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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...*~respect yourself~*
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heyy everyone!!
this years my senior year, but we dont have a good prank.
we want it to be hilarous, but we dont want to hurt anybody.
were not scared about getting in trouble, but we really dont want to hurt/insult anyone.
ive googled and goodsearched and checked yahoo, but i cant find any pranks that arent hurtful.a lot of them involve animals or assembling a car inside a classroom, but neither of those work.
any suggestions?
thanx so much!!
p.s any ideas for cute stuff to do in school for valentines day?
thanx so much!
in my senior year we had a big courtyard covered in grass where some people had their lunch, we snuck in one night and used a powerful weed killer to kill the grass and wrote in massive writing "SENIORS 2006" It stayed like that for months after we left and is still remembered :) we also bought a whole heap of toilet rolls and picked the lock on the deputy principals office and basically filled it up. was so funny!
good luck and congrats!
15/m. well whenever i go on a date with this girl, i find it really hard to like talk. we both do. theres nothing really to say. weve talked about everything. ive asked about her, what she likes, what she doesnt etc and vice versa. there really is nothing to talk about. there will be odd moments of silence for like 1 minute or two when no one says anything.
Gday mate,
sometimes it's just hard to talk to people. it seems to me that she's not the right girl for you because you need to be able to talk in a relationship. if you have nothing to talk about then theres not really a point in continueing to date her.
i really really love this guy. but i told him that i thought i was in love with him and he acts like hes in love with me and he says stuff that makes me think he is but then he says hes not IN love with me he says he just loves me.. and so im confused... like he always tells me that i mean more to him than anyone and that he loves me so much and that he cares about me more than anyone else and stuff like that so what do u think??
Gday mate
Seems to me that he just wants to be friends. if you are happy with that then that's fantastic because it seems that he really cares about you. on the other hand it might be hard for you because if your IN love with him then you might need to be apart to get over him.
Okay, so to understand me i am going to have to go back in time and get some background and it might be long but please, i need the help. I am going to use some fake names otherwise it could get confusing.
SOO;; towards the end of the school year my bestfriend, Jason, told me that this kid Steve said i was hott so Jason said he would talk to me about him and see what i thought about him. I told Jason that i thought steve was realllly cute. So me and steve started to talk and then school was about a week till over for summer. Steve ended up telling me that he liked me and i told him i liked him too. THen STeve said "Wouldnt it be weird though since summer is coming and we will barely see eachother" but i had figured we woulda hung out. ((which we didnt)) everytime i would try he couldnt. So the entire summer has gone by and i still havent seen him and i havent talked to him in about 2 weeks or so. something like that. THen, whenever i will try and talk he doesnt talk back, like texting. So i have no clue if he doesnt like me or what. i think he may like this other girl...but i have no idea. i really need some help.
**sorry its longg =[ **
Gday mate,
Look, seems to me that steve isn't interested anymore. either that or he likes being pursued. best thing is to stop trying to contact him. that should wake him up a bit and if he likes you, he'll call you. he obviously knows how you feel so just leave it up to him. if he doesn't call then he totally isn't worth it so move on and find a guy that deserves you. good luck!
I love my brother with all my heart. I would do anything for him and he knows it. Im 14, he's 17. He's barrowed money from me never paid me back. I bailed his butt out've jail once because his car wasn't expected, and I'm 14! I've been saving up money for cloths, whatever and I spents a lil over 200 of that on him. He need's gas money, he needs this he needs that and when I don't give him the money he makes me feel guilty because I just went shopping and boughta 30 dollar purse. Well I work for a friend of the neightborhood, I do yard work.. anything because I know my parents can't afford some things I might want. I want him to learn and me bailing him out's not going to do that. I've tried telling him that if you keep running away its gunna make tomarrow harder to live than today so he needs to get a job and stop moocking off his LITTLE sister. I don't wanna constantly worry about him. Yess I know my parents should worry but there so rapped up in there own lives I could go missing and they wouldnt know for 2 days. I dont blame them, there live are important to, but enough is enough! He's planning on runningaway to go to my aunt precillas and needs money. I told him no! He;s like whyy not?? So i explanned to him that its barrowing its giving and that you need a job and he got all mad me.(couldnt careless) Well He called me 3 in dah morning saying he needs a ride home and he told me where he is and that hes wasted, So i get my Bf's mom to do it. She understood and actualy apoliized to me, I gave her gas moeny to go all the wa down there and for inconvinice, and I started yeling at him. Calling him a bum asking how it feels to be dependent of his little sister younger by four years who has more money than he has had in his whole life and That was the last time I talked to him. Im worried about him. I feel bad for saying it o him but its the truth and he needs to understand im not gunna be there 24-7, If i have plans in not gunna drop them cuz he needs a ride.
