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Jumping In the Game
I'm a 15/f and I haven't been interested in dating until recently this year. I'm starting to want to have a boyfriend really badly. Do you think the fact that I am so inexperienced in the "physical" side of love (ive kissed three people but I've never made out or gone beyond that) that no guys will date me. This is the only thing holding me back from dating. Also any tips on easy ways to say no to getting physical soon or telling guys that I've never made out that wont make me seem like to much of a loser?? Thanks!
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You are not alone. In fact the guys you end up being with will most probably be in exactly the same situation as you but not let on that they are! Guys will not be able to tell that you have never made out or gone beyond that. When you get a boyfriend you must remember that most people don't want to go out with someone just so they can be physical all the time. They want to go out with someone because they enjoy being with them more than anything. When it then comes to the physical part then it will come more naturally as you will feel more at ease with them. Write back if you have any more questions about it.
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look just put your self out there if a guys doesnt like you because your a crap kisser then hes the loser not you and plus you just turn it back round on him eg if he tells people you are a crap kisser then you tell then that he was the worstd you've ever had
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You know what? IF a g uy wont go out with you because you have no expireence or they think your a loser because of it then they don't deserve you or your time. I had my first kiss with a guy that I found out I didn't like too much and I was grossed out... However a few weeks later i had a kiss with a guy i liked really truly and had known soo long and felt comfortable it means the world to me still now.
I hope this helped. Leave one in my inbox,
Caitlin
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try and find a guy who is in the same situation..x33
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Listen you DO NOT have to be physical byond kissing. If guys only want you for that then you are too good for them. Your only 15 years old you do not need to become physical to get a b/f thats almost like becoming sluty for a guy. Just be you and don't tell them you haven't made out yet until you are dateing. Please IM me for more information.
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Trust me on this. Guy's don't like girls that have been around. They think their cheap and easy...Just by telling any guy that your "inexperienced" it's okay. They'll respect you more! So, start dating, go out, have fun!
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when the time is right for you to have a guy you will know it. first you need to start talkin to dudes like "whats really good" not jus "hey lets be friends." dont put yourself out therer for any and all guys. thats how rumors and bad names get started. if a guy really likes you it wont matter if youve made out or not. and if you dont wnana do sumthin wit somebody jus tell them. if things start to go further than what you want jus tell them you cant go it. good luck ~$alexis$~
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First of all, the type of guys that care whether or not you have been physical before are NOT worth dating anyways. If you are looking for a RELYABLE boyfriend, then your all good because he shouldn't care. Second of all, the guys don't need to know that you've never made out before now do they(wink wink). As for saying no to getting physical...The word "NO" helps, lol, a trustworthy guy who RESPECTS you, will definately understand!!! Good Luck!!!
-Hope I Helped *Banna*
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