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Q: my dog just died today. she got hit by a car. my dad was really close to her. everyone is so upset. i cried, i also felt really bad because when i would get mad at brittany (dog) i would yell at her and tell her i hope she died. but it seems that everyone is more upset then me. is there any way that i can get them to calm down?i know this is tragic but we cant all go crazy. everyone has a time when they died.

love kayla

i think that they just need time. if my dog died, i know my family would be very upset, also. maybe you should just not say anything about the dog. hide anything that might remind them of her, and just go about your life as usual.

Q: I think i might have OCD

-Ive got a habit of washing my hands after everything or whenever touching something. Even when im by a sink i wash them.
-If a word comes into my head, i have to say it otherwise i panic, no word in particular just anything.
-I brush my hair every 5 minutes.
-I look in the mirror all the time
-If somethings out of place i have to move it back.
-I have to double check everything like make sure the doors are shut.
-When i touch something i have to touch it with my other hand aswell so its equal.

and so much more

what do you think?

if you have to do this, i mean like HAVE to, and cant control it, then you most likely have it. i think you should talk to a counselor at school or maybe go to a phsycologist.

Q: Most people say once you have sex it means your not a virgin anymore..and some people say once you had been fingered and not had sex means your not a virgin either is that true?

you're still a virgin, unless it involves penetration.

Q: Hi! Does anyone know any facial techniques to get rid of a pimple??? Thanks~~

*TurrrrrrtleMolly

for as long as man has been alive, this question has been asked. and the thing is that different things work for different people. Yeast is know to work for some, clearasil for other, and proactive for others still.

Q: is it true that when girls play hard to get that guys like that girl more ??

depends on the guy ??

Q: My mom is making me get braces soon and i think i have a choice of colors. What color would you pick and why?

Thanks

Your favorite color??

Q: okay is it true that your boobs can become deformed if youre wearing a bra cup size too small..? cuz mine tend to hurt after a while and i think my bras getting a little small.. cuz im like right between an a and b.. and its really difficult to find a nice bra.

they wont be deformed, but its certainley not healthy. just try to find something that fits. i think that your comfort is the most important thing, even if theyre the crappy 7 dollar bras from walmart.

Q: Could someone who has bought the Hybrid Theory album recently tell me if it came with the Pancake Festival dvd? I've looked online but I can't find whether or not it does.

Thank you!

uhm not unless you buy the one that says " Pancake Festiveal dvd included" Heh.

Q: does anyone know how to get white teeth and fast if its somethign liek baking soda or white strips whats the best kind of product you can buy that will make them super white

flouride tooth paste. ooooooor........ that rembrant whitening wand thingie.

Q: i know that you can take a test to see weather or not you've done drugs but if you did drug when you were 14 and then took a drug test when you 18 would it show up....don't worry i'm not a freaking idiot who would f*** up their life just to get a high and seem cool for a minutes so don't worry i was just wondering

you can take a piss test to see if you did it like up to a month ago, and you can take a hair follicle test and that shows if you've done it up to a year. but i dont know of anything that would show if you've done it like 4 years ago. k.

Q: ok so i have a friend (joann) who loves to sing, and wants to be a famous singer for her career and she works really LOVES to sing. i also love to sing, and know a great deal and music along with many of my friends. The problem is joann cant sing fo rthe life of her. everytime she starts to sing people laugh. shes ac=bsolutley awful. shes known in my school to be an awful singer. being a friend i cant tell her, and her parents tell her shes good. what can my friends and i do to help her see that maybe singing isnt the right thing for her? thanks!!

gag her. or just tell her that she's not too swell of a singer. i dont know.

Q: first off is there anyway to get an STD if you dont do anything sexual? cuz my friend has never done anything like that and apparently she has an STD...how does that work? T H A N K S !

from her parents.

Q: Is it really true that if you take a cold shower, your body will burn calories trying to get warm? If so, how many?

Curosity strikes :)

Not true.

Q: My boyfriend has fingered me before but this time he used two fingers and it was a little painful and I bled. I know that's normal. But today when I got up I noticed a big bump, like it it swollen on the outside of one of my lips. Do you think it is just swolen from a scratch or cut??Like from his finger nail?? i think its just swollen, but what eles could it be?? Pelase help me.

it might be herpes...

im not saying you have it, im just throwing it out there.

Or a cut. Whatever.

Q: female 16

Im barely a size B and am not very happy with that.

How do I know if my boobs have stopped growing and will stay this size forever?
How do I know if they are still growing?
Any way to get implants at this age?
Any way to make them appear bigger (No stuffing please :)
Please and Thank You.

wonderbra.

Q: I've just started to make love with my boyfriend, and I have a vague recollection from my sex education classes at school that when you become sexually active you should have a check-up, examination etc. Is this the case? Thanks!

yea. duh. k. bye.

Q: i have an essay/ report to doo on dieting and im doing crash dieting in a few paragraphs.
what are some foos that people usually mostly focus on when crash dieting?

thanks

nothing? isnt crash dieting like when you dont eat anything but like an apple all day?? dammit i donno.

Q: hello
how i can get online study material or online access to the books on the subject of library and info science.
thank you.

i know like 4857938 people before me said this already, but for the hell of it, i'll say Google.com.

Q: okay i know this might sound retarted but i dont know how to grind dance nothing im going to a big party and my crush is going to be there and i know hes gonna try to dance with me but i cant i have no rythm nothing like i suck at everything i dont have an ass to shake so i dont know what to do please help should i just not go?

uhh...

just move your damn hips. it's not that hard. and guys dont care if you have "rythm", theyre just happy to be rubbing up on you. (which is what grinding is)

Q: I think that somebody is signing on IM using my screen name. two people have said i said things that i know i never said. they have said i used swear words and have been very rude to them. which i know ive never done. i unlinked all of my sns and deleted my buddy lists so this person could not antaganize any of my friends. i have also signed on another sn that no one know about and kind of been monitoring weather someone signs on using my sn or not. i want to be safe and make sure this person wont do anything more. any ideas?

also -- i had a dream the other night about someone hacking my screen name, does this mean something?

Make a new sn, and dont let other people know about it, just your friends, and tell them not to tell anyone else your sn. as for the dream, it probably just means you're thinking about it a lot, so dont worry about the dream.