G'Day mate, i reckon the only way to help him is to stop helping him. i know he makes you feel guilty if you dont bail him out but you need to work through that. as long as he knows he can talk you around he will continue to do so. it must be really hard for you but he needs to stand on his own two feet.
hope i helped
~Angie
I had unprotected sex, which is probably a given considering the subject, but it was kind of close to when my period was supposed to start. If it is close, is it possible for my period to go ahead and start, and go through, but me still be pregnant? I really need help :/
even if you got your periods, there is still a chance you could be pregnant. i had a mate get hers twice and she was pregnant. get a pregnancy test, mate.
i know we all hate these questions but...
ive had my period for 5 years and hit my growth spurt and everthing, but im still only a 32A. it sucks. my mom is a bigger B cup so i heard youre usually around your moms size? i know they say you dont stop growing until youre like 18 but i only have a little over a year till then and it seems like i would have grown by now?
please dont give me the "just love your body and be happy" crap i just really want to know what my chances of still growing are.
It is different for everybody. they may stay just like that but they could grow. a friend of mine was completely flat at 18 and she's 21 now and is a D cup. there is nothing you can do to alter what happens so you'lljust have to wait and see.
Ok. I am going to use real names because I don't feel the need to hide this.
I have a friend Taylor. We have been good friends for a while. I also have a best friend Dave.
Dave and Taylor were together, but not going out. They really liked eachother, understandable right?
Taylor "broke up" with Dave, then hated him for the last 4 months. For no reason at all, just wouldn't talk to him and made fun on him constantly. Dave hurt for a while, but finally got over it.
Dave and I have been extremely close ever since we met. Dave and I now are kind of, as you can say, together.
Ever since Dave and I have been together, Taylor has been trying to talk to Dave again, and asks me ridiculous questions about me and him and what we do. She said that him her and can only be enemies, or lovers. So what does that mean? If she is trying to talk to him, that might mean she wants to be lovers with him.
She insists she is over him and does not want him, but why is she constantly asking me about it? And flipping out on me about him. I think she still has feelings for him, which is understandable. But she has hated him for 4 months, and Dave would try to talk to her, but she was just such a BITCH to him that he got over her.
It's not my fault me and him like eachother, we cannot control feelings. I understand where she is coming from because it is her ex, but still, they are over, and she knows it.
I don't know what to do. I do not what to loose either of them. Taylor is just being very immature about this and said she might as well go hook up with my ex boyfriend Justin, so I would know how it felt.
Dave and I have been through A LOT together. Like, a mad amount of stupid shit we have done and gotten in trouble for. Taylor seems like it is right to bring those mistakes up to make me sound like a bad person.
I tried talking to her so many times.
Now I am thinking I should just end it wtih Dave so this whole thing would stop, no matter how much I don't want to.
Someone please help me, I really don't know what to do.
i've actually been in the same situation... from taylors point of view. my best friend fell for my ex. this wasn't just any ex. him and i were together for ages and thought we were in love. i realised i didn't really love him so i had to break it off. my best friend kat started getting a bit distant. she stopped returning my calls and didn't hang out with me as much. if she just told me straight up i would have been okay, but i found out from someone else. she finally fessed up and started going into detail about their sex life. i figure the best way to help you is to let you know what she is probably going through.
she feels that she is losing her best friend to her ex. and i'm sure she is a little jealous - thats only natural. but i'm wondering, did you consult her before you hooked up with dave? its just that if kat had asked me it'd be okay. she might not feel comfortable with it. i suggest you talk seriously with her and it may come down to you making a choice. taylor or dave?
HUGE PROBLEM. I am going to be a freshman this year, and im going to a highschool where I dont know ANYBODY. I mean, not one person. I cant even tell you how unbelievably scared I am.
Can anyone whose in highschool tell me how easy it is to make friends or something? And has this happened to anyone else? IM REALLY SCARED!
THANKS YOU :/
I went to a high school where i didn't know anyone and you'd be surprised by the amount of people in the same situation. So dont worry about it. it's easy to make friends!
i guess this is under the right subject? anyways i just wanted to know what karma is? like i know its "what goes around comes around" but i dont really get it..? && people have it as their religious views...&& i dont see how its a religion.
-thanks.
