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so there is this kid... lets call him bob... and ive been hanging out with my friend lately. we will call her jane. now jane and bob went out for like 8 months. and then they broke up but they still act like they are going out. so i have been hanging out with bob and jane a lot and im starting to really like bob. but i think jane would get mad at me if i told her even though she is REALLY into this other kid. i think she is just using bob. do you think i should tell jane that i like bob or no? (link)
yes. you should tell jane and bob that you like bob. if jane is really into someone else she wont care. and hey you never know if bob likes you back! haha.

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Ok there is this girl and she always stares at me and it really bothers me. i no she doesnt like me and i really dont care its not like i like her. so in gym when we were playin a game she took my assignment book and rote your ugly in it and ripped a lot of pages. should i tell on her? or would it just provoke her more? (link)
dont tell on her. that's lame. but tell her to stop and that you're annoyed with her nonsense. and if she continues, then tell.

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Me and my boifriend(josh) have been dateing for about 2 months now but we have knowen eachother for about 5 or 6 years.. but any ways his bestfriend(nate) always talks to me about getting with him. he know's that im with josh he tells me that he dont care. But i have always had a crush and i always really liked him. so i dont know what to do, cause im with nate alot alone and i dont want something to happen. not saying i would let it happen but anything can happen and on top of it i like him. But here is the twist my bestfriend is dateing nate. so i dont know what to do. i rate high (link)
i think you should let josh know about nate. and let your friend know about nate. and you and nate should get together. if you like him and he always talks about you getting with him...then go for it girl!

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I think i have writers block. I love writing but these days i cant write even when i want to. What to do!?
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just relax. it will come to you.

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i have been best friends with my friend sammie since about 7th grade. now i'm a junior & i'm not quite sure what to make of our friendship anymore. we are not in any of the same classes this year& we never see each other in the hallways either, so basically i don't see her in school. in the beggining of the year we still did stuff together, but now she has a new friend & doesn't seem to make an effort to hang with me. now i'm not against her making new friends (i have made new ones too), but we are nowhere near as close as we use to be. i still like her, but i don't know where this friendship is going & i would just like an opinion on what you make of the situation or if you have any advice on if i should let the friendship go or keep trying. thanks, for good advice i rate 5's. (link)
definitely keep trying. if yall were best friends theres no reason to let it all go. just try n make plans with her occasionally and hang out and stuff. and go hang out with her and her new friends.


I just got my first kiss. It was sort of a game, if the guy made a shot in basketball he got to kiss me and my friend, and he made it. I kind of like him, and I want to hook up with him, maybe even go out with him. The problem is, my friend wanted to hook up with him and she was all over him. Shes kind of a hoe, and if we ever meet new guys, she tries hooking up with all of them. I dont think she hooked up with him yet, but I think he might be liking her more than me. I dont want to attack him, so what are some moves I can make to get his attention more? How do I get to him before my friend does? Should I just straight out start making out with him? (link)
Some guys like hoes. This guy seems like he does (if he likes your friend) so you MIGHT want to just straight out start making out with him if you think he would like that.

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Hey you guys,
My boyfriend, Jesse, is in California to see his sister. He's supposed to be gone for (9) days, and so far there is (6) more days til he gets back. I wanna do something special for him when he comes back. But what? If you have any ideas, do share! Thx!
*Much love, Stay true*
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my boyfriend just got back from the bahamas (he was gone for 8 days) and when a guy loves you...they don't really care what you do for htem when they get back..as long as they get to see you. but if you wanted to you could just get him a little present (like candy or something) and go wait for him at his house when he gets back.

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my friend is a little to clicky.it is almost like she is obsested with me what should i do (link)
Tell her how you feel. Try to hang out with other people too (like not her). And only hang out with her some of the time. And when you do hang out with her...hang out with a bunch of people too so she can maybe make some new friends.

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I'm 15 and my sister is 14 and she cuts herself. I just found out like 45 mins ago bc she left me a comment on my xanga saying she has a career she was looking into but she didnt know how much it paid and she wouldnt tell me what it was so I figured that maybe she searched it up on the search bar. When I checked the search bar history I found a bunch of stuff about "I cut myself" and "I cut myself and a friend wants me to stop" and such. Then, since it's late at night and she usually is in the basement at night, I tried to sneak downstairs but she caught me.
Well she started casually talking to me and asking me why I was downstairs and I looked at her arms and saw they were bloody and I almost started crying but then I mentioned how I found the articles and started asking her about it and she just smiled goofily and I looked at her arms and saw all these scars I saw before but never thought of as cutting herself just from cats. And I said "why would you do something so stupid, whos your friend" and she said "dont tell anyone, it doesnt matter, you used to cut yourself" (which I briefly cut my wrists for 3 months last fall, it was a dumb mistake and I even told her that I only did it because I thought it would make my problems go away but it never helped) and she just tried to play it off as a huge joke, and said dont tell anyone, its not a big deal. But it was! These weren't little puny cuts they werent to big but not puny! She said she doesnt tell ppl about them (xcept that friend) but thats why she wears hoodies all yr.

