Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Age: 16
MSN: cute_resentment@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 21, 2004
Answers: 21
Last Update: October 30, 2004
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What does the term i.e. mean? Does it mean something like "For example"? I'm not sure. If you could help me out that'd be great. (link)
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it's the short- form way of saying "for example" or "for instance". i think it's based on something latin..
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Alright... So I just held a party which started about five hours ago and ended around 11:00 pm. 8th period today I invited one of my guy friends at the last minute. I told him that he couldn't bring anybody but himself, since there were already going to be a lot of people and my mother would flip if someone she didn't know, showed up at our house uninvited. He told me his friend whom he hasn't seen in a long time was coming to visit, but I told him that he couldn't bring him for reasons I already stated. It was basically an open invitation, if he could come alone, then he could come, but if he couldn't, then that was too bad. So, a little bit before the party after a few early people arrived, he called me and said he was in the neighborhood and was wondering if he could come a few minutes early. I said it was fine, and he came... with a friend in tow... I was a little pissed, but I let it slide for the time being. Well, a little while later after basically everyone arrived, he "pretended" to steal some of my DVD's and lots of food. Then, a few minutes later, he calls me over and says he's got a "shitload of alcohol" in his car. Now, my friends and I are not into that kind of stuff, and it made me really uncomfortable. I basically told him I thought he should leave. He got a little pissed but agreed to it. His friend was kind of just sitting there the whole time, not talking. So they got up and stood at the food table for a while and just hung out. I was really pissed and worried at the time, cuz one of my other freinds was threatening to leave (the alcohol comment made her really uncomfortable), so I said "Are you just going to loiter there?". He got really pissed then, and then left with his friend. A few minutes later he called all heated and was saying "You were really rude to me, and the alcohol thing was just a joke" which I didn't believe, because he only said it was a joke after I expressed my discontent. So then I told him again why he had to leave, and he was just like "yeah whatever, fuck you" and hung up. Now, I've thought about it over and over and my friends say that he's a jerk and I have every right to be angry. But I'm not sure... Was any of this my fault? I feel I made it very clear that he wasn't supposed to bring anyone, and that if he wanted to spend time with his friend, he should do so. We could always hang out some other time. It's not like he's doing me some huge favor by coming. I just need to know, for my own sanity, do I have the right to be angry? Thanks... Pom (link)
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you have every right to be angry!
First of all, he KNEW you didn't want people you don't know at your party, yet he still brought someone you specifically said he couldn't. THEN, to make matters worse, he brought up something that if he was a true friend he would know you aren't comfortable with. Even if he was joking, and it seems like he WASN'T, he still shouldn't have said it. Then he couldn't even be courteous to you when you asked him to leave.
you should be mad. I would be.
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Does anyone know any good diets that actually work? Any exercises? (link)
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running of course. or the eliptical trainer. and pilates works wonders!
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Does pro activ really work? any body ever tryed it, how long did it take for you to have clear skin.? any dis-advantages? (link)
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my cousin bought it, and in about a month he went from HORRIBLE acne to almost perfectly clear skin.
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a couple of my friends just got mono and i have been soooooo exhausted lately... randomly falling asleep in class, body aches, cold, fever etc.... so be4 i get tested...how do u know if u have mono? (symptoms?!)
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I had mono and it was AWFUL. I ended up in bed for two months.
you get REALLY tired, so tired you can hardly move. and the glands in your neck sometimes swell all up.
go to the doctor and he'll give you a blood test to determine if you have mono.
i hope you don't! it's pretty crappy
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ok people at my school make fun of me and call me fat cuz im a size 3 n not a 1 like them. this makes me upset cuz i dont think im fat n people liek make me cry cuz their so mean to me. what shud i do?
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the people at your school are assholes. ignore them. you're NOT fat, a size 3 is TINY!!
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what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them? (link)
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seeing someone you go on dates with them sometimes, but you're not technically their boyfriend or girlfriend. if you're just seeing someone if you see other people it's not cheating, since the person you're seeing isn't really your boyfriend/girlfriend
xoxo
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Im not sure, but i think im starting 2 over eat. I get hungry every 2 hours, eacht ime eating a full meal. I can tell my stomach is gettin fatter jus by the way my clothes r fitting. I also cant stop drinkin soda. I crave it when i cant have it even though i try and fight it. Ive never been overweight. Last time i was weighed which was about a month ago, i was about 110 and im jus barely 5'2" and 13. Do any of you know a way that i can stop eatin so much and tone up my stomach again??? Any help is appreciated!!! (link)
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you might be a compulsive over eater, or maybe you're on the verge of it. it's a disease, much like anorexia. ask your doctor about it.
or maybe the meals you're eating aren't very filling. try eating stuff thats low in calories but high in protein, since protien makes you stay fuller longer. eat stuff like tuna. also stuff like oatmeal tends to make you feel fuller. that way, if you're eating cuz you're hungry, you won't eat, cuz you won't be hungry!
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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!! (link)
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you can't "go anorexic". It's a disease. You can't control it. And trust me, you do NOT want to be anorexic. Go on weight watchers, it's healthier and in the end, most likely is more effective.
