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GOOD FRIEND BAD FRIEND


Question Posted Wednesday April 11 2007, 1:06 am

I did somehting....weird... 3 years ago. i was the most popular girl in my grade i was mean and then i did somehting really bad. (not like break the law bad but stupid) i lost all my friends. they dumped me! they were all so mean to be after i did an accadentl thing to them! i feel so abanded and till this day i feel so annoyed!

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lesha-2394 answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 8:32 pm:
this is kinda a tough one but if you did sumthing bad to them if you havent already go up to thm and admit wat you did and show them how truly srry you are there is no point of losing a friend....or in your case a few friends over sumthin you did 3 yrs ago you guys should move on and later on in life you'll only laugh about it!!!! hope i helped GOOD LUCK!!! :D
-Delesha

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LagunaBabe answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 2:50 pm:
I'm sorry, I don't understand what exactly your question is, however, here's some of my insight on your problem.

I think that you're friends probably feel that you were becoming too mean, and not nice enough to them. As far as treating them like good friends. I'm not saying you did or did not, only stating how they may be feeling.

You never know, they could feel as abandoned as you do right now. And that's why they aren't your friends anymore. I recommend talking to them and see what their true feelings are. I know, it may be hard -- but you would figure out exactly why they're mad at you and do not want to be friends anymore.

Good luck!

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marybethO answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 12:41 pm:
So.........Do you actually have a question ???
Or just need a shoulder to cry on since you lost all the friends(3 years ago), because the mean thing you did to them?

Two choices_
1.GET OVER IT!! Find new friends.
2.GO TO APOLOGIZE to your friends SINCERELY, and do your best to make it up to them.

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christina answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 5:48 am:
What's your question?

If you've got new friends who are better than your old ones, then be happy. Why be miserable with the "popular" kids when you can be happy with kids who will never stab you in the back?

Being sorry is one thing, but moving on & accepting you made a mistake is another. And besides, when you make a mistake -- your friends will never leave your side, and if they do, then they were never your friends to begin with. Your friends stay there NO MATTER WHAT.

You should listen to a song called Friends & Alibis. It's by Escape The Fate. It kind of describes your situation.

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xoLoLaox answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 3:53 am:
...what exactly is your question, hun?


Well, you should talk to them & tell them that you are VERY SORRY. & that what you did was an accident.
...maybe if you told me what you did i could help you more?
<3L.

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