I've been threw alot in my 19 years any subject you can think of death, love, family, friends all the dramatic things.
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Location: Ct.
Age: 19
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Lately my hair has been extremely dry. I don't know wether its that I straighten it everyday or that I wash my hair everyday. Are there any products that your suggest to make my hair not dry? (link)
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it most likely is the straightening. go to the store and find vo5 (i think its called refinishing cream) if you cant find that then you need to look for the kits that you put the cream on your hair and let it sit there those are really good at rehydrating your hair and give the straighting a break
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ok so i am supposed to go to a sleepover next weekend, only there will be some guys there that my parents really don't like, and so they won't let me go. thing is, there is really nothing bad about them but they won't listen, and still refuse to let me go. what should i do? because i really want to go, and i'm afraid they won't be friends with me anymore if i tell them. (link)
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try bringing them to your house and having them meet your parents like that find out why your parents dont like them and talk with them about it. i know it probaley goes against everythign you believe but sitting down and just talking to your parents really does help. good luck.
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Hi I'm an A level drama student thinking about going on to drama/dance scool in london and I've not done any auditions before has anyone got any tips to help with nerves and confidance?
Many thx Joolz,(i rate high) (link)
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your gonna be nervous no matter what. just relax don't work yourself up and dont stress yourself out, if its meant to be then it will i think youll do fine and right before you audition remember to breath and relax remember everything you have to do and be confident and you'll do fine good luck
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Im 13 years old. A lot of the other girls have boy friends and all but ofcourse i dont. ive never even had a first kiss or went on a date with a boy. Its not like im ugly because im not really. i just dont know...it just feels like that time is never going to come??.. (link)
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i feel so bad for you i know the feeling i was there at your age but i'm 19 now and i've boyfriends, well hell i'm not a virgin anymore for it started when i was 15 and i got my first boyfriend. just relax it'll come when you least expect it be patient your young.
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I have really bad grades and until there up i have no life! i have a boyfriend who now thinks im asking him for a break when i said i need to focus more on school, my friends are getting mad at me because now i cant hang out with them and i can only have 30 min on the phone and an hour of t.v! how can i get my life back with doing better in school i get home a 4 every day and i need a schedule so i can get my life back!! (link)
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the only thing you can do is bring up your grades. who cares if your friends get mad tell you need to get your shit straight. you need to live for yourself and sorry but this is something that you have to do for yourself. tyr asking your teachers for weekly reports to give to your parents and when they see you improving and trying you'll start to get your life back.
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hey guys! um me and my twin sister got a postcard in the mail for barbazion modeling. it said that there were open call auditions. i was just wondering if anyone knew anything about it. like how much does it cost? do you need any experience? so, if you know anything ,please help me! thanx! (p.s. i went on their website, but i couldnt find anything!) thanx! (link)
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be careful, don't get scammed or anything. i heard some where that if it's real and you won't need to pay anything the only thing you need is to have your head shots taken if they ask you for all kinds of money dont do it you'll lose your money and have nothing to show.
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I was on Weight Watchers and I am now down to my goal weight (125 pounds). I want to stay at this weight. I was having 20 points a day (about 1,200 calories). I am a 5'4 female...by how much should I increase my point intake to stay at 125 pounds without gaining or losing? (link)
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my mom did weight watchers too and she lost a lot of weight. keep excercising daily and eating healthy i would stay between 20-25 points just remember everything they told you , this is where the hard part comes, maintaining, but you'll be fine if you remember what they told you good luck.
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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?
shaiina (link)
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first, ask her why she calls you fat, you dont need to do the emotional thing just tell her to stop because it's annoying and if she doesn't then call her a fatty or a hefer she probaley is jealous and theres nothing you can do about that.
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my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl .. we have been goin out for 2 1/2 monthes now .. he says he loves me, but i dont see how you can cheat on somebody you love. he didnt have sex with the other gurl, but they kissed. so i then broke up with him and that same day i broke up with him he kissed another girl .. im so confused. should i stay with him ? i mean we are both only 15 years old . so maybe it was just hormones. but do you think he loves me. he treats me really good, hes boughten me a gold ring and big teddy bear when i was sick he (link)
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don't get back with him. he may really care for you and stuff but he obviously doesn't care enough to treat you how you deserve to be treated. your only 15 try and find someone else you'll find someone who would treat you right this asshole obivously isn't.
