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my vagina has been real itchy these past few days near the inner lips, i've never had sex before. and today i cut myself scratching it with my nail, not a deep cut or anything. (link)
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If you shave your pubic area it might just be ingrown hairs. They aren't anything to worry about, they just cause discomfort for a few days. If you don't shave, then it might just be some irritation. Have you started using a new soap or body wash? It shouldn't be anything to really worry about it unless it doesn't go away.
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14/F
I have a lot of unwanted bodily hair. I have long sideburns and dark arm hair, along with hair on my stomach above and below my bellybutton like men do. My bikini line is horrid. Shaving this hair causes discoloration and its so temporary. I try things like nair and veet but it doesnt work either. I know this is a family problem because my grandmother was extremely hairy, and my mother has a beard. I dont want to end up like them, but they don't sympathize with me on my body hair, because they grew up in a society where that was accepted, and somewhat favored over no bodily hair. I live in America and of course, hairy is ugly. I just want this hair to be less noticible, or to stop growing back in. I can't invest in expensive things because I don't have a job and my parents would probably make me send it back, because they want me to keep my hair. What can I do about this? (link)
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Other than shaving, you could try plucking, waxing, or bleaching. I've never tried bleaching, but plucking and waxing aren't entirely uncomfortable.
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my friend and i have been best friends for ever,but shes gettting on my nerves. she is so annoying all she does is talk about guys. theres even a i hate:blank club all my other friends hate her what do i do i dont want to hurt her and i dont wanna gove up are relationship tottaly i just want space...kinda for awhile ??? (link)
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If you're getting annoyed by her friend, just tell her you need some space for a while. Don't break off your friendship completely. If you just tell her you want a little space, she should understand.
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i have been fingered five times and my friends call me a slut but it feels good,so like leave me alonee. And now this guy wants me to have sex, should i? i am only 14. And i dont want my friends to start calling me a hoe! thats MEAN! but i kinda want 2!
from,
FFG [ fingering feels good ] (link)
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If you're second guessing a choice to have sex with this guy, then maybe you aren't ready to actually do the deed. You have your whole life to have sex, so why not wait until you are absolutely positive that you're with the right one?
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Okay so I was with my boyfriend, and I gave him a handjob, and he precummed on my hand or whatever but anyway I wasn't completely satified after he fingered me, so I masterbated to porn but it was about an hour later. I used the same hand I gave a hand job with to finger myslef, but it was an hour or so later. Omg could I be pregnant (link)
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You're most likely not pregnant. There may be a slight chance, but I wouldn't worry too much about it. All you can really do right now is wait and see, and if you miss your period, buy a pregnancy test.
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how can you give advice if you're not open-minded? i see a lot of answers on this site saying negative things towards certain religions and sexual orientations. and lots of labeling (preps, emos, etc).
i think that if you're going to try to help someone, you need to accept what they have to say and answer respectfully. am i the only one who feels this way? (link)
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I understand what you're saying here. I do not want to insult anyone on this site, but sometimes people can be less than friendly in their answers. I agree that to help, people should be respectful and accepting. I think for the most part, people here are pretty open to helping people, which is what makes it such a great site. But as always, we have to take the bad with the good sometimes.
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i am 1.48m,i am 14 this year,how do i grow taller? (link)
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Height is all genetics, so the only way to appear taller would be to wear clothing that accentuates height. Taller shoes, different styles of jeans, etc. can make you seem taller than you actually are.
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15/f
ok well does it?i have morals and plan on saving myself until im married :D. i have had guys flirt with me and then see the ring on my finger and will be like oh? so do purity rings turn guys off? (link)
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If a guy is only into you for one thing, then a purity ring may turn them off. But honestly, if you're wearing the purity ring in the first place, don't you want to be looking for a guy who can look past it? Maybe the ring turning guys off is a good thing, because you can find a guy who supports you and your morals.
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when people say something like how long a guy lasted what does that meen?
and also what does it meen when a girl tells you that they couldnt have sex because he couldnt get hard , cause my friend was telling me oh yeah we tried having sex but he couldnt get hard so we didnt (link)
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When people talk about how long a guy lasted, it usually means how long it took before he ejaculated. And getting hard means that the guy is getting an erection.