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my cousin is really overweight she was over earlier this night and she was telling me about how she wants to kill herself because ever one teases her about how fat she is. its really hard for her to find clothes and she feels like she shouldnt be alive i guess. shes only 14 in 9th grade and weighs im guessin 230. she hates bein around people cause they always pick on her, and she hardly goes out of the house and last year she hardly went to school because of it. can you guys help me out by giving me some excercizes she can do or what not to eat? and should she see a doctor? because they think she might have thighroids or something. thanks. also how long would it take her to lose like 35 pounds? (link)
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one of my best friends was in the exact same situation last year. She went on Weight Watchers and it REALLY helped her. She's lost nearly 40lbs in something like 3 or 4 months. And she's still losing. It worked really well for her, and she no longer thinks of killing herself and she's a much much happier and more outgoing person. Plus, she looks really good!
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ok im 5'4 and 124 pounds! i know fat butt but o well i wanna lose 11 pounds! any excercises / diets that will help?! please help! i cant stand being th " GIANT " any more! i rate 5s! (link)
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you are honestly not fat. I'm 5'4, and I know that if I were 124 pounds I wouldn't look giant! I'm 5'4 and 114 and people call me underweight! So be happy how you are =o). But if you really want to lose weight, just cut back on the little things, but don't depreive yourself. For instance, drink one less can of pop a day, or replace it with diet pop. Little things like that make a big difference!
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i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks. (link)
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love is colour blind.
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hey
i really want to become a vegetarian, but i dont know the right way to do it. i dont wanna be a vegan because i love milk and cheese wayy too much. but is just not eating meats the right way to do it so i'll still be healthy? i'll still eat eggs and stuff, but if i just dont eat meats will i be okay? any vegetarians here would be greatly apprecied!
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you'll be fine if you don't eat meats, you just need to make sure you get your protiens and iron! I've been a vegetarian since I was in grade 5 and i'm in grade 11 now, and i'm perfectly healthy! Just eat a lot of things like beans, spinach, leafy greens, soy, etc. Don't be one of those vegetarians who eats only junk and ends up unhealthy. Things like protien bars, veggie burgers, fake chicken cutlets, stuff like that is great!
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ok my friends thought that i cut myself which I DONT! i didnt no it but they were all talking about me and saying that i did.. i no that they were worried but they didnt even come to me about it and they were like spreading rumors about it (only our group and a few other ppl heard tho). also some friends were talking and saying that i couldnt express myself bcuz i copied my bestfriend in 4th grade... hmm im in 9th now.. and i express myself ALOT. im really hurt that they were talking this shit behind my back and not coming to me and sayin i cant express myself
should i b mad??
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yes, you should be mad. If they're supposed to be your friends, they shouldn't be making things up about you. And if they honestly thought you cut yourself then they should have confronted you about it and tried to help you, not simply talk about it behind your back
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okay im a girl and i havent gotten my period since like the middle of august, and theres no way im pregnant ive never done anything with a guy cept making out and that cant make you pregnant, so i have no idea why im not getting my period. i got my first one like around xmas 2002 so culd it just be irregular? what culd make it stop? is there sumthing wrong with me? anyone help me please! im kind of scared! (link)
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this same thing happened to me last year. It was because I was underweight for my height, and my body couldn't support having a period. Maybe you're underweight? I suggest talking to a doctor about it, just to be on the safe side!
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This may be a stupid question but...
I want to start wearing tampons but never wore them before and i dont know how to wear them. Do they hurt or feel weird? How do i put them in?
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when I first put in a tampon i was SO scared. That doesn't help. Make sure you're as relaxed as you can be. As long as you get it in all the way it won't hurt one bit! It's much better (and cleaner feeling!) than pads. Get the "slim fit" ones, they're easier to get in your first time
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Ok, I'm running for Freshmen President. Anyone have any good tips for getting elected???? (link)
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posters, posters, posters! and funny, noticeable posters! or anything else to get the word around. I know i always vote for the people who's posters, etc. i most liked if I don't know anything else about the canidates!
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14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. I had this dream about this guy at school that I kind of like. I dreamt that I was pregnant with his baby and we were a couple. I'm only 14, but in my dream I was entirely happy about this. What does this dream mean? (link)
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It probably means you really like this guy, and maybe see a future with him.
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well...i am a cutter. i have been cutting for about a year now. by the way i am 13 and female. i want to know why i feel so great after i do cut. its like nothing is wrong after i cut. i have tried to stop....but it has never worked.
also... do u know where i could find other people that are self addmitted cutters? (link)
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there's these online journal websites, like www.livejournal.com that have communities that you can join. There's communities on everything you can imagine, including cutting
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ok I have very thick hair a few inches past my shoulder..and I am starting to wash it alot more so it won't be frizzy..soo now I always have to do something to it or it will be REALLY big and poofy..well I can't blow dry my hair straight..it takes forever and it never works..so I got all those straightening poducts..but they're all for when you blow dry your hair straight..when you don't..it just makes it not frizzy ya know? I straighten it alot but to make it look good it takes SOOO long and I dont have the time and it's really bad for your hair..can't get it chemically cuz thats bad too and I got it once and it messed up..so any tips to help? (link)
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try "citre shine shine miracle" or something like that. I used to have super thick super frizzy hair and when i put that in it it made my hair MUCH less frizzy. It's about $8 i think and lasts FOREVER bc you only have to use a tiny bit each time.
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