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Alright, this is sort of a random question, but I'm cleaning out my closet today, because I have WAY too many clothes. It's hard to find anything to wear because I have so much STUFF that I simply never wear...does anyone have a solution to this problem? Like, can you list out what a good amount of clothing to have is? For example, how many jeans you should have, how many tee-shirts, how many skirts, etc. Also, what's the remedy to this? I have so much clothing-but nothing to wear! Should I limit where I shop to like...2 or 3 certain clothing stores? HELP! (link)
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go through your closet and everything that you haven't worn in year get rid of, because your probaley not going to wear it again, make outfits and whatever you have that doesn't go with anything get rid of. you dont really need to have a certain number of things, if you have older things that you kept because you used to like it then get rid of it and go through what you have and find something to replace it, dirty or stained things get rid of. trust me this works i did it to my closet and it helped alot.
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for a long time. he never pressures me or disrespects me. but the other day in the movies he started touching my boobs which is really unlike him. then apologized throughout the whole movie for doing it. we went out to dinner and i flipped out on him and he started CRYING. this morning at school he decorated my locker saying "im so sorry i love you" with hearts all over it. i found out that he stayed up all night making it. he was crying all day in school, and he wrote me a long apology letter. everyone says im overreacting. should i get back with him because i really want to... (link)
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i think hes the one overreaccting thats riddiculous take him back it's just a boob .
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hey im a 17 year old girl i have a boyfriend how is to much with me but i think hes a woosse... in the way that if im not with him every minute of every day he gets bitchy... if i ask for a night off he bitches... cryies you name it... he does it.. and it just makes me feel bad... and he wins... i feel like im in jail... he says he dosnt mind but the next day he says i hated it and makes me feel bad like i dont what to do... hes driving me insane... and when i try talking abt it he just makes me feel bad... i need help (link)
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i had a boyfriend like that. it was the most pathetic thing. honey break up with him. mine was bad he would cry in public just to get my attention. get rid of him. it sounds harsh but trust me it needs to done. you don't want him getting like my old one trust me.
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i dont get it y do we all have 2 deal with crap from our exes some1 help im me i cant take it he treats me like shit!!help me please i dont know what to do anymore because it gets on my nerves and then hes going out with my best friend or ex best friend and its pissing me off and i have tried talking to both of them but it doesnt help at all and i think she knows she is pissing me off real bad!!!and it hurts though ya know?someone help i rate fives and fours at the least!! (link)
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hes your ex your shouldn't be stressing about him anyway. and that "friend" is obviously no friend at all. screw the both of find a new man and a new friend. make sure you dont let them know that your upset. be confident, you don't need either of them and you need to let them know that. if you can't find a man right away dont worry be by yourself theres no harm in it, it builds character if you let it. its not sucha negative thing
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My family has always had issues. I've tried to work at fixing them even though my family tells me constantly that its me, not them. We fight over how much work each other does around the house, we fight over who gets to watch what on TV, we fight about almost anything we can think of. I think that everyone in my family has little problems in their lives that they need to work on, but they all seem to think that it's my fault, when I believe all I'm trying to do is help get this family in line because no one else can. Could it all be my fault, or no? (link)
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unlike the other advice you've gotten i'm gonna say don't ignore them that only makes you look worse. make sure you do your part in the house, when arguments about what to watch break out don't pick a side at all instead just sit there as if you don't care either way. don't give them a reason to involve you in these arguments. try and be the voice of reason if it's possible. and if someone wants to talk to you, talk to them (like your parents) make yourself available and make it so they know what your thinking and where you stand in the house. be patient and don't let your attitude get in the way of letting you say what you need to. good luck
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ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do? (link)
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don't worry about it. your time will come in four years after thats all happened you'll look back and wonder why it was such a big deal it'll happen when it happens. just relax
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i am so confused rite noww! Im goin out with this kid, but im kind of gettin bored with him and he is getting bored with me i can tell! And my best guy friend likes me! I just found out but i dont like him in that way. Then, my ex - boyfriend from like the beginning of LAST YEAR says he wants me back and i do but my friends tell me i shouldnt go out with him cuz there was a rumor he cheated on me with a girl from another town ..i like some kid in my class but i dont even know if hes single and i dont want to let everyone else down so what do i do?! thank you!! ♥ kelsey (link)
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i say go for the kid in your class, you've already had relations with the rest of them go for something new.
