I am 5'9. 15 y/o spiked brown hair with blonde. Size 13 shoe. Not Single. Nice. Love to listen to girls problums. I like GIRLS. I respect girls no mata what they did.
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Location: PA
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Age: 15
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Member Since: December 6, 2004
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hey im 14 and i like this guy hes like skater, but he has the funniest attutude and he makes me want to be around him all the time. what are some ways that he might notice me more. we are really good friends and we can talk to eachother about anything and he knows i dont get pissed of like other girls at my school. what do guys like girls to act.
luv Britt (link)
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Well tell him ur feeling britt and let it go from there your already freinds then it will more than likly work out. Tell me what happenss and BE Urself.
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hey,i kinda have a problem. i went to an arcade with one of my best guy friends this week and out of no where he started kissing me & i stopped him at 1st because he has a girlfriend and i said dont you have a girlfriend and he said no and smiled but i knew he did, so i kissed him anyways, well later that night after we left and both went home he got online and msged me and was saying all this stuff like hes going to break up with his g.f after christmas and then it can be me and him again and all that and that he loves me, but i dunno what to believe.. and now since tuesday he seems weird towards me like he doesnt i dunno im not sure..maybe its in my head but i really need advice =(
becca* (link)
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I don't think he likes you first of all. Second of all if he kissed you while he had a g/f then how do you know he won't cheat on you.? Dont go back with him unless your sure you love him and that he loves you back and won't cheat on you. ttyl
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Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks. We have gone out for the same amount of time before, and I was the one that broke it off. I didn't feel it was right to go out with him when I just wanted to be friends. Well now, I am not happy in our relationship... AGAIN. He is not supportive at all, and I am the kind of girl that likes the single life. I don't like spending time with him, and I don't feel like there is butterflies in my stomach at all when I see him. But I will feel bad for breaking up with him AGAIN, and everybody will be mad at me and call me a whore. Should I break up with him anyway, or stick with him and make myself happy?
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Dump Him. Don't live a unhappy life and your freinds will have you back if u dump him. Good Luck.
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I love my boyfriend very much, and he is just the sweetest thing to me. I wouldn't trade him for anybody else. My parents don't think he's a good influence on me, and want us to break up. If he doesn't change soon they'll keep us from seing each other and talking.
He's 2 years older than me, in high school when I'm still just a middle schooler. I met him through my younger brother's theatre group, he is a wonderful actor and an even better singer. I knew who he was for almost a year, but never talked to him since he was older, and I wasn't even in the play. some time in september he noticed me at the theatre group. We began talking on the computer and on the phone for several weeks until he asked me out. my parents had been sorta skepetical about the whole thing with an older guy from the begining, but let me go out with him anyway.
There have been a few times that I couldn't do or go places with him because he was older, or because my parents didn't think I was ready to do things. He takes things rather personally and got really upset with them, being extremely rude about them in his online diary. Later, after the problems had been solved, my dad found the website, nad was really disappointed in what he saw. That was about 3 weeks ago. My parents have never let go of the fact that he and I made out in front of my little bro, something both of us will never do again. They also like to rub in my face that he is very emmotional, and materilistic and they point out all his bad traits. They fail to mention how sweet he is to me, how well we get along, how he calls me every day no matter what, and comes to watch me ride horses when any other guy would be bored to death.
Last friday one of our friends told him that I was cheating on him with my ex. Which so didn't and will never happen. I told him so on saturday, and he believed me until he talked to her again, and on sunday he was mad at me. I felt so bad, being accused of something that he knows that as a person, I would never do that. Anyways, he hugs all his friends that are girls. I told my mom, and she almost had be convienced to break up with him.
Yesterday, I was talking to him on the phone, and I told him he needed to be more respectful to my parents. He replied with "I dont give a what your parents think" I then told him that why my mom was letting me use the phone before I was finished with homeworkd and chores was because I was supposed to break up with him, but that I didn't want to. He got all upset and got off the phone.
I dont know what to do, I want him to be able to get along with my parents, and I want them to see all the good things I see in him. How should I let him know that my parents thnk he is a bad influence, emotional, rude in his diary ect. ect. without making it sound like thats how I feel, and that they still like him well enough as a person. I agree with a few of the things they say, and I want him to know and to fix those things, but I dont want to sound rude, or demanding. Sorry about the question being so long, thanks so much if you can help me! (link)
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WOW that was long haha. I don't mind I love helping. Well 1st off writing in the diary wasn't his best move and you should tell him that if he loves you he will respect your parents. As far as you parents making fun of him thats just all F***ed up and not right. If my daughter loved someone even if i didnt like him adn tried breakin them up i wouldn't bust on the guy. I think you need the have a one on one conversation with him face to face and tell him all of this. Hope I Helped. Good Luck!