Usually it is believed to be a sum of all that an individual has done, is currently doing and will do. Karma is not about retribution, vengeance, punishment or reward; karma simply deals with what is. The effects of all deeds actively create past, present and future experiences, thus making one responsible for one's own life, and the pain and joy it brings to others. In religions that incorporate reincarnation, karma extends through one's present life and all past and future lives as well.
many believe God plays some kind of role, for example, as the dispenser of the fruits of karma. Another view holds that a Sadguru, acting on God's behalf, can mitigate or work out some of the karma of the disciple
The "Law of Karma" is central in Dharmic religions. All living creatures are responsible for their karma — their actions and the effects of their actions — and for their release from samsara. The concept can be traced back to the early Upanishads.
The esoteric Christian tradition adds that the essence of the teachings of Christ is that the law of sin and death may be overcome by Love, which will restore immortality.
Hindus believe that everything in the Universe is in a state of creation, maintenance or destruction. Similarly, the mind creates a thought, maintains it for some time and the thought ultimately dies down (perhaps to be replaced by another thought). In addition to the three states of consciousness, Hinduism puts forward a fourth state of being called Turiya or pure consciousness, where the mind is not engaged in thinking but just observes the thoughts. Actions in the Turiya state do not create karma. Meditation is a practice aimed at giving individuals the experience of being in this objective state. An individual who is constantly in the turiya state is said to have attained moksha where their actions happen as a response to events (and not because of thought process); such actions do not result in accumulation of karma as they have no karmic effect.
Karma literally means "deed" or "act" and more broadly names the universal principle of cause and effect, action and reaction that governs all life. Karma is not fate, for man acts with free will creating his own destiny. According to the Vedas, if we sow goodness, we will reap goodness; if we sow evil, we will reap evil. Karma refers to the totality of our actions and their concomitant reactions in this and previous lives, all of which determines our future. The conquest of karma lies in intelligent action and dispassionate response.
hope i helped
Angie
Okay I just found out my ex is in Cali. going to the army and what not.It finially kind of hit me just now, that he could, in fact go to Iraj and die.And my friend asked me what would I do if he went to Iraj and die.And I didn't know what to say.It almost made me cry.Even if he put me through hell.And I tried calling him a few days ago , But he didn't answer.Basically, because I was curious how he was doing and what he was planning on doing in the future because I haven't talked to him in months.I don't want anything to do with him as in try to tell him I love him and miss him and what not.I have a boyfriend at the moment anyways.It's hard not to think about him and if he ever thinks about me.He does have a girlfriend that he left me for,But whatever.Back to what I was sayingg.He just called me just now and told me to be ready to pick up the phone tomorrow.And said he had to go because he had to go back to drills or something like that.And said bye.So I'm wondering tomorrow.. what I should say and what I shouldn't.I mean like.. would I miss you and love you be inappropiate considering I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.I don't know, I'm confused.I just don't want to ruin anything with my current boyfriend,But I know deep down I miss him and I don't want to show it.I'm just trying to move on that's all.What do you think I should do?
You need to break contact with him. that's the best way to get over it. i know it's scary that he could die but that's not your problem anymore. he's your ex for a reason so try not to dig up the past. how do you think your bf would feel if he found out you missed your ex? you would be putting him through the same thing your ex put you through. if you still have serious feelings for your ex then end your current relationship. good luck.
James: one of my best friends ever
Joy: another best friend
In the beginning of the year, James liked me. im not going to go into detail about how i know,. but im positive. and anyway, i didnt think i did then. i was just so confused about it, so he found out that i didnt like him, and nothing ever happpened. but more recently, i've started to really like him. i actually think that i lov ehim, i really do. but my friend said that sheee thinks he likes joy, who i've been best friends with for more than 5 years. i kiund of see it. im pretty sure he doesnt like me. all i want is for him to be happy, and if thats going to make him happy, then i guess im glad. but it still hurts, a lot. especially since i dont think she likes him, and he's just going to end up getting hurt. i really don't want him to be unhappy, but at the same time, im really upset that he likes her and not me. should i feel so bad?
it always gets confusing when you fall for a friend, but i think he needs to make his own mistakes. if he gets hurt then, well thats life. she might actually like him. you could always ask her and if she doesn't get her to let him down gently before he gets too hurt. just be there for him and wait to see what happens.
i have curly hair and i straighen it almost everyday if not everyother day. i dont like it curly. but the problem is because i straighten it so much i get a lot of dead ends and split ends so i have to get a hair cut. right now i have a lot but iv been using shampoo and conditioner thats soposed to put back together split ends and i guess its kind of working. but i want loong hair so i dont want to cut it unil it grows really long. what can i put in my hair that wont give me dead ends and/or something that will make my hair grow faster?
thankss
go to the chemist and tell them you straighten your hair. they will recomend the best product to keep your hair nice. straightening does damage the hair but with the right product all will be good.
