I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long!
If I were you I would demand he show me this facebook page. If he denies it exists, quote things from it that way he knows you know about it and you're not just making it up. If he still continues to deny it then give him an untimatum. Tell him either he tells you or you break up with him. Because you don't want someone who is going to be dishonest. A relationship is all about honesty, and if you don't have that then what do you have? Also, you're "bff" doesn't sound like much of a bff to me. If she were a real friend, she wouldn't have went behind your back in the first place. The things written on this group is your personal information and you should have access to it. I hope this has helped and sorry it has taken so long to reply.
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ok so like today i went on a bike ride with my best friend her kinda bf like there talking and his friend. when we were close to being home we all stopped to talk and then my friend road off on her bike but i stayed to talk and like my friends kinda bf was like telling his friend to touch my boobs and i didnt care whatever. but the jimmy her kinda bf was like if u flash me i willl moter boat u and i rly wanted him to because i rly like him to so i did and he moter boated me then he was feeling me and i was like i gtg see ya later and i left.
so what should i do should i just keep it between me and him or tell her ??
and dose that make me a slut?
To make it short & sweet, you shouldn't have let him do that to you. If you knew your friend liked him, and you let him touch you like that, that makes you a horrible friend. If you tell your friend, she will probably hate you for a little bit, if not forever.
You're a slut, back up off of people's boyfriend.
kthanks.
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I give BJ's to my boyfriend quite often cause we're serious and I know that's not just all he wants, and oddly, I enjoy giving him one? haha but he has only once cummed in my mouth, and sometimes while im doing it and he's laying down he touches my chest and I just wondered why do guys do that? are they trying to enjoy the bj more? or get more excited? thanks!
Lots of guys get aroused & like to feel on something. (butt, boobs, ect) The more places are occupied on a guy, the better it feels for him. So while you're giving him oral sex, he's feeling on your breasts & making the sensation that more pleasurable.
Hope I helped. :)
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I am really worried that there is something wrong with me. everytime I finger my self I will pull my fingers out n there will be a bit blood. I don't have long nails or am really rough with my self. my boyfriend has fingered me (not same way) n there is no blood. is there something wrong with me? I am quite worried about it. I am a 16 year old girl could it just be a stage I going through?
I had the same problem at first. It's more than likely the way your fingers are angled differently than your boyfriend's that make it bleed when his don't.
Hope I've helped.
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I need to be in love. I have waited for so long, dreamed so many times, sometimes I even prayed. I am still too young, but I long for a true kiss. I have just longed for a man I can love! What shall I do?
You say you're young.
Just let time do its thing. You will find someone sooner or later. But chances are if you're looking for love, you wont find it.
Love has to find you. Give it time, you'll find someone before long.
Good luck, watch out for creeps. :)
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Ok, here goes... I guess I should tell you a bit about myself, at least the basics: 17, female, and a virgin. Great, right? Now, onto the question.
Last year there was a guy in a couple of my classes that we're going to call "Aaron." He was a year older than me but I was in his classes because I am on a more advanced track. Well, Aaron sat in my little group during math class along with his other friend, "John." I had known John from before so we all got along really well. It wasn't soon before I started to really like Aaron. Besides celebrities, he was the only guy I had ever felt sexually attracted to. It was apparent he liked me too. As the months progressed, we started being more open with each other and joking about sex. One day when we were sitting in Spanish (our table was WAY in the back), we got on the topic of boobs somehow. I made a comment like "I don't get why guys like boobs, they're just big bags of fat!" to which he retorted, "Well, if you were a guy and saw your chest, you'd be attracted to them too." With that, he cupped my boob. I was kinda shocked! I mean, we were in the middle of the classroom! Part of me thought it was strange and the other part was in heaven! It felt really good and I completely trusted him. This continued on and we made out a few times. One day, we were eating lunch and he told me to meet him up at his locker in ten minutes. We each got locker passes and I follwed him up shortly after he left. I was really happy. His locker was located by a guy's bathroom. He told me to follow him inside. I was REALLY scared to go in. The big taboo, you know? But I was so enamored that I followed him in. He asked if I would give him a blowjob. He did not pressure me and asked very sweetly, making sure I was ok. Let me tell you, I've never wanted to do anything more in my life. I was so ready for it, but in a bathroom? No. It felt so wrong. It was then that our male science teacher walked in. We were shouted at but in the end we didn't get into too much trouble. After that Aaron became a recluse. I don't know if it was because he was embarrassed, angry, or scared, but he stopped talking to me. It really hurt me and I gave up the hopes of ever being with him.