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I am having my 17th birthday party on friday and the theme is pink. I invited guys and they don't care that the theme is pink lol. But this is my first party where guys can come and I am worried something bad will go wrong or that my mom will stay downstairs or something. And what are some games we can play or things we can do that will be fun for both guys and girls? thanks and any other ideas will be great thanks (link)
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If you mom isn't there play Spin The Bottle thats a cool game. You could play Truth or Dare. 21 Questions. 7 minutes in heaven. or the kissing game. Have Fun! Be Safe.
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OK, there are 2 parts to this. There is this guy at my school that I really like and I know he likes me back!! But I don't know how to tell him!! I had a crush on him since last year and people say I should ask him out. But you see, I have NEVER been on a date and I'm 13 years old!! Everytime I think about him I feel like I want to kiss him so badly. He just got a haircut and now he looks even cuter, that it's driving me crazy!! OK, the 2nd part is that ever since these 2 girls found out that we liked each other they have been teasing like "So, how's your boyfriend?" He has been acting weird like we used to flirt a lot and he would always smile at me and do nice things to me now he doesn't do that anymore!! Do you think he dosn't like me no more!!?? PLEASE TELL ME!! Sorry it's so long!! (link)
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Tell him thats all you have to do tell him. I think he knows mabye hes just shy but if u love him just go ___ do you like me because i like you a lot.? And as far as you never dateing its nothing to it. Its easy talk to a freind about it. Good Luck.
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ok i have been going out with a girl for quite a while now. we love each other both very much and we know what "love" is...but we have been thinking...about sex. we have already did a couple of things with each other already but other than that we are both still virgins but we are thinking about sex and we are going to go ahead and try it soon possibly even tomorrow or within this week...is this moving too fast...since we know each other and talked it through? and what should i do about this since its our both first time having sex? (we are using protection by the way) thanks for listening (link)
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I think if you both are ready and love each other than you should do it. But if your under 15 then well.... thats a bit young. I think you too know what you are doing since you talked it through i think you are ready. Wear a condum don't risk it even if she is on the pill by the way. Good Luck.
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For the past while i have been cutting myself. At first it was just scratches and then i started cutting deeper and deeper. I am really scared and I don't want to talk to my parents, they have enough to worry about, so is there anyway i can break the habit and just stop...and please don't answer if you are just going to poke fun at me and mock me. I don't need that. Only post if you can help me. (link)
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OMG Hunnie you have a problum on your hands. You have to tell someone close to you. You might think your parents have enough to worry about but you need to tell them. Its very serious and you should see a cousiler. This isn't a jokeing matter i want you to do something about this before it goes too far. I don't want to see you die or something horrible like that. Tell someone please.
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I like this boy a lot, I haven't told anyone about liking him. I talk about him to my best friends quite often but I'm just like eww...I'd never like him. He is always like aww look your so cute and he calls me his 'little kid'. That's because I am soo much shorter than him. He always picks me up and carrys me places and when I see him in the hall he's like hey cutie, sweetie, little kid, babe...whatever he picks that day and he like hugs me. But this one time we were just standing in the hall together and he's like what about if you and me went to the movies...and then to dinner or something. And this girl in his class told me she was like aww don't mess with Mahryah when you don't mean it...it's not nice. And she said he said but I do wanna go somewhere she's just so cute. And he always tells me he loves me and is always touching me and stuff. I don't know if he just thinks I'm cute in a little way or what. I don't know if I want to tell my friends either... (link)
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You should tell your freinds then mabye they can help you. If you like him tell him and see if he likes you back. You two sound like you r in love. I am 99.9% sure he likes you but ask him it can't hurt nething. Good Luck
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I think I need to get over this guy. I've liked this boy for a really long time and we have went out before and we have done stuff. But the thing is he always likes me obsessively and then stops talking to me for a while, then over and over and over again. I'm pretty much sick of it but I think everytime he comes around I like him more and become more attached. I like sooooo much but I don't think I need this. How do I just get over him? Everytime I really try and start to really do, that's when he comes back to me and catches me again. There is no way I can really just stop him or stop myself from liking him. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks (link)
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This it the hardest one i have goten to far. Acually i swear to you i have had the same thing. I loved a girl for 3 years yea a long time i know. She used to flirt then go and get a boyfrenid. It hurt me so bad but I couldn't get over her. The truth was I LOVED HER. I think thats whats wrong with you your in to deep. Just give it time don't date him and try to think about other guys get your mind off of him. Its hard Hell I Know. I have cryed for a few nights trying to do it but if u have faith in yourself you can do it. Good Luck. P.S. IM me let me know how your doing.
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Ok, well, my guy friend's dad just past away a few days ago. My friend is really hurt and it's weird cuz usually he comes to me to comfort him when he needs it, but he doesnt wanna talk about his dad. Doesnt wanna talk period. He wasnt close with his dad, they didnt live together and didnt see eachother for the longest time. I know he's hurt becuz at his grad (a few months ago) he told me how he was jealous that all his friends dads were there except his. I just dont know how to be there for him, what should i do? I wanna be there for him, Ive always have and now something like that happens, I just really dont kno what to do..HELP! (link)
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You should take him out and have a good time mabye the fair, Carnivil, Concert, Movies, Mall something to get his mind off of his dad make him relize that you care about him and that he has freinds to talk to. I have been in a similer situation it should work I hope it all works out.
