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i dont like him anymore
so..i dont think i like my boyfriend anymore but he always says that he loves me and he would die if we werent together..ect...so should i break up with him? i've been hanging out with his friend a lot and we have kind of a conection but i cant like him because then my boyfriend would get really mad..what should i do?
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Definately dont continue dating him if you dont like him..its not fair to him or you. As for going for his friend..that might not be such a good idea in my opinion. Things can get messy and that would reeeally hurt him.
-melissa
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I would say put some more thought into it, and if your feelings stay the same, your going to have to end the relationship. You will just grow unhappy and miserable. But for his sake, do NOT go for his friend, that ill only cause problems.
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I guess ask yourself the question, "do you see yourself to spend another 5 years of life together?" IF not. Just tell him you somehow don't have the feeling for him anymore. Maybe both of you can work out to see the reason, or just simply "grown apart".
The worse relationship is that you don't have the butterfly feeling inside your stomach when seeing him, and don't even want to find out why.
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im in almost your exact same situation right now.but you have to face the facts.if you dont like your boyfriend,then its not fair to you to go out with him,and its not fair for him to think that you guys still have a connection.so if i were you,i would end it.it may take a little bit for him to get over you,but he eventually will.as for the friend,wait a little bit.if he seems interested in another girl you will know that he is over you and that its fine.and also make sure that his friend likes you.but ya,wait a little bit.i once went out with my ex bfs bff,and i broke his heart.so you dont want that happening.
good luck <3.
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If you are unhappy in the relationship, definitely end it! It's not fair to you to stay in a relationship that you don't see working out, and it's not fair to him to lead him on. The sooner you do it, the better. But definitely do it in person. And you might not want to date someone directly after you break up, because that might hurt your current boyfriend's feelings. Wait a little bit to become official with the other boy, out of respect.
Good luck =)
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If you don't like him anymore then you shouldn't just stay with him because you're afraid about hurting his feelings. It's not fair to you. When you break up with him of course he'll be hurt, but chances are he won't die. You can't have a one-sided relationship, but I think going out with his friend would hurt him even more.
::Jasmine::
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