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My Brother.
I love my brother with all my heart. I would do anything for him and he knows it. Im 14, he's 17. He's barrowed money from me never paid me back. I bailed his butt out've jail once because his car wasn't expected, and I'm 14! I've been saving up money for cloths, whatever and I spents a lil over 200 of that on him. He need's gas money, he needs this he needs that and when I don't give him the money he makes me feel guilty because I just went shopping and boughta 30 dollar purse. Well I work for a friend of the neightborhood, I do yard work.. anything because I know my parents can't afford some things I might want. I want him to learn and me bailing him out's not going to do that. I've tried telling him that if you keep running away its gunna make tomarrow harder to live than today so he needs to get a job and stop moocking off his LITTLE sister. I don't wanna constantly worry about him. Yess I know my parents should worry but there so rapped up in there own lives I could go missing and they wouldnt know for 2 days. I dont blame them, there live are important to, but enough is enough! He's planning on runningaway to go to my aunt precillas and needs money. I told him no! He;s like whyy not?? So i explanned to him that its barrowing its giving and that you need a job and he got all mad me.(couldnt careless) Well He called me 3 in dah morning saying he needs a ride home and he told me where he is and that hes wasted, So i get my Bf's mom to do it. She understood and actualy apoliized to me, I gave her gas moeny to go all the wa down there and for inconvinice, and I started yeling at him. Calling him a bum asking how it feels to be dependent of his little sister younger by four years who has more money than he has had in his whole life and That was the last time I talked to him. Im worried about him. I feel bad for saying it o him but its the truth and he needs to understand im not gunna be there 24-7, If i have plans in not gunna drop them cuz he needs a ride.
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You need to tell your brother that he needs to find his own job and pay for his own sh*t. You should be spending your money on your own things. You bailed him out of jail? Are you serious? That's really really sad.. You need to sit down and talk to him AND your parents and tell them that you can't take it anymore. I would hate to have to do that, and I don't see why you have to.
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G'Day mate, i reckon the only way to help him is to stop helping him. i know he makes you feel guilty if you dont bail him out but you need to work through that. as long as he knows he can talk you around he will continue to do so. it must be really hard for you but he needs to stand on his own two feet.
hope i helped
~Angie
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