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I'm an 18 year old female and I recently started college. I have found someone that I'm strongly attracted to, but I just want to sleep with him. How do I get him into bed without sounding too forward and without encouraging a relationship?
I've never done this kind of thing before, and I'm really bad at seduction, any advice would be appreciated! (link)
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A few simple signs would help. When you hang out, brush his leg and get real close, if it's seductive you're going for the old, "bending over to pick something up" thing never fails. You don't have to go all out and practically scream "sleep with me!" at him but don't be timid if all you want is sex. Most guys will pick up on it or most even LOOK for these signs long before you start. He's a guy honey...it won't take much
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What does make your student life more interesting and easier? Please, share your experience/approach (link)
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Join multiple clubs, an hang out with friends. Don't make school this boring chore and focus only on studying like I did. Studying is important yes, but make time for friends and family, join a club and have fun. These school years might seem rough but trust me, once you're out of school, you're going to want to go back, so make them the best days of your life
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin? (link)
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Well, you've lost you ANAL virginity but if you're still new down there, then technically you are. Just be safe when you do lose that one, hope this helps
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Okay, so I'd asked this question earlier as well but I guess I wasnt clear in it.
Basically there is this guy I really like. The problem is that I am too short for him. I am 4'11 (151 cm) and that guy is 5'11-ish. And I feel REALLY consious about that. He lives in a another city so its not like we can meet everyday and eventually get used to eachother's difference.
So my questions are, where does a 4'11 person reach a 5'11 or 6 feet guy?
What do guys think of girls as short as 4'10-4 11
Those in relationships, coulld you please temme your height difference
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i really dont see a problem here, size and hieght doesnt matter. my parents are like 2 ft from eachother. my girlfriend and i are a foot apart from eachother and we're great, we dont care if i have to lean down to kiss her, haha. as a guy, i can tell you, height doesnt matter in my preferences, and it shouldnt in any guys.
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what shud i do if a boy whats to hit my ass. (link)
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what do you mean hit. do you mean spank or like tap, like sex? either way, unless you like these boys, say no. if a boy is hitting your ass(spanking) without permission, tell someone. if they're pressuring you to let them have sex with you, tell someone. if this doesnt answer your question, message me telling me what you mean by hit. or provide more info or fill me in like a story, i'll read it and give my opinion no matter what you do and i'll reply as soon as i can.
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Ok so theres these 2 boys i like who like me but idk who to choose i've known them both for a long time ones straight fwd while the others shy what do i do?!? (link)
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you cant have both, so you gotta pick. pick the one who treats you right(better) and the one who will be going somewhere in life. pick the one who's liked you longer and you've noticed more. dont go for the hotshot, go for the one with potential. if they're both like that, then you'll have to dig down deep inside. good luck
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I liked this guy for awhile but he has a girlfriend, he knew i liked him and we went to this party wednesday. We both got totally drunk and we had un-protected sex, i lost my virginity to him. I kept telling him that i couldn't do it because of his girlfriend but he said it was fine. My question is should i be feeling like crap because he has a girlfriend? and why do i feel like i cant talk to him again? (link)
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well, it is normal to feel guilty about it, it means you're human. if you didnt feel anything, THEN something would be wrong. yes, it's gonna be awkward between you 2 for a while, as long as you feel guilt, it will be awkward a bit. eventually, you'll get over it and you'll be good friends again like you were before.
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What should I call my boyfriend Joey? (link)
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the joe-ster, my friend LOVES when we call him that
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What do i call my boyfriend instead of babe, baby, or hun? (link)
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depends on his nature, call him something that's like bold or unique. for example, if he likes fire, call him blaze or hot stuff, depends on your preferances.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years now, I love im dearly but I feel as though he is not in love with me anymore. I am 37 and I am a girl. He is cold and heartless towards me. How can I win him back? (link)
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it sounds like you're trying to win his heart to me, but if you want him to feel something for you again, try doing some of his favorite things with him. take him to his favorite places or get him his favorite food. show him you're a great catch and win his heart again.
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Im 12 years old my boyfriend proposed to me hes 17 we are inlove can I get engaged at my age ? (link)
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oh gosh no. honey, you're 12, he's 17, one that's illegal just for you 2 to be dating, and two, you're WAAAAAAAAY too young to be even thinking about marriage. you should be out having fun with your friends and NOT having marriage as a problem. i have no right to question y'alls relationship, but in my opinion, he is just way to old.
