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hey im a 17 year old girl i have a boyfriend how is to much with me but i think hes a woosse... in the way that if im not with him every minute of every day he gets bitchy... if i ask for a night off he bitches... cryies you name it... he does it.. and it just makes me feel bad... and he wins... i feel like im in jail... he says he dosnt mind but the next day he says i hated it and makes me feel bad like i dont what to do... hes driving me insane... and when i try talking abt it he just makes me feel bad... i need help
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ok my advice is to break up with the cry baby !! i had a bf like that and not to be unsensative but i dumped him it was like i was a fridge and he was a magnet that was glued on !! he would complain every time i would do anythig without him it got so annoying it was like i was locked up in a cage !!! i say dump him !! not to be mean but its the only way to stop it !! well hope i helped some !!
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Are you happy?
Is this what you wanted out of a relationship?
If the answer to either of those is 'no', then you have your own solution. You need to clearly explain to your boyfriend that this behaviour is unacceptible. Tell him that you care about him, but you need time away from him. If it continues, break up with him.
The way your boyfriend is acting is both controlling and manipulative; in no way is it healthy, and you are doing neither of you a favour by staying with him. That only teaches him that he can control you - and other women.
Good luck.
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Everyone else's advice on this had been great, but i have one tiny suggestion. Next time he's clingy or wussy just look him straight in the eye and say.... "Man, you are a total wuss/girl/man- bitch. Grow up a little."
Trust me, insult his manly pride and he may wise up a little. If not, go with everyone else's advice and dump the pansy.
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QUIT wasting your time. You don't need the jerk ordering your life around. If your friends aren't screaming at you now, they will be. It is abusive and disrespectful of him to think that you only live to please him. You will feel much better when you dump the trash onto the street for some other poor soul to pick up. And when he threatens to kill himself because he has nothing to live for, ignore him. Well, report him to a counselor or his mom, and then ignore him.
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Get out of there...you don't need to be made to feel so bad! Life is short and you've gotta enjoy it while you can :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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i had a boyfriend like that. it was the most pathetic thing. honey break up with him. mine was bad he would cry in public just to get my attention. get rid of him. it sounds harsh but trust me it needs to done. you don't want him getting like my old one trust me.
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Ok well here it is. You need to break up with this guy. He's totally insecure and controlling.He should want you to enjoy life and be happy. Boyfriends are supposed to be fun and supportive. I promise you, this will only get worse. He's manipulative(using guilt trips to play on your sympathy). And controlling and manipulative is not a good combination. There are plenty of fish in the Sea and this one needs to grow up a little.
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This is called CONTROLING BEHAVIOR and is not to be tolorated! If he can't respect your needs dump his ass and ignore your feelings of guilt. I had a ex who called every thirty minutes while I was out with my best friend (who USED to be a friend of his too.) This was after three years of marriage. He started with the little things and kept getting worse. End this while you can. Luck and Love!
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WeLp...get rid of him...lol...yes saying the same thing as everyone else...but he is just bringing you down. Hes to clingy...and he obviously has low self confidence if he will stop you from doing the things that make you happy...just so HE can be happy! It doesnt make sence?! There will be tons of other boyfriends...let him go, hes so not worth it...what a psyco..lol
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I would ditch him, because the longer you date him the worse it's going to get. No offense or anything but just to be blunt about it, I would dump him because I've seen this happen to alot of people. They start getting abused sometimes physical but mostly mental - they try and blame everything on you and make it seem like it's all you fault. Good luck. xox
<3 Brit
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This is so obvious... DUMP HIM. he is obviously clingy. he's trying to control yourself and he's trying to make you feel bad so that you'll spend more time with him. no wonder why you feel like you're in jail; he doesnt give you much freedom. He doesnt respect you, and he's basically pushing you around. when he's trying to make you feel bad, you just need to kno that he doesnt control your life, you do. Dont let yourself suffer like this. He's not right for you, and you'll be better off without him. Your need your space, you need your freedom, and you need to get your life back
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