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ok there's this boy i like but i don't know what to tell him i'm only a 13 tear old girl wh's really cofussed i don't know if he likes me. How do i find out if he likes me back? My best friend asked him out for me but he said no but now me and him are becoming really really good friends an i don't want to ruein our friendship. what sould i do? (link)
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You have to get someone to say to him "Hey don't tell ____(you) that i asked you this but do you like her cause i think she might like you i am not sure but she might" thats what you do it always worked for me when i was your age.
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Well i have a boyfriend that ive been with for almost 6 months but ive known him for 5 years. He is a very jealous guy because that is the way he was brought up he is very sweet and loves to buy me things! I have another guy who is very nice and sweet also. LIke last week i went to his house and he had a cute teddy bear for me, when i talk to him on the phone he talks to me like he's known me for ever. He says stuff like "i love you", "i want to be with you forever and i will never leave you". He's very sweet like. I dont see my boyfriend only on weekends because he works 2 jobs. Like i said everytime i talk to him he is so sweet and my boyfriend is not that sweet. well i dont want to fall i love with this guy what should i do? please reply!!! (link)
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Well it sounds to me like this guy who likes you might make a better boyfreind. But if you don't want to fall in love with him you have to tell him not to say he loves you because you have a boyfreind already. You have to overcome your feelings and tell yourself you love your boyfreind and not this other guy.
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Ok I'm from North Carolina and I'm Homeschooled..Well im in 12th grade and almost done but me and my mom just found out that she has to issue me a high school diploma not North Carolina so like where do we get the diploma ?? I will rate high !! (link)
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You should conntact the Department Of Education.
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i used to go out with this guy. he wasnt exactly a loser but some ppl thought he was. so i got really insecure about it and stupidly dumped him. this happened about 4 weeks ago. lately i have started to regret dumping him and i miss him so much!! should i tell him this? (link)
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Yes you should if you love him who gives a f*** what anyone else thinks
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I'm becoming a mountain biker, and my rims are warping slightly from all the roots and rocks and junk. Does anyone know a good way of messing with the spokes until the wheels come back in alignment?
Seriously.
**Roadkill Hell's Angels Riders** (link)
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I sugest getting new rims they make a specific kind for twigs and things.
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I'm a 15/f and I haven't been interested in dating until recently this year. I'm starting to want to have a boyfriend really badly. Do you think the fact that I am so inexperienced in the "physical" side of love (ive kissed three people but I've never made out or gone beyond that) that no guys will date me. This is the only thing holding me back from dating. Also any tips on easy ways to say no to getting physical soon or telling guys that I've never made out that wont make me seem like to much of a loser?? Thanks! (link)
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Listen you DO NOT have to be physical byond kissing. If guys only want you for that then you are too good for them. Your only 15 years old you do not need to become physical to get a b/f thats almost like becoming sluty for a guy. Just be you and don't tell them you haven't made out yet until you are dateing. Please IM me for more information.
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I have this really weird fear of phones, I don't know why it is because I'm naturally a very outgoing person and talking to people in public is just fine and dandy, but when I dial somebody's number my heart starts racing and I get all tongue-tied and start blushing. This is really bad considering I have a boyfriend and I believe that communication is key in every relationship. It's especially bad because his phone clicks over to answering machine after two rings so that they can know who it is, and I have a tendency to ramble when I'm on an answering machine. Is there any way I can get over this? I REALLY need to! (link)
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Well in order to get over it i think you should start by talking to people you are confertable talking to. Gradually start talkin to your freinds that you don't talk to on the phone that much and you should overcome this fear. Secondly in refference to the answering machine. Make it so it doesn't answer to fast because i also hate it when i am over the machine I feel like everyone can here me. Well if that doesn't help tell me so i can think of something else.
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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers! (link)
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Hey. Just say mom some kids at school were playin a joke on me and put one in my purse cause i am a virgin. But listen mom i will not have sex till i am married.
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I just found out that my dad has lung cancer and things are not looking good. he lives 2 hours away and I am 24 with a family of my own but I was just wondering: What are some positive, inspirational, and supportive things I can say to get him through this time no matter what the outcome...how can I help him through this? I have so much passion and emotion inside and I know what to say in my head, but I am so bad at expressing how I feel in the moment. This is the one time in my life where it's extremely important to say and do things right, but I still seem to only cry when I'm alone or think of good things to say only AFTER a situation. I feel I'm not being what I want to be for him to my full potential. Thank you to anyone who can help!! (link)
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Well to start out. I Am so sorry for your dad. I hope he makes it through. I have some good ideas but i don't know how bad he is. If he isn't too bad find out. This is a emotional subject for me too. My Aunt had Cancer and we gettin bad. I found out one thing she really wanted to do and did it with her. She wanted to go to the ocean and i took her there and she was so happy. So my sugjestion is find out what he really wants to do that you can take him to do and do it. it will make his eyes light up.
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