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Member Since: July 21, 2006
Answers: 27
Last Update: August 3, 2006
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ok, i was talking with my frineds the other day and they said i should dump my girlfrined, and i asked why and we went into a whole list of shit, ok here it is,
1. when we are together, we don't talk much, i mean we talk alot, but not as much as i and her normly do with other people.
2. when she kiss me, it's more of a peck, and we don't kiss that much anyway.
3. she does not return some of the same feeling as i do, we both love each other very much,
and other little things, like i'm veyr romantci and she's not, i don't know what i should do, my friends mabe right, but i don't want to break up, i'm always question the relatioship, like hsould i stay init, and the problem is that i really don't know if i love her, i do, but the feeling is wirde, it's more of'should i stay in this ti make her happy at the lose of my own happyness' and things like hat, i'm her first boyfriend and she's my 3, my last two hurt my really badly, and i'm not sure if i can every love again, any advice?, if you need more info. just tell me and i will update (link)
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sorry but i must tell the truth about this question.why are gus so stupid when it comes to girls?Give her some time to be comfortable around you.kisses will come later this is her first boyfriend give it time,she is probably nervous.don't listen to your friends,I have no idea why guys always listen to thier friends stupid comments (no offense)when they should listen to themselfs and how they feel about the other person.
hope I helped...
-sam i am
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13/f
my bf of about 5 months broke up with me about 2 weeks ago.... and recent things have happened between us that have i think stressed us both out big time... and i think they're my fault. and i still want to be friends with him and i think he does... or used to idk. ANYWAY: my question is do you think im being the annoying "clingy ex girlfriend" and if so how can stop being clingy...but still be friends with him... if that makes any sence at all...
thanks sooo much! (link)
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well I would just start hanging out with him and forget about the past.easier said than done...lol:P
i know this was short but it explains a lot.
-sam I am
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I just moved and I am going to a new school and I don't know anyone. I live in a neigborhood called Lake Park and i would like to meet someone before school starts back. Can someone give me advice on meeting new people? (link)
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the way I make friends is get to know them first then ask for their name...lol.I know it should be backwards.but this has always worked for me.like if you see them talking or jumping rope or something just come up to them and say hi and can I hang out with you.then later on you can say by the way my name is ... wats yours?or vise versa.hope I helped...
- sam i am
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I like this guy and he likes me. We kind have thing with eachother. The problem is everytime my bestfriend finds out we hang out she gets mad and we end up in an argument. This is the second time now. It kills me to fight with her but i love this guy. What do I do...do i go for the guy and risk losing her as a friend??
Female age 15 (link)
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well I would be confused too...but talk to her.you can tell her that you really like him but she keeps getting in the way.she should be happy for you to have a future boyfriend.or mabe she is just jealous.just talk to her the only way to sort things out is through communication.but I don't know I am confused too....sorry I couldn't help in this situation it is just to compicated.
--sam I am
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how do you make a guy like you give me some pointers!!!
guys what makes u like a girl? (link)
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there is nothing to make a guy like you.guys must naturally like you for you you are.don't try to change it for him...hope I helped!
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This has been confusing me for awhile. People tell me I'm pretty all the time. And when I go to camp or leave my town, the guys all want me. But when I'm home, it seems like they want nothing to do with me. Guys also have said I'm hot and whatever, but why do they not make a move? I'm so confused and so sick of people saying, your pretty and me not getting any guys. Why do you think this is? (link)
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the same thing happens to me but I am glad guys don't make moves on me...hello not all guys are jerks they may like how you look but the don't even know you.
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I'm watching my friends kitten from saturday to wednesday. I'm going to have to keep it at MY house. I have to feed it, play with it, and all that stuff. How much should I charge? (link)
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you shouldn't expect payment for taking care of your friends cat just tell them to bring all the supplies needed and what she likes to do like certain foods,and toys and stuff.hopefully your friend will return the favor...
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I have been wanting a perm for sooooooo long. I want a body wave perm. I picked out this supppperrrr cute hairstyle. But, i am doing the locks of love thing. Is it ok if i get a perm and still do the locks of love thing? I know they don't allow color treated hair,,, but what about perms...i want one sooooo bad. thanks in advance and i will rate your advice. (link)
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if I were you I would donate my hair first and to help others,then I would perm it to help yourself.God helps those who help others lol...
