm not sure a "break" would work for us because I'm going to college in the fall. If we took a break, that would be it and I know we'd be done. So that's a last resort.
I know that deep down, some part of me needs to stay with him and keep loving him because I'm asking this question. I want to find that part of me and bring it out. I want to be just as much in love with this man as I was the first time I told him.
Any advice? (link)
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i have no doubt in my mind that youu love your boyfriend. but that fact that theres no fun or interest anymore kiinda kills it. hes your first love, your first serious relationship but he doesnt have to be your last. your 17.. youu need to give yourself time before you decide you want to settle down and be unahppy for 2 more years watching him play his games. and hey your going to college. who says you wont find a cute guy you like more and have more in common with in your math classs? do some soul searching. but just remember you ARE STILL ONLY 17. your life jyst began. dont forget that. =]
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my left eye has pretty good vision. my right eye is wack. my left eye.. like sometimes when im reading, i find it better for me to just read through that eye, and then i keep the other shut. i guess its because its more focused? or idk but i like it better. and my right and left eye both see differently, like my left sees like a little darker than my right, which sees a little brighter. with my right i can see up close, otherwise its pretty blurry. except when i press my finger on that eye in a certain way, and then its like i have perfect vision, even better than my left. but thats only for a little bit then i see some little black dot in my eye and then it increases till i gotta shut my eye so i can see again. it doesnt affect my eye though, the black thing that comes in that eye is only for when im pressing my finger on it to see better. and i cant do this with my left.. its weird.. whats your diagnosis? (link)
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hm. well my diagnosis is go to the eye doctor. theyll help you. but like the other girl said. astigmatism could be it. but idk withthe blurriness you need to be careful you dont have a cadoract. thats when theres something in the view of your eye lense. like i have one and im blind in my left eye. but thats me. im not sure if theres any things else cept the two i put on.
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My sister is a sophomore at college. Well, she got a huge box of flowers on Friday from a guy that she doesn't like much. I think that she should let him down really gently because he spent a lot of money on the flowers.
Anyways, we can't figure out a way to tell him..any suggestions?
She doesn't want to do it over the internet.. (link)
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WELL. id say she should comfront the guy in a very respectful and caring way and just explain to him that maybe shes not looking for a boyfriend . maybe she's just looking for a reg. friend, someone to spend time with. grab some coffee. or if she doesnt wanna spend any time wiht him. just tell him how she doesnt feel the same way as him, although she was extremly flattured by his generosity.
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does brown match well with black? (link)
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no.. not at all.. ii really think its gross when ppl where them together.
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there's this guy patrick and me and him got really close over winter break... too close, we even made out... so then i told him that i didn't like him "like that", he acted really cool about it but then the next time i saw him he called me a fatass a bunch of times, said that he hated me, and threw my cell phone in the snow.
the next day he texted me on my cell and said hey whats up, so how're you, exc.
then after him doing this for about a month he told my friend that he hated me and i was a stuck up b****, and i f*** with people until i get what i want.
but, he still texts me and says that i'm beautiful and stuff... what should i say to him? (link)
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just tell him hes a bipolar prick and to leave you the hell alone. =] it worked for me before
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Hi, Im am 15 years old and 120 pounds. I had unprotected sex 2 days ago, and I was wondering my chances of pregnancy. I have been on the pill for a month now, and I know it is very effective in preventing pregnancy. My concern is that I was on the plecebo or "blank" pills while I had unprotected sex so I wasnt technecally on the hormonal pills. I start the hormonal pill in 1 day. I have been very good about taking the pill at the same time everyday, and I have only missed one day the entire month. also, It was around 2 days after I had my period. I would like to know what my chances of pregnancy. There was no form of birth control except that I had been on the pill for a month (ie no pull out method) (link)
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oh not so good. theres always a chance you can be pregnant with unprotected sex. id say you should go to a drugstore and take a pregnacy test. if you asked earlier. i wouldve suggested a day after pill. that helps alot. but it can be taken a max of 3 days after. but even the 3rd day is still risky. but take a test and good luck
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Ok, well, my friend has a vanity where she does her make up and stuff, and i thought it looked really cute. i really want one now, and my mom and dad said it is okay if i get one, but we don't know where to find it. idc if its antiqe because i'm just going to end up paiting it. i want one of the little chairs/seats to go w/ it. does anyone know where i can get one? thanks a bunch!!! (link)
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well . idk where you live. but ikea's are just about everywhere. and they have everything.. and like below. walmart and ebay are good sources as well
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I know all schools are different but what are the normal requirements for high school varsity cheerleading if you try out? (link)
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usually. talent.. flexibility.. some schools you need to be able ot do gymnastics.. good jumps. stiff arms.. clean movements. the usual.. all this is what decent squads should look for goodluck
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i really want a laptop. i know i'm not going to get one anytime soon but i'm just wondering now so maybe i can convince my parents to get me one for christmas or something :] well what's better? macs or windows? like i have windows now.. but for a laptop.. what would be better? and like what comes with a macbook (that's the one i like) what are the pros/cons of having a mac? also.. what are tablets? thankss. (link)
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personally i got a dell and i love it. but then agian it all depends what you want to do with it. i personally dont like macs cause i dont like how they are. idk. i have reasons. lol. but i like my windows xp. but thats my oppinion.