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Okay i am going into high school next year and my friends are starting to drink and smoke. i cont want to but i know i will not be invited anywhere if i don't. i know this seems like simple, say no, but the only way to keep my friends is to drink or lose them. i know it seems like these friends suck, and they do but i cant change groups. like idk, but idk i don't want to. i just don't want to sink to that level. if you are a teen, you know what this is. you cant just be like "no I'm not drinking" I'm only 13. I'm turning 14 soon but...what do i do? (link)
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I know you might be feeling a lot of pressure from your friends right now to drink and smoke, but trust me, high school years are so much better if they're, well, memorable. When you look back, chances are you dont want to remember being so wasted. If your friends won't stay your friends if you don't drink with them, then what kind of friends are they, really? When you get into high school there will definately be people who don't do all that - people worth spending time with. If you can't get your current friends to stop bugging you about drinking or smoking, maybe its time to move on and 'live above the influence'
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This past week I went to a camp and my ex-bf was there also. And over the course of the week I realized that I still liked him. He had already told me about 3 weeks ago that he wanted to get back together with me, but I turned him down because I was still upset with him for dumping me in the first place.
Anyways, now I've told him how I feel and we've decided to get back together. But tonight he was texting me and talking about starting back right where we left off, and suggesting sex too. I told him right then he was moving too fast, but he pulled the whole "you do love me don't you?" to which i said, "i did once until you broke my heart. I'm not just giving it back to you so you can do what you want with it. If you don't want a serious relationship and you just want to mess around then I don't want anything to do with you anymore."
After awhile he texted back saying "I do want a serious relationship. I was just messin' with you. That was just once." Would you say that he truly meant that or just said it cuz he was scared I would leave?
Also, what are some ways we can help to make our relationship exciting but not always so sexual? I want this to work out because I really like him but I want to make sure it is a healthy relationship.
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Maybe this boy was serious, but realized when you freaked a little bit that he really wanted to have a relationship with you but played it off like he's kidding. Just make sure he knows what you want and don't want to do just yet, things will be just fine.
And to have a fun relationship, it doesn't have to be sexual. Group dates, as well as single dates are great ways to spend time together. Do things that you've never tried before. You could go rock climbing, or have a picnic. There's really no limit to the kinds of things out there to do right now so you should have no trouble finding something exciting to do that isn't necessarily sexual.
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i am 14 this year and i am still 1.48cm,what do i need to do,to grow taller? (link)
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Well I'm thinking that the 1.48cm tall was a typo, or youre the shortest person in the world.
To be honest, there really isn't anything to help you grow taller. You could wear taller shoes to make yourself seem taller than you actually are. Just a suggestion. But keep yourself healthy and if you are supposed to get any taller you will over time.
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ok. well. this storry is really messed up.
in september i met gabe and i really liked him for like ever but i was too shy to talk to him.
so then my best friend was jsut like "ok ill become friends with him and get him to talk to you"
so i was like "whatever"
months later i still liked him
but then my best freind tells me that gabe kissed her.
so for about 2 months they were making out in cemetaries and giving and taking handjobs in the woods.
and she knew i liked him.
so then she kept saying "get over him get over him hes just gonna hurt you."
so then i was just liek "ok im over him" even tho i really wasnt.
then rite when i told her i was over him, she said she liked him.
so i was like inlove wiht him while i saw them getting all googley eyed around eachother.
but they never went out.
so then like suddenly they stopped hanging out.
and nika (my best friend) got diagnosed wiht cancer.
and she wanted me to tell him.
so i did cause at that time i was kinda giving up cause i kinda almost figured in my head they would end up going out.
so then liek nothing happened wiht her cancer.
and i know its a horrible thing to say but i think she was lying.
and honestly its obvious shes lying.
so then i never said anything cause i didnt want to start a fight.
then me and gabe got alittle closer cause i let my guard down.
so then like month later gabe texted me when nika was in ohio.
we talked alot and we found out alot about each other.
then he told me he liekd me for about a month.
so i was really happy about that.
so he asked me out.
i said yes.
we went out 4 3 weeks.
hung out ALOT.
like seriously alot.
we did things that honestly i didnt really want to do but eh.
im an idiot.
but then exactly a month b4 my birthday and exactly 3 weeks that we were going out
he broke up with me
in a text.
he said he jsut couldnt b in a relationship at that moment.
i was really upset.
but i got over it, yet i still liked him.
after that, he barely came to school.
nika would always say "oh yea, gabe calls me all the time and we talk for hours!"
so i was like "whatever" yet i honestly wanted to bite her head off.
nikas also a huge poser. shes like "i love emo boys!"
god. its just like "nika! shut up! no one likes you! ughh aussies.."
but then gabe completely disappeared from town.
changed his number. moved. hes just gone.
basically to wrap up the story, before he left town, he screwed around with the biggest slut in town and then told nika that he was inlove with her and then nika told my other friend that she loved him too but he "hurt" her way too much and "caused her too much pain"
ughh. also, gabes a drug and sex addict.
i dont know what to do. help? (link)
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I think the best thing to do is forget about Gabe. He's just a plain old jerk, nothing more, if hes playing with you like that. As for your friend Nika, maybe you should tell her whats been going on with you while she's been talking about Gabe. Hopefully, she'll understand that it hurts you and stop.