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im 15/f. i've been best friends with this girl since i was in second grade. we're both sophmores. from second grade to seventh grade, we were like the best of friends. but, in eighth grade, she decided that quantity was more important to her than quality! so, now I feel like having 100 friends is more important to her. and it makes me feel really sad because she's like a sister to me. now it's like she has a new best friend. on top of that, she's been acting like a pain in the rear. she thinks she's so popular and so this and so that. she's just acting like a totally strange person and i feel like i don't even know her anymore. she's goes on vacation the whole summer because most of her family lives in europe. so, when she comes back, i just want things to be the way they use to be. i don't want to hang out with this big group of "friends" that she's fabricated. i want it to be the way it use to be and that whenever we went to the movies and stuff like that the group was just me and her with a whole bunch of guys. it was so much fun. what can i do to make her be that person again? (link)
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ok I am 13 but I will answer this question best I can.If I were you don't listen to other people that say move on get a new friend and stuff like that because I can see what you had with her was a special.you nvr wanna give that up,so go and talk to her tell her how you feel and what you see is going on.she might not even realize it.just tell her you feel left out and wish things were like they used to be.true friends don't give easily so go ahead and talk to her.communication is the key.
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me and my boyfriends 1 year is coming up! and i do not know what to get him!!! i cant get him anything, calone because the calone he has right now is like 130$ , i cant get him a watch because his watch is also very exspesive and i cant aford it, he dont wear ties, hes kind of wealthy so he pretty much has everything he wants so i dont know what to get him!!!! everytime he says something like " i want that" in the next day , he buys it! does anyone have any ideas or anything that will help?!?!? (link)
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the truth is people apprecciate things that come from your heart for example give him a teddy bear and tell him this reminds my of you because you are huggable.and a cupcake with a smile face on it can symbolize how he makes you smile all the time...you know things like that.
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So there's this guy i like and he is my neighbor. i am 13/f and he is 14/m. i am best friends with his little sister and she says he really likes me and want to ask me out. he TOLD me he liked me after he broke up with my best friend Sarah* and i told him that i liked him too but we could go out bc it might hurt sarahs feelings. its not about the likeing part i KNOW he does, he always flirts and comes over and stuff so thats not a problem. SO.... all my friends met him when he and sarah were going out and they all think he is a stalker frieak and i HAVE to agree with them bc i CANNOT let anyone know i like him scretly... please help! what should i do??? (link)
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this is a hard question but have you heard the saying boys come and go but friends stay forever?well stick to that saying.sorry to tell you this but your going to have to drop the situation and stay with your friends.you'll end up gaining more than losing.
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I'm 14, female.
I've never drank, smoked, or done drugs.
I feel like a loser, ALL my friends do stuff like this, cause in my town, everyone just does. I don't want to risk getting in trouble so I don't. I don't cuss, do sexual things other then making out, and I'm afraid to do crazy things with my friends. I won't sneak out with them, or like steal road signs. I just feel retarded and immature around all of them, everyone treats me like a baby, I've even been threatened a few times for being too "good." What should I do? I'm friends with almost everybody in my small town, so theres no one to go to. (link)
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just keep what your doing and stay on the good side your friends will see that sooner or later you are the lucky one that is not pregnant,or drunk or any of that crap and you will win at the end.
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umm you anwsered my last question and it really helped
umm i am 13 and i am bout 5`5 and i way bout 133 and i need to know is that un helty tell me the truth and how can i lose weight??
i really need help
thanks (link)
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well I really think you are perfect because I am about 5'0 pr 5'1 i know short I am also 13 and I way around 100 the docter said I was perfect fo my body and in the 50% area.I am asuming that since you are taller you should weigh more so I think you are perfect.but to make sure you can go look at a hieght and weight chart online http://www.oxycise.com/charts.htm I checked and you are perfect as a matter of fact I am under weight by like 5 pounds!lol...thats ok.I like my body shape and type so it doesn't matter to me.
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I keep making plans for dieting. I try and give up im 13 yrs old 5'2 and 117 pounds.I need some inspiration. Please help! (link)
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your perfect for your weight!im 13 just turned about like 2 months ago and around 5 or 5,1 and I am about 100 pounds the docter said my weight was perfect!since your taller you have to weigh more and let me tell lyou I am kinda skinny for my age so I think I actually weigh less...
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Every time I excercise I get bruises on my legs. Why? I do not hit anything.
I dance and I have like knots on my feet. How did I get this knots and what can I do to get rid of them?
Thank you (link)
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man that is so weird I have that same problem to...its usually on my legs henever I do backflips and gymnastics stuff I mean I don't hurt my self or bump into something it just happens...I don't know why though but don't worry you are not alone and I hope this column helps the both of us.:)
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OK I was talking to a dude and that is one step before dating and he said that he wanted us to work out and i was like aww he really likes me and he was like you are so sweet and i dont know why your last boyfriend cheated on you so i was like ok we are going to start dating and we are going to work out well not to long after that we didnt talk for a week so he called and he was acting really weird and i said is there another gurl and he said no and i was like ok well i called him the next day and he was at that girls house and today i saw them in the store together it made me sick I need help trying to get over him because i need to have fun not worred about him plz somebody help (link)
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I don't like player types either girl.If he was cheating on you then he is not good enough for you.start ignoring him and also don't answer his calls just don't talk to him anymore.he will realize you aren't into wat he was doing and eventually many girls will I think he might even stop.