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I am 12 years old. I have a crush on my babysitter. She is 16 years old. She looks really hot! (link)
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i know how you feel, but there are a few problems with this scene. one, she's babysitting you, thats all she might be thinking, is that you're just the kid that she's watching. and another thing, this feeling might go away when you realize that. age may be just a number, but she's in her teens and you're a kid, sorry
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okay,first off ive been in a relationship for 2 months and a week! my boyfriend is nice loving and loves me. but here lately hes been hanging out with some perves and jerks.its sorta changed him...i mean he doesnt want to hang out with me around them.do you think hes trying to protect me from them?should i be worried (link)
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the best advice i could give is not to worry about it. guys need time, to do dumb guy things. light shit on fire or whatever. we love being with our girls, but we need guy time. if it bothers you that much, talk to him about it. maybe you can work out an agreement to where he wont spend as much time, but dont take all the time away, we love you and all, but we need a break from all that to hang with our buddies. maybe he doesnt want you around cause he knows he's hanging with jerks and doesnt want you to get hurt. hope this helped any
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I need some advice from anyone who will respond no smart remarks or judgement please... Me an my wife have been together since we were 16, we're both 20 an we married at 18. I'm in the military an she has always been supportive of my decisions an actions but the other week we had a falling out which has been happening a lot lately. She wants a divorce cause she says she can't do it anymore an that she is no longer in love with me... We have never broken up an she has never left me but I'm not gonna lie I haven't been the best husband an I have a short temper which has always been the cause for all of our arguments. I AM THE CAUSE IF THIS I REALIZE THAT NOW AFTER ALL THIS TIME I'VE BEEN SO NIEVE TO THE SITUATION AN OUR MARRAIGE! She is my life an I love her more than she could possibly imagine I wanna make this work! I told her I'm gonna get help (anger management) an also marraige counseling I wanna do anything that will show her that I can change an be the man that she fell in love with. (link)
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well, you can do or get her, her favorite things. if she loves italian food, treat her to a night in italy( figure of speech), or i dont know how she is or what she likes, but remind her that you're not just a bad guy, but remind her of that sweet man she fell in love with. continue to take counseling and all that, but yeah, be romantic. again, do something she likes, walks in the park, star gazing, or whatever. good luck
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I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. We haven't had sex yet but we have done everything else. He is so good at touching me but for some reason I never orgasm. I feel guilty about this because he tries so hard and always does such a wonderful job but I still can't orgasm. Sometimes I fake it but honestly I just want to orgasm for real. Please help me I don't know what's wrong with me. (link)
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could be a self-concience issue, are you guilty of ANYTHING, because that can block your ability to reach that state of relaxness. or maybe he just hasnt touched you "just right"
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Im 11 im dating a 14 year old am i old enough to have sex with him if so can i get pregnant cuz he says he wants to have a family with me rite now
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well i admire you want to start a family, but you're a little young in the most important categories: 1. you're way to young to even have sex. 2. you're too young to possibly even concieve a child. 3. you're too young to have a family, enjoy you're childhood, and lastly you're both WAY too young to support a child, you'd have to throw away you're education and future careers, and everything you earn will go to the baby, if it's successfully born, so in the sum of all this, no, you are not old enough.
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21/F
I don't get it... all my friends have always told me that the best part of moving on is finding someone new to share my life with but i just find it depressing. Every time i start to get close to a new guy I'm with it just reminds me that they're nothing like my ex and i end up crying, even after sex i just feel this overwhelming amount of sadness that the guy i just slept with wasn't my ex and i literally start crying and have to excuse myself and go home and cry myself to sleep... All the time. the saddest part is the guy i sleep with actually is a genuine guy but idk whats wrong with me. My ex made it clear that he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, i even sent him a birthday present and he never said thank u or anything.. When does this start getting easier and why cant i just let myself be happy with someone else? I really am tired of living in the past but it seems by moving on I'm just settling for second best since i cant have the one person I've always wanted. By the way I'm a senior in college and I've been with this one guy since my sophomore year in high school but weve always been off and on. (link)
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moving on isnt always easy sweetie. it takes time to mend a broken heart, especially one this serious. you must really love him. and sometimes, just finding another guy isnt the answer. try taking a break from guys for a while and hang out with your friends if you havent already. friends and family are a good way to cure a broken heart. it will take time, soemtimes longer than others, and i dont want to give you too much hope, but, maybe he'll come around...guys sometimes say things they dont mean or they say it cause they have something going on and just want to be alone. hope any of this, good luck
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why do i want my boyfriend to be so aggressive in bed? i get pretty aggressive too but i dont get why i always crave that type of thing? (link)
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it's just how you like it, a lot of people, women and even men, love being dominated by their partner, its nothing bad or anything to worry about, its just what gets you on. i like being dominated too, its just what we like.
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Are there guys that don't care if a girl is a virgin and still date her? (link)
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i always tell my girlfriend "baby, we dont have sex in oreder for me to love you". sex is something you have when you 2 are ready and the moment is right. if he really loves you, he will wait until you are ready. and if you never are ready, then if he really loves you, he will respect your decision and still stay with you, hope this helps any.
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My boyfriend lives in Florida and I live in Minnesota. We can only talk over Im and i doubt i will ever be able to visit him. We love each other very much and I would like to know what we could do. I don't have a webcam and there is no way i could see him without traveling to Florida..
Every time we aren't talking I feel sad..
Please give me your advice.
Thank you.
Ps. I am 14 and he is 15. (link)
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i feel your pain, i've been in some internet relationships myself, and some people just lack the capacity to see that its what makes us happy. they cant see that people can meet over the internet. now, on to your problem. what i usually do is if it gets pretty serious, we make plans to meet. like if over the summer, you 2 will be in the same state, you can make plans to meet ^^
p.s: dont let anyone tell you tht online dating isnt real, it can be just as real as dating in real life. the love that bonded that relationship is just as real, good luck to you 2
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