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Seeing him kills me
My ex boyfriend and I dated 3 years on and off and 6 months steady. I broke up with him about 4 months ago. I can't seem to get over him. In this case its harder because our parents are best friends and we see each other all the time. At school, he comes over, I go there. For me its harder than usual. How can I get over him. Please don't say stay away from him because thats not an option. Any and everything will help.
Mac
PS. I had very good reasons for breaking up with him.
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Yeah alot of girls go through this. So best thing to do is to try talking to other guys and you might start liking them. You've moved on from this guy and I know it will be hard but you should just try hard to forget about him. And when you see him just remember why you broke up with him. I hope everything will work out for you.
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I think all girls go through this with an ex, that they're around very often. At least for awhile. I recommend, everytime you get those thoughts about him, think about all of the reasons that you are broke up now. Why you two are broke up, and that should definitely help you. And being as they were "very good reasons." You should probably thank yourself for breaking up with him, because many girls do not have the strength to do break up with their guy, even when they need to the most.
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First, you and he need to talk about this, I know that it might be hard, but you two could make up the best ideas. Second, sometimes it's harder to get over guys if you still like them and/or you feel guilty. There really isn't a good way to get over a guy becuase your heart is it's own little thing...you can't force yourself to stop liking a guy, it takes time. I hope that I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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everytime you see him, remind yourself of the reasons you broke up with him, and convince yourself that you deserve better. You're heartbreak will eventually heal, and you'll find a guy that's perfect. As for now, when you are around eachother, act like nothing is wrong and just act friendly. Start talking to other guys and just dating around for now until you find someone that you think you can have a serious relationship with. good luck, hope i helped
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well, considering that you see him all the time, it`s gonna be pretty hard, and your gonna have to stay tough. first of all, you should think about why you should get over him. you need to convince yourself that its the best thing for you, that its for your good and its to protect yourself from getting hurt or whatever has happened. second of all, you should try talking to some other guys, or taking up some more hobbies. having things to take your mind off of him might help quite a bit. and third, if he is flirting with you or doing anything to make you fall for him again, explain to him that you need to get over him and ask him to stop. well, i think thats all i got. i hope i helped.
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you can always try for another guy.. get together with a cutie from one your classes.. so maybe what you feel for the first kid can maybe go to a new boy after some time? idk.. try it.. its worth a shot if you wanna try something new.
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