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ok so i want to skipp school tomarrow but i have to wait till 11 to meet up with my friend....where would u go to kill sum time or what would u do....but..
1.you had no money
2.your alone
3.anywhere besides your house..friends house..
4.dont say mall because no money.. (link)
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well you can go to the mall. no just kidding. umm.. well you can go to a park.. see if any other people wanna skip and chill at there house. if your town has truent officers or police that will take you back to school. .try and stay clear of outside and open places in your town.. or if your rents leave for work.. after they leave just go back inside.. if they lock it it.. leave a window open or back door or something.. good luck there
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Are sweater uggs in style now? I cant really explain.. but they kinda look like sweaters on... an ugg, haha. also where can I buy them for cheap? I may get them.. or anyone know any upcoming spring styles that are good? or styles now. tell me all you know! (link)
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umm... i have no clue what sweater uggs are.. but uggs are in now.. you can get from an outlet mall if the mall has one.. or you can atually get a new pair off ebay.. those could be cheapp.. or you can go to ugg website.. but those wont be as cheap.. and idk what 13 yr olds wear but in the spring in summer for casual i roll in the american eagle and abercrombie clothess..
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ok so people are alyways talking about first base second base third base and home i know what home is but what are the other three? (link)
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1-kissing
2-handies/fingering
3-oral
home- sex
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alright so im crazy about this guy. hes 21 and im turning 18 on sunday. im stayin the night at his house saturday night. we have been having sex, i lost my virginity to him. we talked about having a relationship and he says he has a busy schedule and it wouldnt be fair to me and that i am going to college in 7 months and he doesnt want me to miss out on the whole experience. ive known him for a really long time. what are some things i can do to make him want an actual relationship with me? (link)
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you cant really make him want relationship.. but you can lure him into one. be super nice to him.. show him what a terrific girlfriend youd make.. make him dinner.. surprise him with a nice treat.. little things.. boys appreciate things like that.. and iif you do that and doesnt seem to work.. talk to him.. tell him how much you care for him and youd be willing to make a sacrifice for him.
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My ex boyfriend and I dated 3 years on and off and 6 months steady. I broke up with him about 4 months ago. I can't seem to get over him. In this case its harder because our parents are best friends and we see each other all the time. At school, he comes over, I go there. For me its harder than usual. How can I get over him. Please don't say stay away from him because thats not an option. Any and everything will help.
Mac
PS. I had very good reasons for breaking up with him. (link)
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you can always try for another guy.. get together with a cutie from one your classes.. so maybe what you feel for the first kid can maybe go to a new boy after some time? idk.. try it.. its worth a shot if you wanna try something new.
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this is kind of a weird, and stupid question..
but what is like fucking
like im not really sure what it is , and everyones like fuck fuck fuck.. and im like yeah..haha
♥ kendra (link)
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fuck is sex honey.. sometimes they use it for the way they did it.. like hard?? either that or there angry and like to use vulgarity to get agression out
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well i need to know how to sign in.
as stupid as that sounds, i cannot figure it out!
my friend took the auto sign in thing off my computer and now i cant find how to get to that pop up thing that you put ur s/n and password in..lol (link)
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go to your computer or try your start menu and look the aim file
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Everytime i wear eyeliner( i wear it in the inner lid) it always comes off from blinking or just not doing anything. it will like smudge and make my eye dark underneath. Is therre anything i can do to fix it form not running? (link)
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thats were i put mine.. try a better brand.. it works for me.. use like avon or maybeline.. i like themm.. but if your eye gets too watery fast. do it on the lash liner.. but idk.. it depends on the person an the preference..
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I was wondering if there is any website at which i can get sheet music for the song "kyuuchi" from inuyasha on piano. Thx a bunch! Oh, and ichigos.com doesn't have it. (link)
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did you try google [ing] it yet?
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okay so my boyfriend and i recently split up(friday the 19th) and we're still very close. we are going to lunch on friday since we have a half day to talk about everything and possibly go back out. (we both want to we just have to get things straightened out) so what are some things we can do to please both of us? like compromises? it's probably hard since you don't know our relationship but like in general.. talking on the phone..hanging out with friends.. going out instead of staying in.. things to make our relationship run smoother than fightingg. sort of like guidelines to set.. any ideas would be very helpful thanks! (link)
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well. so you dont get tired of each other. make dates fro girls night and for him boys night.. and just get out all your feelings beofre you start going out agian so you dont have anything bulit up when you do stART dating agian. but dont get mad with this discussion. that wont necessarly help your sitch by yelling at each other
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i liked this kid a lot but we barley talk anymore and have been talking with a diff. guy for a while and really like him what should i tell the guy i used to like that i dont like him but in not a hurtful way
female 14 (link)
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just tell him you dont have the same feelings as you did before. but try and put it nice.. no matter what hes going to be bummed. but its better to it now.. then to string him along.
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