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We can't figure out what we should do about her acting like
There's this girl that I have known since I was in third grade, Brittany. well, I THOUGHT i knew her. She has invited people over right in front of me and one of my best friend's faces without inviting us. She talks about every single one of the people who she calls her friend and even people she doesn't know. The other night, she called and by the time I had found my phone, she hung up. Not even a minute later, another girl who was at her house, Sarah, called me and I answered. After getting off the phone with me, Brittany told Sarah and all the other girls there that I was a bitch, I was obsessed with Sarah, and a lot of other things. Apparently, she calls me and everyone else who she calls her "best friend" a bitch to anyone to will listen. But when she said it in front of my friends, they stood up for me, and then she got mad at them. Today I was talking to all of my best friends, who are Brittany's too, and they said that she is always talking about me, amanda, nicole, and a lot of other people. Basically, we're all sick of it. I just learned this today, but she DRINKS! The night that they spent the night at her house, she tried to pressure them into drinking vodka, but they said no finally. She never says sorry for anything and always turns it around and blames you, always leaves people out, always talks about people behind their backs, always makes fun of people in front of their face, always pressures people into doing things, always lies, and she NEVER can talk to you about something...she always gets this girl, Amanda who has no idea how much she talks about her, to yell at the person for her and turn everyone against them. We don't know what to do right now because we don't want everyone turning against us, but we don't really want to be friends with her anymore. What should we do?
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Stop hanging out with her. Just tell her that her behavior is frustrating, and annoying & you can't cater to who she's gonna be friends with each week. And you're not gonna be around somebody who's constantly negative. Let her get mad at you. It just gives you all the more reason to ditch her.
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Obviously she's a bitch. you need to cut ties with her as that's the only way she will lear that what she does is wrong. as long as you stay her friend she will think it's okay. who cares if some people turn against you. you've got your best friends there for you all the way and thats all that matters. good luck mate.
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omg i hatee people like that. i know what you're dealing with, my ex best friend was manipulating and a liar like that. if all your friends agree with you about how they don't like her, they most likely won't take her side. if they had common sense they'd not be friends with her because she'll continue to be a bad friend to them. if brittany tries to start with you, stand up for yourself. if you don't take her crap and show her that you're not taken in by her crap, she'll give up. trust me, i know how things like this turn out. my ex friend i was talking about, yeah she betrayed me and all her new friends realized how she was and basically now no one likes or trusts her. just don't take her shit, you and your friends should seriously reconsider being her friend. hey, what goes around comes around :]
good luck
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