There's this girl that I have known since I was in third grade, Brittany. well, I THOUGHT i knew her. She has invited people over right in front of me and one of my best friend's faces without inviting us. She talks about every single one of the people who she calls her friend and even people she doesn't know. The other night, she called and by the time I had found my phone, she hung up. Not even a minute later, another girl who was at her house, Sarah, called me and I answered. After getting off the phone with me, Brittany told Sarah and all the other girls there that I was a bitch, I was obsessed with Sarah, and a lot of other things. Apparently, she calls me and everyone else who she calls her "best friend" a bitch to anyone to will listen. But when she said it in front of my friends, they stood up for me, and then she got mad at them. Today I was talking to all of my best friends, who are Brittany's too, and they said that she is always talking about me, amanda, nicole, and a lot of other people. Basically, we're all sick of it. I just learned this today, but she DRINKS! The night that they spent the night at her house, she tried to pressure them into drinking vodka, but they said no finally. She never says sorry for anything and always turns it around and blames you, always leaves people out, always talks about people behind their backs, always makes fun of people in front of their face, always pressures people into doing things, always lies, and she NEVER can talk to you about something...she always gets this girl, Amanda who has no idea how much she talks about her, to yell at the person for her and turn everyone against them. We don't know what to do right now because we don't want everyone turning against us, but we don't really want to be friends with her anymore. What should we do?
Obviously she's a bitch. you need to cut ties with her as that's the only way she will lear that what she does is wrong. as long as you stay her friend she will think it's okay. who cares if some people turn against you. you've got your best friends there for you all the way and thats all that matters. good luck mate.
i tried researching this myself first.. so please dont say go google it.. so the jc penny commercial that is currently playing a lot... what is the song in the backround, ha : ) random i know.. it goes something like "i say so, and so says i.. lala" its a female singer, and she has a really soft voice. thanks
is that the one that also goes..'You can get with this, or you can get with that'?
cause thats Black Sheep's 'The Choice Is Yours'
hope i helped.
yes i have has plenty of it the first time anyways. but yeah the other times i wasnt completely turned on and what not. and no condom. i really dont have anyone to talk to about this so can u tell me as much as u know please. one girl said i was doing it in to short of a day span or something like that. message back
some people need to use lubrication for a while before they stop being nervous and can actually get fully turned on. this is the only reason i can think of. sorry i cant be more help! if you need help with anything else, just ask.
angie
Ok I am 13 and have never kissed a guy before and a lot of people make fun of me for it and call me virgin lips. I am really sick of the names, but I normally ignore it. So anyways today my best friend asked this guy who had just recently asked me out if he was going to kiss me. He said he wasn't sure because he didn't want me to reject him for a kiss. My friend was like oh don't worry she wont she wants to kiss you, and he was like oh ok then I probably will kiss her. But this is our first date and I am not sure if it is too soon. Plus we are going to a hockey game with a group of people. All my friends are like kiss him under the bleachers thats so hot, but I am nervous. Any tips on kissing? And please don't respond to me kiss him when your ready or it will come naturally, because i have heard way to much of that. SO HELP ME PLEASE!!
Thanks,
Virgin Lips :(
kissing is not that hard! it seems harder before you've ever kissed a guy. wait for him to make the move. thats his job! lol. let him take the lead. if he uses his tongue u use ures. dont get nervous and bite it! my cousin did - that was funny - just try to relax and have a soft mouth. just like softess..
hope i helped!
hi ummmm i wanted to ask you a question about sex and i need advice as soon as possiable. okay so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time march the 5th of this year. and we did it twice that night. okay well a day later we did it three times. well its still hurting me. and bad too. is that normal? what could be wrong?
it could be that you dont have enough natural lubrication. have you tried using lubrication? it's reasonably cheap and makes the experience so much better when your nervous.
good luck
I'm really picky about the kind of guys I date, so when a guy asks me out, there's a good chance I'm going to turn him down. The thing is, I'm so bad at it! I either 1) panic and say yes, even though I don't mean it or 2) make up an excuse and hope he doesn't find out the truth or 3) ignore him and try to act like it never happened. It's so awkward & embarrassing! What are some good ways of telling a guy "thanks, but no thanks" in a straightforward but not rude way?
Being straightforward is as good as you can do. no matter what, if they like you, they will be upset. but its better to be upfront then to lead him on. a simple 'sorry i dont see you that way' will do fine. good luck mate!
Hi.. 14/f/120 pounds
How do I get the same type of body as Paris Hilton? I have thigh muscles from soccer and they are big, but I dont really like how they look.. Thanks
it's not that easy. everyone has different body types, you cant just pick a person and try to look like them.