Skip to the end of this year:
We eventually made up, but he still didn't really talk to me. It wasn't until a week ago I actually spoke to him for more than two minutes. We were confined to the auditorium, setting up amps for an assembly later that day. We talked, but we didn't mention the year before or anything sexual.
Later that day, Aaron sent me a message on facebook asking if I would give him a blowjob.
I really didn't know what to say. This was really unexpected and I wasn't prepared at all. I decided in my mind that I still really wanted to do it. I liked him a lot, and this was basically for my pleasure as much as his. He wants me to do it behind our stage, in a loft that holds all the costumes after school. It's hard to find the time, but I really want to!
So here are my questions:
1) Am I really wrong to do this?
2) Should I lie to my parents so I can do this?
3) At school?!
4) How can we find the time?
Thanks for everything and I'm sorry this thing is so LONG! I'm hyped on Caribou right now and my fingers just keep going!
It sounds to me like this guy wants you for nothing but sex. He talks to you once & wants you to give him head. You have a rough spot, start talking again & the first thing he asks you is to give him head. I would strongly advise you to not do this unless you just want a fuck buddy. [which isn't so bad, ;)] If you're looking for romantic relations with him, I'd definitely say that's not the smart way to go.
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so i took two prozac,skipped a day and got drunk
what could this do?
since prozac is an anti-depressant & alcohol is a depressant, it probably just cancled out.
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how do u make myspace letters larger
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take out the stars. :)
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A friend showed me a card trick a few years ago and he wont tell me how to do it. I'd really like to know. Heres the trick:
You get i think 9 cards and put them in a square so they are 3 x 3. He turned around and asked me to touch one of the cards. I did and he turned back around and told me which one I touched. He got it every time.How do you do this card trick?
If there was someone in the room, they told him where it was by placing his finger somewhere in resemblence to which card he chose. for instance, if you picked the middle card, he points to the middle of whatever they've chosen to use.
That's the way my brother & I did it when I was younger.
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Hey I need help, I really liek my bf and he really likes me. We wanna have our first kisses together and stuuf, but I don't know when or where and I am sorta nervous but I REALLY wanna kiss him. Any tips for lip virgins??
All I can say is don't rush it. Because, when it's rushed or forced, the magic just isn't there. Trust me, that's how my first kiss went. You'll know when it's the right time. :]
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sorry i couldnt get the category.
ok so i consider myself punk/emo. and theirs this girl in my school she called me a poser! and i dont kow why. i listen to rock music, and i thought i had my sense of style. i really dont think i am a poser. she told me jsut cuz i dress that way doesnt amke a rocker.
so i am asking what makes people rockers? i listen to rock. heavy metal so i dont get it? what should i do like make up sheos and clothes. thanks. iwant to improve my style
Rockstar isn't what music you listen to or what clothes you wear, it's an attidue, a lifestyle. If you see on T.V., all the rockers have this bad ass attidue. They're just laid back & whatever happens, happens. They really don't give a shit. If she calls you a poser, call her a dumbass & forget about it.
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i just turned 16 and the last time i was with a guy was about 6 months ago and i jacked him off but he didn't finger me. then we split, so he never ended up fingering me. now i'm with someone different who i know is very experienced and i know pretty soon he is going to end up fingering me. i've tried fingering myself to see what it feels like but i cant seem to do it. i always think i'm doing it right but don't feel it at all. i just want to be prepared for when he does it to me. please help! i'll rate 5s. thanks everyone!