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Okay, I need some advice, and this might be pretty long because of all the explaining I have to do about this... but anyways, at the beginning of the school year I changed schools. I started liking this guy in my Biology class. I didn't know his name because I had only been there three or four days. Then one day one of my new friends told me his friend liked me. I was all like "Okay, whatever." Well, about a few weeks later, I realized the guy that liked me was the guy I liked. The guy & I weren't really friends, and we only had a short conversation probably twice, but yet I always caught him looking at me or something and he would always stand by me if we were waiting outside the classroom for the teacher. Well, now we're in a new semester and we have History together. We've talked a few more times but not much. And I also overheard my friend talking to him about me and telling him I don't have a boyfriend and he should go out with me (but she doesn't know I like him.) I also still catch him looking at me, but he hangs around with this other girl that he seems to like. Like today, for instance, he would look at me alot during the first half of the period, then the second half he went over and sat beside the other girl and was talking to her. And I'm not really the kind of girl that will tell a guy I like him up front or anything. But I'm really confused by this - does he like me, or not? Some advice/help would be appreciated. =) Thanks. Oh, by the way, I'm 15 years old & female. (link)
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see guys can like lots of girls at the same time where we girls usually like one. you know he's at least interested. make him notice dont dress like slut or anything but make yourself noticable, make conversation with other boys in your class. be classy, funny and hard to get and if he doesnt notice well forget him by that time some other boy may have noticed you good luck
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i started likeing on of my friends and he's 17. Im only 13. He's really sweet and he REALLY isnt a bad person. when im around him, when i talked to him, even if i hear his voice i just smile the biggest smile. I talk to him almost every night on the phone and we text each other constintly through out the day. he said he likes me and i like him also. Some of my guy friends said that they dont want me to get hurt. they dont know him. They said that 13 and 17 is a very big age diffrence, but i really like him alot. He just makes me happy and for awhile i haven't been happy. Do you think that i should continue to like him? and do you think that if he was to ask me out should i go out with him? please tell me what to do im so confused (link)
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four years really isn't that long, but what happens in the years between 13 and 17 is alot you guys are probley alot different maturity wise. stay friends with him look for boys our age keep him around as friend because the older you get the more that gap seems to close alot.
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this is a little long but i hope someone will answer ok today in science i was writing a note back and froth with a girl then she said i was dared to ask you out and i said yeah sure why not now i dont know what to do becasue like this is the first time ive been asked out does everything like pan out or i just dont know how to deal with this situation. ITs confusing me so help it would be great (link)
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if your really gonna go somewhere with her, then it wasn't really a dare and if it was then it was her friends knowing that she liked you. don't worry about it shes more nervous than you we girls always are. make sure you complement her good luck
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HEEEEEEEELP!!!!!PLEASE!!!!!
ok ok....i submitted a question about my bestfriend that i made out with and that i have gone out with a million times...blah blah blah well after i did that he asked my out on halloween and we ahve been going out for 3 months now...but i got kicked out of my private school and im goin back to public school w/him and he thinks that i will dump him now becuase i will just go out with sumone eles and the only reason i have been going out with him this long is becuase i didnt have anyone to go out w/ at my old school and he almost started crying...i told him he was CRAZII and that i love him more than anything...but i dont rele trust myself i mean i know i love him but... i have already talked to a few of my ex boyfriends and i already know that i am gunna have to fiight to b able to turn them down becuase one of them already asked me to...does that mean i dont love my boyfriend???? (link)
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if you love him like you say that you do then you shouldn't be worrying about if you trust yourself. if you really love him then be with him and don't do anything stupid stay with him and if you love him then show him how much and that he has nothing to worry about. but if your not sure just dont break the poor kids heart again we dont want him crying again
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