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why do people lie? (link)
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There are a lot of reasons that people might lie. They might lie to impress someone, get something they want, or so that they don't get into trouble. People might lie to seem more interesting or because they don't want to be embarassed by the truth. People lie for all sorts of reasons.
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I'm planning on buying a Playstation Portable over the summer, and I'm wondering what your opinions are on it.
I want to get some games (no action please :P stuff like ssx and maybe car racing games)
and also movies.
So yeah, your opinions & experiences?
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I think the PSP is pretty great. I mostly use mine for internet, but I do have a racing game called Gripshift, and it's really awesome. I'd reccomend getting that one. It has really good video quality, in my opinion. I've only used the starter disc with a couple of music videos though, I haven't actually watched a movie on it yet. My only issue would be that the screen is pretty small when youre using it with the internet, but it's a pretty small device in the first place. I'd recommend getting a larger memory card for it, too. It'll work if you just want to play games on it, but if you want to store a lot of pictures, music, and other data it would be good to invest in larger memory.
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right, i'm with this guy
& he's like a bit smaller than me.
everyone takes the mickey outa him, they say hes fat and horrible. but I definatlely don't see that.
Sure, he isn't the buffest guy on this planet, bu the has the sweetest heart and I wouldn't have anyone else.
His best friend lies to him, saying i call him fat and ugly. But he is really good-looking !!
i would never say that.
So please, help.
What should I say to stop all of this ??
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Maybe his best friend is becoming jealous of the relationship that you two have, and even though he said it was okay in the beginning, he's having second thoughts. You might not be able to do anything to stop what this boy is saying to your guy, but as long as you are sure that your guy knows that you would never say anything like that about him, you two shouldn't let his friend get to you.
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Okay, So i have a Verizon CHocolate, And i want to upgarde it and get another phone. I had my phone since May 2007. My plan ends in May 2009. How does upgrading work. Do you get certain ammount of money off? and I have warranty on my phone. It broke 2 and i got a new phone both times. (Same Chocolate, since it was under warranty)And In august I got my number changed. So my question is, Can I still upgrade it, even hough i got 2 phones under warranty and a new number, And then How does upgrading work? Thank you!. (link)
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If you wanted to upgrade while you were still in your two year plan, they would still charge you the full price for the phone. It probably isn't worth it to pay so much for an upgrade because the companies will keep coming up with newer models.
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I have sunburn on my face and my nose and cheeks are starting to peel. Ive been using Solarcaine to help the burn, but what would help it stop peeling? thanks (link)
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I'd use a moisturizing lotion with aloe. Vaseline makes a great one, and you can find it at any pharmacy.
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I'm a 14 yr old girl, and I need your advice, please. My BFF has asked me to be w/ her while she flushes her pics of her ex whom she recently got dumped by down the toilet. I think it's really sad that she's not keeping the pics, b/c this is the guy she lost her virginity to, I not sure that how she's choosing to get rid of them will even work, and I'm not sure that she's ready to do this yet any ways. She seems really deadset on doing it, though. Should I tell her what I think, or just stand by and support her as she does it even though I disagree with it? Also, like what's proper "etiquette" for a "ceremony" like this? I've never been asked to do something like this before. (link)
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I think it would be a good idea to let her get rid of the pictures. Different people have different ways of letting go, and this is just a way for your friend to deal with the hurt. This is a time when your friend needs your support, so stand by her. I actually did something similar to this when my long term boyfriend and I broke up. I'd suggest something other than flushing them though, that might clog the toilet. There isn't really a proper etiquette for the disposal of pictures, but burning the pictures would be a better idea.
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what can i do to make both of my infected pierced ears heal?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! i am like afriad that i will have to go through surgery or something. the earing is embeded in my ear and i ca't take it out! help!!! (link)
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I'd try cleaning your the area around your piercings with rubbing alcohol to disinfect it. Use the alcohol for a couple of days and the infection should hopefully go away.
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