Fingering yourself & having someone else finger you feels totally different (in my point-of-view.) I did this as well, & had your same problem. But, when my boyfriend did it, it was great. Don't sweat it, everything will come natural.
Hope I helped.
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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]
I'm 14 & I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for a good 4 months. (& yes we're still dating.) As of right now, I have absolutely no regrets. It made us closer as a relationship because that made us more comfortable with eachother. Howver; I would say to not do it to find out if you love the person, but to do it because you love the person. If you do that, then I see no problem with it. Although; other people might think differently.
Hope I helped & always remember to follow your heart. :)
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okay like 3 nights ago me and my bf broke up, and i found out yesturday he made out with this chick. it makes me think he never ever really liked me because he said he still cared for me after we broke up.and i'm really depressed,it sucks. i just need help,i need advice,how do i feel better?
It's always hard to recover from a break-up, espically when the other half is doing just fine with it. The best thing you can do is just try to date again. That always helped me. It's fun to go out with other guys who did all the things that your ex never did for you.
& on another note, if he's making out with another girl just 3 days after you broke up, he's a no body anyways. Guys like this are "supposibly" still in love with you, yet the have their tounge shoved down someone else's throat? It discusts me. Never give him another chance. It'll just end to heartbreak.
Hope I helped.
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Ok my really close friend,Jeff,is also my crush.I mean he asked me out and stuff but i turned him down caus I didnt think my friends would like him.Now how do I call him back and tell him how I feel?
Although I don't think not dating someone because your friends don't approve was a wise choice, here's what I would do.
Call him up, tell him that you are afraid of what your friends would think, (though if they were good friends they would want you to what made you happy.) that you do like him, but you really care about your other friends & their point of view.
He should understand the position you're in & be understanding. & If you're so worried about what your friends will think, then date him secretely. :) It's quite fun.
Hope I helped.
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I made out with this guy... umm he was HORRIBBLLEEE.
I just don't know what he was doing haha. Anywayss, basically, I'm afraid that he would tell people that I'm a bad kisser, because he doesn't really understand the way to french/make-out. Like I just don't think he grasps the concept of how to make out...
Anyways, now we're like pretty much hookup partners haha, so how do I adjust to his kissing or is there something I could do to improve the way he kisses?
A way to prevent this "horrible kisser" is to tell him what he does wrong. I know I was in that position a little while ago & I kinda still am. (Me being the bad kisser that is. lol) & my boyfriend was pretty much like, this is how you do it, showed it to me, & now I'm getting much better. :) Just kinda, tell him what you like & don't like. He'll catch on eventually.
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well, i'm 15 and i'm definitely not having sex before marriage. me and bf are sure of that and are strong with our beliefs.
but for me, i'm little lost on some things. i would just like to be a little bit smarter with the subject.
1st - is ejaculation (for both guys and girls)good or bad? is it gross? does it get on anything?
2nd - what are orgasms for? what do they do? why do people always ask about them?
3rd - what is "popping the cherry"? is it bad? is it something to watch out for? does it hurt?
4th - and when i am married i'm a little afraid to have sex because a lot of people say it can and can't hurt and girls can always can get pregnant. is there anything to really be afraid of? what is there to really watch out for?
5th - how well do condoms work? would condoms work everytime we would have sex?
thanx for answering...
1. Ejaculation or "cumming" is good. For the guys it means that they've reached their maximum pleasure & they have "gotten off" as some people call it. (Without condoms, this is the spirm to fertalize the woman's egg to make babys). For girls, you don't have to ejaculate to reach maximum pleasure, in most cases you usually ejaculate or "cum" many times before your maximum pleasure has been reached. Another reason girls ejaculate is for lubrication. Sometimes, the girl & guy are both "dry" & there is friction between the vagina & the penis which can cause irritation after sex.
2. Orgasims are when the girl or guy (which ever one is having the orgasim) has reached their maximum pleasure in sex. It's an outrageous feeling during sex that everyone goes for when they are being intimate. What usually happens during an orgasim is some muscles contract (muscle spasms) you get "wet" (cumming) & you sometimes get dizzy. A great feeling goes through your legs, back, & neck. It varies from person to person.