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14/f
My boyfriend and I have been together along time. We kiss sometimes and everybody has a problem with that! For example today we we're in my room and we were kissing. His little sister (that nobody likes) went and told on us. I have never really done anything wrong before so why are they bugging? They always say I wish you guys would just be friends. We were best friends before we got together. His parents acts like hes to good for me. And in all reality we're getting married (in 5 years) and he never wants to see them again. But they don't think we should be together. what should I do when it's his parents he wants nothing to do with not me?
Mac (link)
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ok I am only 13 but I really hope I can help with this situation.His parents are proably over protective (aren't all of them?)they are proably scared of him growing up to fast.and they also might think that he is to young to be dating and kissing and other stuff.try to be more respectful towards them and give them time...mabe sooner or later they will find out that he is for you and that you guys really have something special but parents are like this and are very hard to convice...need any more help well I have got your back!
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Well, a rumor got spread about me at school last year that was completely untrue, and someone who was one of my absolute best friends believed it. He's a boy, and I'm a girl, and I guess it was just very dissapointing to have him believe it..I wouldn't have expected it out of him. (and the rumor didnt have anything to do with another guy, or him, or anything) Well, after he heard about it he stopped talking to me. Just completely ignored me, etc, so I did the same back. And it was hard, because we were very good friends, but hey, I didn't want to be friends with someone who would think I'd sink that low.
Anyway, two nights ago he called me and just out of the blue asked ME why I stopped talking to him. I explained the whole situation & he sounded very sorry. He told me if I ever have a problem to come to him about it. He said he hated when we weren't talking, hanging out, etc.
My problem is, I just don't know if I can believe it. He is a VERY sincere person, that's why I was so shocked when he just believed the rumor about me, and wouldn't come to ME to ask me about it. But idk, we talked for an hour on the phone and he said he hated that I didn't talk to him, etc, and that we basically weren't friends. I think I'm just confused, and wondering if I should believe that he didn't talk behind my back and stuff the whole time he believed the rumor? (link)
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when something like that happens you need to talk it out it is very hard at first but he is your friend you don't want to lose him.and explain everything so that he will understand the situation more clearly if you need anymore advice you can come to my column and I will be there...hope this helps. :)
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This is going to be long.
My best guy friend, Sam, I don't know what is going on with him! He would always flirt with me and talk to me. I heard him say that I was hot to one of his friends at the beginning of the year if that matters.
I also heard his friends tryings to guess who he was going to ask out and they kept saying my name and he didn't respond. All he did was stare at me and that day in my last class. right before the bell rang, his friend was like, "Do you like Sam?" and I was like, "Ummmm...No. Why?" and hes like, "Oh, just wondering." and he went out the door.
on my birthday I had invited sam to my party, which was that weekend. I took 10 of my best friends to a movie. While we were in line waiting for the popcorn, he asked if i was going to the dance on tuesday and I said, "Oh. Probably." he smiled and looked at his friend and the exchanged some weird look and then his friend said, "sam doesnt have anyone to go with." and they both stared at me expecting me to say something but I just said, "oh." and we went to go sit down.
the week of the dance, he asked my best friend, Sarah, out. She kept saying, "he barely even talks to me!" but he would only talk to her or hug her when I was around.
during the last class of the day, his best friend asked me again, "would you ever go out with sam?" and I said, "uhhhhhhh i dont know! why do you keep asking me that?!" and he was like, "Dunno..HE MIGHT LIKE YOU!" and I gave him a weird look and he said, "IM JOKING! IM JOKING!" but he didnt sound like it.
But, he broke up with sarah and started going out with taylor again and all he did was ignore me and he wasn't nice to me at all unless she wasn't anywhere close to us. I talked to jake and he said that sam answers when he calls but I've tried to call him many times over the summer but he never answers the phone.
So, I don't understand what he's doing! Does he like me or not?! (link)
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He probably does like you but doesn't know how to express himself,boys are like that I know weird right?he was probably going out with sarah to make you jealous and to see if you liked him.you simply just need to tell him that to you he has been acting weird lately and he should explain why.and just tell him the truth about your feelings you two should be able to sort things out.hope this advice helped...
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in this school year, i got very popular, i have so many more frineds and everything, but my old friends are getting really pissed at me.. i dont even feel like a part of them any more .. what shud i do? :( (link)
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They probably think since you are popular that you are to good for them.Simple thing really but easier said than done...just apologize to them and say just because I am popular doesn't mean I forgot about you...I am sorry I haven't been spending enough time with you guys and so sorry if I made you guys feel left out.And also ask them why else they might be getting pissed at you.I simply don't know what else to right but you don't want to lose old friendships because truly those are the people that have know you the most and the longest and will stick to you till the end if you just treat them the way you want to be treated...hope this helps.
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