I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! I want to tell my parents but I dont want her to get mad. I really want to tell my best friend but she's not online and I'm just confused. This is my baby sister and I dont want her hurting herself. I asked her why she was doing this to herself and she didnt have a clearcut response but argh.

Please help. I really need some guidance on this I'm very confused. (link)
TELL YOUR PARENTS. You have to. Cutting is dangerous and she's your little sister. You have to protect her.

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Does the ouija board really work?bb (link)
Yes. It's freaky.

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I want to get my boyfriend a gift thing when i go on vacation but i dont know what to get him. Anyone have any suggestions... by the way im going to the southern carribean, (aruba, barbados, puerto rico, dominca) (link)
i went on a cruise for spring break and i got my boyfriend a cute picture frame from the bahamas and put a picture of me in it. and i got him a towel from some island.

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not exactly sure where this goes but i have a i guess you could say anger mangement problem...my mom and brother think when i get pissed that im always pmsin and i don't no what it is but i don't feel comfy tlking about my period..why is it that everytime the subject comes up i just make excuses?

Please give reasonable answers! (link)
Most girls are like that when they're like in their younger teenage years. They feel that it's embarassing. Maybe you're embarassed about your period.

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i recently got kicked out of my house, illegally, by my dad. i had a job before i left, and i was friends with a guy there. i had a cell phone on my dad's plan- but he screwed me over too many times with the bill, and he always questioned me about who's numbers were who's. well, this guy offered to put me on his plan- because he's get the phone for free- and if anything- i'd be helping him out- with the bill and all- cuz weve been splitting in directly in half- no matter who goes over. ive had it for maybe 6 or 7 months. but since ive ben kicked out- i lost my job- and another guy at work has been paying my phone bills for me- (the last 3 months). my gramma- who i live with- has never liked the idea of me having a phone on someone else's plan. well, lastnight- we got into an argument about it- and we fought. like, physically. she told me i could keep the phone until monday- but that i had to give it back to him then. i feel horrible- but i just need to know- does she in fact have the right to do that?- i mean, she's not my legal guardian- and the phone was given to me- it's not like i begged for it.my phone is my only bit of freedom here- and i cant live without it. someone please share what you think. (link)
She has no right to take the phone away. The boy gave YOU the phone and you and the guy are the ones paying for it...not her. He can't get in trouble for giving a phone to a minor! You NEED that phone...your dad KICKED YOU OUT OF YOUR HOUSE ILLEGALLY...and your gramma has no right to take your stuff!

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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird? (link)
it depends. i think it's kind of cute...it just depends what mood you're in.

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I have a mol on my face and its really ugly.. how do i get rid of it or cover it up or at least make it less noticable??!!! ahhhh (link)
you can get it surgically removed. which is good because not only will it look better...but also the mole could be cancerous.

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i did somehting i regret so much its not something i can take back
what do i do to get on with my life and forget that i did such a thing
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it depends on the thing you did...


can my girlfriend and I rent a hotel room overnight and we're only 16? like do they check your age and parent permission and stuff or can you just rent a room and they dont care? thanks (link)
some hotels don't check...like cheap motel-type hotels. but if you have an older brother or sister it might be easier to get them to get the room for you. or if you have older friends...
have fun you two ;-)

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I'm 13 and i'm looking for a way to earn some cash, and babysitting seems the best way, trouble is i dont really know anyone i could babysit! does anyone have any ideas on how i could find some customers?? (link)
you could put up flyers in your neighborhood...like by the pool, in the clubhouse, etc. Or you could tell your parents to ask their friends/coworkers if they need a babysitter.

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whats a blow job? (link)
a blow job (also known as head)...is when you suck a guys dick. when you lick it and suck it...and bob your head up and down on it and make the cum go in ur mouth...you can either spit it out or swallow it...guys like it better when you swallow it...

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OK i have like all these guys wanting me.. I have guy 1 that lives right around the corner from me I dated him before but nothing serious cause he was the player type..but now we are just the best of friends and his Mom and sister love me like im part of the family. Then i have this other guy 2 that i've known for like 2 years but he lives far from me but he really really loves me. Then this guy 3 i been with for 10 months and i absoulty love him and we both lost our virginity to each other, but hes talking to another girl right now but i know he still loves me, but i'm the type of girl to have fun so..i wanna have fun. whatguy to choose and have fun with? should i be patient and wait for guy 3 or have fun with guy 1? or wait for the faithful guy 2? (link)
don't go for number 1. because you said he's like the player type and also he sounds like he could be a friend thats like a "brother". i wouldn't go for number 2. if he lives too far away...but if he lives where you could see him like once a week...then go for it...but i wouldn't go for number 3 just yet..be patient...

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