3. I don't know mush about "popping the cherry" but I'll give you what I do know. Popping the cherry is when the skin inside a girl's vagina is ripped during their first time of having sex. The girl bleeds when this happens & unfortunally it does hurt. For me, I had my cherry popped the second time my boyfriend & I ever had sex, but for most people, it's the first time.
4. As I said before in #3 it does hurt the first couple times you do it, but after the vagina gets used to it, it feels great. ;) The only thing you need to really worry about are STDs. & before you're married you & your partner should get tested to prevent the spreading. Condoms prevent STDs but just as anything, they are never 100% accurate. & if you're worried about getting pregnant, get on the pill & use a condom. That will lessen your chances of getting pregnant if you use two sources of protection. & some people even use the "before & after pill". You take these before & after sex. It does somethign to the woman's egg & prevents you from getting pregnant. However, I wouldn't only use this method. People usually don't use this pill unless they are afraid that their other way of protection has failed.
5. The guy puts the condom (a rubber slip) over his penis & when he ejaculates or "cums" it goes in the condom rather than into the woman. & causes her to not get pregnant. Condoms are never 100% accurate with keeping people from getting pregnant. But they are pretty accurate. But, they can rip or fail if the expiration date has exceeded.
Hope I have helped. :)
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f/13.5
i've had my peroid for almost 2 years now, and i've never worn a tampon.
And i want 2 (4 swinmming & such) buti don't know how it feels or how 2 put it in. and i been told if i'm not careful i could get TSS. i don't want this 2 happen what should i do?
I had this same situation at almost the same exact age. It's kindof akward if you've never used one before (unless you're sexualy active) becasue you're not used to anything being 'shoved' up there. But, after you get it in place, you can't even feel it. There will be directions on the tampon box on how to put it in, or you could always ask a female relative that's close to you. (Mom, Aunt, Grandma, etc.) & as for TSS, you only get this if you leave it in too long. You should change it about every 4-5 hours if you're scared of getting this. But then again, the tampon box will tell you all about TSS as well. Hope I've helped. :)
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do guys care if you have sex with a bra on cause i will most likely want to because im not 100% comftorable with my booobs since i feel they are too small/too pointy and not like some girls who have these amazing boobs.. theyre not like huge points but idk do you know aht i meen theyre not like the super models who have these huge rounds ones that just stay there.. even tho most of those are fake i know some girls have those naturally .. im a 34B idk not so big..
For most of my first time, I kept it on. My boyfriend knew I was self concious as well, & he respected that. After I got really comfortable(sp?)with it, I took it off my choice. You'll get used to it after a while. :)
Hope I helped.
EDIT: (sp?) means I think I made a spelling error.
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okay so this probably isnt the type of question people ussually ask you. but i really hate my school. with the strongest passsion. i mean seriously i hate everything about it. the people, my classes, my teachers. and i pretty much fight with everyone there besides my friends and i really dont know what to do because i dont know how i can live with going to this high school for another year because this year has pretty much destroyed me and i dont have the grades to get into a private school and its not like i can just go to a school in another town because you need to live there and all, or like is there a way i could? ugh please help me, and sorry that was so long.
- katie
Sorry it's taken so long to reply. I haven't been on in a while.
But, my answer to this question is maybe lay low for a little while. I know it may seem really hard, since you don't get along with alot of the people, but just try to blend in. It sucks for a little while, but after you really see how immature it is fighting with everyone you'll realize that you might not want to fight with them anymore. & They may realize the same exact thing.
If the fighting persists ask your parents if you can possibly transfer to a different school in your community. I know plenty of people who has done that, for multiple reasons.
But, if that doesn't work, just remember to stay true to the friends that you have & don't let the other people get you down. As my daddy says, "Don't sweat the small stuff. & Everything is small stuff." There's only one more year of this that you'll have to go through, & you'll never have to see those kids again.
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